Ingabe amakhondomu asebenza kahle ngokuphelele? Ake sithole ngokuqinisekile!

Uma ungumuntu ocabanga futhi okhathalela impilo yocansi , umbuzo othi “Ingakanani ngempela amakhondomu anikeza isivikelo?” kungenzeka ukuthi uke wazibuza, akunjalo? Ngezinye izikhathi ungase uzizwe unamahloni ukukhuluma ngezinto ezinjalo, kodwa ukwazi lokhu ngokucacile nangokunembile kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho kanye nasesikhathini sakho esizayo. Ngakho-ke, namuhla sizokhuluma ngokuningiliziwe ngokuthi ayini amakhondomu, isivikelo asinikezayo, nokuthi ungawasebenzisa kanjani ngendlela efanele.

Ayini amakhondomu? Asebenza kanjani?

Kalula nje, ikhondomu iyisimbozo esincane kakhulu, ngokuvamile i-latex, esigqokwa phezu kwepenisi. Ifana nesikhwama esincane esivikelayo. Inezinjongo ezimbili eziyinhloko. Eyokuqala ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa okungafunwa. Le khondomu ivimbela sperm ukuba singangeni esithweni sangasese ngesikhathi socansi. Inhloso yesibili nebaluleke kakhulu ukuvikela ezifweni ezithathelwana ngocansi ( STIs ). Njengoba ikhondomu ivimbela ukudluliselwa koketshezi lomzimba, inikeza isivikelo ezifweni ezingadluliselwa ngayo.

Kodwa-ke, akuwona wonke umuntu ongagqoka amakhondomu enziwe nge latex . Abanye abantu bangaba allergies ne-latex. Kubantu abanjalo, kukhona namakhondomu angenayo i-latex enziwe ngezinto ezifana Polyurethane Condoms e-polyurethane noma Polyisoprene Condoms e-polyisoprene.

Amakhondomu asebenza kahle kangakanani ekuvimbeleni ukukhulelwa?

Lona umbuzo omkhulu abantu abaningi abanawo. “Ingabe ukusebenzisa ikhondomu kuzokuvimbela ngokuphelele ukuba nomntwana?” Iqiniso liwukuthi, ayikho indlela yokuvimbela inzalo esebenza kahle ngokuphelele.(Ngaphandle kokuyeka ngokuphelele ukuya ocansini.) Kodwa-ke, amakhondomu ayindlela ephumelela kakhulu uma esetshenziswa kahle.

Lapha sidinga ukuqonda izinto ezimbili:

1. Ukusetshenziswa Perfect Use : Lokhu kusho ukusebenzisa ikhondomu njengoba nje kuyalelwe, kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekupheleni, njalo uma uya ocansini. Ngokusetshenziswa Perfect Use , amakhondomu asebenza kahle cishe ngo-98% ekuvimbeleni ukukhulelwa. Lokho kusho ukuthi kwabesifazane abayi-100 abasebenzisa amakhondomu kahle unyaka wonke, cishe ababili bazokhulelwa. Lesi yisilinganiso esihle kakhulu.
2. Typical Use Okuvamile: Kodwa sonke singabantu. Ngezinye izikhathi amaphutha angenzeka. Ufaka ikhondomu sekwephuzile kakhulu, awuyifaki kahle, awuyisebenzisi nhlobo, noma ikhondomu iqhume noma ishelele. Uma uqhathanisa lokhu nezimo zangempela, izinga lempumelelo yamakhondomu Typical Use lingehla lifinyelele cishe ku-87%. Lokho kusho ukuthi kwabesifazane abayi-100 abasebenzisa amakhondomu unyaka wonke, cishe abayi-13 bazokhulelwa.

Ngakho uyaqonda, akunjalo? Impumelelo yekhondomu incike ekutheni uyisebenzisa kahle futhi njalo kangakanani.

Uma ufuna isivikelo esiphezulu ekukhulelweni, kungcono ukusebenzisa olunye uhlobo lokuvimbela inzalo, njengamaphilisi Birth Control Pills , kanye namakhondomu (lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi Dual Protection ). Ungabuza udokotela wakho ngalokhu.

Amakhondomu asebenza kahle kangakanani ekuvikeleni izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi ( STIs )?

Ngaphezu kokuvimbela ukukhulelwa, enye inzuzo enkulu yamakhondomu ukuthi avikela STIs . Uma esetshenziswa kahle, angavimbela STIs ezisakazeka ngoketshezi lomzimba , njenge HIV , Gonorrhea , kanye ne Chlamydia .Amakhondomu ayindlela enhle kakhulu yokuzivikela kuwo.

Kodwa nansi into encane okufanele uyicabange. Kunezifo STIs ezisakazeka ngokuxhumana kwesikhumba Skin-to-skin contact . Isibonelo, ngezifo ezifana ne Herpes , i-HPV (i-Human Papillomavirus – igciwane elibangela izinhlungu zesitho sangasese), noma Syphilis , uma kukhona isilonda sesikhumba noma i-blister endaweni yesitho sangasese engamboziwe yikhondomu, lesi sifo singadluliselwa ngayo. Ngakho-ke, isivikelo esinikezwa yikhondomu kwamanye STIs kungenzeka singabi yi-100%. Kodwa-ke, isivikelo esinikezwa ngokusebenzisa ikhondomu sikhulu kakhulu kunokungavikelwa.

Kungani amakhondomu engasebenzi kahle ngo-100%?

Lokhu kungase kube ngenxa yezizathu eziningana:

• Manufacturing defects okukhiqiza: Lokhu akuvamile kakhulu. Amakhondomu akhiqizwa ngezindinganiso eziphakeme kakhulu.
• Ukugcinwa nokusetshenziswa okungafanele: Amakhondomu angawohloka uma eshiywa elangeni eliqondile, ezindaweni ezishisa kakhulu (njengasesikhwameni, kudeshibhodi yemoto) isikhathi eside. Uma ikhondomu yonakaliswe uzipho noma into ebukhali lapho iphakethe livulwa.
• Ukusetshenziswa okungafanele: Uma ikhondomu ingafakwanga kahle, uma umoya uvaleleke phezulu, uma ifakwa ohlangothini olungafanele, noma uma ifakwa ngemva kokuqala kocansi.
• Ukuphuka noma ukushelela: Lokhu kungenzeka ngezinye izikhathi ngenxa yokukhuhlana ngokweqile, lubrication okunganele, noma ikhondomu ukungabi usayizi ofanele.
• Ukusebenzisa amakhondomu aphelelwe yisikhathi.

Ungayisebenzisa kanjani ikhondomu ngendlela efanele ukuze uvikeleke kakhulu?

Kulungile, manje ake sibone ukuthi ungayifaka kanjani ikhondomu ngendlela efanele ukuze uthole okuningi kuyo. Khumbula lezi zinyathelo ngokucophelela.

1. Hlola Usuku Lokuphelelwa Yisikhathi Expiry Date Kukhona usuku lokuphelelwa yisikhathi olubhalwe ngemuva noma ohlangothini lwephakheji yekhondomu. Njengoba nje ubungahlola ukudla, hlola ukuze ubone ukuthi usuku seludlulile yini. Uma seludlulile, ungalusebenzisi.
2. Vula iphakethe ngokucophelela: Kukhona ukusika okuncane onqenqemeni olulodwa lwephakethe ukuze kube lula ukulivula. Livule ngokucophelela kusukela lapho. Ungalokothi usebenzise noma yini ebukhali njengamazinyo, izikele, noma i-blade. Ukwenza kanjalo kungalimaza ikhondomu.
3. Bamba ikhondomu ngendlela efanele phezulu: Uma ukhipha ikhondomu, bheka ukuthi igoqwe kanjani. Kufanele igoqwe phansi njengesigqoko. Uma uyibamba ngendlela engafanele phezulu, ngeke igoqwe phansi endukwini.
4. Yifake ngemva kokuba ipenisi isimile ngokuphelele: Ikhondomu kufanele igqoke ngemva kokuba ipenisi erect ngokuphelele, nangaphambi kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuxhumana ngokocansi.
5. Susa noma yimuphi umoya ovaleleke esicongweni: Kukhona ingxenye encane efana nengono phezulu kwekhondomu ( reservoir tip ). Yilapho kufanele ukuthi isidoda siqoqeke khona. Sicindezele phakathi kweminwe emibili ukuze ususe noma yimaphi amabhamuza omoya angase avaleleke ngaphakathi. Uma ungakwenzi lokhu, ikhondomu inamathuba amaningi okuphuka.
6. Beka ikhondomu esicongweni sepenisi bese uyigoqa phansi: Goqa ikhondomu kusukela esicongweni sepenisi iye phansi ize imboze ngokuphelele ipipi.
7. Lubricants uma kudingeka: Uma usebenzisa izinto zokugcoba namakhondomu, sebenzisa izinto zokugcoba ezisekelwe Water-based noma Silicone-based kuphela. Ungalokothi usebenzise amafutha (isb., amafutha ezingane, i-Vaseline, uwoyela kakhukhunathi). Amafutha angenza amakhondomu Latex abe buthaka futhi abangele ukuthi aqhekeke.
8. Ngemva kocansi: Ngemva kokukhipha isisu, ngesikhathi ipenisi isamile, bamba isihloko sekhondomu (isisekelo sepenisi) bese ukhipha ipenisi ngokucophelela esithweni sangasese sowesifazane. Lokhu kwenzelwa ukuvimbela ikhondomu ukuthi ingasheleli futhi isidoda singaphumi.
9. Khipha ikhondomu bese uyilahla ngendlela efanele: Khipha ikhondomu epenis, uyisonge ngephepha lesikhumba, bese uyilahla emgqonyeni kadoti. Ungalokothi ulahle ikhondomu endlini yangasese, ngoba ingavimba indlu yangasese.
10. Ikhondomu eyodwa, kanye kuphela! Lokhu kuyinto okufanele uyikhumbule. Ikhondomu ayikwazi ukusetshenziswa ngaphezu kwesisodwa. Ikhondomu entsha kufanele isetshenziswe esenzweni ngasinye socansi.

Ake sicabange ngesigameko esincane?

Cabanga ngombhangqwana osemusha, ake sithi bobabili bayathandeka futhi bayathandeka. Babefuna ukusebenzisa ikhondomu, kodwa ngokushesha futhi bengazi ukuthi bayigqoka kanjani kahle, bayigqoka ngaphandle kokukhipha amanzi ekhanda. Ikhondomu yaqhuma ngesikhathi socansi. Kwenzekani uma lokho kwenzeka? Kukhona ingozi yokukhulelwa kanye STIs , akunjalo? Yingakho zonke lezi zinyathelo zibalulekile.

Wenzani uma ikhondomu iphuka noma ishelela?

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqaphile kangakanani, ngezinye izikhathi izinto ezinjengalezi zingenzeka. Uma lokho kwenzeka, ungesabi ekuqaleni. Kodwa, udinga ukuthatha isinyathelo ngokushesha.

• Ukuhlolwa kwezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi ( STIs ): Kuwukuhlakanipha ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho nihlolwe STI . Lokhu kuhlolwa sekulula kakhulu ukukwenza Urine Test komchamo noma Blood Test . Ungabona udokotela womndeni wakho, Sexual Health Clinic kahulumeni yezempilo yocansi , Family Health Midwife wezempilo yomndeni, noma ikliniki eqhutshwa yinhlangano yokuhlela umndeni (njenge- Family Planning Association ).
• Ukuvimbela Inzalo Emergency Contraception : Uma usola ukuthi ukhulelwe, khuluma nodokotela wakho ngokushesha. Emergency Contraceptive Pills (ama-ECP) ayatholakala ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa ngemva kocansi olungavikelekile. Kufanele athathwe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ngemva kocansi olungavikelekile (ngokuvamile zingakapheli amahora angu-72 noma angu-120, kuye ngohlobo lwephilisi). Akuwona amaphilisi okukhipha isisu. Asebenza ngokuvimbela iqanda ukuthi livundiswe noma iqanda elivundisiwe ukuthi lingene esibelethweni. Buza udokotela wakho ngolwazi olwengeziwe ngalokhu.

Ukubaluleka kokuxhumana okuvulekile

Impilo yocansi akuyona into okufanele ukhathazeke ngayo wedwa.

• Khuluma nomlingani wakho: Ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngokusetshenziswa kwekhondomu, impilo yocansi, kanye nobudlelwano bocansi bangaphambilini kubaluleke kakhulu ekuphepheni kwenu nobabili.
• Khuluma nochwepheshe wezempilo: Zizwe ukhululekile ukukhuluma nodokotela noma isisebenzi sezempilo somndeni nganoma yimiphi imibuzo noma ukukhathazeka onakho ngempilo yakho yezocansi. Bakhona ukukusiza, hhayi ukukwahlulela.

Izwi mayelana nokungahlanganyeli ocansini.

Uma ukhuluma ngakho konke lokhu, kubalulekile ukukhumbula into eyodwa. Okungukuthi, Abstinence ngokuphelele ucansi. Indlela ewukuphela kwayo nethembekile yokuzivikela ngo-100% ekukhulelweni nasezifweni ezithathelwana ngocansi ukungayi ocansini. Lena enye indlela onayo. Unelungelo eliphelele lokunquma ngakho.

Umyalezo Wokugcina Wokuya Nasekhaya

Ngakho-ke, kukho konke esikhulume ngakho, kufanele kucace kuwe ukuthi amakhondomu ayisinyathelo sokuphepha esibaluleke kakhulu uma esetshenziswa kahle.

• Nakuba amakhondomu engasebenzi kahle ngokuphelele, angenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu nezilula zokuvikela ukukhulelwa okungafunwa kanye STIs .
• Impumelelo yamakhondomu incike ekusetshenzisweni kwawo ngendlela efanele kanye nesenzo ngasinye socansi .
• Uma ikhondomu iphuka noma ishelela, ungesabi, kodwa funa iseluleko sezokwelapha mayelana nokuhlolwa STI kanye nokuvimbela ukukhulelwa okuphuthumayo uma kudingeka.
• Khuluma ngokukhululekile ngempilo yakho yocansi nomlingani wakho kanye nochwepheshe bezempilo.
• Yenza izinqumo ezinolwazi. Unelungelo lokwenza izinqumo ngomzimba wakho, impilo yakho, kanye nekusasa lakho. Ngakho-ke, qaphela konke lokhu futhi wenze izinqumo ezihlakaniphile.

Impilo yakho yocansi ingumthwalo wakho. Yinakekele. Uma uneminye imibuzo, ungabi namahloni okubuza udokotela.