Dzimwe nguva unonzwa here kuti vanhu mazuva ano, kunyanya avo vari pasocial media , vanongozvifunga ivo pachavo uye vanozviita kuti vataridzike zvakanaka? Zvinoita sekunge kune "ini", "zvandakabudirira", "hupenyu hwangu" kwese kwese, handiti? Tichitarisa TikTok, YouTube, ne Instagram, zvinoita sekunge tsika yacho ndeyekuratidza nyika zvese zvidimbu zvehupenyu hwako. Vamwe vanhu vanoti izvi 'denda reNazi'. Saka tese tiri kuwedzera kuva neudyire uye kuzvifunga isu pachedu here? Ngatitaurei nezvazvo zvakadzama.
Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, chii chinonzi kuda zvinhu zvinokufadza?
Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, kuzvida zvakanyanya ipfungwa yekuti munhu anotenda kuti "akakosha kupfuura vamwe, kuti zvaunoda zviri pamusoro pezvose," uye kuti anozvikoshesa zvakanyanya. Izvi hazvirevi kuti zvakanaka kana zvakaipa. Kuva nechivimbo uye kuzvirumbidza kwakanakira hupenyu. Asi kana izvi zvanyanya ndipo panobva matambudziko.
Dambudziko iri rinosiyana kubva pamunhu kusvika pamunhu. Avo vari pahuwandu hwepamusoro hwezvirwere, vari pakati pe1% ne6% yevanhu, vanogona kunge vaine chirwere chepfungwa chinonzi Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) .
Maitiro aya eNazi anogona kuonekwa nenzira mbiri huru. Kuti unzwisise izvi, ona tafura iri pazasi.
| Rudzi rweNazi | Hunhu nemaitiro |
|---|---|
| Kuzvikudza Kukuru | Ava ndivo vanhu vatinofungidzira patinonzwa izwi rekuti 'Nazism'. Vane chivimbo chikuru, vanoedza kukwezva kutariswa nemunhu wese, vanofunga kuti vakuru uye vakakosha. Vane hunyanzvi hwekufambira mberi munharaunda uye kutora hutungamiriri. |
| Kuzvikudza Kusina Kugadzikana | Vanhu ava vakasiyana nezvavanoita. Vane hanya zvikuru, vanogara vachinetseka. Vanogara vachishamisika kana vamwe vachizovagamuchira kana kuvakoshesa. Vanonzwa sevakakosha, asi vanosuwa kuti nyika haisi kuzviziva. Vane hanya zvikuru nekutsoropodzwa. |
| Zvinhu zvakajairika zvemarudzi ese ari maviri | Pasinei nerudzi rwemunhu, zvinhu zviviri zvakafanana kushaya tsitsi uye kunzwa semunhu akakodzera . |
Takasvika sei pano?
Vaongorori vanoti pane zvikonzero zvakati wandei zvekuwedzera uku. Chimwe chacho "ndechekuzviremekedza" chakatanga munyika dzekuMadokero kuma1970. Vana vaiudzwa kubva vachiri vadiki kuti "uri munhu akakosha" uye "unogona kuita chero chinhu." Kunyange zvazvo izvi zvaive nechinangwa chakanaka, dzimwe nguva zvaiita kuti pave nemafungiro ekuzvifunga anozvikudza, eudyire pane kuwedzera hunyanzvi hwevana. Tsvagiridzo yakatowana kuti kana vabereki "vakanyanya kuongorora" vana vavo, kureva kuti, pavanovarumbidza kupfuura kukosha kwehunyanzvi hwavo, vana vanotora pfungwa idzodzo uye vanokudziridza hunhu hwekuzvikudza.
Zvadaro, nekuuya kwezvirongwa zveTV zvechokwadi uye kuwedzera kwenhau dzezvemagariro evanhu, mamiriro ezvinhu aya akachinja zvakanyanya. Zvakava zvakajairika kuratidza pachena zvese nezvehupenyu hwemunhu, kutora ma selfie, uye kutarisa chitarisiko chake.
Asi nyanzvi dzinoti pane kuwedzera hunhu hwevanhu hweNazi, zvinhu izvi zvakapa avo vane hunhu ihwohwo mukana mukuru wekuzviratidza.
Izvi zvinoreva kuti, huwandu hwevanhu vari muNazi munharaunda hunogona kunge husina kuwedzera. Asi inzwi ravo nepesvedzero yavo zvawedzera zvakanyanya nekuda kwesocial media . Saka tinoona kuti munhu wese akadaro.
Chii chaizvo chinokonzera social media?
Masocial media inzvimbo yevanhu vane hunhu hwekuzvikudza. Tsvagiridzo yakaratidza kuti vanhu vane hunhu hwekuzvikudza vanopedza nguva yakawanda vari pasocial media, vanotumira mameseji kakawanda, vanova neshamwari dzakawanda, uye vanowanzo pinda mumatambudziko esocial media.
Asi izvi zvinokanganisa vamwe.
- Kuenzanisa uye Kunetseka : Kunzwa kusuruvara uye kunetseka nezvehupenyu hwako pachako paunotarisa hupenyu "hwakasefetwa" uye hunoita sehunofadza hwevamwe. Tinodanawo izvi kuti FOMO (Kutya Kurasikirwa).
- Matambudziko ehutano hwepfungwa: Kuenzanisa uku kwagara kuripo kwakaita kuti vechidiki vawedzere kuora mwoyo, kuzvidya mwoyo, uye kusurukirwa.
- Mafungiro asina kunaka pamusoro pemuviri:Miviri "yakakwana" inoonekwa pasocial media yave chikonzero chikuru chekukwira kwekusagadzikana kwemuviri, chirwere umo vasikana nevakomana vadiki vanonetseka zvakanyanya nezvechitarisiko chavo uye vanofungidzira zvikanganiso zvavasina.
Chii Chinoitika Kune "Vanoda Zvinhu Zvisina Kunaka"
Masocial media inzvimbo yakaoma zvikuru kune "Vulnerable Narcissists." Vanoona "Grandiose Narcissists" vachipemberera kubudirira kwavo uye vachiisa mapikicha akanaka, uye vanonzwa godo uye vakatsamwa kuti havawani kuzivikanwa kwakafanana. Izvi zvine mhedzisiro yakaipa pahutano hwavo hwepfungwa.
Chimwe chinhu chinosuwisa ndechekuti vabereki vanoudza vana vavo zvese zvavanoita, zvese zvavanoita kubva pazuva ravakaberekwa, pasocial media. Mubvunzo wakakomba ndewekuti mhedzisiro yekuratidza zvese pasi rose pasina kupa mwana mukana wekuvanzika kwake ichakanganisa sei mwana mune ramangwana.
Saka, toita sei nezveizvi?
Izvi zvingakutyisa. Asi pane mashoko akanaka. Tsvagiridzo inoratidza kuti sezvatinokura, sezvatinotora mabasa akawanda (kuroorana, vana), uye sezvatinosangana nematambudziko muhupenyu, kuzvida kunoderera. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti tinomanikidzwa kufunga nezvevamwe kupfuura isu pachedu.
Zvisinei, kana iwe kana mumwe munhu waunoziva ari kutambura nechirwere ichi, pane zvinhu zvishoma zvaunogona kuita.
- Deredza mashandisirwo aunoita social media: Chenjerera mashandisirwo aunoita social media iwe nevana vako. Gara uchiyeuka kuti hazvisi zvese zvaunoona ndezvechokwadi, uye kuti inzvimbo inoratidza zvakanakisa muhupenyu hwevanhu chete.
- Teerera pfungwa dzako dzemukati: Kana uchitaura nemumwe munhu, kana ukaona kuti ari kutaura zvakawandisa nezvake, achideredza vamwe, kana kuti asina hanya nemanzwiro ake, ziva "manzwiro ekuzvida." Kana zvichibvira, zviparadzanise nevanhu vakadaro zvinyoro nyoro.
- Tsvaga mazano enyanzvi: Vanhu vane dambudziko rekuzvida (NPD) havawanzo bvuma kuti vane dambudziko. Ndosaka vasingawanzo tsvaga kurapwa. Zvisinei, kana uchifunga kuti une hunhu uhwu muhunhu hwako, kana kuti mumwe munhu ane hunhu hwekuzvida ari kukanganisa hutano hwako hwepfungwa, zvakakosha kuti usanyara uye tsvaga mazano kubva kuna chiremba ane hunyanzvi kana mupi wezano wehutano hwepfungwa. Ndicho chinhu chakanakisa chaunogona kuzviitira iwe pachako.
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Kuzvida iwe pachako hunhu hunowanzosiyana-siyana zvichienderana nemunhu. Kunyange zvazvo kuzvivimba zvishoma kwakanaka, kungozvifunga iwe chete usingafungi nezvemanzwiro evamwe kunokuvadza.
- Midhiya yemagariro evanhu haina kukonzera "denda" reNazi. Zvisinei, avo vane hunhu ihwohwo vakapihwa mukana mukuru wekuzviratidza.
- Usazvienzanisa nguva dzose nezvaunoona pasocial media. Zvinogona kukanganisa hutano hwepfungwa dzako (kuora mwoyo, kuzvidya mwoyo).
- Kana iwe kana mumwe munhu ari pedyo newe ari kusangana nematambudziko nekuda kwemaitiro aya, tsvaga rubatsiro rwenyanzvi. Kutaura nachiremba wemhuri yako idanho rekutanga rakanaka.
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