Xa sigula okanye sisezintlungwini, sikhawuleza siye kugqirha. Kodwa, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba nzima ukufumana ugqirha onokuthetha naye ngayo nantoni na, okuqondayo, nothembayo. Olu themba lubaluleke kakhulu, ingakumbi xa usebenza nogqirha omnye ixesha elide, njengaxa ukhulelwe . Ngoko ke, simkhetha njani ugqirha olungileyo ofanela iimfuno zethu? Makhe sithethe ngale nto namhlanje.
Iindlela zokufumana ugqirha olungileyo
Ukufumana ugqirha olungileyo kufana nokufumana umhlobo osenyongweni. Kuthatha uphando oluncinci. Nazi iingcebiso zokukunceda.
1. Buza abahlobo kunye nosapho (Ilizwi-lomlomo)
Le yinto yokuqala esiyenzayo sonke. Buza usapho lwakho, abahlobo abasondeleyo, kunye nabantu abaseofisini yakho malunga noogqirha ababasebenzisileyo kunye nabo bathi balungile. Amava abo axabiseke kakhulu kuwe.
"Ugqirha udadewethu awaya kuye xa wayesele eza kuba nomntwana wayenobubele kakhulu. Ungambuza nantoni na. Ucacisa yonke into kancinci kwaye ngononophelo."
Iingcebiso ezinje ngezi zibaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa khumbula, into esebenzela omnye umntu isenokungasebenzi komnye. Ngoko ke, buza abantu abambalwa uze wenze uluhlu lwabo ucinga ukuba bangakufanelekela.
2. Qaphela iziqinisekiso zikagqirha
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza uphando malunga neziqinisekiso zogqirha ocinga ukumkhetha. ESri Lanka, bonke oogqirha kufuneka babhaliswe kwiBhunga lezonyango laseSri Lanka (SLMC) . Oku kuqinisekisa isidanga sabo esisisiseko sezonyango.
Ukongeza, ukuba ngugqirha okhethekileyo, ungajonga nokuba unesiqinisekiso sobuchwephesha esifunyenwe kwi-Post Graduate Institute of Medical Sciences (PGIM). Umzekelo, ukuba ungumama okhulelweyo, ungakhetha i- Obstetrician & Gynaecologist. Kukho amaziko afana neSri Lanka College of Obstetricians & Gynaecologists (SLCOG) anamalungu kwiingcali ezinjalo. Ubulungu kwiziko elinjalo bubungqina obuhle bokuba ugqirha ngumntu owaziwayo onolwazi lwamva nje kwicandelo lakhe.
Jonga ukuba umntu uyahambelana na neengcinga zakho.
Kukho izimvo ezahlukeneyo malunga nonyango oluthile. IngakumbiKwinto efana nokuzala umntwana . Umzekelo:
- Uthini uluvo lukagqirha malunga nokwenza i-episiotomy (ukwenza isicaphucaphu phakathi kwelungu lobufazi kunye ne-anus)?
- Uthini uluvo lwakhe malunga nokusetyenziswa kwezixhobo ze-forceps okanye ze-ventouse ?
- Ngaba uza kwenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ubeleke ngendlela eqhelekileyo, okanye uza kukhawuleza uye kwiCaesarean Section?
Okokuqala, cinga ngeengcinga zakho ngale miba. Emva koko, xoxa ngayo nogqirha wakho omkhethileyo. Ukuba izimvo zakho ziyahambelana, kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu xa usenza izigqibo eziya phambili.
Masibuze imibuzo ngqo kugqirha ngokwakhe!
Ewe, ungabuza ugqirha imibuzo embalwa ngqo ngaphambi kokuba udibane naye. Musa ukoyika okanye ube neentloni zokwenza oku. Eli lilungelo lakho. Ugqirha olungileyo uya kukuvuyela ukuphendula imibuzo yakho. Nazi ezinye zeengcinga zezinto onokuzibuza.
| Umbuzo onokuwubuza | Kutheni oko kubalulekile? |
|---|---|
| Usebenze ixesha elingakanani kweli candelo? | Ungafumana umbono ngamava. |
| Ndingaqhagamshelana nawe xa kukho imeko engxamisekileyo? Okanye ngaba ikho enye indlela yokwenza oko? | Kuyintuthuzelo enkulu ukwazi kwangaphambili into omawuyenze xa kukho imeko engxamisekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ugqirha uya kukuxelela ukuba uye ngqo kwiYunithi yoNyango oluNgxamisekileyo (ETU) yesibhedlele. |
| Lingakanani ixesha olibekela bucala lokuthetha nezigulana? | Ungafumanisa ukuba uza kuba nexesha elaneleyo lokubuza imibuzo nokuchaza izinto. |
| Ithini ifilosofi yakho yokusebenza? | Oku kunokukunika umbono wendlela oogqirha abacinga ngayo ngezigulane kunye nendlela abalubeka ngayo unyango. |
Khumbula, abanye oogqirha baxakeke kakhulu. Basenokungakwazi ukuthetha nawe iiyure ezininzi yonke imihla xa bethetha nawe. Kodwa, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba xa ubuza umbuzo , bawuphendula ngomonde nangokucacileyo.
Okokugqibela, phulaphula intliziyo yakho.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuyo yonke le nto yingqondo yakho. Xa udibana nogqirha, ucinga ntoni?
- Ngaba uzive ukhululekile kwaye ukhululekile ?
- Ngaba udala imeko apho unokubuza nawuphi na umbuzo ngaphandle koloyiko okanye iintloni?
- Ngaba uchaza izinto ngolwimi olulula onokuluqonda, okanye usebenzisa ulwimi lwezonyango ongaluqondiyo?
- Ngaba uziva uhlonitshwa? Ngaba uyaphulaphula xa usithi?
Cinga ngale nto, ungamthemba njani ugqirha okunzima ukuthetha naye eofisini, kwindawo yotyando , okanye xa uzala umntwana? Ngoko ke, ukuziva ungonwabanga kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba uziva ungakhululekanga, kungcono ufumane omnye ugqirha.
Unelungelo elikhulu lokukhetha umntu okuphathayo. Uphando oluncinci lunokwenza umahluko omkhulu kuwe nakusapho lwakho.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukukhetha ugqirha onokumthemba nokhululekileyo ukuthetha naye kubaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yakho.
- Cela iingcebiso kubahlobo nakusapho. Kodwa khumbula, into esebenzela abanye isenokungasebenzi kuwe.
- Qaphela iziqinisekiso zikagqirha (ubhaliso lwe-SLMC, iziqinisekiso zobungcali).
- Xoxani ngokuba izimvo zenu nezikagqirha ziyahambelana na. Musa ukoyika ukubuza imibuzo.
- Ekugqibeleni, mamela imbilini yakho. Ukuba uziva ungakhululekanga, khangela enye indlela.
Ukukhetha ugqirha, ugqirha othembekileyo, ugqirha olungileyo, ingcebiso yezonyango, amalungelo esigulana, unxibelelwano lwezempilo, ukukhetha ugqirha
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