Nyengo m'dziko lathu lino ndi yosayembekezereka kwambiri pakadali pano, sichoncho? Mvula yamphamvu imabwera mwadzidzidzi, zomwe zimayambitsa kusefukira kwa madzi ndi kugumuka kwa nthaka. Nthawi ina, kutentha kosatha ndi chilala zimabwera. Mukawona zinthu ngati izi pa wailesi yakanema, mumaziwerenga m'nyuzipepala, kapena kuziyang'ana nokha, kodi mumamva kuti muli ndi katundu wolemera, nkhawa, komanso kusowa chochita? Kodi mumaopa tsogolo, tsogolo la ana athu? Ngati mukumva choncho, simuli nokha. Lero tikulankhula za malingaliro awa.
Kodi Nkhawa Yokhudzana ndi Zachilengedwe ndi Chiyani?
Mwachidule, Nkhawa Yokhudzana ndi Zachilengedwe ndi mantha aakulu, chisoni, mkwiyo, ndi kusowa chochita komwe timamva chifukwa cha kuwonongeka kwa chilengedwe chathu, kutanthauza kusintha kwa nyengo ndi zotsatira zake. Pakadali pano si matenda amisala omwe amagawidwa m'magulu achipatala. Koma ndi vuto lenileni lomwe anthu amakumana nalo ndipo limakhudza thanzi lawo la maganizo.
Bungwe la American Psychological Association linayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mawuwa mu 2017 kuti lidziwitse anthu za vutoli, chifukwa likhoza kuipitsa matenda amisala omwe alipo kale (monga nkhawa kapena kuvutika maganizo) kapenanso kubweretsa nkhawa zatsopano.
Tangoganizirani, kodi ndi malingaliro otani omwe amabwera m'maganizo mwathu tikamaona nkhalango zikuwonongedwa, nyama zikutaya malo okhala (kutayika kwa zamoyo zosiyanasiyana), komanso mitsinje ndi mitsinje ikuipitsidwa? Ndi kuphatikiza kwa malingaliro amenewa komwe kumayambitsa vutoli lotchedwa Eco- anxiety .
Ndizachibadwa kuti mumve maganizo amenewa. Sizodabwitsa kuti munthu amene amakhudzidwa ndi zomwe zikuchitika padziko lapansi amve motere. Chofunika ndi kumvetsetsa kuti simuli nokha.
Njira zitatu zomwe kusintha kwa nyengo kumakhudzira maganizo athu
Kusintha kwa nyengo kungakhudze thanzi lathu la maganizo m'njira imodzi kapena ina. Izi zitha kuchitika m'njira zitatu zazikulu.
1. Zotsatira Zachangu
Zinthu zimenezi zimachitika mukakumana ndi masoka achilengedwe mwachindunji. Taganizirani za munthu amene nyumba yake ndi mbewu zake zawonongeka ndi kusefukira kwa madzi. Kapena munthu amene wataya mnzake kapena mnansi wake pa kusefukira kwa nthaka. Kupsinjika maganizo komwe kumachitika pambuyo pa ngozi yotereyi n’kokwera kwambiri.
- Matenda Ovutika Maganizo Pambuyo pa Zoopsa (PTSD): Zinthu zokumbukira zomwe zinachitika mobwerezabwereza komanso zoopsa.
- Nkhawa yaikulu ndi kupsinjika maganizo: Kuopa tsogolo, kusakhala ndi chisangalalo chilichonse.
- Kutembenukira ku mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa: Munthu akalephera kupirira ululu, angayambe kuchita zinthu zolakwika.
- Maganizo odzipha: Anthu ena angavutike kwambiri ndi kupsinjika kumeneku moti angavutike maganizo ndi moyo.
2. Zotsatira Pang'onopang'ono
Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe pang'onopang'ono, pang'onopang'ono, chimatikhudza kwambiri. Ngakhale kuti si tsoka lalikulu, ichi ndi kupsinjika maganizo kosatha komwe kumachitika chifukwa choganizira nthawi zonse za kusintha kwa chilengedwe.
- Kukwera kwa kutentha: Kusamva bwino chifukwa cha kutentha komwe kumawonjezeka tsiku ndi tsiku.
- Kukwera kwa madzi a m'nyanja: Munthu amene amakhala m'mphepete mwa nyanja nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mantha akuti "Kodi nyumba zathu zidzalowa m'nyanja?"
- Kusintha kwa machitidwe a mvula: Alimi amakumana ndi mavuto azachuma komanso kupsinjika maganizo pamene machitidwe a mvula akusintha ndipo mbewu zimakhala zosabereka.
Zinthu izi zingayambitse zinthu monga kutopa kosalekeza, kutopa , kukwiya, ndi mutu.
3. Zotsatira Zosalunjika
Izi zimachitika chifukwa cha malingaliro omwe mumamva mukaphunzira za zinthu zomwe zikuchitika padziko lapansi, ngakhale simunakumanepo ndi tsoka la nyengo mwachindunji. Mwachitsanzo, chisoni ndi kusowa chochita komwe mumamva mukamva za moto wa m'nkhalango kudziko lina, kuwonongeka kwa nkhalango ya Amazon, kapena kuwonongeka kwa nkhalango ngati Sinharaja m'dziko lathu. Izi zitha kusintha momwe mumaonera dziko lapansi ndi tsogolo.
Kodi izi zimakhudza bwanji ana?
Ana amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi izi kuposa akuluakulu. Ubongo wawo ukukulabe, kotero zimakhala zovuta kuti athe kuthana ndi vuto lamtunduwu. Kuda nkhawa nthawi zonse ndi nyengo kungayambitse mavuto kwa nthawi yayitali pa thanzi lawo la maganizo. Ndikofunikira kuti ife monga makolo tidziwe izi.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mwana wanu ali ndi vuto lamtunduwu, yang'anani zizindikiro izi.
| Kusintha kwa khalidwe la mwana | Zambiri pang'ono za izi |
|---|---|
| Kunyowetsa pabedi | Ngati mwana amene kale sanali ndi chizolowezi chotere ayamba kunyowetsa bedi mwadzidzidzi usiku, izi zitha kukhala chizindikiro cha kupsinjika maganizo. |
| Osalankhula | Ngati mwana amene ankalankhula bwino mwadzidzidzi akhala chete kapena osatha kulankhula, chimenechonso ndi chizindikiro cha mantha. |
| Kuopa kwambiri nyengo | Ngati mukuopa kwambiri mvula kapena mphepo pang'ono, kapena ngati mukuda nkhawa mukamaonera lipoti la nyengo pa wailesi yakanema, samalani zimenezo. |
| Chilengedwe chokhumudwa | Ngati mukulankhula mopanda chiyembekezo za tsogolo ndi dziko lapansi, ngati mukunena zinthu monga "zonse zatha," muyenera kuzitenga mozama. |
Kodi mumatani ndi nkhawa imeneyi?
N'zovuta kukhala ndi malingaliro amenewa, koma tikhoza kuwathetsa.
1. Kukonzekera
Kusadziwa bwino zinthu ndiye chifukwa chachikulu cha nkhawa, kotero kukonzekera zadzidzidzi kungakuthandizeni kukhala ndi mpumulo wabwino komanso kuwongolera zinthu.
- Pangani zida zodzitetezera mwadzidzidzi:
- Zakudya zopanda zotetezera (monga mabisiketi, nsomba zam'chitini) ndi mabotolo angapo a madzi oyera.
- Tochi ndi mabatire owonjezera.
- Mankhwala ofunikira omwe inu kapena banja lanu mukufunikira. Ngati muli ndi mankhwala tsiku lililonse, monga a matenda a shuga kapena kuthamanga kwa magazi, pezani ena atsopano mvula yamkuntho kapena kusefukira kwa madzi isanayambe.
- Chinthu chonga buku kapena choseweretsa chochepetsera nkhawa.
- Konzani dongosolo lothawirako: Ngati muyenera kuchoka panyumba panu mwadzidzidzi, kambiranani ndi banja lanu pasadakhale komwe mudzapite komanso momwe mudzapitire. Kuchita zimenezi akuluakulu a boma akakuuzani kuti muthawireko kungathandize kupewa nkhawa zosafunikira.
2. Lankhulani zomwe mukumva.
Ichi ndiye chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Musamabise malingaliro anu mkati mwanu.
- Lankhulani ndi munthu amene mumamudalira: Lankhulani ndi mwamuna/mkazi wanu, bwenzi lanu lapamtima, kholo lanu, mchimwene wanu. Muuzeni nkhawa zanu ndi mantha anu.
- Funani thandizo la akatswiri: Ngati nkhawa imeneyi ikukhudza moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku ndipo ikukuletsani kwambiri mpaka kufika poti simungathe kuchita chilichonse, onani dokotala wanu ndipo mukambirane za vutoli. Uphungu kapena chithandizo chingakuthandizeni kuphunzira njira zabwino zothetsera mavutowa.
Kumbukirani, kupempha thandizo pa thanzi la maganizo si chizindikiro cha kufooka. Ndi chinthu chomwe munthu wolimba mtima komanso wodzidalira amachita.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Ndi zachilendo kumva mantha, chisoni, ndi nkhawa (Eco-Anxiety) chifukwa cha kusintha kwa nyengo. Anthu ambiri padziko lonse lapansi amamva izi.
- Musabise malingaliro amenewa kwa inu nokha ndipo muvutike. Kambiranani za izi ndi munthu amene mumamudalira.
- Kukonzekera pang'ono za ngozi (zida zadzidzidzi, dongosolo lothawirako) kungachepetse kwambiri nkhawa zomwe muli nazo.
- Ngati muwona kusintha kwa khalidwe la mwana wanu, samalani nako. Amafunika thandizo lanu.
- Ngati nkhawa imeneyi ndi yosapiririka ndipo ikukhudza zochita zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku, musazengereze kukaonana ndi dokotala wanu. Kufunafuna thandizo la akatswiri n'kofunika kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi moyo wathanzi.











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