Bed-Sharing: Gud ɔ Bad? Lɛ Wi Tɔk!

Wan pan di big kwɛstyɔn dɛn we yu gɛt as nyu mama ɔ papa na usay fɔ put yu pikin fɔ slip. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin se fɔ mek yu pikin slip na di sem bed wit yu na di bɛst tin fɔ du. Ɔda wan dɛn se, "O, nɔ du dat, i denja fɔ di pikin." So wetin yu fɔ rili tink bɔt dis? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis smɔl mɔ .

Wetin na dis ‘kɔ-slip’, ‘rum-shɛrin’, ‘bed-shɛrin’?

Yu go mɔs dɔn yɛri dɛn tri wɔd ya bifo. Pan ɔl we sɔm pipul dɛn kin yuz dɛn fɔ di sem tin, sɔm smɔl difrɛns dɛn de. Lɛ wi tek wan luk pan wetin dɛn bi.

• Fɔ slip togɛda: Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, dis min se di mama (ɔ di papa) ɛn di pikin de slip togɛda nia dɛnsɛf, insay wan we we go mek i fil lɛk se dɛn de de. Dis kin min se dɛn tu kin tɔch dɛnsɛf na dɛn bɔdi, ɔ i kin jɔs bi fɔ lɛ dɛn fil se dɛn de nia dɛnsɛf.

Naw, di ɔda tu we dɛn de kam ɔnda dis we dɛn kɔl ‘kɔ-slip’:

• Rum-shɛrin: Dis min se dɛn fɔ mek wan sɛpret ples fɔ di pikin fɔ slip na di sem rum wit di mama ɛn papa, nia dɛn bed. Dis kin bi na wan sɛpret krib, bebi baskɛt, smɔl bed we dɛn kin muv rawnd, ɔ say we sef fɔ ple. Sɔntɛnde, smɔl pikin bed dɛn de we dɛn kin tay pan di mama in bed, we dɛn kɔl ``bedsayd slip'', nɔto so? Dat na sɔntin lɛk dat. Di impɔtant tin na fɔ mek di pikin de na di sem rum wit di mama ɛn papa, bɔt i de na say we sef.

• Bed-sharing: Dis na tɔpik we bɔku pipul dɛn kin tɔk bɔt. Dis min se ɔl di tri mama ɛn papa dɛn ɛn dɛn pikin de slip na di sem bed . Sɔntɛnde, i kin ivin inklud fɔ slip wit di pikin na sofa ɔ na chia. Dis na wetin bɔku dɔktɔ ɛn masta sabi bukman dɛn de wɔri bɔt. Dis na bikɔs dɛn dɔn si se we pɔsin slip na di sem bed wit pikin, i kin mek i day bikɔs i de slip, mɔ di sik we dɛn kɔl Sudden Infant Death Syndrome ( SIDS ) .

Wetin mek sɔm mama ɛn papa dɛn kin want fɔ mek dɛn pikin slip na dɛn yon bed?

Naw yu kin de tink se, "If dis kayn risk de, wetin mek pipul dɛn kin du am?" Fɔ tru, pipul dɛn de we de advatayz ``bed-sharing.'' Dɛn se sɔm stɔdi dɛn kin ivin sɔpɔt dat to sɔm mak. Lɛ wi si us rizin dɛn de gi:

• Fɔ gi pikin in mama in bɛlɛ kin izi: Dɛn kin se fɔ gi pikin in bɛlɛ kin izi we di pikin wek na nɛt, bikɔs i de nia am. Dɔn di mama nɔ nid fɔ grap lɛk aw i kin grap.
• di tεm fכ gi pikin bεlε de inkrεs:Dɛn biliv bak se mama dɛn kin gi dɛn pikin dɛn bɛlɛ fɔ lɔng tɛm bikɔs dɛn kin gi dɛn pikin dɛn bɛlɛ izi wan dis we.
• Bebi dɛn kin slip izi: Sɔm pipul dɛn biliv se pikin dɛn kin slip kwik ɛn kwayɛt bikɔs dɛn mama in wam ɛn swɛt de rawnd dɛn.
• di mama ɛn pikin ɔl tu kin slip fayn: Dɛn kin se dɛn ɔl tu kin slip fayn bikɔs di pikin nɔ kin wek bɔku tɛm ɛn i kin slip bak kwik kwik wan ivin if i wek.
• di mama kin gεt fכ spεnd mכr tεm wit di pikin: εspεshali fכ mama dεm we de wok na di de, na big tin fכ ebul fכ kכd wit di pikin na nɛt.

Bɔt wi fɔ mɛmba se, wit dɛn bɛnifit ya, sɔntɛnde di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin kin pas dɛn bɛnifit dɛn ya.

Wetin na di rial prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin we yu slip na di sem bed wit yu pikin?

As wi bin dɔn tɔk bifo tɛm, pan ɔl we sɔm bɛnifit dɛn de we pɔsin kin gɛt we i slip na di sem bed wit pikin, wi nid fɔ no bak di bad tin dɛn we kin apin to am. Na bikɔs dɛn smɔl wan ya rili dilik. Wi nid fɔ tink bɔku bɔt dɛn sef.

• Suffocation : Dis na di big big risk. Dɛn kin krɔs di pikin ɔnda di mama ɔ papa in bɔdi. כ, di pikin in fes kin kכba wit tin dεm lεk pilo, blanket, bedshit, εn כda tin dεm na di bed, we kin mek i at fכ brith. Imajin, if yu bin de slip dip, ɛn di pikin rol na in sayd we i nɔ no?
• Trapmɛnt: Di pikin kin trɔp bitwin di bed ɛn di wɔl. Ɔ i kin trɔp na say dɛn lɛk di bed frem ɔ di edbɔd. If di pikin trɔp na dɛn kayn ples dɛn de, i kin at fɔ mek di pikin blo.
• Fɔdɔm: Risk de fɔ mek yu pikin fɔdɔm kɔmɔt na bed. If smɔl pikin fɔdɔm na bed, i kin mek i wund bad bad wan.
• di pikin wam pasmak: We yu de slip wit big pipul, di big pipul dεm in bכdi tεmprachכ εn tin dεm lεk blanket kin mek di pikin wam pasmak. Dis nɔ fayn bak fɔ di pikin ɛn i kin mek i gɛt mɔ SIDS.
• Risk factors wae gɛt fɔ du wit mama ɛn papa:
• If mama ɔ papa de smok (nɔ ɛva smok nia di pikin, ɛn i rili denja fɔ put di pikin na di sem bed wit pɔsin we de smok. I nɔ fayn fɔ go nia di pikin ivin if yu wɛr klos we de smɛl smok).
• If di mama ɛn papa dɔn yuz rɔm ɔ drɔgs , ɔ dɛn dɔn tek mɛrɛsin fɔ mek dɛn fil fayn , dɛn kin nɔ no bɔt di pikin we dɛn de slip.
• If wan pan di mama ɛn papa fat pasmak , i go mɔs bi se di pikin fat.
• Mama ɔ Papa, i fayn?If dɛn taya pasmak , dɛn kin slip dip ɛn nɔ kin pe atɛnshɔn pan di pikin igen.

di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl: If yu pikin nɔ rich 4 mɔnt , ɔ i bɔn pikin bifo tɛm , ɔ i nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ wet we i bɔn, di risk fɔ slip togɛda kin rili bɔku. Insay dɛn kayn tin ya, nɔ ɛva mek yu pikin slip na yu bed.

So, wetin na di bɛst we fɔ mek pikin slip fayn?

Naw yu kin de tink se, "O, so aw yu go du dis? Yu nid fɔ kip di pikin klos ɛn sef." Fɔ tru, sɔm we dɛn de we sef pas ɔl we dɔktɔ dɛn we de mɛn pikin dɛn ɛn ɔganayzeshɔn dɛn lɛk di Wɔl Ɛlth Ɔganayzeshɔn kin advays.

• Ɔltɛm put yu pikin fɔ slip pan in bak: We yu pikin de slip, nɔ tɔn am na in bɛlɛ ɔ sayd. Dɛn fɔ slip na dɛn bak ɔltɛm. Dis na impɔtant tin fɔ ridyus di risk fɔ gɛt SIDS. i fayn fכ mek yu pikin ple pan in bεlε fכ sכm tεm (tummy tεm) we yu de wach, bכt fכ tru put dεm na dεn bak we i de slip.
• Wan fayn ɛn flat ples fɔ slip: If yu de put yu pikin fɔ slip pan matres, i nɔ fɔ tu saf. I fɔ bi matres we strɔng ɛn we flat. Tin dɛn lɛk wata matres nɔ fayn atɔl. Pik matres we fit yu pikin in bed ɛn fit fayn fayn wan.
• Kip di say we yu pikin de slip klin ɛn nɔ gɛt ɛnitin fɔ du wit am: Nɔ put sɔft tɔys, pilo, big blankit, ɔ krib bampa na yu pikin in bed ɔ slip. Dɛn tin ya kin mek yu pikin swɛla. Yu pikin in klos go mek i wam. If nid de, yu kin yuz slip bag we nɔ gɛt sliv, lɛk slip sak.
• Rum-shɛrin, nɔto bed-shɛrin: Ɔganayzeshɔn dɛn lɛk di American Academy of Pediatrics se pikin dɛn fɔ slip na di sem rum wit dɛn mama, bɔt na sɛpret, sef krib, fɔ at le di fɔs 6 mɔnt dɛn na dɛn layf, ɛn i go fayn fɔ mek dɛn slip te to wan ia . Dis kin mek am izi fɔ kia fɔ yu pikin na nɛt bikɔs i de nia yu, ɛn dɛn se i kin ridyus di risk fɔ gɛt SIDS bay lɛk 50%.
• Nɔ mek yu pikin slip na sofa ɔ amchɛri: Dɛn ples ya nɔto say dɛn we sef fɔ mek yu pikin slip. Ilɛksɛf yu gɛt big pɔsin ɔ yu wan, if yu put yu pikin na dɛn kayn ples dɛn de, dat kin mek i swɛla ɛn swɛla. I rili denja if yu slip wit yu pikin na sofa bikɔs yu taya.
• Nɔ smok: Fɔ smok we yu gɛt bɛlɛ ɛn afta di pikin bɔn, dat kin rili ambɔg di pikin. Nɔbɔdi nɔ fɔ smok na di say we di pikin de.
• Fɔ gi pikin in mama in bɛlɛ:Gi yu pikin in bɛlɛ ɛnitɛm we i pɔsibul. Dɛn dɔn sho bak se fɔ gi pikin in bɛlɛ kin ridyus di risk fɔ gɛt SIDS. If yu de gi pikin in bɛlɛ na nɛt, i bɛtɛ fɔ gi yu pikin in bɛlɛ na ay chia ɛn put yu pikin bak na in bed. If yu de slip bad bad wan, yu fɔ tek tɛm mek yu nɔ slip we yu de gi yu mama in bɛlɛ na bed. If dis apin, i go fayn fɔ mek yu gɛt pɔsin we de nia yu fɔ transfa yu pikin sef wan na in ples.

Imajin, yu kin grap na nɛt fɔ gi yu pikin tin fɔ it. Yu tek di pikin ɛn sidɔm na bed ɛn fid am. Yu kin fil lɛk se yu de slip smɔl. Afta yu dɔn fid am, yu put di pikin bak na in bed. Dɔn di pikin sef ɛn yu kin slip we yu nɔ fred, nɔto so?

So, wetin wi fɔ tink bɔt leta? (Mɛsej we dɛn kin tek go na os)

So, afta a dɔn tɔk bɔt ɔl dis, a tink se i klia to yu se pan ɔl we bɛnifit dɛn de fɔ slip na di sem bed wit yu pikin, mɔ siriɔs risk dɛn de bak.

Wi ɔl lɛk fɔ kɔl wi smɔl pikin dɛn, wam dɛn, ɛn mek dɛn slip. Na tin we rili natura. Bɔt wi nɔ go ebul fɔ sho da lɔv de ɛn put dɛn layf pan denja we dɛn nɔ no, nɔto so?

So, wi fɔ put di pikin in sef fɔs ɔltɛm.

Klosap ɔl di ɔganayzeshɔn dɛn we dɛn no bɔt pikin dɛn wɛlbɔdi biznɛs na di wɔl se di bɛst ɛn sef we na fɔ put di pikin fɔ slip fes ɔp na di mama in rum, bɔt na fɔ put am na wan ɔda bed we sef . Dis na wetin wi de kɔl ‘rum-sharing’.

If yu gɛt ɛni ɔda kwɛstyɔn bɔt dis, mek shɔ se yu aks yu famili dɔktɔ ɔ dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn. Dɛn go ebul fɔ gi yu mɔ gud advays.

Mɛmba se yu pikin in sef na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl!

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