Ukuba ngumama okanye utata lelona phupha likhulu kubomi babantu abaninzi. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kunokuba nzima kancinci ukuzalisekisa elo phupha. Kulapho abantu abaninzi baphendukela khona kunyango lwe -IVF ( In Vitro Fertilization ) . Oku kuyintsikelelo ngokwenene kwezonyango. Kodwa olu hambo alulula njengoko ucinga. Ingakumbi kwabo bacinga ukuba, "Hayi indlela ebekuya kuba mnandi ngayo ukuba besinamawele ngaxeshanye," kukho icala elingabonakaliyo kolu hambo. Namhlanje, sithetha ngalo, ngamava okwenyani omfazi ogama linguSpring, ohlala eMelika.
Ibali leNtwasahlobo: Ithemba kunye neNyaniso
USpring ngumfazi oneminyaka engama-32 ubudala. Yena nomyeni wakhe bebezama ukukhulelwa iminyaka emine enesiqingatha, kwaye ekugqibeleni basebenzise unyango lwe-IVF. Umzamo wabo wokuqala we-IVF awuzange uphumelele. Kodwa okwesibini, oogqirha bafaka iimbumba ezintathu esibelekweni sakhe.
Ekuqaleni, ugqirha wathi balindele amawele. Kodwa emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, bafumana iindaba ezimangalisayo - babelindele umntwana wesithathu! Kodwa uvuyo aluzange luhlale ixesha elide. Ukukhulelwa kwesithathu kwaphunza. Ekugqibeleni, iNtwasahlobo ngoku ithwele amawele.
Njengoko esitsho, yonke le nkqubo ifana nohambo olujikelezayo. Umxube ohlala uhleli wezinto ezimnandi nezimbi, ulonwabo , usizi, uloyiko, kunye nethemba.
"Besingalindelanga ukuba namawele. Kodwa ekubeni zombini iintsapho zethu zinamawele, besinombono omncinci wokuba singaba nethamsanqa lokuba nawo. Kodwa xa kufikwa kwi-IVF, ithemba lethu kuphela yayikukuba ngandlela ithile sibe nomntwana osempilweni . Savuya kakhulu xa safumanisa ukuba siza kuba namawele."
"Nam ndifuna amawele" - ingaba le ngcinga iyinyani ngokwenene?
Xa uninzi lwabantu lucinga nge-IVF, bacinga ukuba, "Kungangcono ukuba singaba nabantwana ababini ngexabiso elifanayo kunye nomgudu ofanayo." Leyo yingcinga eqhelekileyo. Kodwa uSpring ubalisa ibali elibaluleke kakhulu ngale nto.
"Ukuba umntu uza kolu nyango ecinga ukuba ufuna amawele, loo nto ayilunganga. Le yinkqubo enzima kakhulu, enzulu. Ichaphazela wena, umyeni wakho, usapho lwakho, wonke umntu ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba. Olu hambo kufuneka luqale kwindawo yokuthi, 'Ndifuna usapho, ndiya kwamkela ngovuyo nawuphi na umntwana uThixo andinika yena.'"
Njengoko esitsho, umntwana yintsikelelo. I-IVF inokuba sisigqibo esinzima ukusenza, kodwa inokuba sisigqibo esifanelekileyo kusapho lwakho. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukubeka phambili injongo yomntwana osempilweni kunye nomama osempilweni kunengcamango yamawele.
Kutheni oku kubaluleke kangaka?
Ngamafutshane, ukuthwala abantwana ababini okanye ngaphezulu endaweni yomntwana omnye (ukukhulelwa okuninzi) kubeka iingozi ezithile kumama nakumntwana. Oku akuyonto yokoyika, kodwa kubalulekile ukuyiqonda.
| Into Engumngcipheko | Inkcazo |
|---|---|
| Umsebenzi wangaphambi kwexesha | Ngaphezulu kwama-60% amawele azalwa ngaphambi kwexesha, nto leyo ebeka abantwana emngciphekweni omkhulu weengxaki zempilo. |
| Ubunzima obuphantsi bokuzalwa | Amawele amaninzi azalwa enobunzima obuphantsi, nto leyo enokufuna unyango kwiyunithi ekhethekileyo yokhathalelo oluphezulu lweentsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa (NICU). |
| Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka kumama | Kukho umngcipheko okhulayo wezifo ezifana nesifo seswekile sokukhulelwa kunye ne-pre-eclampsia ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kukwakho nomngcipheko okhulayo wokufuna utyando lwe-cesarean (C-section). |
| Indawo yokuphumla ebhedini | NjengeNtwasahlobo, oomama abaninzi abathwele amawele kufuneka balale ebhedini ngexesha elithile ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwabo. |
Ngoko ke senza ntoni?
Eli bali alitsho ukuba ungayenzi i-IVF, okanye ukuba amawele akalunganga. Litsho ukuba nengqondo, ube nolwazi olupheleleyo, kwaye ulungele olu hambo ngengqondo.Kuthetha ukujongana nayo .
1. Thetha ngokukhululekileyo nogqirha wakho: Ngaphambi kokuba uqale unyango lwe-IVF, thetha ngamathemba akho, uloyiko lwakho, nayo yonke into nogqirha wakho. Ugqirha ugqiba ngenani leembungu eziza kudluliselwa esibelekweni, ethathela ingqalelo ubudala bakho, imeko yakho yempilo, kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Thetha ngayo ngononophelo kwaye uyiqonde.
2. Ukulungiselela ingqondo: I-IVF luhambo olunzima ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo. Ukufakwa kwee-hormone, ukuskena rhoqo, nokulinda iziphumo konke oku kunokubangela uxinzelelo. Ngoko ke gcina ingqondo yakho izolile kwaye ufune iingcebiso ukuba kuyimfuneko.
3. Fumana inkxaso : Inkxaso yeqabane lakho ibalulekile kolu hambo. Kwakhona, gcina usapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo bakho obathembayo benolwazi. Inkxaso yabo iya kuba ngumthombo omkhulu wamandla kuwe.
4. Cacisa injongo yakho: Injongo yakho yokuqala nekuphela kwayo kufuneka ibe kukuba nomntwana osempilweni . Ukuba namawele yintsikelelo ephindwe kabini. Kodwa musa ukwenza loo nto ibe yinjongo yakho yodwa.
I-IVF bubuchwepheshe obuhle kakhulu obuncede izigidi zezibini ezinengxaki yokungazali. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba, njengoko uqalisa olo hambo, uyazi ubuhle bayo kunye nemingeni yayo, kwaye udlula kuyo ngamandla.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Unyango lwe-IVF lithuba elibalulekileyo lokwenza iphupha lakho lokuba nomntwana libe yinyani, kodwa luhambo olunzima ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo.
- Akubobulumko ukuya kunyango lwe-IVF unenjongo "yokuba namawele." Injongo yakho ephambili mayibe kukuba nomntwana osempilweni kunye nomama osempilweni .
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela iingozi ezinokuvela kumama nakubantwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwabantwana abaninzi.
- Nxibelelana ngokusondeleyo nangokukhululekileyo nogqirha wakho kulo lonke eli xesha. Xoxa naye ngamathandabuzo akho kunye noloyiko lwakho.
- Inkxaso yeqabane lakho kunye nosapho lwakho iya kuba namandla amakhulu kuwe kulo lonke olu hambo.
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