Ingabe ingane yakho iyayesaba isibhedlela? Woza, ake sifunde ngochwepheshe wezempilo yengane!

Uma ingane yakho isesibhedlela noma ithola ukwelashwa ngenxa yokugula, ingabe iyesaba kakhulu, ikhathazekile, futhi idabuke? Ngezinye izikhathi asikwazi ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi singayiduduza kanjani ngesikhathi esinjengalesi, ukuthi singamenza kanjani aqonde lezi zinto ezahlukene. Namuhla sizokhuluma ngomuntu okhethekile ongaba usizo olukhulu kuwe nakumntanakho ngaleso sikhathi. Lowo muntu ubizwa ngokuthi `(Uchwepheshe Wempilo Yengane)`.

Ubani lo `(uchwepheshe wempilo yengane)`? Kalula nje...

Kalula nje, "uchwepheshe Wempilo Yengane" unguchwepheshe wezempilo osiza ingane yakho ukubhekana nokugula kwayo, ukwelashwa, kanye nokulaliswa esibhedlela. Kufana nomngane oduduza futhi akhuthaze ingane. Ngenkathi odokotela nabahlengikazi belapha ukugula kwengane, lochwepheshe usebenza ukunciphisa ukwesaba kwengane, ukukhathazeka, nobuhlungu, kanye nokuyinika amandla okubekezelela lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho.

Cabanga nje, ingane encane isizonikwa `(Injection)`. Iyakhala futhi iyazabalaza. Ngaleso sikhathi, lochwepheshe angafika ayichazele ingane ngomdlalo ngendlela engayiqonda. Mhlawumbe angaphambukisa ukunaka kwayo futhi ayisize inikeze `(Injection)` ngaphandle kokuba iqaphele.

Laba bantu bavame ukusebenza ezibhedlela. Baqeqeshwe kahle ezindaweni eziningana zalezi:

• Ukuthuthukiswa Kwengane: Lokhu kubhekisela endleleni ingane ekhula ngayo ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo, nangokwenhlalo njengoba ikhula.
• Imfundo: Izindlela zokufundisa amaqiniso ezinganeni ngendlela eziyiqondayo.
• I-Psychology: Ukuqonda imicabango, imizwa, kanye nemizwa yezingane.

"Uchwepheshe Wempilo Yengane" uzochaza izinkinga zempilo ezithinta ingane yakho kanye nokwelashwa engakuthola ngolimi elwaziyo. Zingasiza futhi ekuphazamiseni ingane yakho ngesikhathi sokwelashwa ukuze ingakuzwa.

Basebenza nezinsana, izingane ezincane, izingane zasenkulisa, izingane ezifunda esikoleni, ngisho nentsha. Akukhona lokho kuphela, kodwa umsebenzi wabo ukusekela wonke umndeni. Banikeza wena nomndeni wakho ulwazi oludingayo futhi bakufundise ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nalesi sikhathi esinzima. Lokhu bakwenza ngokusebenzisa izinto ezinjengalezi:

• Dlala: Amathoyizi nemidlalo kusiza izingane ukuqonda izinto nokususa ukwesaba kwazo.
• Ukulungiselela: Ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa noma yiluphi uhlobo lokwelashwa, ingane isuke isikulungele ngokwengqondo.
• Imfundo: Ufundisa ngesifo, imithi, kanye nendawo yasesibhedlela.
• Imisebenzi yokuziveza: Siza ingane ukuthi iveze imizwa yayo ngemisebenzi efana nokudweba nokulandisa izindaba.

Ngisho naphakathi kwalezi zenzakalo ezinzima, laba bantu bazama ukukhuthaza ukukhula kwengane okuvamile ngaphandle kokuyivimbela.

Hlobo luni lwemfundo oludingekayo ukuze ube "uchwepheshe wempilo yengane"?

Ukuze umuntu enze inkonzo enjalo enomthwalo wemfanelo, kumelwe athole imfundo nokuqeqeshwa okuhle.

1. Okokuqala, udinga ukuba neziqu ze-bachelor zeminyaka emine. Abanye abantu bafunda i-Child Life. Abanye bafunda i-Child Psychology noma i-Human Development futhi bathatha izifundo ezengeziwe ezihlobene ne-Child Life. Kulezi zinhlelo zeziqu, bafunda okulandelayo:

• Ukuthuthukiswa Kwengane
• Amakhono okuxhumana
• Amasu okubhekana nesimo
• Inkulumo yezokwelapha eyisisekelo

2. Abanye abantu baze baphishekele iziqu ze-postgraduate (Master's Degree). Lezi zifundo ze-postgraduate zivame ukuhlala iminyaka emibili. Zinikeza ulwazi olujulile kanye nokuqeqeshwa okusebenzayo. Lokhu kubasiza futhi ukuthi babhekane nokuncintisana emakethe yemisebenzi.

3. Ngemuva kwalokho, udinga ukuthola isitifiketi sobungcweti esivela kwi-Association of Child Life Professionals. Izibhedlela eziningi zilindele ukuthi uthole lesi sitifiketi kungakapheli unyaka kusukela uqale umsebenzi. Ukuze uthole lesi sitifiketi, ngaphezu kweziqu ze-bachelor, udinga ukuhlangabezana neziqu ezilandelayo:

• Kumelwe ukuthi uqede uhlelo lokufunda lwe-"Child Life" oluvunyiwe yi-"Association of Child Life Professionals". Ngaphandle kwalokho,
• Kumelwe ukuthi usuqede okungenani izifundo eziyi-10 ezihlobene nesihloko esithi "Impilo Yengane" ezingeni leyunivesithi. Okungenani esinye salezi zifundo kumele ukuthi sifundiswe "nguchwepheshe Wempilo Yengane Oqinisekisiwe".
• Ngaphezu kwalokho, kumele uqedele i-internship noma i-fellowship yamahora angu-600. Lokhu kumele kwenziwe ngaphansi kokuqondisa okuqondile kwe-Certified Child Life Specialist.
• Ekugcineni, kumele uphumelele ukuhlolwa okwenziwa yi-Association of Child Life Professionals.

Uyabona, lokhu akuyona into elula. Njengoba usebenza ngempilo yengqondo yezingane, udinga ukuba neziqu ezifanele.

Yini eyenziwa yi-"Child Life Specialist" esibhedlela sezingane?

Esibhedlela sezingane, laba ochwepheshe banikeza ukunakekelwa okugxile esigulini nasemndenini. Umgomo wabo oyinhloko ukunciphisa noma yikuphi ukungakhululeki, ukwesaba, noma ubuhlungu ingane yakho engase ibuzwe ngaphambi, ngesikhathi nangemva kokwelashwa. Basebenza ukukulungiselela wena nomndeni wakho nokukufundisa ngesikhathi sakho esibhedlela.

Bafundisa amasu awusizo okubhekana nesimo ukuze banciphise ukucindezeleka kokuba sesibhedlela. Lawa masu ahlanganisa ukudlala nemisebenzi ekuvumela ukuthi uveze imizwa yakho. Banikeza ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo emndenini wakho. Basiza futhi ingane yakho ukuba ikhule ngendlela evamile, ngisho nalapho ibhekene nezinkinga zempilo.

"Uchwepheshe Wempilo Yengane" uzama ukusiza ingane ukuthi iqonde ulwazi lwayo lwezokwelapha. Banikeza ukulungiselela kanye nemfundo efanele iminyaka kanye nentuthuko yengane. Uma ingane iqonda ukuthi kwenzekani kuyo, kulula ngayo ukubhekana nayo. Kunganciphisa nokulimala kwengqondo engase ibhekane nakho.

Nawe ungahlangana nalochwepheshe ukuze uthole isiqondiso somndeni wakho. Bazokusiza ukuthi ubhekane nolwazi lwezokwelapha.

Ezinye zezinhlelo nezinsizakalo ezinikezwa yi-`(Child Life Specialist)` yilezi:

• Izinhlelo zokuguqula ukuziphatha: Lezi zinhlelo zisiza ingane ukuthi izivumelanise ngempumelelo nohlelo olusha lokwelashwa (isib. imithi yansuku zonke, ukudla okukhethekile).
• Imfundo: Izinhlelo zemfundo ezihlinzeka ngolwazi mayelana nesifo esisanda kutholakala. Lezi zenzelwe iminyaka yengane kanye nezinga lokuqonda. Zethulwa ngendlela efanela izidingo zengane, kusetshenziswa amathoyizi, izincwadi, kanye nobuchwepheshe.
• Ukulungiselela ezokwelapha kwezingane kanye nokufundisa ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa: Ukunikeza ulwazi olufanele ubudala ukuze kuncishiswe ukwesaba kwengane, ukukhathazeka, kanye nokungaqondi kahle. Isibonelo, ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa, ungabonisa unodoli ukuthi ukuhlinzwa kwenziwa kanjani, njengomdlalo, futhi wenze ingane ikuqonde.
• Ukusekela ngesikhathi sezinqubo: Zisiza ekunciphiseni ubuhlungu nokwesaba kwengane ngesikhathi sezinqubo ezifana nokujova, ukufakwa kwe-cannula, kanye nokuhlanza amanxeba. Zisebenzisa amasu anjengokuphazamisa, izithombe eziqondisiwe, kanye nokuzivocavoca kokuphumula.
• Imisebenzi yokudlala yokwelapha: Le misebenzi ingasiza ekwenzeni indawo yesibhedlela ibe yindawo evamile yengane futhi inciphise ukucindezeleka. Lokhu kungenziwa eceleni kombhede wengane, emakamelweni okudlala, noma emakamelweni okulinda.
• Ukudlala ngezokwelapha: Ukuvumela ingane yakho idlale ngemishini yezokwelapha, njenge-stethoscope kanye nesirinji (ngaphandle kwenaliti), kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukwesaba kwayo. Njengoba ingane ijwayelana nale mishini, ukungakhululeki kwayo kuzoncipha.
• Ukusekela abafowethu nodadewethu: Ukusiza abafowabo nodadewabo bengane egulayo ukuba baqonde isimo futhi babhekane nemizwa yabo (njengokudabuka, ukwesaba, intukuthelo). Ukuphendula noma yimiphi imibuzo abangaba nayo mayelana nokwelashwa komfowabo nodadewabo.

Khumbula, "uchwepheshe wempilo yengane" ungumuntu obaluleke kakhulu hhayi nje kuphela enhlalakahleni yomzimba yengane, kodwa nasenhlalakahleni yengqondo yakhe.

Yini eyenziwa yi-"Child Life Specialist" esibhedlela sabantu abadala?

Laba bantu abagcini nje ezibhedlela zezingane. "Uchwepheshe Wempilo Yengane" angasiza nezingane zeziguli ezibhedlela zabantu abadala. Cabanga nje, umama noma ubaba ulaliswe esibhedlela ngenxa yokugula okukhulu. Ingane encane ayiqondi ukuthi kwenzekani. Ingase yesabe, ingase idabuke. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo, laba ochwepheshe basiza lezo zingane ukuthi ziqonde ukuthi kwenzekani kubazali bazo.

Laba bantu basebenza nanoma yimuphi umntwana onelungu lomndeni elikhulile esibhedlela. Banikeza ukulungiselela kanye nemfundo efanele iminyaka yengane kanye nentuthuko yayo. Ukulungiselela ingane ngale ndlela kuyasiza kakhulu ekumsizeni ukuthi abhekane nokucindezeleka futhi akulawule isikhathi eside.

"Ingcweti Yempilo Yengane" igxila ezidingweni ezikhethekile zezingane futhi inikeza izinsizakalo ezifana nalezi:

• Imfundo: Ungafundisa ingane ngokugula okusha komuntu omdala. Nikeza ulwazi mayelana nokugula komuntu omdala kanye nokwelashwa ngendlela ingane engayiqonda.
• Ukulungiswa: Kusiza ingane ukuba ivumelane nezinguquko ekubukekeni komzimba komuntu omdala (isib., ukwehla kwesisindo, ukwehla kwezinwele) noma amakhono akhe.
• Ukulungiselela: Lungiselela ingane ukuvakasha ngaphambi kokuya kumuntu omdala esibhedlela. (Isibonelo: "Ubaba usenikezwe umuthi wosawoti manje, ungesabi ukubona lokho, ndodana").
• Isiqondiso: Siza ngezingxoxo ezinzima (isib., ngokulaliswa esibhedlela komuntu omdala, ubucayi besifo, kanye namathuba okululama).
• Ukwelapha: Imisebenzi yokwelapha kanye nokungenelela kusetshenziswa ukubhekana nemizwa nezinkinga ingane ebhekene nazo ngenxa yokugula komuntu omdala.
• Ukusekela: Ukusekela kunikezwa izinkinga zokuphela kokuphila kanye nezinkinga zosizi, kusetshenziswa izinsizakalo ezikhethekile kanye nokunakekelwa kwabashonelwe.

Ngingamthola kanjani `(uchwepheshe wempilo yengane)`?

Uma udinga ukukhuluma nochwepheshe wezempilo yengane yakho, khuluma nomhlinzeki wezempilo wengane yakho. Bangakusiza ukuthola izinsiza ozidingayo. Odokotela nabo bazimisele ukukusiza wena nengane yakho ukuthi nibhekane nalesi sifo kanye nokulaliswa esibhedlela.

Okokugcina, khumbula lokhu (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

"Isazi Sempilo Yengane" singuchwepheshe wezempilo osiza futhi osebenza nengane yakho lapho igula, ilimele, noma ilaliswe esibhedlela. Umgomo wabo oyinhloko ukusiza impilo yengane yakho iqhubeke ngendlela evamile ngangokunokwenzeka phakathi nalesi sikhathi esinzima. Bangasiza ekunciphiseni ukungakhululeki ingane yakho ekuzwayo ngenkathi isesibhedlela futhi basize ingane yakho iqonde izinkinga zempilo.

Laba bantu abanikeli ukwesekwa ngokomzwelo hhayi nje kuphela enganeni, kodwa nakuwe nomndeni wakho wonke. Bakhona ukukusiza, ukukunikeza ukunakekelwa okungcono kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka kuwe nakumntanakho.

Ngakho-ke, uma ingane yakho yesaba ukuya esibhedlela noma ukuthola ukwelashwa, ungangabazi ukukhuluma nodokotela ngakho futhi ucele usizo ku-"Child Life Specialist". Kuzoba yimbangela enkulu yohambo lwengane yakho lokululama!

Uchwepheshe Wempilo Yengane , Ingqondo Yengane, Izingane Ezilaliswe Esibhedlela, Izingane Nezibhedlela, Ukusekelwa Kwengqondo, Ukwelashwa Kokudlala, Ukulungiselela Izingane