Ukuba ungumzali womntwana omncinci one-autism, usenokuba uzibuze, "Ndingamfundisa njani umntwana wam ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese?" Oku kungabonakala ngathi ngumceli mngeni omkhulu, kodwa khumbula ukuba abantwana abane-autism, njengabo bonke abanye abantwana, bonwabile kakhulu xa befunda izinto ezintsha. Kwakhona kwandisa ukuzithemba kwabo. Ngoko masithethe ngale nto ngendlela ekhululekileyo neqondakalayo.
Ndingazi njani ukuba umntwana wam one-autism ukulungele ukufundiswa ukuya kwindlu yangasese?
Njengabanye abantwana, abantwana abane-autism babonisa iimpawu ezifanayo zokuba bakulungele ukufundiswa ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Nangona kunjalo, kungathatha ixesha elide ukuba umntwana one-autism alungele. Oku kuqhelekile. Nazi ezinye iimpawu zokukunceda uqonde ukuba umntwana wakho ukulungele na olu qeqesho.
| Uphawu olulungeleyo | Kalula nje... |
|---|---|
| Ukuzama ukunxibelelana | Bazama ukunxibelelana xa i-napkin yabo imanzi okanye xa bekhupha isisu , nokuba ngamazwi, imiqondiso, okanye isixhobo esibancedayo ukuba benze njalo. |
| Ukulandela imiyalelo elula | Ungayiqonda imiyalelo elula enenyathelo elinye okanye amabini (umz., "Yiya kuhlala phantsi kwindlu yangasese") uze wenze ngaloo ndlela. |
| Ukukhangela ubumfihlo | Xa bechama , bazama ukuzimela ekhoneni legumbi, njengasemva kwekhethini. |
| Ukuhlala komile ubuncinane iiyure ezi-2 | Ungachitha iiyure ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu ngexesha lasemini ungamanzisi i-napkin yakho. |
| Ukukwazi ukuya kwindlu yangasese | Ngoncedo lomntu omdala, ungaya kwindlu yangasese, ukhulule impahla yakho, uhlale phantsi. |
| Ukuzimisela ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese | Banomdla kwaye banomdla wokusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Basenokukubuza ngayo loo nto. |
Yintoni esifanele siyenze xa siqeqesha umntwana one-autism ukuya kwindlu yangasese?
Uqeqesho lwendlu yangasese lomntwana one-autism lwahlukile kumntwana ngamnye. Kungathatha unyaka nangaphezulu. Kuxhomekeke kubuntu bomntwana, indlela yokufunda, kunye nezinye iimeko. Umonde ngundoqo apha.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uqale ukholelwe ukuba 'umntwana wam angakwenza oku'. Kufuneka umenze umntwana azive ngaloo ndlela . Oku sikubiza ngokuba 'kubuchule bokuqikelela'.
Ukuba umntwana wakho akathethi, ungadinga enye indlela yokubazisa ukuba kufuneka baye kwindlu yangasese. Ulwimi lwezandla okanye indlela esebenzisa amakhadi emifanekiso (iPECS - Picture Exchange Communication System) inokunceda.
Nazi ezinye iindlela zokunceda umntwana wakho ahambe kolu hambo ngokuba nokholo kwizakhono zakhe:
- Thetha ngendlela efanele iminyaka yomntwana: Kuphephe ukuthetha nomntwana omncinci "ngentetho yosana ." Thetha ngendlela ayiqondayo neyihloniphayo iminyaka yakhe.
- Nceda ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokunxibelelana: Ukuba ukuthetha kunzima, bakhuthaze ukuba baveze izimvo zabo ngemiqondiso okanye ngemifanekiso, njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili.
- Musa ukuthetha ngokungathi umntwana akakho: Xa uthetha ngomntwana wakho komnye umntu ophambi kwakhe, musa ukuthetha ngathi akakho. Mbandakanye kwincoko.
- Qonda ukuba ukuziphatha kukunxibelelana: Umntwana wakho usenokuba uziphatha ngendlela ethile kuba efuna ukuthetha into ethile. Zama ukuqonda isizathu sokuba enze loo nto.
- Vumela umntwana wakho azole: Vumela umntwana wakho enze izinto ezimnceda azole (umzekelo, ukuqhwaba izandla, ukujikeleza - oku sikubiza ngokuba yi-'stimming'). Oku kuya kumnceda alawule uxinzelelo lwakhe.
Ziziphi iingxaki eziqhelekileyo abantwana abane-autism abajongana nazo xa beqeqeshwa kwindlu yangasese?
Nangona ukufundisa abantwana ngendlu yangasese kuyingxaki kubo bonke abantwana, kukho imiba ethile echaphazela abantwana abane-autism kuphela. Ukuqonda le micimbi kunokusinceda sifumane izisombululo.
Iingxaki ngengqiqo yokuqonda ngaphakathi
Ngamafutshane, le yindlela esiziva ngayo izinto ezenzeka ngaphakathi emizimbeni yethu (ulambile, udiniwe, unxaniwe, ufuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese ). Abantwana abane-autism ngamanye amaxesha banengxaki yokubona ezi mpawu. Oku kuthetha ukuba basenokungaqondi ngokupheleleyo ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuya kwindlu yangasese.
Ungenza ntoni? Ngokunxiba ibhulukhwe yokuqeqesha ehlanjwayo okanye impahla yangaphantsi ene-liner, umntwana wakho uya kuqala ukuziva xa emanzi. Oku kuya kunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukuqaphela iimpawu zomzimba wakhe.
Ubunzima bokunyamezela utshintsho kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla
Abantwana abaninzi abane-autism bathanda ukunamathela kwinkqubo ethile, inkqubo apho benza izinto ezifanayo yonke imihla. Uqeqesho lwendlu yangasese luyitshintsha ngokupheleleyo le nkqubo. Endaweni yokutshintsha inabukeni, ngoku kufuneka baye kwindlu yangasese. Olu tshintsho lunokuba luxinzelelo kubo.
Yintoni enokwenziwa?
- Nciphisa utshintsho : Ukuba kunokwenzeka, sebenzisa isihlalo soqeqesho esinamathela ngqo kwindlu yangasese endaweni yembiza yomntwana. Oku kuya kunciphisa inani lezinto ezintsha umntwana wakho ekufuneka aziqhele.
- Sebenzisa Amabali Entlalo: Yenza ukuya kwindlu yangasese kube yinxalenye yemihla ngemihla kwaye uxelele umntwana wakho ibali elifutshane elinemifanekiso.
- Sebenzisa isibali-xesha: Beka isibali-xesha sexesha elithile, kwaye xa siqala ukukhala, zikhumbuze ukuba, "Lixesha lokuya kwindlu yangasese."
- Sebenzisa iishedyuli ezibonakalayo: Yenza ishedyuli ebonakalayo ebonisa imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ngokulandelelana, kuquka namaxesha okuya ngasese. Oku kuya kunika umntwana wakho umbono ocacileyo wokuba usuku lwakhe luza kuhamba njani.
Iingxaki zeemvakalelo
Abantwana abane-autism banokuziva iimvakalelo ezithile kakhulu. Cinga ngeethayile ezibandayo zendlu yangasese, isandi sokugutyulwa, imfuneko engapheliyo yokukhumula nokunxiba impahla... Ezi zinto zinokubacaphukisa kakhulu.
Yintoni enokwenziwa?
Jonga kakuhle indlela umntwana wakho aziphatha ngayo uze uqonde ukuba yintoni emenza angakhululeki.
- Umgangatho obandayo: Beka ikhaphethi encinci okanye iikawusi ezimbini phantsi kwigumbi lokuhlambela.
- Ingxolo yokukhupha umoya: Ukuba unengxaki yokusabela kwingxolo, ungasebenzisa izikhuseli zeendlebe.
- Impahla: Nxiba iibhulukhwe, iibhulukhwe ezimfutshane, nezinye izinto ezilula ukuzinxiba nokuzikhupha ngaphandle kwamaqhosha okanye iiziphu.
Iingxaki zesisu (GI)
Abantwana abane-autism banamathuba amaninzi okuba neengxaki zokugaya ukutya kunabanye abantwana, njengokuqunjelwa kunye norhudo. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kunokubangelwa kukutya okukhethiweyo okanye ezinye iimeko zonyango.
Ukuba uneengxaki zesisu ezinje rhoqo, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kufuneka uthethe nogqirha wakho ngaphambi kokuba uqale uqeqesho lokuhlamba. Ugqirha wakho uya kukuthumela kwingcali yokutya ukuba kuyimfuneko.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Uqeqesho lwendlu yangasese kumntwana one-autism luthatha ixesha. Yiba nomonde, uthando, kwaye usebenze ngesantya somntwana wakho.
- Nika ingqalelo kwiimpawu ezibonisa ukuba umntwana wakho ukulungele. Musa ukumqeqesha ngenkani.
- Okokuqala, kholelwa ukuba ‘umntwana wam angakwenza oku.’ Nika umntwana wakho loo nkolelo.
- Qonda imiba ebuthathaka umntwana ajongene nayo, efana notshintsho kwindlela aqhele ukwenza ngayo izinto, kwaye unike izisombululo ezilula kuyo.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho uneengxaki zamathumbu ezihlala zikho ezifana nokuqhinwa, okanye ukuba uneengxaki, ungaze ungathandabuzi ukufuna ingcebiso kugqirha wakho .
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