Wake wazizwa sengathi ingane yakho encane ihlukile kancane kwezinye izingane? Ingabe ayibheki abanye emehlweni? Ingabe inenkinga ngemisindo ethile? Noma ingabe ikhetha ukuba yodwa ezweni layo? Kuvamile ngabazali ukuzizwa besaba futhi bekhathazekile kancane uma bebona izinto ezinjengalezi. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Kunezixazululo zakho konke. Masiqonde lokhu ngokucacile.
Uyini lo 'mehluko'? Ake sibone izimpawu
Lapho abazali abaningi beqala ukubona lezi zinto, bacabanga ukuthi, "Yile ndlela ayiyo" noma "Lokhu kuzothuthuka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi." Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi lezi zindlela zokuziphatha zinganda kakhulu. Cabanga ngakho ngale ndlela.
Ingane yakho ibhalisele esikoleni sabantwana abancane. Kodwa iyakhala njalo ekuseni, yenqaba ukukushiya. Ayidlali nezinye izingane. Ihlala yodwa. Ithukuthela kakhulu uma amathoyizi ayo engabekwa. Ngezinye izikhathi iqhubeka nokuqhwaba izandla ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Kungase kube yinto evamile ukuba nezimpawu eyodwa noma ezimbili. Kodwa uma izimpawu eziningana zibonakala ndawonye, kungaba yinto okufanele sikhathazeke ngayo. Yilapho-ke okufanele sifune usizo kudokotela. Mhlawumbe udokotela wakho uzohlanganisa lezi zimpawu bese ethi lesi simo singaba yi-Asperger's Syndrome .
I-Asperger's syndrome ayisona isifo. Iwushintsho endleleni ubuchopho bengane obukhula ngayo. Lokho kusho ukuthi 'ukuxhuma' kwalezo zingane kuhlukile kancane.
Umehluko phakathi kwe-Asperger's Syndrome ne-Autism
Abantu abaningi badidanisa i-Asperger syndrome kanye ne-autism. Eqinisweni, lokhu kokubili kufana kakhulu. Namuhla, odokotela babheka zombili izimo ngaphansi kwesigaba esibanzi se-autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Lokhu kusho ukuthi zombili ziyizimo emndenini owodwa. Kodwa ukuze kucace, ake sibheke eminye yemibono eyinhloko phakathi kwalezi ezimbili.
| Isici | I-Asperger's syndrome | I-Autism Yakudala |
|---|---|---|
| Ikhono lokukhuluma | Ngokuvamile akukho ukulibala ekukhulumeni. Uyazi amagama amaningi, kodwa unendlela yokukhuluma engeyinhle. | Ngokuvamile, ikhono lokukhuluma lingabambezeleka kakhulu. |
| Ukuxhumana nabantu | Kunzima ukuqonda imizwa yabanye abantu kanye nokubukeka kobuso (izinkomba zokuxhumana). Yingakho kunzima ukwenza abangane. | Bakhetha ukuhlukaniswa ngokuphelele nabanye kanye nasezweni labo. |
| Isilinganiso Sobuhlakani (IQ) | Ngokuvamile banobuhlakani obuphakathi noma obungaphezu kwesilinganiso. | Ukuhlakanipha kungahlukahluka kusukela kokuncane kuya kokukhulu. Ngezinye izikhathi ukukhubazeka kokufunda kubonakala. |
Ubunzima bokuqonda ukuziphatha komphakathi
Izingane ezine-Asperger's zinobunzima bokubonisa uzwela . Lokhu kusho ukuthi zinobunzima bokuqonda imizwa yomunye umuntu, njengokudabuka noma injabulo. Zinobunzima nokufunda izimpawu zomphakathi, njengokubukeka kobuso nendlela ezikhuluma ngayo. Lokhu kwenza kube inselele kubo ukwenza abangane.
Ukuxhumana phakathi kwe-Asperger's ne-OCD
Izingane eziningi ezine-Asperger's zingaba nesithakazelo esikhulu ezintweni ezithile. Isibonelo, ingane ingaba nesithakazelo esikhulu emalorini kadoti kanye nenqubo yokuqoqa udoti kangangokuthi yazi okuningi ngawo kunanoma ubani osebenza kulowo mkhakha.
Ngokufanayo, lesi simo ngezinye izikhathi singahambisana nezimpawu ze-Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), isimo esibangela imicabango nezenzo ezingafuneki .
- Umuzwa wokuhlala uvala iminyango.
- Umuzwa wokuthi kufanele ucindezele izihlalo ngaphakathi bese uzihlela kahle.
- Ukucasuka kakhulu nokuthukuthela uma inqubo yansuku zonke ishintsha ngisho kancane.
Laba bantwana banezinkinga zokukhathazeka nokulawula intukuthelo.Kungase kube khona. Njengoba ngishilo ekuqaleni, uyazi ukuthi kungani abanye abantwana beqhubeka beshaya izandla? Kuyindlela abayisebenzisayo ukuhlela nokuzola lapho bezizwa bekhathazekile noma bekhathazekile.
Ungayisiza kanjani ingane?
Ungesabi ukuzwa la magama (ka-Asperger, OCD). Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthola ukuthi singamsiza kanjani umntwana wethu, kunalawa malebula. Akukho ikhambi elilodwa kulokhu. Kufanele uzame inhlanganisela yezinto ezahlukene.
- Ukunciphisa izinto ezibangela intukuthelo nokukhathazeka kwengane yakho bese uyigcina kude nayo ngangokunokwenzeka.
- Ukwelashwa:
- Ukwelashwa Komsebenzi: Lokhu kusiza ekuthuthukiseni amakhono adingekayo emisebenzini yansuku zonke, njengokudla ngesipuni nokubopha izintambo zezicathulo.
- Ukwelashwa Komzimba: Kusiza ekuthuthukiseni ukuhambisana komzimba kanye namakhono okunyakaza.
- Isimiso esiqhubekayo: Isimiso esiqhubekayo, esinokuguquguquka okuncane kanye nesimiso esifanayo nsuku zonke, sibaluleke kakhulu kulaba bantwana. Sibanikeza umuzwa wokulondeka.
- Imithi: Ezinye izingane zingadinga ukunikezwa imithi yokulawula ukukhathazeka ngokweqile noma ezinye izinkinga zokuziphatha kuphela ngaphansi kweseluleko sikachwepheshe . Ungalokothi unikeze ingane yakho imithi ngaphandle kwemvume kadokotela.
- Izibonelo Ezinhle: Ukuba nabangane ababekezelelayo kungaba yisibonelo esihle enganeni yakho.
- Izilwane: Ukuba nesilwane esifuywayo, ikakhulukazi inja, kungasiza laba bantwana ukuthuthukisa amakhono abo okuxhumana nabantu. Bangakhuluma nenja, badlale nayo, futhi babonise uthando. Lokhu kuyindlela enhle yokwakha ubudlelwano nabantu.
I-Asperger's syndrome akuyona into engenakunqotshwa. Akusikho ukuphela kokuphila. Ingane yakho ingase ibe nobuhlakani obukhulu, kodwa ukuxhumanisa ubuchopho bayo kuhlukile kancane. Yilokho kuphela.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Uma uqhubeka nokubona noma yiziphi 'izinguquko' ezingavamile ekuziphatheni kwengane yakho noma ekuxhumaneni nabantu, ungakuthathi njengento 'embi' noma 'inkinga yempilo yengqondo', kodwa yiqaphele.
- Ungesabi, bonana nodokotela wezingane noma udokotela wezifo zengqondo wezingane ngokushesha ukuze uthole iseluleko. Ukutholwa kusenesikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu enganeni.
- I-Asperger's syndrome ayisona isifo, iyisifo sokuthuthukiswa. Ngokusekelwa okufanele, ukuqonda, nothando, ingane ingaphila impilo evamile nephumelelayo.
- Khumbula ukuthi izindlela zokwelapha, inqubo eqhubekayo, kanye nendawo enothando kubalulekile ekukhuleni kwengane. Awuwedwa, thola usizo.
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