Kua kite koe i ētahi wā he rerekē te whanonga o tāu tamaiti i ētahi atu tamariki? Tērā pea he āhua mangere ia ki te kimi hoa hou, he uaua rānei ki te mārama ki ngā āhua o te kanohi o ētahi atu. Tērā pea he nui te hiahia, te kore e mutu tana kōrero mō te taonga takaro kotahi, mō te kaupapa kotahi rānei (pēnei i ngā tainasoa, ngā tereina, ngā kēmu rorohiko). Hei mātua, he mea noa kia mataku koe, kia manukanuka, kia pōhēhē hoki ina kite koe i ēnei mea. "He aha taku tamaiti anake i pēnei ai?" Tērā pea kei te whakaaro koe. Nō reira, i tēnei rā ka kōrero tātou mō tētahi āhuatanga e kiia nei ko te Asperger's Syndrome , e whakaatu ana i ēnei tohu, engari he tokomaha te hunga kāore e mōhio ana.
He aha tonu te mate a Asperger?
Ki te kī māmā noa, ko te Asperger's Syndrome he āhuatanga e taka ana ki raro i te wāhanga whānui o ngā mate autism spectrum . I roto i te rongoā, ka kiia e mātou ko te Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Ahakoa i whakaarohia i mua ko te Asperger's he āhuatanga motuhake, mai i te tau 2013 kua whakarōpūtia hoki ki raro i te maru whānui o te ASD.
He take tōna ingoa, he "āputaputa". Whakaarohia he āniwaniwa. He maha ngā momo tae, engari kāore e taea te kī tika kei hea te mutunga o tētahi tae, kei hea te tīmatanga o tētahi atu, tika? He rite tonu te ASD. Ehara i te mea he rite katoa ngā mate pēnei. He ngawari noa iho ngā tohu o ētahi tāngata, ko ētahi he nui ake.
Engari ko te mea motuhake mō te mate Asperger he momo ngawari o te whānuitanga ASD. Kāore ēnei tamariki e whakaatu i te whakaroa i roto i te reo, i ngā pūkenga hinengaro rānei. Inaa, i ētahi wā ka teitei ake tō rātou taumata mohio i te toharite. Koia te take e kite ai ētahi i tēnei tamaiti he tamaiti noa e whanonga rerekē ana (tamaiti Neurotypical ).
He mea tino nui kia mōhio tātou ki ēnei tohu, kia taea ai e tātou te whakarato i te tautoko me te maimoatanga e hiahiatia ana e te tamaiti i te wā e taea ai.
He aha ngā tohu o te mate a Asperger?
He rerekē te putanga mai o te mate Asperger i ia tangata. Engari he āhuatanga noa iho. He pūkenga motuhake ā ngā tamariki whai mate pēnei i ētahi mea, ā, he wero anō hoki ā rātou i ētahi atu mea. Me titiro tātou ki ngā mea e rua.
| Ngā Pūkenga me ngā Kaha Motuhake (Ngā Rauemi Pūmanawa) | Ngā Uauatanga me ngā Wero Pea |
|---|---|
| He kaha whakamiharo ki te arotahi ki tetahi mea me te manawanui. | Te tairongo nui ki te mārama, ki ngā haruru nui, ki ētahi reka me ngā kakara. |
| He pūkenga tino pai ki te mōhio ki ngā momo tauira. | He uaua ki te mārama me te whai i te rere o te kōrero. |
| Te aro nui ki ngā kōrero iti rawa o tētahi mea. | He uaua ki te mārama ki ngā pūkenga whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kore-waha pērā i ngā nekehanga ringa me ngā āhua kanohi. |
| Te whai mōhiotanga hōhonu me te mahara hōhonu mō tētahi kaupapa e pārekareka ana ki a koe. | He iti te titiro kanohi , he kore rānei e pai te āhua ina kōrero. |
| He tino pono, he māmā hoki te kōrero i te nuinga o te wā. | He whakaroa iti, he ngoikore rānei o ngā pūkenga nekeneke. |
| Te ngākau hihiko ki te mahi i runga anō i tētahi tikanga me ngā ture kua whakaritea . | He nui ake te tūponotanga ka pāngia e ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te manukanuka me te pouri. |
Ngā hiahia me ngā tikanga motuhake
Tērā pea he hiahia rerekē tō ēnei tamariki ki tētahi kaupapa kotahi, pērā i te wāhi, te hītori, te kēmu ataata rānei. Ka kōrerohia e rātou mō ngā hāora. He tino aro nui hoki rātou ki ngā huringa o te mahinga o ia rā.Kāore rātou e pai ki te whakarerekē i ā rātou tikanga mahi. He pai ki a rātou te haere ki te kura i te ara kotahi i ia rā, te kai i te kai kotahi, me te mahi i te wā kotahi. He rite tēnei tikanga mahi ki te haumarutanga ki a rātou. Ka tino pouri rātou ina whakarerekētia.
Me pēhea taku whiwhi maimoatanga me te tautoko mō tēnei?
Mena he iti noa iho tō whakapae kei te pāngia tō tamaiti e ēnei tohu, ko te mea pai ko te kaua e mataku , me te kōrero ki tētahi tohunga mō tēnei mea.
He mea nui te tautuhi i tēnei āhuatanga i te wā e taea ai mō te heke mai o te tamaiti. Ko ngā tamariki e whiwhi ana i te tautoko e tika ana i te tīmatanga o te ao, he nui ake te tūponotanga kia angitu i te kura, ā, i muri mai ka ako takitahi.
Ina kite koe i tō tākuta whānau (GP), ka tukuna koe e ia ki tētahi tohunga, pērā i te tākuta tamariki, te tākuta hinengaro, te tākuta hinengaro haumanu rānei.
Nā te mea he rerekē ia tamaiti e pāngia ana e te mate Asperger, ka rerekē te mahere maimoatanga i ia tamaiti, i ia tamaiti. Ka whakaritea te maimoatanga kia rite ki ngā hiahia o te tamaiti. Tērā pea ka uru atu ki tēnei tētahi, neke atu rānei o ngā maimoatanga e whai ake nei:
- Whakangungu pūkenga pāpori: Whakangungu mō te kōrero ki ētahi atu, te kimi hoa, me te mahi tahi.
- Te Whakaora Hinengaro Hinengaro (CBT): Mā tēnei ka āwhina koe ki te ako me pēhea te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto pēnei i te manukanuka me te pouri, me te aro atu ki ngā āhuatanga uaua.
- Te mātauranga a ngā mātua: Ka ārahihia ngā mātua ki te mōhio me pēhea te āwhina i ā rātou tamariki.
- Te whakaora kōrero me te reo: Ka āwhina ki te whakapai ake i ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te kōrerorero takirua.
- Whakaora Mahi: Ka āwhina i te whakahaere i ngā mea pēnei i te mate pāwera me te whakangāwari ake i ngā mahi o ia rā.
- Rongoā: I ētahi wā, ka tohua pea e te tākuta he rongoā hei whakahaere i ētahi atu āhuatanga e pā ana, pērā i te manukanuka, te pouri rānei.
He tohutohu iti mō ngā mātua
He uaua pea te tiaki i tētahi tamaiti pēnei i ētahi wā. He nui te manawanui, te aroha, te whakangungu, me te māramatanga e hiahiatia ana. Anei ētahi mea hei āwhina i a koe:
- Kaua e huna i tāu tamaiti i te hapori, kaua hoki e tiaki nui rawa i a ia. Tukua ia kia aro atu ki ngā āhuatanga pāpori. Ka hē ia, ka noho pōuri hoki, engari ka ako ia i aua hapa.
- Kia maioha ki ō rātou auahatanga, ki ō rātou hiahia motuhake, ki ō rātou wairua whakakatakata, me tō rātou kaha. Kia whakanuia ngā āhuatanga e wehewehe ana i a rātou i ētahi atu, kia motuhake ai hoki rātou.
- Kaua e whiu tonu ina puta he raruraru, engari me ngana ki te whakamarie i te āhuatanga. Me ngana kia mārama he aha i pōuri ai te tamaiti.
- Hoatu he urupare pai i ngā wā katoa e taea ai. Mēnā ka mahi ia i tētahi mea pai, ka whanonga tika rānei, me kī atu ki a ia. Mā tēnei ka nui te kaha ki a ia ki te mahi anō i aua mea.
- Mahi tahi me tāu tamaiti ki te whakawhanake i ngā pūkenga kōrero. Whakaakona rātou ki ngā mea pēnei i te kōrero me te mārama ki ngā mea mā roto i ngā tohu (te kōrero kore-waha) i roto i te huarahi māmā, aroha hoki.
Ehara tēnei haerenga i te mea me haere ko koe anake. Tērā ētahi tāngata hei āwhina me te tautoko i a koe. Ka taea e koe te kōrero ki tō tākuta me te rapu mō ngā rōpū tautoko mātua, ngā rauemi rānei e wātea ana i Sri Lanka. Ko te mōhiotanga te kaha nui rawa atu.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- He momo ngawari o te mate autism spectrum (ASD) te Asperger's Syndrome. Ehara i te mea he hauātanga hinengaro, he mate hinengaro rānei.
- Ko ngā āhuatanga matua ko ngā wero i roto i ngā whanaungatanga pāpori me te hiahia nui, hohonu hoki ki tētahi kaupapa motuhake.
- Ki te whakapae koe kei tō tamaiti ēnei tohu, he mea nui kia rapu tohutohu hauora me te kore e mataku. Mā te kitenga wawe ka nui ake te tūponotanga o te angitu mō tō tamaiti.
- He mahi tahi te maimoatanga e whakakotahi ana i te whakangungu pūkenga pāpori, te whakaora whanonga hinengaro (CBT), me te tautoko a ngā mātua.
- Kia maioha ki ngā rerekētanga me ngā pūkenga motuhake o tāu tamaiti. Tautokohia rātou me te manawanui, te aroha, me te mārama.
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