Kua pāngia koe e tēnei momo whakaaro? Whakaarohia kei roto koe i tētahi toa hokohoko, kei runga i tētahi pahi kī tonu i te tangata, kei tētahi marena rānei. Kātahi ka nui rawa te haruru e karapoti ana i a koe, ngā rama tae rerekē, ngā tāngata e kōrero ana, ngā kakara rerekē... ka nui rawa atu ēnei mea katoa mō tō mahunga. He tino kore whakamarie, he tino taumaha, ka hiahia koe kia puta atu i konei. Koinei te mea e kīia nei e tātou ko te " whakanui rawa o ngā kare ā-roto." Ehara tēnei i te "kore e pai ki te haruru." Me kōrero tātou mō tēnei i tēnei rā .
He aha rawa tēnei mea e kiia nei ko te Pūngao Nui rawa?
Ki te whakarapopoto, ko te Pūtake Pūoro ko te wā e taumaha rawa ana ō tātou pūoro e rima - ngā kanohi, ngā taringa, te ihu, te arero, me te kiri - i te nui o ngā mōhiotanga e whiwhihia ana e ō tātou roro i te wā kotahi. He rite ō tātou roro ki te tukatuka o te rorohiko. Pērā i te rorohiko ka 'tārewa' ina whakatuwherahia he maha rawa ngā kaupapa i te wā kotahi, ka taea hoki e ō tātou roro te 'putanga rawa' ina whiwhihia he maha rawa ngā whakaurunga pūoro i te wā kotahi.
I tēnei wā, ka whakaaro tō tātou roro, "He tūpono nui tēnei." Nō reira, ka whakarite tātou i ō tātou tinana ki te aro atu ki tēnei tūpono, ki te oma atu i tēnei tūpono, ki te tūpato rānei i te wāhi kotahi ( whawhai, rere, tūpato rānei ). Koinei te take e nui ai te wehi, te manukanuka, me te kore e māia.
Ehara i te mea ko te aro nui ki te haruru, ki te haruru rānei o waho anake te take. He wheako tino kaha tēnei, ā, ka mutu te mahi a tō roro mō tētahi wā.
Anei ētahi o ngā āhuatanga ka puta ai tēnei āhuatanga i ētahi wā:
| Whakaoho | Ngā tauira |
|---|---|
| Oro | He puoro nui, he pūoro e tangi ana i roto i ngā waka, he tini ngā tāngata e kōrero ana i te wā kotahi. |
| Te tirohanga (āhua) | He rama kanapa, he rama e kanapa ana, he wāhi kī tonu i te tangata, he whata kī tonu i ngā taonga i roto i te hūpermakete. |
| Whakapā mai | Ngā kākahu taratara kāore e whakamarie, te pā ohorere (te tūtaki ohorere mai o tētahi ki a koe), te mirimiri o te tapanga o te kākahu ki tō tinana. |
| Kakara | Te kakara o te hinu kakara kaha, te kakara kai kaha, te kakara o ngā matū horoi. |
| Pāpori me te kare ā-roto | Ngā wāhi kīngi, he tini te tangata e pātai ana ki a koe i te wā kotahi, he kōrerorero hohonu ki ngā kare ā-roto. |
He aha ngā tohu o te taumaha rawa o te pūoko?
Tērā pea he rerekē tēnei i ia tangata, i ia tangata, engari tera ētahi āhuatanga noa ka kitea.
- Te tino āwangawanga me te kore e taea te marino (Mangumāru).
- Te pukuriri.
- He hiahia nui ki te mawhiti atu i te taiao, ki te mawhiti atu i reira.
- Te āhua e hiahia ana koe ki te taupoki i ō taringa me ō kanohi .
- Te kore e taea te pupuri i te hinengaro ki te wāhi kotahi, te kore okiokinga.
- Te mamae tinana: te tere o te manawa, te tere o te ngakau, te werawera.
- Mō ngā tamariki nohinohi: Ina pāngia tēnei e ngā tamariki nohinohi, kāore e taea e rātou te mārama he aha te take. Nō reira ka tangi nui rātou, ka takahurihuri ki runga i te papa, ka hamama. I ētahi wā ka pohehe pea ngā mātua he ngangau tēnei. Engari he urupare tēnei ki tētahi mea kāore e taea e ō rātou roro te whakahaere.
He aha ngā āhuatanga e tino kitea ana e hua ai te taumaha rawa o te aro?
Ahakoa ka taea e te tangata katoa te pāngia e te taumahatanga o ngā kare ā-roto, he nui ake te kitea i waenga i te hunga whai āhuatanga hauora.
- Autism: He rerekē ngā pūkenga tukatuka i ngā kare ā-roto o ngā tamariki me ngā pakeke o te whānuitanga autism, nō reira ahakoa ngā whakaohooho taiao noa, pērā i te haruru me te mārama, ka taea e rātou te taumaha rawa.
- ADHD ( Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder): He uaua ki te hunga whai ADHD te aro. Ina nui rawa ngā whakaohooho e puta mai ana i te wā kotahi, ka uaua ki te roro te tukatuka me te mārama ki ngā mōhiohio katoa. Ka arahi pea tēnei ki te Tapeke Pūoko.
- Mate ahotea muri-whara (PTSD): Ko te tangata kua pāngia e tētahi aituā nui, pērā i tētahi aituā nui, i tētahi pakanga rānei, ka pāngia pea e te taumaha rawa o ngā kare ā-roto nā ngā oro (hei tauira, he ahi) nā ngā tirohanga rānei e whakamahara ana i a ia ki taua aituā.
- Mate Manukanuka Whānui (GAD): Ko te hunga e pāngia ana e te wehi me te manukanuka pumau, koretake, ka uaua ki te aro atu ki ngā wāhi haumaru, ki ngā wāhi kī tonu i te tangata.
- Ētahi atu āhuatanga: Hei tāpiri, he nui ake te kitea o tēnei mate pāwera i roto i te hunga whai āhuatanga pēnei i te Fibromyalgia, te Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (ME/CFS), me te Multiple Sclerosis (MS) .
Ko te mea nui, ka taea e koe te pāngia e te Pūmanawa Kaha ahakoa kāore he āhuatanga pēnei. He mea noa iho.
Me pēhea te whakahaere i tēnei āhuatanga?
Ko te rongo pai, he maha ngā huarahi hei whakahaere i tēnei.
1. Kōrero ki tō tākuta: Mena kei te pāngia koe e ēnei momo raruraru i ia wā, ko te mea tuatahi me te mea nui ko te kōrero ki tō tākuta mō tēnei mea. Ka taea e ia te tuku i a koe ki ngā rauemi hauora hinengaro, ā, ki te tika, me kōrero mō te maimoatanga. Ka taea e rātou te tūtohu i tētahi rongoā ārai-manukanuka, i tētahi rongoā ārai-pōrearea rānei.
2. Tāutuhia, ā, karohia ngā mea e whakaoho ana i a koe: Kia tūpato ki ngā mea e whakaoho ana i a koe. He haruru? He mano tini? He kakara kaha? Kia mōhio koe ki aua mea e whakaoho ana i a koe, ka taea e koe te karo i aua mea i te mea ka taea, te whakarite rānei mō aua mea i mua. Hei tauira, ki te haere koe ki te rā whānau o tētahi hoa, me haere koe ki tētahi wāhi marino, pērā i te kāinga o muri, kaua ki tētahi wharekai haruru.
3. Te tiaki i a koe anō: He mea tino nui kia tiakina pai koe i a koe anō.
- Moe pai.
- Kai i ngā kai whai kiko, inu wai hoki i te wā tika.
- Whakaharatauhia ngā mahi pēnei i te whakaaroaro, te aroātahi, me ngā mahi manawa hōhonu . Ka taea e ēnei te āwhina i a koe kia marino ina pāngia koe e te manukanuka.
4. Whakaoraora: Mā te kite i tētahi kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro koe e āwhina ki te whakahaere i tō manukanuka me te ako me pēhea te whakatau i ngā āhuatanga uaua pēnei.
Me pēhea tātou e āwhina ai i tētahi e pāngia ana e te taumaha rawa o ngā pūoko?
Mena kei te pāngia tētahi o tō whānau, tētahi o ō hoa rānei e tēnei momo uauatanga, ka taea e koe te āwhina i a rātou.
- Nekehia ia kia matara atu i te wāhi e kore e pai ana. Hei tauira, ki te nui rawa te haruru, haria ia ki tētahi wāhi marino.
- Kia marino koe. Ki te mataku koe, tera pea ka nui ake tōna mataku. Ka rongo hoki ia i tō marino.
- Pātai atu mā te ngākau māhaki, "He aha tāu e hiahia ana?"Me noho ko rātou anake mō tētahi wā, me awhi rānei i a koe. Engari kia maumahara, tērā pea kāore e taea e rātou te kōrero i taua wā.
- Kaua e whakahāwea. Kaua e kī pēnei i te, "He aha te mea e pouri ai?" Kia mārama ki ō rātou wheako, ā, tautokohia rātou.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ehara te taumaha rawa o ngā kare ā-roto i te mate, engari he kore e taea e te roro te aro atu ki te nui o ngā whakaurunga kare ā-roto e tukuna ana i te wā kotahi.
- Ka taea e tēnei te whakararu i te manukanuka me te ahotea nui.
- Ahakoa e pā ana tēnei āhuatanga ki ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te autism, ADHD, me te PTSD, ka taea e te tangata te pā ki tēnei āhuatanga.
- He āwhina nui te tautuhi i ngā mea e whakararu ana i a koe ki te whakahaere i tēnei.
- Ki te mea kei te pāngia koe e tēnei momo mamae i ia wā, kaua e wehi ki te kōrero ki te tākuta mōna. Mā te ārahi me te maimoatanga tika, ka taea e koe te whakahaere pai i tēnei āhuatanga, ā, ka ora harikoa koe.











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