Ingabe akunakwenzeka ukugwema ukunakwa abanye? Ake sifunde ngalesi sifo sobuntu esibizwa ngokuthi i-Histrionic Personality Disorder?

Ngezinye izikhathi sizizwa sengathi, "O, akekho onendaba nami," akunjalo? Kodwa kwabanye abantu, lo muzwa udlulele kancane. Bahlala befuna ukugcina wonke umuntu enakile kubo. Yilolo hlobo lwesimo esizokhuluma ngaso namuhla, esibizwa ngokuthi i-Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD). Ungakhathazeki, sizokhuluma ngalokhu kalula, ngendlela ongayiqonda.

Kuyini i-Histrionic Personality Disorder?

Kalula nje, i-histrionic personality disorder (HPD) yisimo sempilo yengqondo lapho imizwa yomuntu iqine kakhulu, ingazinzile, futhi ishintsha ngokushesha. Futhi inesithombe esiphambene naye. Igama elithi "histrionic" lisho "okumangalisayo" noma "ukuba nesimo seshashalazi."

Umuntu one-HPD unomuzwa wokuzibona eyigugu osekelwe ekutheni abanye bayamhlonipha noma cha. Abazizwa bebalulekile ngempela. Banesifiso esingapheli sokuthola ukunakwa kwabanye . Ngakho-ke ngezinye izikhathi bangase benze ngezindlela ezimangalisayo noma ezingafanele zokuthola lokho kunakwa.

Abantu abane-HPD bavame ukungaqapheli ukuthi kunenkinga ngokuziphatha kwabo nokucabanga kwabo. Lesi simo siwela esigabeni esibizwa ngokuthi "izinkinga zobuntu ze-Cluster B". Ezinye izinkinga kulesi sigaba nazo zihlotshaniswa nokuziphatha okunamandla nokungacabangi.

Ubani othinteka kakhulu yilesi simo? Sivame kangakanani?

I-HPD ivame ukuqala lapho ususondele eminyakeni yobusha noma ekuqaleni kweminyaka engamashumi amabili . Kubikwa ukuthi ivame ukutholakala kwabesifazane. Kodwa-ke, abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi nabesilisa bangaba nalesi simo, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi asihlolwanga kahle.

Empeleni lesi yisimo esingavamile . Abacwaningi balinganisela ukuthi cishe u-1% wabantu banalesi simo. Lokho cishe umuntu oyedwa kwabayikhulu.

Ziyini izimpawu ze-histrionic personality disorder (HPD)?

Isici esiyinhloko somuntu one-HPD ukubonakaliswa ngokweqile kwemizwa kanye nobulili ukuze kudonswe ukunaka kwabanye. Cabanga ngomuntu onjengalona...

• Uma ulahlekelwa ukunakwa, uzizwa ungakhululekile neze , uzizwe ungaziswa, futhi kungaholela ngisho nasekucindezelekeni.
• Imizwa ishintsha ngokushesha kakhulu , futhi ayijulile, kodwa ingaphezu kwamandla. Ungamomotheka ngesinye isikhathi bese ukhala ngaphandle kwesizathu ngesinye isikhathi.
• Ukubonakaliswa kwemizwelo okunamandla kakhulu nokumangalisayo . Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kungaba nzima kangangokuthi kungaze kuhlazise umndeni nabangane emphakathini.
• Uziphatha njengomuntu "omkhulu" . Nguye okufanele abonakale emuhle kakhulu.
• Uhlala eziphatha ngendlela ekhangayo nethanda ukushela .
• Bacabanga kakhulu ngokubukeka kwabo ngokomzimba .
• OkwaboBazama ukuthola ukunakwa kwabanye ngokusebenzisa ukubukeka kwabo. Isibonelo, bagqoka imibala ekhazimulayo nezingubo ezibonisa imizimba yabo.
• Njengoba nginabantu abaningi engihlangana nabo, ngikhuluma futhi ngiziphatha ngezindlela ezingafanele ezisikisela ucansi, noma ngabe angibathandi ngokocansi .
• Bakhuluma ngendlela exakile kakhulu, benza izitatimende ezinkulu, kodwa abanawo amaqiniso noma imininingwane ebasekelayo .
• Bakholwa kalula kulokho okushiwo abanye, futhi bathonywa kalula abanye , ikakhulukazi labo ababathandayo.
• Ngicabanga ukuthi ubudlelwano bami nabanye abantu busondelene kakhulu kunalokho obuyikho ngempela . Mhlawumbe ngingasho ukuthi "umngane wami omkhulu" ngomuntu engikhulume naye kanye noma kabili.
• Kunzima ukulondoloza ubudlelwano . Lapho usebenzelana nabanye, uvame ukubonakala njengomqambimanga nomuntu oxhumana nabantu ngaphandle kokubonisana.
• Bafuna ukwaneliseka okusheshayo . Abakwazi ukulinda ukuthola izinto. Basheshe badinwe futhi bacasuke.
• Bahlala bebuza abanye abantu izinto ezinjengokuthi "Ngiphilile?", "Kuhle lokhu?", futhi balindele ukuvunyelwa .

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kufanele sibe nokungabaza uma lezi zindlela zokuziphatha ziqhubeka futhi zithinta impilo yansuku zonke kanye nobudlelwano.

Kungani lesi simo senzeka?

Izinkinga zobuntu, okuhlanganisa ne-HPD, zingenye yezimo zempilo yengqondo ezingaqondwa kahle. Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo luthole izici eziningana ezingaba nomthelela ekuthuthukisweni kwezimo ezifana ne-HPD.

• Izakhi zofuzo : Ngenxa yokuthi i-HPD ivame ukusebenza emindenini, ososayensi bakholelwa ukuthi ingaba nobudlelwano obuvela ku-gene. Okusho ukuthi, ukuthambekela kungase kube ufuzo.
• Ukulimala Ebuntwaneni : Ukulimala okukhulu okwenzeka ebuntwaneni, njengokuhlukunyezwa ebuntwaneni noma ukufa okuzumayo kwelungu lomndeni, kungaba nomthelela ophazamisayo empilweni yomuntu omdala futhi kungaba yingxenye yesifo sobuntu. Izingane zibhekana nalezi zimo ezibuhlungu ngezindlela ezahlukene, futhi lezi zindlela zingase ziholele ezinkingeni kamuva ekuphileni.
• Izitayela Zokukhulisa Izingane: Abazali abakhulisa izingane zabo ngendlela ecindezelayo, ethanda ukuzitika ngokweqile, noma engaguquguquki banamathuba amaningi okuthola i-HPD. Futhi, abazali abanomdlandla, abangazinzile, abalawulayo, noma abachaya izingane zabo ekuziphatheni okubi ngokocansi nabo basengozini yokuthola lesi simo. Abanye abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi izinkinga ebudlelwaneni bomzali nengane zingase zibe nomthelela ekuzithembeni okuphansi kulabo abane-HPD.

Odokotela bakuthola kanjani lokhu?

Ubuntu buyinto eqhubeka ikhula phakathi nobuntwana kanye nokuthomba, ngakho odokotela abavami ukuxilonga umuntu one-HPD aze abe neminyaka eyi-18 ubudala .

Izinkinga zobuntu, okuhlanganisa ne-HPD, kungaba nzima ukuzixilonga ngoba, ezimweni eziningi, umuntu ohlushwa yilesi simo akacabangi ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngokuziphatha kwakhe noma indlela acabanga ngayo.

Uma beza bezofuna usizo, kungenxa yezinye izinkinga ezihlobene ne-HPD. Isibonelo, ukukhathazeka noma ukucindezeleka okubangelwa isehlukaniso noma ukuhlukana. Ngaphandle kwalokho, akusikho ngoba becabanga ukuthi, "Nginesifo sobuntu."

Uma uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo, njengodokotela wezifo zengqondo noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, esola ukuthi othile angase abe ne-HPD, ngokuvamile ubuza imibuzo ejwayelekile. Okusho ukuthi, imibuzo engamfaki omunye umuntu ekuzivikeleni noma edala indawo enobutha. Babuza imibuzo ukuze baqoqe ulwazi ngezinto ezifana nalezi:

• Ulwazi oludlule
• Ubudlelwano
• Imininingwane yemisebenzi yangaphambilini
• Ukuhlola amaqiniso (okungukuthi, ikhono lokuhlukanisa phakathi komhlaba wangempela nomhlaba ocatshangwayo)
• Amandla okulawula imizwa engazelelwe

Ngenxa yokuthi umuntu osolwa ngokuba ne-HPD angase angazi ngokuziphatha kwakhe, ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo bangacela imvume yokuqoqa ulwazi emndenini nakubangane bomuntu.

Odokotela baxilonga i-HPD ngokusekelwe ezindinganisweni eziku-American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) . Ngokwalezi zindinganiso, okungenani ezinhlanu zezimo zokuziphatha eziqhubekayo kumele zibe khona:

1. Ukuzizwa ungakhululekile uma bengeyona indawo yokunaka.

2. Ukuziphatha okusikisela ucansi noma okuvusa inkanuko.

3. Imizwa eshintsha ngokushesha nengacacile.

4. Ukusebenzisa ukubukeka ukuze kudonswe ukunaka.

5. Isitayela sokukhuluma esisekelwe ngokomzwelo, esingacacile.

6. Ukuveza imizwa ngendlela ewubudlabha noma egqamile.

7. Ukunqotshwa kalula yithonya labanye.

8. Ukubona ubudlelwano busondelene kakhulu kunalokho obuyikho ngempela.

Yiziphi izindlela zokwelapha lokhu?

Abantu abane-HPD bavame ukungakholelwa ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabo kuyinkinga. Bayayigqaja imizwa yabo futhi abathandi ukulandela inqubo ethile. Lokhu kungenza kube nzima ukulandela uhlelo lokwelashwa. Kodwa-ke, bangase bafune usizo ngenxa yesimo esicindezelayo ababhekene naso (mhlawumbe ukucindezeleka okubangelwa ukuhlukana noma ukwehluleka ebudlelwaneni) noma ngenxa yenkinga ethile ngemicabango nokuziphatha kwabo.

Ukwelashwa kwengqondo, noma ukwelashwa ngokukhuluma, ngokuvamile kuyindlela eyinhloko yokwelapha i-HPD nezinye izinkinga zobuntu . Umgomo wokwelashwa ukusiza umuntu ukuthi abone izisusa nokwesaba okusemuva kwemicabango nokuziphatha kwakhe, nokubafundisa ukuthi bangazihlanganisa kanjani kangcono nabanye.

Kunezinhlobo eziningana ze-psychotherapy ezingaba usizo kubantu abane-HPD:

• Ukwelashwa Kwamaqembu: Kulokhu, iqembu labantu, ngaphansi kokuqondisa kukadokotela wezifo zengqondo noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, lihlangana ndawonye ukuze lixoxe futhi lichaze izinkinga zabo. Lokhu kungaba usizo kakhulu kubantu abane-HPD, ikakhulukazi uma ukwelashwa kwenziwa nabanye abantu abane-HPD. Kungasiza umuntu one-HPD ukuthi azibonele ngokwakhe ukuziphatha kwakhe.
• Ukwelashwa Ngengqondo Okune-Psychodynamic : Lolu hlobo lokwelapha lugxila ezimpandeni zengqondo zokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo. Ngokuzihlola nokuzihlola, iklayenti libheka amaphethini obudlelwano obunezinkinga empilweni yalo.
• Ukwelapha Ngengqondo Okusekelayo : Umgomo walolu hlobo lokwelapha ukunciphisa izimpawu nokugcina, ukwakha kabusha, noma ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kanye namakhono okubhekana nesimo. Kuhlola ubudlelwano kanye nezimpendulo zemizwa noma amaphethini okuziphatha.
• Ukwelashwa Kokuziphatha Kokuqonda (i-CBT) : Lokhu kuyindlela yokwelapha ehlelekile, egxile emigomweni. Udokotela wezifo zengqondo noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kukusiza ukuthi ubhekisise imicabango nemizwa yakho. Ungaqonda ukuthi imicabango yakho ithinta kanjani izenzo zakho. Nge-CBT, ungafunda ukuyeka imicabango nemikhuba emibi futhi uthuthukise amaphethini nemikhuba yokucabanga enempilo.

Nakuba okwamanje kungekho mithi engelapha izinkinga zobuntu, kunemithi yezimo ezinjengokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka abantu abane-HPD abangase babhekane nazo. Ukwelapha lezi zimo kungenza kube lula nokwelapha i-HPD.

Yimiphi imiphumela emibi engabangwa yilokhu?

Abantu abane-histrionic personality disorder (HPD) basengozini enkulu yokuthola ukucindezeleka kanye nezinkinga zokusebenzisa izidakamizwa (isibonelo, ukuphazamiseka kokusebenzisa insangu kanye nenkinga yokusebenzisa utshwala).

Abantu abane-HPD banamathuba amaningi okuthuthukisa lezi zimo:

• Isifo Sezimpawu Zomzimba : Kulokhu, abantu bacindezeleka kakhulu ngenxa yesibonakaliso somzimba abanaso. Bangase futhi babe nemicabango, imizwa, kanye nokuziphatha okungavamile ngenxa yezimpawu zabo.
• Ukuhlaselwa Yizinhlungu : Ukuhlaselwa yizinhlungu kuwukwesaba okungazelelwe, kwesikhashana kanye nokusabela okunamandla ngokomzimba ekuphenduleni izimo ezivamile, ezingezona ezisongelayo.
• Ukuphazamiseka Kokuguqulwa (okubizwa nangokuthi i-Functional Neurological Symptom Disorder): Lesi yisimo sezokwelapha esihilela ukulahlekelwa ukusebenza kwengxenye yesimiso sezinzwa. Ngamanye amazwi, ubuchopho bakho nomzimba wakho bakholelwa ukuthi ingxenye yesimiso sakho sezinzwa ayisebenzi, yize kungekho bufakazi bomonakalo wesakhiwo sangempela.

Ukuziphatha kokufuna ukunaka kubantu abane-HPD kungafaka phakathi izinsongo zokuzibulala kanye nemizamo yokuzibulala njalo . Lokhu kuyingozi kakhulu.

Iyini inkomba yalesi simo?

Nakuba kungekho ikhambi le-HPD, abantu abaningi abanalesi simo baphila impilo ephumelelayo. Abantu abane-HPD abahlanganyela ekwelashweni ngenkulumo bathola imiphumela emihle njengoba bethola ukuqonda ngesimo sabo futhi besebenza kangcono emphakathini .

Kodwa-ke, abantu abane-HPD enzima bangase babe nezinkinga njalo emsebenzini, ebudlelwaneni bezenhlalo kanye/noma bothando.

Ingabe ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-histrionic kungavinjelwa?

Nakuba i-HPD ivame ukungavinjelwa, ukwelashwa kungasiza umuntu othambekele kulesi simo ukuthi afunde izindlela eziphumelelayo zokubhekana nokuziphatha okuvusa inkanuko, imicabango, kanye nezimo .

Into ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi i-HPD iyisimo sempilo yengqondo. Njenganoma yisiphi isimo sempilo yengqondo, ukufuna usizo ngokushesha nje lapho ubona izimpawu kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukuphazamiseka empilweni yakho . Ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo bangakunikeza izinhlelo zokwelapha ukukusiza ukuthi uphathe imicabango yakho nokuziphatha kwakho.

Amalungu omndeni wabantu abane-HPD avame ukubhekana nokucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka, usizi, kanye nesizungu. Kubalulekile ukunakekela impilo yakho yengqondo nokufuna usizo uma ubhekene nalezi zimpawu .

Umyalezo Wokugcina Wokuya Nasekhaya

Kulungile, ngakho-ke ngithemba ukuthi uzwile okuthile kulokho esikhulume ngakho. Ngamafuphi:

• I-Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) iyisimo sangempela sempilo yengqondo . Akuyona into eyenziwa umuntu ngamabomu.
• Okwenzeka kakhulu lapha ukuthi bahlala befuna ukunakwa abanye ngenxa yokuzethemba okuphansi .
• Ukwelashwa kwengqondo kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokwelapha lokhu . Kukusiza ukuthi uqonde ukuziphatha kwakho nemicabango yakho bese uyishintsha.
• Uma wena noma othile omaziyo enalezi zimpawu, ungesabi noma ungabi namahloni okufuna iseluleko sezokwelapha . Ukuthola usizo kusenesikhathi kungenza impilo ibe lula kakhulu.
• Uma uyilungu lomndeni lomuntu one-HPD, kufanele ucabange nangempilo yakho yengqondo . Udinga ukwesekwa futhi.

Sithemba ukuthi lolu lwazi luwusizo kuwe. Sengathi wonke umuntu angaba nengqondo ephilile kanye nokuphila okunempilo!

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