Ngamanye amaxesha ubomi bunokuguquka ngeendlela esingazange sizicinge ukuba zinokwenzeka, akunjalo? Kunzima ukuchaza intlungu , isizungu, nomsindo owuvayo, ingakumbi xa umtshato uqhekeka okanye uqhawulo-mtshato lusenzeka. Lonke ihlabathi lakho lisenokuvakalelwa kukuba liyawa, kwaye ungaziva ungenakunceda, ungaqinisekanga ngento omawuyenze ngokulandelayo. Kodwa khumbula, kukho ukukhanya ekupheleni kwalo mngxuma umnyama. Ungadlula kweli xesha linzima. Masithethe ngalo.
Okokuqala, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwamkela oko uvakalelwa kuko.
Uhambo oluya ekuchacheni emva koqhawulo-mtshato alukho ngqo. Kufana nokukhwela i-roller coaster. Ngezinye iintsuku uziva ungcono kancinci, kwaye ngezinye iintsuku uziva unzima kakhulu. Yiyo loo nto kanye.
Zivumele ukuba uzive iimvakalelo zakho: Ukuzama ukuthintela usizi lwakho, umsindo, okanye intlungu kufana nokubamba ibhola phantsi kwamanzi. Xa uyiyeka, iza kubuya ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ucinga. Ngoko ke zivumele ukuba uzive oko ukuvayo. Ukuba ufuna ukulila, khala. Ukuba unomsindo, yikhulule ngendlela ekhuselekileyo (njengokubetha umqamelo). Ukukhupha ezi mvakalelo linyathelo lokuqala kwinkqubo yokuphiliswa.
Thetha ngayo: Musa ukuzama ukuyithwala wedwa le mithwalo. Thetha ngayo nomhlobo othembekileyo okanye ilungu losapho. Okanye, kufanelekile ukuthetha nomcebisi oqeqeshiweyo ozazi kakuhle ezi zinto. Ayizukuba lula nje kuphela umthwalo osengqondweni yakho, kodwa uya kufumana neengcebiso ezisebenzayo malunga nendlela yokuphuma kule meko.
Iindlela zokunceda ukugcina ingqondo iphilile
Emva kokuwa okunje, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuziphatha ngothando nokuzikhathalela.
Khumbula, unawe wedwa. Ngoko ke lumkela kakuhle umzimba nengqondo yakho.
- Lumka umzimba wakho: Zama ukutya ukutya okunesondlo rhoqo kangangoko unako. Hamba ubuncinane imizuzu eli-15-20 ngosuku, yenza umthambo. Kuya kunika ingqondo yakho isiqabu esikhulu. Kwakhona, hlala kude nezinto ezifana notywala neziyobisi ngeli xesha. Zinika isiqabu sexeshana kuphela, kodwa ekugqibeleni, zibangela ingozi enkulu.
- Zifumane kwakhona izinto ozithandayo: Ngenxa yesiphithiphithi somtshato, kusenokubakho izinto oziphosileyo obukade uzonwabela. Mhlawumbi kukuzoba, ukufunda incwadi, ukutyala into ethile egadini, okanye ukuthatha iklasi yomdaniso. Zibekele ixesha lento ekuzisela uvuyo.
- Musa ukungxama ekwenzeni izigqibo ezinkulu:Ingqondo yakho ayizinzanga ngeli xesha. Ngoko ke, eli asiloxesha lokwenza izigqibo ezinkulu eziya kuchaphazela ubomi bakho, njengokutshintsha imisebenzi okanye ukufuduka. Zinike ixesha uze ucinge ngalo xa uzolile.
Lumka xa ujongene nolwalamano oludala.
Ukujongana nomntu wangaphambili emva koqhawulo-mtshato kunokufana nokuhamba kwindawo eneebhombu, ingakumbi ukuba kukho abantwana ababandakanyekayo.
| Yintoni ekufuneka uyiqwalasele | Kwenziwe ntoni? |
|---|---|
| Kuphephe ukubhajwa kwindawo enye. | Musa ukuhlala uxhalabile, unomsindo, okanye ucinga ngokuziphindezela. Ukuba uziva udandathekile okanye uxhalabile, musa ukubandezeleka wedwa kwaye ubone ugqirha ngokukhawuleza. |
| Ubudlelwane obuHlaziyiweyo | Ukuze ubaleke ubulolo, ulahle uloyiko lokuba "akukho mntu undithandayo," musa ukungxama ungene kolunye ulwalamano. Okokuqala, ziphilise. Ulwalamano oluqala ngothando lunamandla kakhulu kunolwalamano oluqala ngoloyiko. |
| Iingxabano neqabane lakudala | Ukuba uthetha kwaye uziva ngathi kukho umlo oqalayo, hamba. Beka phantsi ifowuni. Phuma egumbini. Ungaze ulwe phambi kwabantwana bakho. |
Ukuba unabantwana, ubenza njani baqonde oku?
Olu tshintsho ebomini bakho luya kuba nefuthe elikhulu ebantwaneni bakho. Ihlabathi labo nalo liya kutshabalala. Ngoko ke kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye ube krelekrele xa usebenza nabo.
Nokuba ubudlelwane benu buyaphela, into yokuba ungumama notata wabo bantwana ayisoze itshintshe ubomi bakho bonke. Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.
Mamela abantwana uze ubaqonde.
Vumela abantwana bakho baveze iimvakalelo zabo. Mamela ngononophelo oko bakuthethayo. Hlala ubakhumbuza ukuba, "Asikuko ityala lakho, uMama noTata baya kuhlala bekuthanda." Phendula imibuzo yabo ngendlela elula, efanelekileyo ngokweminyaka yabo, ngaphandle kokuxoka.
Banike uzinzo ebomini babo.
Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bazive bezinzile xa bejamelene nolu tshintsho. Ngoko ke gcina imisebenzi yabo (umz., amaxesha esikolo, amaxesha okudlala, amaxesha okutya) ihambelana kangangoko. Oku kuya kubanceda bazive bekhuselekile.
Bobabini abazali balandela imithetho efanayo.
Ekubeni abantwana bechitha ixesha emakhayeni amabini, wena kunye neqabane lakho langaphambili kufuneka nixoxe nize nivumelane ngemithetho yasekhaya kunye noqeqesho. Ukuba ninomthetho omnye kwelinye ikhaya nomnye kwelinye, abantwana bakho baya kudideka.
Gcina abantwana kude nale micimbi.
Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Musani ukulwa phambi kwabantwana benu. Musani ukuthetha izinto ezimbi ngabanye abantu kubo. Kwakhona, musani ukusebenzisa abantwana benu njengeentlola okanye abathunywa. Loo nto yimithwalo engenakuthwalwa ziingqondo zabo ezincinci.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive ulusizi, unomsindo, kwaye unesizungu emva koqhawulo-mtshato. Zivumele ezo mvakalelo kwaye uzamkele.
- Musa ukuthwala lo mthwalo wedwa. Thetha nomntu omthembayo, okanye nomcebisi oqeqeshiweyo.
- Nyamekela impilo yakho yomzimba nengqondo. Yitya kakuhle, yenza umthambo, kwaye wenze into oyithandayo.
- Ukuba kukho abantwana, bagcine kude ngokupheleleyo neengxaki zabazali babo. Banike uthando, ukhuseleko, kunye nokuzinza .
- Kuthatha ixesha ukuphiliswa. Kufuneka ube nobubele kuwe, ube nomonde. Eli xesha linzima ngokuqinisekileyo liza kudlula. Ungavuka kwakhona unamandla.
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