Ngaba umntwana wakho omncinci usenomnwe emlonyeni nangona emdala kancinci? Mhlawumbi uyayibona le mkhwa xa ebukele iTV, xa ekruqukile, okanye xa elele. Abazali abaninzi bakhathazekile kancinci ngale nto. 'Owu, ngaba le kuphela komkhwa umntwana wam anawo? Ngaba oku kuya kuba yingxaki enkulu?' Usenokuba ucinga. Sukukhathazeka. Oku kuyinto ebonwa ngabantwana abaninzi. Masithethe ngale nto ngokucacileyo namhlanje.
Kutheni abantwana abancinci bencanca oobhontsi babo? Ingaba oku kuqhelekile?
Enyanisweni, ukuncancisa ubhontsi ngumkhwa oqhelekileyo noluncedo kwiintsana ezincinci kakhulu. Oogqirha bathi akuyongcinga ilungileyo ukunyanzela umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka emihlanu ukuba ayeke lo mkhwa.
Ngamafutshane, yindlela yokuba iintsana zizithomalalise . Xa zikruqukile, zidiniwe, okanye zibuhlungu okanye zisoyika, zizifaka ngokuzenzekelayo iminwe yazo emlonyeni wazo. Njengokuba senza into yokuzola xa sibuhlungu. Mhlawumbi uqaphele ukuba ezinye iintsana ziyajika iinwele zazo, zichukumise indlebe, okanye zihlikihle i-blankie yazo encinci ngelixa zimunca iminwe yazo. Zonke ezi zinto zizenza zizive zikhuselekile kwaye zikhululekile.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukuncanca ubhontsi womntwana akuthethi ukuba unengxaki yengqondo, kwaye akuthethi ukuba uya kuqhubeka enalo mkhwa xa ekhula. Uninzi lwabantwana luyawuyeka ngokuzenzekelayo lo mkhwa xa beqala isikolo (i-kindergarten).
Ngoko ke, sifanele sikhathazeke nini ngale nto?
Njengoko abantwana bekhula kwaye bedlula kwiminyaka yabo yokuqala ukuya esikolweni, inani labantwana abancanca oobhontsi babo liyehla kancinci kancinci. Nangona kunjalo, uphando lubonisa ukuba malunga nomnye kubantwana abahlanu uyaqhubeka nokwenza njalo emva kweminyaka emi-5. Kulapho kufuneka silumke ngakumbi khona. Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zoku:
- Imicimbi yentlalo: Eli lixesha apho abanye abantwana baqala ukubagculela nokubalahla. Xa abahlobo besithi, "Usancancisa ubhontsi wakhe," kunokuba yinto ecaphukisayo emntwaneni. Ngenxa yoko, abanye abantwana banokufunda ukuphepha ukudlala nabo baze babaphephe.
- Ukonakala kwamazinyo: Oku kuxhalabisa abazali abaninzi. Amazinyo asisigxina abantwana aqala ukubonakala malunga neminyaka emi-5 ubudala. Ukuba bayaqhubeka nokuncanca oobhontsi babo ngeli xesha, kukho ithuba elikhulu lokuba amazinyo abo aza kutsalwa aze aphume phambili ( overbite ) .
- Ubunzima bokuthetha: Abanye abantwana banengxaki yokubiza oonobumba abathile ngenxa yokwahluka kwamazinyo abo, ingakumbi isandi solwimi esifana no-"s".
- Iingxaki zomzimba:Ukumunca iminwe rhoqo kunokubangela ukuba ulusu lomnwe lome kwaye luqhekeke. Ngamanye amaxesha kuvela amaqhuqhuva , iinzipho zisenokungakhuli kakuhle, kwaye nosulelo lweenzipho lunokubakho.
Ndingayinceda njani ukuyeka lo mkhwa? - Ngothando nomonde
Ukuba umntwana wakho usancanca ubhontsi eneminyaka emi-5 ukuya kwemi-6 ubudala, kufuneka sicinge ngeendlela zokumnceda ayeke. Kodwa khumbula, akuyongcinga ilungileyo ukumnyanzela ukuba ayeke konke ngaxeshanye.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukuthethisa, ukugxeka, okanye ukuzama ukunyanzela umntwana wakho ukuba akhuphe umnwe wakhe emlonyeni wakhe kudala nje ungquzulwano lwamandla phakathi kwakho nomntwana. Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, umntwana usenokulingeka ukuba enze into efanayo nangakumbi ngokungakhathali.
Enyanisweni, emva kweminyaka emi-6 ubudala, abantwana abaninzi bafuna ukuyeka lo mkhwa, kodwa bafuna uncedo oluncinci. Kufuneka ubandakanye umntwana kule nto.
| Isicwangciso esithatha inyathelo ngenyathelo sokuyeka lo mkhwa | |
|---|---|
| Amanyathelo | Kwenziwe ntoni |
| Inyathelo 1: Yeka ibali | Musa ukuthetha ngokuncanca ubhontsi kangangenyanga. Mhlawumbi lo mkhwa uza kuphela ngokungatsaleli ingqalelo kuwo. |
| Inyathelo lesi-2: Itshathi yenkqubela phambili | Fumana ibhodi yepowusta uze wenze 'itshathi yenkqubela' entle nomntwana wakho. Mvumele abeke isitikha kuyo yonke imihla angayikhethiyo. Mthembise isipho esincinci seveki, nesipho esikhulu senyanga. |
| Inyathelo lesi-3: Izikhumbuzo ezincinci | Ingakumbi ebusuku, faka into ekrakra ezinzipho. Kukho izinto ezilwelo zokusela ezivenkileni. Okanye ungasebenzisa ivumba elimnandi onalo ekhaya. Vumela umntwana akhethe ivumba aze alifake kancinci kwincam yomnwe wakhe. |
| Inyathelo lesi-4: Amanye amaqhinga | Nxiba iiglavu/iiglavu xa ulele ebusuku. Okanye ungabeka ibhandishi encinci emnweni wakho. |
Umntwana wakho udinga uthando lwakho kakhulu ngeli xesha!
Xa uzama ukuyeka lo mkhwa , mncome kakhulu umntwana wakho. Nokuba akaphumeleli kangako, yithi, "Kulungile nyana/ntombi." Mgobe, mse kwindawo ayithandayo, nidlale kunye. Qaphela amaxesha apho evakalelwa kukuba ufuna ukumunca ubhontsi wakhe, njengaxa ebukele iTV okanye xa ekhwele emotweni. Ngelo xesha, jika ingqalelo yomntwana wakho iye kwenye into. Mnike ithoyizi, mxelele ibali, okanye umvumele enze into yokugcina izandla zakhe zixakekile.
Kuthekani ukuba ezi ndlela aziphumeleli?
Ukuba awukawuyeki lo mkhwa emva kokwenza konke oku, ungakhathazeki. Eminye imikhwa ithatha ixesha ukuyiyeka kwaye ingadinga uncedo olungakumbi.
Kwimeko enjalo, into yokuqala omawuyenze kukuthetha nogqirha wakho ngale nto. Angahlola umntwana wakho aze akunike icebiso elihle. Bangakuthumela kugqirha wamazinyo.
Oogqirha bamazinyo banokucebisa ukuba kusetyenziswe isixhobo esincinci somlomo , esibizwa ngokuba yi-'palatal bar' okanye 'crib'. Ezi zisetyenziselwa ukuthintela ukumunca ubhontsi xa zibekwe emlonyeni.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuyeka lo mkhwa nangona uzama konke okusemandleni akho, oko kungaba luphawu lwengxaki enzulu engqondweni yomntwana wakho. Umzekelo, inokuba luxinzelelo oluvela kwiingxaki zosapho okanye iingxaki zesikolo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kungaba ngumbono olungileyo ukufuna uncedo kwingcali yezempilo yengqondo , ngengcebiso kagqirha .
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Kuqhelekile ukuba umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka emi-5 ancele ubhontsi wakhe. Yindlela ayisebenzisayo ukuzithomalalisa.
- Ukuba lo mkhwa uyaqhubeka emva kweminyaka emi-5, unokubangela iingxaki ngamazinyo kunye nobudlelwane nabantu.
- Kuphephe ukumohlwaya okanye ukumkhalimela umntwana wakho ukuze umncede ayeke lo mkhwa. Endaweni yoko, mncede ngothando, ngomonde, nangokumkhuthaza.
- Sebenzisa iindlela ezakhayo ezifana 'neenqaku zenkqubela phambili' kunye nezipho ezincinci, kwaye ubandakanye umntwana kule nkqubo.
- Ukuba imizamo yakho ayiphumeleli, ungoyiki kwaye udibane nogqirha wakho ukuze akunike icebiso.
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