I fanu chuan i lei ngai loh bengbeh leh kutkawr mawi tak tak a ha ṭan thut mai ang tih han ngaihtuah teh. A nih loh leh i fapa hian a room-ah i hriat loh CD leh electronic gadget thar ber ber a nei a. Chu aia pawi zawk chu ni khat chu police ten an rawn call che a, i fa chu dawr ruk lai man a ni tih an sawi a. Hei hi nu leh pa tumahin an tawn duh loh thil a ni. Mahse, i fa chu misual a lo ni dawn tihna em ni? A ni mai thei, mahse a ni lo mai thei.
Hei hi a takah chuan i ngaihtuah aiin a tam zawk. A bik takin hmeichhia leh mipa naupang kum 12, 13, 14, a aia naupang zawk pawh ni thei, hetiang thilah hian an inrawlh nasa hle. Doctor ka nih angin naupang tê pakhat dawr rukbo lai an man ka hriat hian, ‘Aw, hei hi rilru natna khirh ber a ni’ tih hi ka ngaihtuah nghal ngai lo. Mahse, a ni thei.
Engvângin nge naupang tê tête chu hetiang thil ti tûra thlêm an nih?
Hetiang anga man naupang tam tak i zawh chuan, "Engvangin nge chutiang chu i tih?" an chhanna chu, "Ka hre lo," tih a ni ang. Mahse a takah chuan hei hi chhan engemaw zat a awm thei. A chhan berte han thlir ila.
- Thil mawi duhna: In lama lei theih loh emaw, lei theih loh emaw thil neih duhna (entir nan, fashion thawmhnaw thar ber ber , cosmetics, phone accessories).
- Peer Pressure: Thiante'n "challenge" atana an tih avanga thil tih. Naupangte pawhin heng thilte hi ṭhiante hnen aṭanga harsatna an tawh vangin an ti ṭhin a, chu chu "I theih chuan ruk la, ti leh rawh" tih ang chi hi a ni. Hetiang kum ah hian peer pressure a nasa hle.
- Hlimna atan emaw, rilru hahdamna atan emaw: Naupang an awm a, chhan awm lovin hetiang hian an ti a, an man dawn nge man dawn lo tih en nan emaw, a rilru hahna avang emaw hian an ti thin.
- I thiltihtheihna lantir rawh: Naupangte an lo puitlin chuan , anmahni thiltihtheihna leh zalenna lantir an duh a ni. Thil "dik lo" emaw "tha lo" emaw tih hian thuneihna an nei niin an ngai.
- Psychological issues hnuaia awm: A châng chuan hei hi hlimhlawp mai a ni lo. Naupangte pawhin in lama harsatna, lungkhamna, ngaihsak loh anga inhriatna, hmelchhiatna, a nih loh leh hlutna nei lo anga inhriatna avângin an che thei bawk . Hei hi a takah chuan tanpuina dilna a ni thei.
Thil pawimawh tak chu, kum 12-13 inkar naupangin hetiang thil hi a tih leh kum 15-16 inkar naupangin a tih chhunzawm zel hi a danglamna lian tak a awm. Naupangte an lo upat deuh deuh chuan an thiltih rah chhuah tur ngaihtuah thiam an zir a.
Mahse, kum 15 hnuah pawh hetiang thil hi a awm chhunzawm zel a nih chuan ` Conduct Disorder` -a harsatna a ni thei.A nih loh leh kleptomania ang chi natna chhinchhiahna a ni thei a, chu chu rukruk thunun theih lohna rilru lam natna a ni.
Nu leh pa angin eng nge i tih ang?
Kum naupan laia hetiang thil hi a awm fo nachungin, ngaihthah tur thil a ni lo. I fain a rukbo nia i rinhlelh emaw, finfiahna i neih emaw chuan ngun taka sawipui a pawimawh. I tih theih tur step thenkhat chu hetiang hi a ni.
| Action lak tur a ni | Engtin nge tih ang? |
|---|---|
| 1. Muangchangin thu sawi rawh. | I fa hau emaw, vuak emaw chuan a ṭangkai lo vang. A hmasa berin, rilru hahdam la, i fa nen chauh inbia ang che. Hmangaihna nen, "Engvangin nge i fapa/fanu khan chutianga a tih?" A sawi tur chu ngaithla rawh. |
| 2. A rah chhuah sawi rawh | Hei hi a pawizia sawi rawh. "In lama hremna aiin thil a pawi zawk thei tih hrilh rawh. Police-in an man a nih chuan, juvenile court-a a kal a ngai a nih chuan a hmalam hun zawng zawngah chhinchhiahna dum a siam theih dan tur sawifiah rawh. |
| 3. Thil tihsual siamthat pui rawh | I fa chu thil ruk chu dawrah thawn kir leh turin fuih rawh. Amah nen kal ve rawh. Kal la, dawr neitu hnenah ngaihdam dil rawh. A vawi khatna a nih chuan dan anga hma la lovin an ngaidam mai thei che. Hei hi naupang tan chuan zirlai ropui tak a ni ang. |
| 4. Chhungkaw pawn lama khawvel hlauhawmzia kawhhmuh | Naupang hnenah hian he thuchah hi pe rawh: "Tunlai hian chhungkaw humhimtu pawl pawn lam thil i buaipui mek a ni. Hetiang hun lai hian kan humhim thei lo che a ni. Nangmah leh nangmah i insiam a ni. Naupang tam tak chuan he thuchah hi nasa takin an hre thin. |
Engtikah nge professional tanpuina i zawn ang?
Vawi tam tak chu vawi khat man a nih avanga hlauhna leh mualphona lo awm thin hi naupang tan chuan zirlai tha tak a ni. Mahse, he thiltih hi a chhunzawm zel a nih chuan , emaw, hei bakah hian chhinchhiahna hlauhawm dang a lantir a nih chuan, professional tanpuina i zawng ngei ang.
Eng mizia dang nge awm?
- A hma aia ngaihsak lo leh tharum thawhna nasa zawka i awm a nih chuan.
- School hnathawh a buai vek a , grade a tlahniam a nih chuan.
- Ruihhlo emaw zu emaw hman rinhlelhna a awm chuan .
- Engkim maiah i lungawi lo a, depression symptoms i lantir a nih chuan .
Chutiang dinhmunah chuan rei vak lovah i chhungkaw doctor (damdawi thiam) nen inhmu la, hei hi sawipui rawh. Naupang dinhmun dik takin a teh thei ang a, a tul chuan rilru lam doctor emaw counselor emaw hnenah a refer thei ang che.
Naupang rukbo hian "naupang sual" a ni tihna a ni lo tih hre reng ang che. A chhungril lama harsatna emaw, nawrna emaw pawn lam lan chhuahna a ni thei. Chuvangin amah hrethiam a, kawng dik zawh tura kaihruai hi nu leh pa kan mawhphurhna a ni.
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- Dawr rukbo hi kum naupan lai atanga i ngaihtuah aiin a tam zawk a, mahse ngaihthah tur a ni ngai lo.
- Hei hi a chhan chu peer influence emaw fun emaw ang chi thil awlsam tak a ni thei a, a nih loh leh stress emaw depression ang chi thuk zawk a ni thei bawk.
- I fa hrem ai chuan muangchangin sawipui la, a tihsual pawizia leh a rah chhuah chu sawifiah rawh.
- I fa chu a tihsual siam \ha turin pui rawh (e.g., thil chu pe kir leh rawh). Hei hi zirlai ropui tak a ni ang.
- Hetiang thiltih hi a awm reng emaw, harsatna dang (tharum thawhna, sikul hnathawh kalsan) a lan chuan, i doctor emaw therapist emaw hnenah thurawn la hmasa phawt ang che.
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