I kin rili at fɔ bia di pwɛl at we wi kin gɛt we wi padi ɔ fambul day. Trade, dat min se, insay wi mama ɛn papa dɛn tɛm, rili fayn kɔstɔm dɛn bin de fɔ gi trɛnk to di famili we dɛn kayn pwɛl hat de ɛn fɔ sho se dɛn de fil bad. Sɔmbɔdi go go na bɛrin os, le wan krawn, sɔntɛnde i kin pripia sɔm it ɛn gi am, ɛn sɛn lɛta fɔ sho se i sɔri fɔ am. Ɔl dɛn tin ya bin mek di wan dɛn we bin de kray bin gɛt bɔku trɛnk ɛn fil se nɔto dɛn wangren de.
Bɔt tin dɔn chenj bad bad wan dɛn tɛm ya. Klosap ɔltin de apin tru soshal midia naw. We pɔsin pas, bɔku tɛm wi kin si di nyus fɔs na Fɛsbuk ɔ na WhatsApp stetɔs. Dis we fɔ du tin gɛt in bɛnifit ɛn bad tin dɛn. Bikɔs no klia lɔ nɔ de we wi fɔ fala we wi de sho se wi de fil bad na soshal midia, sɔntɛnde, kɔmɛnt we wi post ɔ kwɛstyɔn we wi aks kin mek di pɔsin we de fil bad mɔ. So, i rili impɔtant fɔ mek wi no dis smɔl.
Yu tink se soshal midia dɔn mek am izi fɔ tɔk bɔt sɔri-at?
Infakt, wan man we nem Jocelyn DeGroot we sabi bɔt kɔmyunikeshɔn we de du risach bɔt dis, bin tɔk se soshal midia nɔ chenj di we aw wi de sho aw wi de fil bad bad wan. Pipul dɛn bin de rayt lɛta to di wan dɛn we dɛn lɛk, sɛlibret dɛn batde, ɛn mɛmba di de we dɛn day. Naw, na dem sem tin de hapun fo ples laik Facebook and Instagram.
Fɔ tru, bɔku bɛnifit dɛn de fɔ dis.
- Fɔ tɛl ɔlman wan tɛm: Imajin aw i nɔ izi fɔ kɔl ɔlman ɛn tɛl dɛn se, "Wi sɔri fɔ yɛri se yu dɔn day" we yu stil de kray. We yu post di nyus na soshal midia wan tɛm, ɔlman we nid fɔ no kin yɛri am. Dat na big big rilif.
- Sɔpɔt frɔm big grup: Na tɛm lɛk dis, di kɔndɔlɛns ɛn kɔmɛnt dɛn we dɛn kin gɛt frɔm padi dɛn we nɔ kin tɔk bɔku kin gi di famili bɔku trɛnk. Dɛn kin fil lɛk se "wi de wit yu."
Bɔt mɛmba se, wit dɛn bɛnifit ya, bɔku chans de bak fɔ mek tin apin we go mek wi nɔ fil fayn ɛn mek wi fil bad.
Us mistek dɛn wi kin mek we wi nɔ no?
Bikɔs soshal midia na ples we opin, sɔntɛnde di we aw pipul dɛn de biev kin mek pɔsin we de kray kin fil se i nɔ ebul fɔ du natin.
Di fɔs tin na fɔ luk fɔ tin dɛn we nɔ nid fɔ apin.. Sɔm pipul de, dɛn nɔ rili bi yu tayt padi, bɔt dɛn na padi na Fɛsbuk. Bɔt dɛn tink se dɛn gɛt rayt fɔ no ɔltin. Dɛn kin aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk "Aw yu lɔs?", "Wetin rɔng?", "Wetin apin na di ɛnd?" as kɔmɛnt usay ɔlman kin si.
As Mis DeGroot se, "If yu rili bi klos padi wit di pɔsin, i go mɔs dɔn gi yu di ditil dɛn ɔda we (lɛk kɔl) bifo Fɛsbuk. If yu fɔ aks dɛn na pɔblik, 'Wetin apin?', dat min se nɔto yu biznɛs."
Di sɛkɔn tin na fɔ tɔk tin dɛn we nɔ fayn ɛn we de mek pɔsin fil bad . Dɛn nɔ de tich bɔku pipul dɛn na wi sosayti aw fɔ sho aw dɛn at pwɛl di rayt we. So sɔm pipul dɛn kin tɔk tin dɛn we kin mek pɔsin fil bad we dɛn nɔ no. Fɔ ɛgzampul, we pɔsin lɔs in papa , ɔda pɔsin kin kɔmɛnt se, "O, a kin fil yu pen bak, mi dɔg sɛf day las wik." Dat de mek da pɔsin in papa day nɔ impɔtant. I kin mek dɛn fil bad mɔ.
| Do's | Nɔto fɔ du dat |
|---|---|
| Tɛl yu sɔri-at simpul wan ɛn wit ɔl yu at. Somtin laik, "A sorry fo hie abaut dis. Mek yu fain strength." na infεkt. | Nɔ aks fɔ wetin mek pɔsin day ɔ fɔ aks bɔt pɔsin in yon tin dɛn we nɔ nid fɔ apin na pɔblik. |
| Sheb wan gud mɛmori we yu bin gɛt wit da pɔsin de. (Example: "I bin rili gud pɔsin, a mɛmba wan de...") | Nɔ gi advays lɛk, "I de na bɛtɛ ples naw," ɔ "I bɛtɛ fɔ kɔmɔt de we yu nɔ sɔfa." |
| If i pɔsibul, sɛn fon kɔl ɔ tɛks mɛsej apat frɔm di soshal midia mɛsej. | Nɔ kɔmpia yu yon sɔri-at to da pɔsin in sɔri-at, se na stori we nɔ gɛt natin fɔ du wit da tin we apin. |
| Aks, "Ɛnitin de we a go ɛp yu wit?" | Tek tɛm we yu de yuz imɔji. Nɔ yuz imɔji we de smayl ɔ we nɔ fayn. |
So, aw ɛksaktɔli wi de sho se wi de sɔri fɔ wi?
Sɔm simpul tin dɛn de we wi kin du na soshal midia fɔ ɛp ɔda pipul dɛn we nɔ go mek dɛn fil bad.
1. Tɔk simpul wan ɛn ɔnɛs wan
Yu nɔ nid big wɔd ɔ lɔng sɛntɛns. Simply tok somtin laik, "A so sorry fo hie dis nyus. Dis mos bi hard fo yu to bia. A de ya if yu nid to tok." Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ tɔk am wit ɔl wi at.
2. Gi advais, no brag.
Dis rili impɔtant. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin tink se wetin dɛn de tɔk go mek di pɔsin in at pwɛl . Nɔ tɔk tin lɛk, "I de na bɛtɛ ples naw," "Ɔltin go fayn as tɛm de go," "Nɔ kray, strɔng." As Misis DeGroot se, "Yu nɔ go ebul fɔ mek ɛnibɔdi gladi. Yu fɔ mek dɛn fil dɛn sɔri-at." Wi wok nɔto fɔ mek dɛn at pwɛl, bɔt na fɔ mek dɛn fil se nɔto dɛn wangren de fil bad.
3. No de silent.
Yu kin jɔs tɔk to da pɔsin de na Fɛsbuk. Bɔt nɔ tɔk natin jɔs bikɔs yu nɔ want. Ivin fɔ lɛf smɔl not, kɔmɛnt lɛk "A sɔri fɔ yu lɔs," na big ɛp fɔ da pɔsin de da tɛm de. Di wangren big tin na fɔ fil se sɔmbɔdi de tink bɔt dɛn.
Fɔ dɔn, nɔ stɔp de jɔs bikɔs yu lɛf kɔmɛnt na soshal midia. Na jɔs wan stat. If i pɔsibul, kɔl dɛn insay tu ɔ tri dez. Lef mɛsej ɛn aks se, "Aw yu de?" Aks, "Ɛnitin de we a go du fɔ yu? Yu nid fɔ go na di stoa? Yu nid ɛp wit sɔntin na os?" Jɔs lɛk aw wi pipul dɛn bin de kuk it fɔ bɛrin, fɔ du smɔl fayv, i valyu pas wan ɔndrɛd soshal midia kɔmɛnt.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- We yu de tɔk sɔri-at na soshal midia , kip am simpul, shɔt, ɛn ɔnɛs. Nɔ nid fɔ tɔk bɔt lɔng lɔng tin dɛn.
- Nɔ aks wetin mek pɔsin day ɔ ɔda pɔsin in yon tin dɛn na pɔblik. I kin rili shem fɔ di pɔsin.
- Nɔ gi advays lɛk, "Ɔltin go fayn." Bifo dat, alaw dɛn fɔ fil bad ɛn sho dɛn se yu de wit dɛn.
- Ivin if yu nɔ de nia da pɔsin de, ivin shɔt mɛsej we se "A sɔri" kin bi big trɛnk to dɛn.
- Nɔ jɔs sɛn mɛsej na soshal midia, bɔt if i pɔsibul, sho se yu de sɔpɔt yu wit ɔl yu at bay we yu kɔl yu na fon ɔ ɛp yusɛf.
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