Wake waphawula ukuthi ingane yakho ngezinye izikhathi iziphatha ngendlela ehlukile kunezinye izingane ekilasini? Mhlawumbe ihlakaniphile kakhulu, kodwa ayinasithakazelo kakhulu ekwenzeni abangane noma ukudlala nabanye. Noma mhlawumbe iqhubeka ikhuluma ngesihloko esifanayo. Kuvamile ngathi njengabazali ukuzizwa sikhathazekile kancane uma sibona izinto ezinjengalezi. Kodwa ningakhathazeki. Isizathu salezi zinto kungaba yi -Asperger's Syndrome . Ngakho-ke namuhla sizokhuluma ngalokhu kalula nangomusa.
Kalula nje, iyini i-Asperger's Syndrome?
I-Asperger syndrome iyisifo sokukhula. Okusho ukuthi, ushintsho oluncane endleleni ubuchopho bengane obukhula ngayo. Odokotela abasasibheki lesi simo njengesifo esihlukile. Kunalokho, sibhekwa njengengxenye yesifo se-autism spectrum (ASD) .
Khumbula, i-autism akuyona isifo esisodwa esineqoqo elilodwa lezimpawu, kodwa yizimpawu eziningi ezinamazinga ahlukahlukene obunzima. Ngakho-ke i-Asperger's iyisimo esiphansi kakhulu ngaphakathi kwalolu hlobo, esinezimpawu ezingembi kangako. Odokotela ngezinye izikhathi bayibiza ngokuthi "i-autism esebenza kahle kakhulu." Okusho ukuthi, laba bantu bangakwazi ukuphatha ulimi kahle, futhi ukuhlakanipha kwabo kuphakathi noma ngaphezulu, kodwa izinkinga zabo eziyinhloko zivela uma kukhulunywa ngokuxhumana nabantu.
Into ebalulekile ukuthi, lokhu akusikho ukugula kwengqondo noma iphutha ekukhulisweni kwabazali. Kumane nje kuwushintsho endleleni ubuchopho obucubungula ngayo ulwazi .
Leli gama lavela kanjani?
I-Asperger syndrome iqanjwe ngegama likaHans Asperger, owayengudokotela eVienna, e-Austria. Ngawo-1940, waqala ukuqaphela uhlobo lwezinkinga zomphakathi kwezinye zezingane ayezelapha. Okuningi kwalokho esikwaziyo namuhla kuvela ocwaningweni lwakhe.
Nokho, kukhona impikiswano ethile ngokusetshenziswa kwaleli gama. Isizathu ukuthi wasebenza ngesikhathi sombuso wamaNazi futhi ucwaningo lwakhe lusolwa ngokuhlobene neminye yemibono yangaleso sikhathi. Ngakho-ke, abanye abantu abathandi ukusebenzisa leli gama. Kodwa-ke, igalelo lakhe ekuqashelweni kwezokwelapha kwalesi simo lalibalulekile.
Ziyini izimpawu zalesi simo?
Lezi zimpawu zingahluka kumuntu nomuntu. Lokho kusho ukuthi abekho abantu ababili abanalesi simo abafanayo. Kodwa kunezimpawu ezithile ezivamile. Ziqala ebuntwaneni, ngokuvamile ziphakathi kweminyaka emi-5 nengu-9. Kodwa-ke, abanye abantu bangase babe nezimpawu kamuva ekuphileni.
Ukuze kube lula ukuqonda, ake sibheke lezi zici kuthebula.
| Uhlobo oluyisici | Izinto ezivame ukubonwa |
|---|---|
| Ubudlelwano bomphakathi kanye nokuxhumana |
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| Amaphethini okuziphatha | |
| Ezinye izici |
Lesi simo sitholakala kanjani?
Uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho inalezi zimpawu,Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukubona udokotela wezingane. Angakudlulisela kumeluleki wezempilo yengqondo ochwepheshe kule ndawo.
Udokotela oxilonga lesi simo uvame ukukubuza imibuzo mayelana nokuziphatha kwengane yakho, njengokuthi:
- Ziyini izimpawu zomntwana futhi waziqaphela nini okokuqala?
- Ingane yaqala nini ukufunda ukukhuluma? Ixhumana kanjani nabanye?
- Ingabe zikhona izihloko noma imisebenzi anesithakazelo kuyo ngokukhethekile?
- Ingabe ingane inabangane? Izwana kanjani nabanye?
Ngemuva kwalokho, udokotela ubheka ingane ngezikhathi ezahlukene, ebheka indlela ekhuluma ngayo futhi eziphatha ngayo. Akukho ukuhlolwa kwegazi okuqondile noma ukuskenwa kwalokhu. Ukuxilongwa kwenziwa ngokutadisha ngokucophelela amaphethini okuziphatha kwengane kanye nomlando wokukhula kwayo.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi unalezi zimpawu njengomuntu omdala, ungabona nodokotela wakho nixoxe ngakho. Uzokudlulisela kuchwepheshe ofanele. Kunochwepheshe abaningana abangakusiza ngalokhu:
- Izazi zengqondo: Thola futhi welaphe izinkinga ezingokomzwelo nezokuziphatha.
- Odokotela bezinzwa: Belapha izifo ezihlobene nobuchopho.
- Odokotela Bezingane Abathuthukayo: Banolwazi ngenkulumo yezingane, ulimi, kanye nezinye izinkinga zokukhula.
- Odokotela Bezifo Zengqondo: Ochwepheshe bezimo zempilo yengqondo futhi bangakunikeza imithi uma kudingeka.
Yiziphi izindlela zokwelapha?
Akunakwelapheka ngokuphelele ngoba kuwumsebenzi ohlukile wobuchopho kunesifo. Kodwa-ke, ngokwelashwa nokusekelwa okufanele, ungabhekana nezinselele ezihambisana nalesi simo futhi uphile impilo ephumelelayo nejabulisayo.
Ngenxa yokuthi wonke umuntu uhlukile, akukho ukwelashwa okulingana nosayizi owodwa. Udokotela wakho uzozama izindlela eziningana zokwelapha ukuthola okusebenza kahle kuwe noma enganeni yakho.
- Ukuqeqeshwa kwamakhono okuxhumana nabantu: Emaqenjini noma ngabanye, umelaphi ufundisa abantu indlela yokukhuluma nabanye, ukuziphatha nabo, nokuveza imibono yabo ngendlela efanele.
- Ukwelashwa ngolimi lokukhuluma: Lokhu kusiza ekuthuthukiseni amakhono okuxhumana. Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokukhuluma ngezwi elilodwa, kukufundisa indlela yokusebenzisa ithoni, indlela yokugcina ingxoxo phakathi kwabantu ababili, kanye nendlela yokuqonda ukushukuma komzimba kanye nokuxhumana kwamehlo.
- Ukwelashwa Kokuziphatha Kokuqonda (i-CBT):Lokhu kusebenza ngokushintsha izindlela zokucabanga nokukusiza ukulawula imizwa kanye nokuziphatha okuphindaphindiwe. Kungakusiza ukulawula izinto ezifana nemicabango ephindaphindayo, intukuthelo enamandla, kanye nokucabanga ngokweqile.
- Imithi: Okwamanje ayikho imithi eqondene ngqo ne-Asperger's noma i-autism. Kodwa-ke, udokotela wakho angase akunike imithi ethile (isib. ama-SSRI, ama-Antipsychotics) ukusiza ekulawuleni imiphumela emibi yalesi simo , njengokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka .
- Imfundo nokuqeqeshwa kwabazali: Uma ingane yakho inalesi simo, uzofundiswa amasu afanayo nengane yakho. Ngemuva kwalokho ungasiza ingane yakho ithuthukise amakhono okuxhumana nabantu ekhaya.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukunikeza laba bantwana uthando, ukuqonda, kanye nesineke. Ngokuqaphela nokukhuthaza amandla abo, bangenza kahle kunoma yimuphi umkhakha.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- I-Asperger syndrome akuyona inkinga ehlukile, kodwa iyingxenye ye-autism spectrum disorder (ASD).
- Kuthinta kakhulu ubudlelwano bezenhlalo, ukuxhumana, kanye nezindlela zokuziphatha.
- Lokhu akubangelwa yiphutha labazali noma ukukhuliswa kabi. Kuwushintsho olungokwemvelo ekukhuleni kobuchopho.
- Uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho inalezi zimpawu, ungesabi futhi ufune iseluleko sezokwelapha .
- Ngokwelashwa okufanele, ukwelashwa, kanye nokusekelwa, umuntu one-Asperger syndrome angaphila impilo ephumelelayo, ejabulisayo neyanelisayo. Bangase babe namakhono akhethekile namandla.











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