I-IVF, okanye i-in vitro fertilization , lithemba elikhulu kubantu abatshatileyo abanengxaki yokungazali. Kufana nentsikelelo yezonyango zanamhlanje. Kodwa xa sijongene nenkqubo enzima kangaka, sibathemba kangakanani oogqirha bethu kunye neklinikhi apho sinyangwa khona? Kuthekani ukuba kwenzeka into engalindelekanga? Namhlanje sithetha ngebali elibuhlungu neliyinyani. Eli bali lelomfazi ogama linguKelly Gora waseMelika.
Ibali likaKelly: Iphupha Eliphukileyo
UKelly Gora wayephupha ngokuba ngumama, kodwa kwafuneka ayeke elo phupha. Wachitha imali eninzi, engaphezulu kwe-$15,000, waza wenza imijikelo emininzi yokuchumisa umntwana kwi-in vitro (IVF), kodwa akukho nanye kuzo eyaphumelelayo. Wazabalaza ukoyisa intlungu eyayihambisana nayo.
Kodwa emva kweminyaka, ngexesha lophando kwikliniki awayenyangwe kuyo, igqwetha lamfowunela lamxelela ibali elibuhlungu. Oko kukuthi, iimbumba zikaKelly kusenokwenzeka ukuba zanikwa omnye umfazi. Ngelo xesha, uKelly waxelelwa ngoogqirha ukuba iimbumba zifile. "Ngenene bendingenakucinga ngelo xesha ukuba into efana nale inokwenzeka," utshilo uKelly. Khawucinge indlela awayevakalelwa ngayo ngelo xesha? Ukuziva esazi ukuba unikwe ithuba lokuba nomntwana wakhe ngasese komnye umntu!
Bonke oogqirha abathathu ababandakanyeka kwesi siganeko batyholwa. Ababini babaleka kweli lizwe, omnye wagwetywa ngobuqhetseba kwi-inshorensi. Oku kubonisa ubunzulu besiganeko, akunjalo?
Yintoni kanye kanye i-in vitro fertilization (IVF)?
Ngamafutshane, i-In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) yinkqubo yokudibanisa iqanda likamama kunye nedlozi likatata ngaphandle komzimba, kwilebhu, uze emva koko uqhamise iqanda eliphumayo. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kwabo baye bavala iityhubhu ze-fallopian okanye iingxaki zokufumana nokufikelela kwidlozi.
UKelly wayesele ekhulelwe kabini ephuma kwisisu xa wayeneminyaka engama-25 ubudala, nto leyo ethetha ukuba omnye wemibhobho yakhe yesisu kwakufuneka ususwe kwaye omnye wonakele kakhulu. Ngoko ke, oogqirha bamcebisa ukuba aye kwi-IVF.
I-IVF yinkqubo enzima efuna ulawulo nokhathalelo olukhulu. Ibandakanya iqela elikhulu labahlengikazi, oogqirha, iingcali zelebhu, nabanye.
Makhe sijonge indlela le nkqubo esebenza ngayo inyathelo ngenyathelo.
| Amanyathelo | Ingcaciso elula yoko kwenziwayo |
|---|---|
| 1. Ukukhuthaza ukuvundiswa kweqanda | Inaliti yehomoni yemihla ngemihla inikwa ukukhuthaza ama-ovari ukuba avelise amaqanda amaninzi ngaxeshanye. Oku kuhlolwa ngovavanyo lwegazi kunye neeskeni ze-ultrasound . |
| 2. Ukufunyanwa kwamaqanda | Emva kokuba amaqanda evuthiwe, asuswa ngononophelo kwi-ovary ngaphambi kokuba akhululwe, kusetyenziswa isixhobo esincinci (i-laparoscope) esidluliselwa kwilungu lobufazi. |
| 3. Ukuchumisa kwi-vitro | Amaqanda afunyenweyo adityaniswa nesidoda sikatata kwisitya esikhethekileyo (isitya sepetri) aze avunyelwe ukuba achumise. Le yindlela eyenzeka ngayo imibungu. |
| 4. Ukufakelwa kwe-embryo kwisibeleko | Emva kweentsuku ezi-3-5, kukhethwa ii-embryo ezi-2-4 ezilungileyo nezinamandla zize zifakwe esibelekweni sikamama. Ithemba kukuba ezi embryo ziya kunamathela eludongeni lwesibeleko zize zikhule. |
| 5. Ukuqandisa iimbumba eziseleyo | Iimbumba eziseleyo zikwimeko entle zigcinwa ziqandisiwe ukuze zisetyenziswe kwenye indlela kwixesha elizayo, ukuba kuyimfuneko. |
Ingaba le ndlela iphumelele nge-100%?
“Ngenkqubo elawulwa ngolu hlobo, ungacinga ukuba iphumelele nge-100%, kodwa oko akuyonyani,” batsho oogqirha. Izinga lempumelelo kunyango lwe-IVF lidla ngokuba phakathi kwama-25% nama-35% . Kumfazi oselula njengoKelly, oku kungafikelela kuma-50%. Kodwa kumfazi oneminyaka engaphezu kwama-40, kungafikelela kwi-15%.
UKelly uphinde wavelisa amaqanda angama-28 okwesithathu, kodwa akazange akhulelwe. "Nangona oogqirha bendixelele ukuba izinga lempumelelo lifikile, alizange lindichaphazele. Wonke umntu ucinga ukuba uza kuba phakathi kwama-20-30%. Ndixelela abantu ngoku, 'Qalani ngokucinga ukuba akuyi kusebenza, kwaye ukuba kuyasebenza, kuvakala ngathi ngummangaliso.'"
Oku kusilela kwamshiya uKelly edandathekile kwaye umtshato wakhe waqhekeka. Uxinzelelo lwezonyango, iingxaki zemali, kunye nosizi lokungaphumeleli zonke zazinzima kakhulu kubo.
Izifundo esinokuzifunda kwimeko kaKelly
Kuphela emva kwesiganeko sikaKelly apho kwaqala ukwenziwa imithetho malunga nezinto ezinjalo. Ngelo xesha, amazwe amaninzi eMelika ayengenayo imithetho ecacileyo malunga nokuphathwa kwamaqanda kunye neembumba. Oku kusenza siqonde ukubaluleka kokuba nenkqubo efanelekileyo yemithetho kunye nokuziphatha, nokuba ubuchwepheshe bezonyango buphucuke kangakanani na.
Icebiso likaKelly kwabanye abantu abathandana nabacinga nge-IVF kukuba balumke kakhulu. "Ukuba bendivile ibali lam ngaphambi kolu nyango, bendiya kujongana nayo yonke into ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Bendiya kubuza imibuzo emininzi, ndingajongi oogqirha njengoothixo, ndize ndihlale ndijonge amaqanda am kunye neembumba zam. "
Ngoku sele ephinde watshata, uKelly ufumana amandla kwiinkolelo zakhe zonqulo ukuze aphile nengcinga yokuba abantwana angasokuze abadibane nabo basenokuba phandle phaya. "Ndiyazi ukuba uThixo ulawula, hayi abo gqirha. Mhlawumbi loo mfazi wayemdinga loo mntwana ngaphezu kwam. Andazi ukuba kutheni kwenzeke oku. Kodwa ndikholelwa ukuba yonke into yenzeka ngesizathu."
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Nangona i-IVF inika ithemba elikhulu, ayilondlela ephumelele ngokupheleleyo. Ke ngoko, yiba nengqondo malunga nenqanaba lempumelelo yayo.
- Le nkqubo inokuba yingxaki enkulu, engqondweni nangokwezimali, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuba wena neqabane lakho nilungiselele kakuhle.
- Khetha ikliniki yakho kunye nogqirha wakho ngononophelo. Buza ngamava abo, amazinga empumelelo, kunye neziqinisekiso zabo. Khetha indawo enegama elihle nentembeko.
- Musa ukoyika ukubuza imibuzo! Qiniseka ukuba uyayiqonda yonke inyathelo lenkqubo. Qiniseka ukuba ubuza ugqirha wakho ngokuthe ngqo malunga nokuba kuza kwenzeka ntoni kumaqanda akho kunye neembumba, kunye nendlela yokugcina naziphi na iimbumba eziseleyo.
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo okanye uvakalelwa kukuba kukho into engalunganga, ungathandabuzi ukufumana uluvo lwesibini komnye ugqirha. Unelungelo lokwenza izigqibo ngomzimba wakho nangomntwana wakho ozayo.
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