Njengomama noma ubaba , iphupho lakho elikhulu ukubona ingane yakho ikhula ibe umuntu omuhle, ozethembayo, futhi onekhono, akunjalo? Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi asikwazi ukuthola ukuthi iyiphi indlela okufanele siyilandele lapho sikhulisa ingane yethu ukuze yenze lokho. Namuhla sikhuluma ngesitayela sokukhulisa izingane esihlukile kakhulu, kodwa esilula kakhulu futhi esihlonipha kakhulu ingane. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi indlela ye-RIE (Resources for Infant Educators).
Kalula nje, i-RIE isekelwe embonweni wokuthi ingane, ikakhulukazi ingane, akufanele iphathwe njengempahla, kodwa njengomuntu omncane onemizwa yakhe, izifiso zakhe, kanye nobuntu bakhe. Yethulwe uchwepheshe wezingane uMagda Gerber. Wabiza le ndlela ngokuthi "Ukufundisa." Isho ukunakekela ingane ngenkathi uyifundisa. Namuhla, isibe yindlela ethandwayo elandelwa abazali abaningi, izingane zasenkulisa kanye nezinkulisa emhlabeni jikelele.
Iyini ingqikithi eyisisekelo yendlela ye-RIE?
Isisekelo sale ndlela inhlonipho, ukwethembana, kanye nokuxhumana phakathi kwabazali nezingane. Le ndlela isifundisa ukubona ingane njengomuntu ohlukile onezinto azithandayo nangazithandi. Ake sibheke kalula izimiso eziyinhloko zendlela ye-RIE.
| Isimiso | Incazelo Elula |
|---|---|
| Kholelwa emakhonweni engane | Themba ukuthi ingane yakho ingakwazi ukuhlola nokufunda yodwa, futhi uyivumele yenze kanjalo. Udinga ukusiza okuncane ngangokunokwenzeka. |
| Zinike isikhathi sokuhlola. | Nika ingane yakho isikhathi esanele sokudlala ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka bese uzama izinto ezintsha. |
| Dala indawo ephephile. | Dala indawo ephephile ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukuhambahamba ngokukhululeka futhi idlale ngaphandle kokwesaba. |
| Yenza ukunakekela kube isenzo esihlanganyelwe yibo bobabili abantu. | Uma upha umntwana ukudla, ugeza, noma ushintsha izingubo, ungagcini nje ngokwenza lezo zinto, khuluma naye futhi umbandakanye kule nqubo. |
| Bheka ingane ngokucophelela bese uyilalela. | Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqonda ngempela izidingo zengane yakho ukuqaphela nokulalela ngokucophelela lokho ekwenzayo. |
Ake sichaze lezi zimiso kancane.
Cabanga ngengane yakho izama ukufinyelela ithoyizi. Ayikwazi ukulifinyelela futhi ilwa kanzima. Esikhathini esiningi, simane siyinike ithoyizi ngokushesha. Kodwa indlela ye-RIE ukumnika isikhathi esincane sokuzama ukulifinyelela. Uma edinga usizo lwakho, okungenani msize. Ngale ndlela, lapho enza okuthile yedwa, ukuzethemba kwakhe kuyakheka. Ushukumiseleka ukufunda ngemizamo yakhe.
Kumayelana nokuvumela ingane yakho idlale ngokukhululeka. Kufanele siyivumele idlale bese sixoxa nayo ngalokho ekwenzile. Uma uthi izinto ezinjengokuthi, "O... upende kahle namuhla, akunjalo?" noma "Ngibonile ukuthi udlale kanjani ngebhola," izoba nesithakazelo kulokho ekufundayo.
Uma umntwana eqala ukukhasa nokuhamba, udinga indawo ephephile. Lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele umnike yonke imidlalo. Mhlawumbe ungabeka umata omncane ohlangothini olulodwa lwegumbi bese ubeka amathoyizi aphephile kulo, okwenza kube 'indawo' yakhe. Ngemuva kwalokho angenza noma yini ayifunayo ngaphakathi kwalowo mngcele ngaphandle kokwesaba.
Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu nge-RIE yizikhathi lapho unakekela ingane yakho. Uma ugeza, ushintsha, noma upha ingane yakho ukudla, ungagcini nje ngokuyenza, khuluma nayo. Uma uthi izinto ezinjengokuthi, "Kulungile, ndodana, sizoshintsha inabukeni manje?" noma "Bheka, ngizophakamisa umlenze wakho," iba yingxenye yenqubo. Yisikhathi esimnandi esiqinisa isibopho phakathi kwakho nengane yakho.
Iyini imiphumela yendlela ye-RIE?
Le ndlela akuyona nje umqondo. Ucwaningo ngalokhu luveze imiphumela emihle kakhulu. Lezi ezinye zezinto ezitholwe ocwaningweni oludumile olwenziwe eMelika.
- Amakhono olimi ayathuthuka: Izingane ezikhuliswe ohlelweni lwe-RIE zithuthukise kakhulu amakhono azo olimi kanye namakhono okuqonda amagama uma kuqhathaniswa nezinye izingane. Lesi yisisekelo esihle samakhono angcono okufunda nokubhala esikhathini esizayo.
- Amakhono okuxhumana nabantu kanye nemizwa ayathuthuka: Laba bantwana batholakale benokuzithiba okukhulu kanye nesisusa . Babekwazi kangcono nokuxhumana nabanye.
- Kukhiwa izibopho eziqinile: Kukhiwa izibopho ezibucayi nezinozwela phakathi kwengane nabazali/othisha. Lobu budlelwano obuhle buthinta ngqo impumelelo yengane kwezemfundo.
Khumbula, isikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokwazisa ingane ngale ndlela yilapho ingaphansi kweminyaka emi-5. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi yilapho ubuchopho bayo bukhula ngokushesha futhi ifunda izinto ezintsha kalula.
Ukulandela le ndlela kungaba yinselele ekuqaleni. Ngoba sesijwayele ukwenzela ingane yonke into. Kodwa ngokubekezela okuncane, sithemba amakhono engane futhi simvumele akwenze, uzobona imiphumela emangalisayo. Uma unezinye izinto ezikukhathazayo ngalokhu, ungaxoxa ngalokhu nodokotela wakho uma ukhuluma ngokukhula kwengane yakho.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- I-RIE isitayela sokukhulisa izingane esisekelwe ekuhlonipheni nasekuphatheni ingane njengomuntu ohlukile.
- Themba amakhono engane yakho futhi uyivumele ihlole futhi ifunde yodwa.
- Nikeza indawo ephephile nesikhathi esanele sokuba ingane idlale ngokukhululeka, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
- Ungagcini nje ngokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya lapho ugeza, upha ingane yakho ukudla, futhi uyigqokisa, kodwa shintsha lezo zikhathi zibe amathuba okukhuluma nayo nokusondelana nayo.
- Le ndlela isiza ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwengane, ikhono lolimi, kanye namakhono okuxhumana nabantu, futhi yakhe ubuntu obuqinile.
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