Ngaba wakha waziva ngathi abanye abahlobo bomntwana wakho abaneminyaka yabo bonke bayakhula, amazwi abo ayatshintsha, kwaye babonakala njengabantu abadala, kodwa umntwana wakho usengumntwana omncinci? Oku kuyabaxhalabisa abazali abaninzi, kwaye kunokuba yinto eyoyikisayo. Kuqhelekile ukuzibuza, "Ingaba kukho into engalunganga ngomntwana wam?" Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Namhlanje, siza kuthetha ngemeko ebizwa ngokuba yi- 'Delayed Puberty.'
Yintoni le nto yokufikisa okulibazisekayo?
Ngamafutshane, ukufikisa yinkqubo yokutshintsha ukusuka emzimbeni womntwana ukuya kumzimba omdala okwaziyo ukuzala abantwana. Oku akwenzeki ngobusuku obunye. Le nkqubo ilawulwa kukunxibelelana okuntsonkothileyo phakathi kwengqondo yethu, i-pituitary gland engqondweni, kunye namalungu okuzala omntwana ( ii-ovari kumantombazana kunye namasende kumakhwenkwe).
Iihomoni eziveliswa zezi zitho zezona zibangela olunye utshintsho emzimbeni ngexesha lokufikisa. Kumantombazana, ama-ovari aqala ukuvelisa i-estrogen engakumbi , kwaye kumakhwenkwe, amasende aqala ukuvelisa i-testosterone engakumbi.
Ngokwesiqhelo, amantombazana aqala ukubonisa iimpawu zokufikisa phakathi kweminyaka esi-8 neli-14, kunye namakhwenkwe aphakathi kweminyaka esi-9 neli-15. Ukuba intombazana ayikaqali olu tshintsho xa ineminyaka eli-14 okanye inkwenkwe ineminyaka eli-15 , sikubiza ngokuba 'kufikisa okulibazisekileyo.' Kungcono ukubona ugqirha wakho ukuze ufumane ukuba yintoni ebangela oku. Ugqirha wakho angakuthumela kwingcali yeehomoni, ebizwa ngokuba yi- endocrinologist .
Zithini iimpawu zokufikisa okulibazisekileyo?
Siyaqonda ukuba ukufikisa okulibazisekileyo kukungabikho kotshintsho emzimbeni oluqhele ukwenzeka kuloo minyaka. Makhe sijonge ukuba lo mahluko ungakanani kumantombazana nakumakhwenkwe.
Ukufikisa kwamantombazana
Iimpawu zokufikisa kwintombazana ngamanye amaxesha zinokuqala xa ineminyaka esi-8 ubudala. Ezi zezona nguqu ziphambili.
| Uphawu lokufikisa | Inkcazo |
|---|---|
| Uphuhliso lwebele (iThelarche) | Oku kudla ngokuba luphawu lokuqala oluqalayo. |
| Ukukhula ngokukhawuleza | Ukuphakama komntwana ngequbuliso kuqala ukunyuka ngokukhawuleza. |
| Ukukhula kweenwele emakhwapheni nakwiindawo zabucala | Uboya bomzimba buqala ukubonakala. |
| Ukuqala kokuya exesheni | Oku kwenzeka emva kweminyaka emi-2-3 emva kokuba ezinye iimpawu ziqalile. |
| Ukutshintsha kwesimo somzimba | Utshintsho luyenzeka, njengokuba indawo yesinqe ikhula ibe banzi. |
Nceda uqaphele: Ukuba intombi yakho ayikaqali ukukhula kwamabele xa ineminyaka eli-14 ubudala , okanye ayikaqali ukuya exesheni ngenyanga xa ineminyaka eli-16 ubudala , qiniseka ukuba ucela ingcebiso kugqirha.
Ukufikisa kwamakhwenkwe
Ukufikisa kubafana kudla ngokuqala emva kweminyaka eli-9 ubudala. Olu lolona tshintsho luphambili.
| Uphawu lokufikisa | Inkcazo |
|---|---|
| Ukwandiswa kwamasende kunye nepenis | Olu luphawu lokuqala lokufikisa kwamakhwenkwe. |
| Ukukhula kweenwele ebusweni, emakhwapheni, nakwiindawo zabucala | Ukukhula kweenwele kwiindevu nasemakhwapheni. |
| Ukukhula ngokukhawuleza | Ukunyuka ngokukhawuleza kobude kunye nokwandiswa kwamagxa. |
| Ukujula kwelizwi | Ilizwi "liyaphuka" kwaye ilizwi elinzulu liyadalwa. |
Nceda uqaphele: Ukuba unyana wakho akakaqali ukubonisa naluphi na utshintsho xa eneminyaka eli-15 ubudala , kubalulekile ukuthetha nogqirha ngalo mba.
Kutheni ukufikisa kulibaziseka kangaka? Zithini izizathu?
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyiqonde kukuba ukufikisa kuyahluka kakhulu kumntu nomntu. Nokuba abahlobo bomntwana wakho bafikelele ekufikiseni kwangethuba, umntwana wakho usenokuba usekwinqanaba eliqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho izizathu ezithile zokuba ukufikisa kungalibaziseka.
- Okwentsapho: Khawuthelekelele ukuba wena, oko kukuthi, umama okanye utata wakho, ufikelele ebuntwini emva kwexesha elithile xa wawusengumntwana, kukho ithuba elihle lokuba umntwana wakho enze okufanayo. Le yinto ezuzwe njengelifa.
- Ukulibaziseka kokukhula ngokomgaqo-siseko: Le yeyona nto ixhaphakileyo ebangela ukuba abafana bafikise ixesha elide. Ngamafutshane, aba bafana banesantya esicothayo sokukhula kwamathambo, okanye "ubudala bamathambo," kunabanye. Esi asisosifo. Yindlela umzimba womntwana okhula ngayo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, aba bafana baya kufikelela kwixesha lokufikisa baze bafikelele kubude obuqhelekileyo.
- Izizathu ezisebenzayo: Ngamanye amaxesha ingqondo iyalibazisa ukuthumela isignali ukuvelisa iihomoni. Oku sikubiza ngokwezonyango (i-hypogonadotropic hypogonadism) . Xa esi signali silahlekile, i-pituitary gland ayithumeli umyalezo nokuba kuma-ovari okanye kuma-testicles ukuvelisa iihomoni. Isiphumo kukuba ukufikisa kulibaziseke.
- Isifo esingapheliyo: Ukuba umntwana uneengxaki zempilo ezihlala ixesha elide (umz. isifo seswekile , isifo sezintso , isifuba, isifo se-celiac), oku kunokubangela uxinzelelo olukhulu emzimbeni. Oku kunokukhokelela ekukhuleni okulibazisekayo nasekufikiseni.
- Ukungondleki: Xa umzimba ungafumani izondlo ozifunayo, ukukhula kuyaphazamiseka. Oku kunokubangelwa kukuzilolonga kakhulu, iingxaki zokutya, okanye ukutya okungalinganiyo.
- Iingxaki zemfuza: Ezinye iimeko zemfuza, ezifana ne -Turner syndrome kumantombazana kunye ne -Klinefelter syndrome kumakhwenkwe, zinokubangela ukufikisa okulibazisekayo okanye ukungabikho. Ezi zifuna uvavanyo lwelabhoratri ukuze kufunyanwe isifo.
Iphathwa njani?
Xa usisa umntwana wakho kugqirha, uza kumhlola ngononophelo umntwana aze, ukuba kuyimfuneko, acele uvavanyo lwegazi kunye ne-X-ray yesandla. I-X-ray ingachaza ubudala bamathambo omntwana.
- Ukunyanga imeko efihlakeleyo: Ukuba unobangela wokufikisa okulibazisekileyo yenye imeko yezonyango, unyango olufanelekileyo lwaloo meko luya kubangela ukuba ukufikisa kwenzeke ngokwendalo.
- Ukulinda: Rhoqo, ingakumbi ukuba yimbali yosapho okanye imeko "yokulibaziseka kokukhula komgaqo-siseko", ugqirha uya kuthi, "Masilinde ixesha elide." Kuba aba bantwana ngokwendalo baya kufikelela ekufikiseni, nangona besemva kwexesha elincinci.
- Unyango lweehomoni: Ukuba umntwana wakho uxinezelekile kakhulu, uzikhwebule kubahlobo, uzikhwebule kwezemidlalo, okanye unengxaki ngomsebenzi wesikolo, ugqirha wakho unokugqiba ekubeni aqalise unyango lweehomoni. Oku kuquka ukunika abafana i-testosterone kunye ne-estrogen yamantombazana ngeedosi ezincinci kangangeenyanga ezimbalwa.
Olu nyango lukhuselekile kakhulu. Lunika kuphela 'ukutyhala' okuncinci kwiinkqubo zendalo zomzimba. Emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa, xa iimpawu zokufikisa ziqala, unyango luyayekiswa. Emva koko iihomoni zomzimba zinyamekela ezinye izinto.
Ngaba oku kungachaphazela umntwana ngokwengqondo?
Ewe. Le yindawo ekufuneka siyiqwalasele kakhulu. Nangona le ingeyona imeko iyingozi kwezonyango, inokuba luxinzelelo olukhulu engqondweni yomntwana. Khawuthelekelele indlela ekucaphukisa ngayo ukuba umntwana abe yedwa omncinci ngelixa bonke abahlobo bakhe bekhula.
- Basenokungazithembi .
- Basenokugxothwa kwaye baxhatshazwe ngabanye abantwana.
- Usenokungabandakanywa kumaqela ezemidlalo nakwimisebenzi yoluntu.
- Abanye abantwana banokujamelana neemeko ezifana nokudakumba .
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo onokuyenza njengomzali kukunika umntwana wakho amandla engqondo.Kulungile. Soloko uxelela umntwana wakho ukuba oku kukulibaziseka nje, ukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha uya kukhula njengabahlobo bakhe. Mamela umntwana wakho. Mvumele athethe ngento ayicingayo. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, kukwangumbono olungileyo ukufumana uncedo lomcebisi ukuze athethe nomntwana wakho.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukufikisa okulibazisekileyo yimeko eqhelekileyo. Idla ngokubangelwa yimbali yosapho okanye indlela eqhelekileyo yokukhula emzimbeni womntwana.
- Ukuba intombazana ayibonisi zimpawu zokufikisa xa ineminyaka eli-14 okanye inkwenkwe xa ineminyaka eli-15, kubalulekile ukufuna iingcebiso zonyango.
- Uninzi lwabantwana abanale meko, nokuba banyangwa ngokwendalo okanye ngokwexesha elifutshane, bafumana ubude obuqhelekileyo kunye neempawu zomzimba zabantu abadala ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
- Lumka kakhulu impilo yomzimba yomntwana wakho kunye nempilo yakhe yengqondo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umnike uthando nenkxaso.
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo, ungaze uthembele ekuqageleni kwaye ucele iingcebiso kugqirha ofanelekileyo.
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