Xa igumbi lomntwana wakho lihonjiswe kakuhle kwaye neempahla ezincinci zibekwe kakuhle kwikhabhathi, uziva uvuyo olukhulu kwelinye icala lentliziyo yakho. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, kwelinye icala lentliziyo yakho, uziva usoyika kwaye ukhathazekile kancinci, akunjalo? "Owu, ndiza kubuyela njani emsebenzini? Ndiza kumshiya njani umntwana? Ngubani oza kondla umntwana ngaphandle kwam? Ngaba ndiza kukwazi ukuzilawula zombini?" Mhlawumbi kukho imibuzo emininzi enjalo engqondweni yakho. Enyanisweni, ukubuyela emsebenzini emva kokuba ngumama ngumceli mngeni omkhulu. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, awuwedwa. Ezi mvakalelo ziqhelekile kuwo wonke umama odlula kolu hambo. Makhe sibone indlela yokujongana nalo mceli mngeni ngononophelo olukhulu nangovuyo.
Into yokuqala omawuyenze: fumana uncedo oluthembekileyo
Akukho nto ifana noxolo lwengqondo lokuba unomntu onokumthemba ukuba anakekele umntwana wakho xa usiya emsebenzini. Ngale ndlela, unokugxila emsebenzini wakho ngaphandle kokukhathazeka. Ngoko ke eli linyathelo lakho lokuqala nelibaluleke kakhulu.
Cinga ngezinto onokukhetha kuzo. Mhlawumbi umama wakho, umamazala wakho, okanye umntu osondeleyo kuwe angakunceda. Yintsikelelo enkulu leyo. Kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu onethuba elo. Kwimeko ezinjalo, kuya kufuneka ufumane iziko lokugcina abantwana elithembekileyo okanye umntu oza kubanyamekela .
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba, ungayeki olu phando kude kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela . Qala ukukhangela ubuncinane inyanga ngaphambi kokuba ucebe ukuya emsebenzini. Kuba, nokuba ungafumana isihlalo semoto esifanelekileyo ngomzuzu wokugqibela, awuyi kufumana mntu umthembayo ukuba anakekele umntwana wakho ngobusuku obunye.
Ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe umntu, yenza uphando lwakho. Buza ngomsebenzi wakhe wangaphambili. Jonga ukuba ngaba kukho na abahlobo bakho abakhe basebenzisa iinkonzo zakhe. Ukuba yindawo yokugcina abantwana, yiya apho uthethe nabanye abazali. Kubalulekile ukuzinika ixesha lokwenza ezi zinto.
Musa ukudada ngoko nangoko, ngena emanzini kuqala.
Ukuba sekhaya nomntwana wakho kangangeenyanga uze ngequbuliso ube se-ofisini imini yonke lutshintsho olukhulu engqondweni nasemzimbeni wakho. Kufana nokutsiba ngequbuliso emanzini anzulu. Ngoko ke, ukuba unako, qhela obu bomi butsha ngokukhawuleza.
Ngamafutshane, thetha nomphathi wakho uze ubone ukuba angakunika ithuba lokusebenza ixesha elingesosigxina kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala endaweni yokusebenza ixesha elizeleyo. Okanye, buza ukuba ungasebenza ekhaya usuku olunye okanye ezimbini ngeveki.
Enye ingcinga elungileyo kukuqala ukubuyela emsebenzini ngosuku olufana noLwesine , endaweni yokuqalisa ngosuku lokuqala lweveki.Khetha. Khawucinge, emva koko kufuneka usebenze iintsuku ezimbini kuphela. Emva koko uchitha impelaveki nomntwana kwakhona. Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba uqhele ishedyuli entsha ngaphandle koxinzelelo olukhulu. Oku kuya kunciphisa uxinzelelo oluvayo kakhulu.
Zithini izinto eziza kuqala kusapho lwakho? Cinga ngako.
Awunalo ixesha lokwenza yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo njengoko wawusenza ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afike. Yiyo loo nto iyinyani. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukucinga ngezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe nakusapho lwakho uze wenze uluhlu lwezinto eziza kuqala .
"Ingaba indlu kufuneka icoceke yonke imihla? Ngaba kufuneka upheke ukutya okutsha yonke imihla?" Zibuze le mibuzo. Mhlawumbi, nokuba indlu imdaka kancinci, kufanelekile ukuchitha imizuzu engama-30 eyongezelelweyo udlala nomntwana wakho .
| Okubalulekileyo | Oko unokukwenza |
|---|---|
| Izinto ekufuneka zenziwe | - Ukondla nokunyamekela umntwana ngexesha elifanelekileyo. - Ukwenza umsebenzi obalulekileyo emsebenzini. - Ukufumana ukuphumla okufunekayo. |
| Izinto ezinokuthi zingashiywa ngaphandle | - Ukugcina indlu icocekile kwaye ikhazimla yonke imihla. - Ukupheka izitya ezintsha yonke imihla (akukho nto imbi ngokuzisa ukutya evenkileni ngezinye iintsuku). - Ukuya kuzo zonke iziganeko zentlalo. |
Oku akuthethi ukuba akufanele wenze nto. Kodwa, ekubeni ixesha namandla akho emincinci, kufuneka uwasebenzise ngendlela enenzuzo ngakumbi. Endaweni yokuzama ukwenza yonke into ngokwakho, yabelana ngomsebenzi nomyeni wakho.
Xoxa nomphathi wakho ngaphambi kokuba uye emsebenzini.
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubuyisela ingqondo yakho emsebenzini kukuzibekela ixesha lokuthetha nomphathi wakho malunga neeveki ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba ubuyele emsebenzini.
Kutheni oku kubalulekile?
- Fumanisa ngomsebenzi: kwenzeke ntoni ngelixa ubungekho, oko kufuneka kwenziwe xa ubuya (iproj ECT)s) Ungazi kwangaphambili into omawuyilindele. Emva koko ungazilungiselela ngokwengqondo.
- Yakha ukuthembana: Umphathi wakho usenokuba neenkxalabo ezithile. "Ngaba akasayi kukwazi ukugxila emsebenzini wakhe ngoku ekubeni enomntwana?", "Ngaba uza kufika emva kwexesha aze ahambe kwangethuba?", "Ngaba kuya kufuneka anyamekele umntwana aze ayeke?" Ezi ziinkxalabo eziqhelekileyo.
Ngoko ke, ungathetha naye ngale nto ngokukhululekileyo kwangaphambili . Ukuba uthi into efana nale, "Ndikulungele ukubuyela emsebenzini, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uza kwenza indima yakho," kuya kumnceda ukuba anqobe nawaphi na amathandabuzo anokuba nawo aze akhe ukukuthemba okukhulu. Le ncoko ilula iya kwenza kube lula kuwe ukuqhubela phambili.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukubuyela emsebenzini emva kokuba nomntwana lutshintsho olukhulu, kwaye ukulungiselela kwangaphambili kunokunciphisa kakhulu uxinzelelo oluvayo.
- Awukho wedwa kolu hambo. Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo nenkxaso. Uncedo lomntu omthembayo lubalulekile.
- Musa ukuzama ukwenza yonke into ngaxeshanye, musa ukuzama ukuba yonke into igqibelele. Khetha into ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe nakusapho lwakho.
- Ungalinganisela umsebenzi wakho nobomi bosapho. Asinto eyenzeka ngobusuku obunye, yinkqubo. Zinike ixesha. Ungakwenza oku!
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