Ukuya kudokotela ngezinye izikhathi kungaba yinto eyesabekayo futhi ekhathazayo, akunjalo? Ngokuvamile, udokotela angachitha imizuzu embalwa kuphela nesiguli. Phakathi naleso sikhathi esifushane, sidinga ukubuza yonke imibuzo yethu futhi siqonde ukuthi udokotela uthini. Esikhathini esiningi, siyakhumbula, "O, bengingenakukubuza lokho." Ngezinye izikhathi, izinto ezinjengalezi zingasenza sizizwe sikhungathekile. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Uma uhamba nokulungiselela okuncane, ungathola okuningi kulokhu kuhlangana. Ake sibone ukuthi kuhamba kanjani.
Ngaphambi komhlangano, yenza la malungiselelo ekhaya
Ukulungiselela okuncane ngaphambi kokuya kudokotela kungenza umehluko omkhulu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukubhala phansi lokho ofuna ukukusho kanye nemibuzo ofuna ukuyibuza ephepheni kusenesikhathi . Ungalindeli ukukhumbula konke okusekhanda lakho, ngoba kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ukhohlwe izinto ngokushesha kwakho.
Ukubhala konke ngale ndlela kuzokwenza kube lula kakhulu kuwe nakudokotela, ngoba ungaqhubeka nengxoxo ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa amaphuzu abalulekile.
Nansi indlela yokwenza uhlu lwakho.
| Okufanele ukubhale phansi | Kungani lokho kubalulekile? |
|---|---|
| Izimpawu zakho Isibonelo: ikhanda elibuhlungu, ubuhlungu besisu, isicanucanu. Imininingwane efana nokuthi kwaqala nini, ukuthi kukhulu kangakanani, nokuthi yisiphi isikhathi sosuku esibi kakhulu. | Le mininingwane izosiza udokotela ukuthola isithombe esicacile ngesimo sakho sezokwelapha. |
| Imibuzo okudingeka uyazi Isibonelo: Iyini imbangela yokugula kwami? Kufanele ngenzeni? Ingabe ikhona imiphumela emibi evela kulo muthi? | Uma yonke imibuzo yakho isiphenduliwe, uzoba nokuqonda okucacile ngokwelashwa kanye nokuthula kwengqondo. |
Yonke imithi oyisebenzisayo
Bhala phansi amagama nemithamo yale mithi ngqo. | Eminye imithi ayihambisani. Uma udokotela wakho eyazi yonke imithi oyithathayo, anganquma ukuthi imithi emisha ikufanele yini futhi iphephile. |
Ngaphambi kokuphuma ehhovisi, buyekeza uhlu lwakho lwezinto okufanele uzenze futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uhlanganise konke.
Khumbula lezi zinto uma ukhuluma nodokotela wakho.
Ngezinye izikhathi singase singawaqondi amagama asetshenziswa odokotela. Esimweni esinjalo, ungabi namahloni noma wesabe ukuthi , "Angikuqondi lokho, dokotela."
Odokotela bangabantu abafana nathi. Abazi njalo ukuthi uyakuqonda yini abakushoyo noma cha. Ngakho-ke, uma ungaqiniseki ngokuthile, buza:
"Dokotela, uthe kufanele ngenze lokhu? Ingabe ngiyaqonda kahle?"
Lena indlela enhle yokuhlola kabili lokho okuqondayo. Ungabuza nokuthi kukhona yini izincwadi noma amawebhusayithi ongawafunda kabanzi ngesimo sakho.
Ukwethembeka kubaluleke kakhulu! Ungafihli lutho.
Ngezinye izikhathi udokotela wakho angase akubuze imibuzo engase ibonakale iyimfihlo. Isibonelo, mayelana nokusebenzisa kwakho utshwala nezidakamizwa, impilo yakho yocansi , kanye nemikhuba yakho yokuphila. Le mibuzo ayihloselwe ukukwenza ungakhululeki. Lolu lwazi lubalulekile ekwenzeni ukuxilongwa okunembile nokunquma ukwelashwa okufanele kakhulu kuwe .
Cabanga ngalokhu. Unikezwe imithi yesifo sikashukela , kodwa awuyithathi ngesikhathi. Kwenzekani uma udokotela ekubuza, bese uthi, "Ngiyithatha nsuku zonke"? Udokotela uzocabanga ukuthi umthamo womuthi awanele, noma ukuthi umuthi awusebenzi. Ngemuva kwalokho angakunika umthamo omkhulu nakakhulu. Lokho kuzobangela imiphumela emibi engafuneki, akunjalo?
Ngakho-ke, khuluma iqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi. Yiba neqiniso ngokuthi uphuza imithi yakho ngendlela efanele noma ulandela imiyalelo oyinikiwe. Ukufihla iqiniso kuzonciphisa kuphela ikhwalithi yokwelashwa okutholayo. Kungase kuholele nasekuxilongweni okungalungile.
Thola usizo kubahlengikazi kanye nabanye abasebenzi.
Akuyona nje udokotela wakho kuphela, kodwa nabahlengikazi nabasizi bezokwelapha emtholampilo noma esibhedlela nabo bayindlela enhle yokuthola ulwazi kubo. Ungangabazi ukubabuza ngemibuzo nezinto ezikukhathazayo.
Okokugcina, ukuzilungiselela ngaphambi kokuya kudokotela kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile ekuthatheni umthwalo wemfanelo wempilo yakho. Udokotela omuhle uzohlala ekukhuthaza ukuthi uqonde okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngesimo sakho futhi uhlanganyele ngenkuthalo ekwelashweni kwakho.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ngaphambi kokuya kudokotela, bhala phansi izimpawu zakho, imibuzo, kanye nayo yonke imithi oyiphuzayo ephepheni.
- Uma ungakuqondi okuthile okushiwo udokotela, ungabi namahloni okusho ukuthi “Angikuqondi” noma ukucela ukucaciselwa.
- Khuluma iqiniso lonke njalo ngendlela ophila ngayo kanye nemithi yakho. Ukugodla ulwazi kuzokulimaza.
- Ungumuntu oyinhloko onesibopho sempilo yakho. Yiba ngumlingani osebenzisana nodokotela wakho.
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