Ukuba unomhlaza webele, ngaba kufuneka uxelele indawo osebenza kuyo? Masithethe ngale nto.

Xa ugqirha ekuxelela ukuba unomhlaza webele, mhlawumbi kukho izinto eziliwaka ezifika engqondweni. Imibuzo malunga nonyango, usapho, imali, kwanomsebenzi wakho ifika engqondweni, akunjalo? Umbuzo omkhulu ofika engqondweni kuyo yonke le nto kukuba, "Ndingaxelela iofisi yam? Ndingaxelela umphathi wam? Ndingaxelela abahlobo bam?" Esi sisigqibo esikhulu kakhulu. Nguwe wedwa onokwenza esi sigqibo, kwaye kufuneka sibe seso uvakalelwa kukuba sifanelekile kuwe.

Uyafuna ukutsho oku okanye hayi? Isigqibo sesakho ngokupheleleyo.

Ngamafutshane, olu lulwazi lwakho lwezonyango. Ngoko ke akukho mthetho uthi kufuneka uxelele nabani na ngalo. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba luncedo kuwe ukwazisa indawo osebenza kuyo ngale nto.

Khawucinge nje, kufuneka uthathe iintsuku zokuphumla ukuze ufumane unyango, mhlawumbi ufuna izibonelelo ezifana nokusebenzela ekhaya. Kwimeko enjalo, ukuba uxelela umphathi wakho okanye i-HR ngale nto, kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukufumana ezo zibonelelo. Kwakhona, ukuba abahlobo bakho abasenyongweni baseofisini, ukubaxelela kunokukunika amandla amaninzi engqondo kunye nentuthuzelo.

Kodwa, ukuba ufuna ukuyigcina iyimfihlo, lilungelo lakho ngokupheleleyo elo. Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba xa bethetha oku, abanye baya kubajonga ngosizi, okanye bacinge ukuba abalunganga emsebenzini wabo. Ngoko ke ukuba kunjalo, kungcono ukuyigcina iyimfihlo.

Ngoku makhe sijonge amava abafazi abaninzi abaye benza esi sigqibo. Oku kunokukunceda wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo kwimeko yakho.

Indlela abafazi abahluke ngayo kule ngxaki

1. "Ndixelele umphathi wam kunye nabahlobo abambalwa abasondeleyo kuphela" - ibali likaNilmini

UNilmini wayenomhlaza webele wesigaba sesi-3. Wayecwangciselwe ukuqala unyango lwe-chemotherapy. Wayesazi ukuba xa eqalile unyango, inkangeleko yakhe yayiza kutshintsha, iinwele zakhe ziya kuwa, kwaye kuya kubakho iintsuku apho wayengenakukwazi ukuza emsebenzini. Ngoko ke wagqiba ekubeni axelele indawo yakhe yokusebenza ngale nto.

"Ndaqala ndaxelela umphathi wam ngqo. Emva koko, malunga neveki kamva, ndathumela i-imeyile kubahlobo bam abasondeleyo eofisini ndabaxelela iinkcukacha." Wanika nomphathi wakhe imvume yokuxelela lonke iqela. Emva koko akuzange kufuneke ukuba axelele wonke umntu ibali ngokuphindaphindiweyo.

Uyonwabile kakhulu ngesigqibo sakhe. "Umphathi wam kunye nabanye abahlobo babenobubele kakhulu kwaye bendiqonda. Ndaziva ndikhululekile ukubaxelela, kwaye abanye babo babelana nam ngamava abo omhlaza . Ukuva loo mabali kundinike amandla amaninzi."

Abahlobo bakaNilmini baseofisini badibana baze bamlungiselela nokutya ngeentsuku awayesenza ngazo i-chemo. Loo nto yayiluncedo olukhulu nakusapho lwakhe. Kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu onendawo apho anokufumana khona olu hlobo lwenkxaso.

2. "Andixelelanga mntu eofisini" - Ibali likaDeepa

UDeepa ngumfazi ophethe i-arhente yakhe ye-PR. Akufumanisa ukuba unomhlaza webele, wawugcina uyimfihlo.

“Ndandingafuni ukuxelela abantu endisebenza nabo oku. Ndandingafuni ukuba bandive ndisizela, bakhathazeke ngokungeyomfuneko. Kwakhona, ndandingafuni ukuba bacinge ukuba andinakukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wam ngokufanelekileyo,” utshilo.

Akazange axelele nabathengi bakhe. "Kwishishini lam, ukuba andikwazi ukwenza into ethile, kukho amawaka abanye abantu abanokuyenza. Bendingafuni ukuba abathengi bam bandishiye."

Ukuyigcina iyimfihlo ngolu hlobo kuye kwamnceda yena ngokwakhe.

Uxelele abahlobo bakhe abasondeleyo ngale nto ebomini bakhe kuphela. Ngenxa yokuba wayengathethi ngayo emsebenzini, akazange ajongane neenkangeleko ezibuhlungu kunye nemibuzo engaqhelekanga evela kwabanye. Xa ejonga emva kweminyaka, uthi isigqibo awasenzayo yayisisiso esifanelekileyo kuye.

3. "Ndithethe ngokukhululekileyo ngayo yonke into" - ibali likaSanduni

Xa uSanduni wafunda ngomhlaza webele, wayesebenza njengomlawuli wentengiso kwinkampani encinci esakhasayo. Ekubeni kwakukho imbali yomhlaza webele kusapho lwakhe, wayesoloko exhalabile ngokuhlolwa. Wayesele exelele iqela lakhe ngale nto.

Ngoko ke, kwangoko nje emva kokuba efunyaniswe ukuba unesifo, waya ngqo kwi-CEO yakhe waza wamxelela. "Ndizive ndingaqhelekanga kancinci, kodwa andizange ndizive ndinesizungu emva kokusitsho," utshilo.

Umphathi wakhe wavuma ukumnceda . "Wayenobubele kakhulu. Wayengazi ukuba ndifuna ntoni, waze wazisa nebhegi yokutya endlwini yam. Yayiyinto enkulu leyo kum."

Uxelele lonke iqela, "Sisebenze njengeqela elincinci. Ngoko ke ndifuna ukwabelana nabo ngezinto ezenzeka ebomini bam."

Emva kotyando, xa wafumanisa ukuba umhlaza usasazekile, kwafuneka afumane i-chemotherapy. Wathabatha ikhefu lokukhubazeka kuba wayelindele ukuba unyango luthathe malunga nonyaka.

"Umphathi wam wandihlawulela ne-inshurensi yezempilo ngelixa ndingekho. Ndathi ndakubuyela emsebenzini, wandinika isikhundla esitsha kuba wayesazi ukuba ndandinobunzima bokusebenza kakuhle njengangaphambili ngenxa yeengxaki zengqondo kunye nokudinwa endandinako emva konyango."

USanduni uthi ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo ngolu hlobo kwamnceda ukuba asuse uxinzelelo lwengqondo lokuxhalabela "oko abantu baza kucinga."

Usenza njani isigqibo esikufaneleyo?

La mabali abonisa indlela ezahluke ngayo iimeko nezigqibo zomntu ngamnye. Ukuze sikuncede wenze isigqibo, makhe sijonge isishwankathelo sezinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga.

Okokugqibela, ibali likaChristina, ingcali yezengqondo, libaluleke kakhulu. Ekubeni wayezisebenzela, wayengenabo oogxa bakhe bokuxelela. Kodwa uxelele izigulane zakhe oku. Wenjenjalo ukubonisa abanye ukuba kubalulekile ukwamkela ukuba awunakwenza yonke into wedwa kwaye uzinike ixesha lokunyamekela impilo yakho.

Uthi, " Akukho nto ifana nebhaso lokuba namandla ." Oko kuthetha ukuba ukucela uncedo xa ulufuna akuyonto ibuthathaka. Ukuba awutsho ukuba udinga uncedo, akukho mntu unokukunceda. Ngoko cinga ngemeko yakho, cinga ngenkcubeko yakho yomsebenzi, kwaye wenze isigqibo esivakala sifanelekile kuwe. Xoxa ngesicwangciso sakho sonyango kunye naliphi na ixesha lokuphumla olifunayo nogqirha wakho kuqala.