Tangoganizirani, mulinso ndi chikhumbo chachikulu chopita kukagula zinthu ndi mwana wanu, ku phwando kunyumba kwa wachibale, kapena ku paki. Koma ... mwana wanu akapita kumeneko, mumaopa kuti mwadzidzidzi adzakwiya, kufuula, kugona pansi ndi kulira, ndipo ena adzakuyang'anani modabwitsa, eti? Izi sizongokhudza inu nokha, komanso ndizofala kwa ambiri a ife monga makolo a ana omwe ali ndi autism. Chifukwa cha izi, makolo ambiri amasiya kupita ndi mwana wawo. Koma kodi ziyenera kukhala choncho? Tiyeni tikambirane za izi pang'ono.
Kodi autism ndi chiyani kwenikweni?
Choyamba, tiyeni timvetse izi. Matenda a Autism si matenda. Ndi matenda a neurodevelopmental okhudzana ndi kukula kwa ubongo. Kunena zoona, amatchedwa Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Mawu akuti "spectrum" ndi chifukwa chakuti matendawa amatha kusiyana kwambiri kuchokera kwa munthu ndi munthu. Zizindikiro za mwana mmodzi zimatha kukhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi zina.
Ana awa nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mavuto akuluakulu angapo:
- Kuvuta kukhazikitsa ubale ndi anthu : Ena sakonda kulankhula ndi ena, kusewera, komanso kuyang'anana maso.
- Mavuto olankhulana: Ana ena amalankhula pang'ono kapena salankhula konse. Ena amagwiritsa ntchito mawu koma samvetsa tanthauzo lake mokwanira.
- Makhalidwe obwerezabwereza: Kuchita chinthu chomwecho mobwerezabwereza. Mwachitsanzo, kugwedeza manja anu mofanana, kusewera ndi chidole chomwecho mofanana.
Koma koposa zonse, vuto lalikulu kwa makolo ambiri ndi nkhani zokhudzana ndi kukhudzidwa kwa ana awa. Tiyeni tiwone bwino tsopano.
Kodi mavuto amenewa akumva ndi otani kwenikweni?
Mwachidule, ubongo wathu umatenga chidziwitso (chomwe timaona, mawu, fungo) kuchokera ku mphamvu zathu zisanu (maso, makutu, mphuno, lilime, khungu), kuchigwiritsa ntchito, ndikuchiyankha. Timachitcha njira iyi kuti Sensory Processing . Njirayi ndi yosiyana pang'ono mwa ana omwe ali ndi autism. Zotsatira zake, amatha kuzindikira zinthu mwamphamvu kwambiri kapena osazindikira konse zomwe munthu wabwinobwino sangazindikire.
Izi zitha kuchitika m'njira ziwiri zazikulu.
| Mtundu wa kukhudzidwa | Mwachidule... | Zitsanzo zomwe tingaone ku Sri Lanka |
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| Kumva kutopa kwambiri | Ziwalo zimamva zinthu mopitirira muyeso , kotero sizingathe kuzigwira. |
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| Kusamva bwino kwa thupi | Amamva ngati sakumva bwino monga mwachizolowezi , choncho amafunafuna malingaliro amenewo. |
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Tsopano mwina mukumvetsa chifukwa chake mwana wanu mwadzidzidzi amada nkhawa ku shopu? Sikuti ndi mwana woipa. Pamene magetsi, phokoso, khamu la anthu, ndi fungo zonse zimamugunda ubongo nthawi imodzi, sangathe kupirira. Panthawiyo, amafuula ndi kulira kuti achepetse kupsinjika komwe akumva.
Mkhalidwe wa dziko lapansi ndi zomwe tingachite ku Sri Lanka
Tsopano pali chidziwitso chachikulu pankhaniyi m'maiko ngati America ndi Europe. Malo ena monga ma cinema, mabwalo amasewera, ndi nyumba zosungiramo zinthu zakale amapatula masiku kapena nthawi zapadera ngati "Zosangalatsa Kumva." Panthawi imeneyo, amazimitsa magetsi, amachepetsa phokoso, komanso amachepetsa chiwerengero cha anthu. Amaphunzitsanso ogwira ntchito kumeneko momwe angachitire ndi ana awa.
Koma n'zovuta kwa ife ku Sri Lanka kuyembekezera malo apadera otere kulikonse, sichoncho?Koma sizikutanthauza kuti sitingathe kuchita chilichonse. Tiyeni tiyesetse kupanga malo oyenera mwana wathu. Nazi zina zomwe mungachite:
Kukonzekera ndiye gawo loyamba.
Konzani bwino musanapite kulikonse.
- Sankhani nthawi yosakhala ndi anthu ambiri: Ngakhale mukupita ku supermarket, sankhani nthawi yosakhala ndi anthu ambiri, monga m'mawa kwambiri tsiku la sabata. Pewani kupita madzulo kumapeto kwa sabata.
- Bweretsani zinthu zomwe mwana wanu amafunikira: Ngati mwana wanu ali ndi vuto la phokoso, bweretsani mahedifoni oletsa phokoso . Ngati ali ndi vuto lakunja, bweretsani magalasi a dzuwa ndi chipewa. Mulole kuti agwire chidole chomwe amakonda kapena china chake chomwe akumva kuti ali otetezeka, monga bulangeti.
- Uzani mwana wanu pasadakhale: Uzani mwana wanu pasadakhale za komwe mukupita. Ngati n'kotheka, muonetseni zithunzi za malowo pafoni yanu. Ingofotokozani kuti, "Tikupita kuno ndipo tibwerera posachedwa ndi zinthuzi."
Yambani pang'ono.
Musapite maulendo akuluakulu nthawi imodzi. Yambani ndi maulendo ang'onoang'ono, monga kupita kusitolo pafupi ndi kwanu. Ngati zimenezo zikuyenda bwino, khalani ndi nthawi yochulukirapo panja nthawi ina. Perekani mwana wanu nthawi yoti azolowere malo pang'onopang'ono.
Musaope kupempha thandizo.
Ngati mukukonzekera kupita ku lesitilanti, mutha kuyimbira foni pasadakhale ndikulankhula ndi manejala wa komweko ndikufotokozerani momwe zinthu zilili. Funsani kuti, "Mwana wathu akuchita phokoso pang'ono, chonde mungasungire tebulo pamalo opanda phokoso?" Nthawi zambiri, adzakhala okondwa kukuthandizani.
Ngati mwanayo akuvutika, chokani.
Ngati, ngakhale zili choncho, zikukuvutani kuti mwana wanu akhale komweko, palibe cholakwika ndi kuchoka. Musadandaule ndi zomwe ena amaganiza. Umoyo wabwino wa mwana wanu ndiye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri.
Chofunika kwambiri ndikulankhula ndi dokotala wanu, dokotala wa ana, kapena katswiri wa za khalidwe la mwana wanu za vuto la mwana wanu. Adzatha kukuuzani bwino lomwe mavuto enieni a mwana wanu okhudzana ndi kumva komanso momwe angawathetsere.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Matenda a autism si vuto lanu kapena la mwana wanu. Ndi vuto lomwe liyenera kumvedwa.
- Mwana wanu sakuchita zinthu ngati wakunja chifukwa ndi woipa, koma chifukwa choti sangathe kupirira zinthu zomwe zikuchitika.
- Mukakonzekera bwino komanso mwanzeru, nanunso mutha kuyenda bwino ndi mwana wanu.
- Simuli nokha paulendowu. Funsani upangiri wa dokotala ndi chithandizo chamankhwala ngati pakufunika kutero.
- Monga kholo, thanzi lanu la maganizo ndilofunika kwambiri. Dzisamalireni bwino.
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