Ukukhulelwa yisikhathi esiyigugu kakhulu nesibucayi kuwe, mama okhulelwe. Kuvamile ukuzizwa ukhathazekile futhi ukhathazekile ngoshintsho oluncane phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Ikakhulukazi uma uzwa igama elithi ukuphuphuma kwesisu, noma ubani uyesaba. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nolwazi olufanele ngalokhu, ukuqonda ukuthi ziyini izimpawu, ukususa ukwesaba okungadingekile engqondweni yakho, nokuthatha isinyathelo ngokushesha uma kudingeka.
Kuyini ngempela ukuphuphuma kwesisu?
Kalula nje, ukuphuphuma kwesisu kuwukulahlekelwa ngokwemvelo kwengane esakhula phakathi kwamasonto okuqala angu-20-24 okukhulelwa. Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka kungengenxa yephutha likamama. Ngokuvamile kubangelwa yizimbangela ezingalawuleki, njengokukhubazeka kwe-chromosome embungwini. Nakuba lokhu kuyinto ebuhlungu kakhulu umuntu angadlula kuyo, ukukuqaphela kungakuqinisa wena nomlingani wakho.
Izimpawu ezivame kakhulu zokukhulelwa kwesisu
Esikhathini esiningi, izimpawu zokuphuphuma kwesisu azifiki ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ziyanda kancane kancane. Ukubonakala okuncane kunganda kancane kancane kube ukopha okukhulu. Ngokufanayo, ubuhlungu obuncane besisu bungaqala futhi bube bukhulu kancane kancane. Ake sibone ukuthi ziyini lezi zimpawu eziyinhloko.
Bheka leli thebula lezimpawu ukuze uthole ukuqonda okulula.
| Isibonakaliso | Incazelo yaso |
|---|---|
| Ukopha noma ukubona amabala esithweni sangasese sowesifazane | Lolu uphawu oluvame kakhulu . Lungenzeka ngaphambi kokuba uphuthelwe ukuya esikhathini, ngaphambi kokuthi wazi nokuthi ukhulelwe. Noma kungenzeka ngemva kokuthola ukuthi ukhulelwe. Lokhu kuphuma kwegazi kungenzeka noma kungenzeki ngobuhlungu besisu noma ngaphandle kobuhlungu besisu. |
| Ubuhlungu besisu esingezansi, ubuhlungu bomhlane, noma ukuqaqamba okufana nokuya esikhathini | Lobuhlungu bungaqala kancane kancane bube bukhulu. Ngezinye izikhathi buhlala njalo, ngezinye izikhathi buyafika budlule. Bufana nobuhlungu obuzwayo ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, kodwa bungaba bukhulu kakhulu. Ubuhlungu emhlane ongezansi bungase buvele ngesikhathi esifanayo. |
| Ukukhishwa kwamahlule egazi noma izicubu | Kanye nokopha, ngezinye izikhathi ungase ubone amahlule egazi noma mhlawumbe izingcezu zezicubu ezimpunga/ezipinki ziphuma. Ungase futhi ubone uketshezi olucacile noma olupinki luphuma ngokuzumayo. |
| Izimpawu zokukhulelwa ezinciphile | Isibonelo, ukuzwela noma ubuthakathaka bebele kungase kuphele, noma ukucasuka kwasekuseni kungase kuphele ngokuzumayo. Akuwona wonke umuntu obhekana nalokhu ngendlela efanayo, kodwa abanye abantu bayawubona ngokucacile umehluko. |
Ake sicabange ngalokhu kakhudlwana.
Cabanga nje, uSamantha usekhulelwe cishe amasonto ayisishiyagalombili. Ngokungazelelwe ubona ibala elincane legazi ezingutsheni zakhe zangaphansi. Ekuqaleni, ucabanga ukuthi, "O, lokhu kumele kube okuvamile." Kodwa ngosuku olulandelayo, ukopha sekukhuphuke kancane, futhi isisu sakhe esingezansi siqala ukubuhlungu, njengasesikhathini sokuya esikhathini. Yilapho-ke lapho kudingeka siqaphele futhi sifune iseluleko sezokwelapha ngokushesha.
Isikhathi sokubona udokotela wakho ngokushesha
Ungacabangi ngokushesha ukuthi uphuphunyelwa yisisu ngoba nje ubona esinye noma ezimbili zalezi zimpawu. Lezi zimpawu (ikakhulukazi ukopha okuncane) zingavela nangezinye izizathu ezingenangozi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kodwa-ke, kuwukuhlakanipha ukubheka lokhu njengengozi bese ucela iseluleko sezokwelapha ngokushesha.
Ungalokothi uzishaye indiva lezi zimpawu. Uma unokungabaza okuncane, ungesabi ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho. Kuyinto engcono kakhulu ongayenza kuwe kanye nengane yakho.
Ezimweni ezilandelayo, qiniseka ukuthi ubona udokotela ngokushesha:
- Uma ukhulelwe futhi uphuma igazi esithweni sangasese sowesifazane (noma ubuhlungu besisu noma ungenabo).
- Uma ukhulelwe futhi ubona amahlule egazi ephuma esithweni sakho sangasese sowesifazane.
- Uma unezinhlungu ezinzima ongakwazi ukuzithwala.
Khumbula, ikakhulukazi uma uphuma igazi eliningi (kangangokuthi ucwilise ngokuphelele indwangu yokuhlanza ngehora elilodwa) noma uma uzizwa uphelelwa amandla ngenxa yobuhlungu obukhulu, ungachithi isikhathi bese uya eMnyangweni Wezimo Eziphuthumayo (ETU) wesibhedlela esiseduze.
Kunzima kakhulu ukudlula entweni efana nale, kokubili ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba. Uma uke waba nalokhu, yazi ukuthi akulona iphutha lakho. Awuwedwa. Khuluma nomyeni wakho, umndeni wakho, nabangani bakho othembekile ngalokhu. Udokotela wakho uzokunikeza nokusekelwa ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo okudingayo. Angakunikeza nesiqondiso osidingayo ukuze ulungiselele ukukhulelwa okunempilo futhi.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ungakuthathi kalula ukuphuma kwegazi esithweni sangasese sowesifazane noma amabala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Nakuba kungesona njalo isibonakaliso sokuphuphuma kwesisu, kubalulekile ukwazisa udokotela wakho.
- Ubuhlungu besisu esingezansi, ubuhlungu bomhlane , kanye namahlule egazi noma ukuphuma kwezicubu kungaba yizimpawu eziyinhloko zokuphuphuma kwesisu.
- Uma unesinye noma ngaphezulu salezi zimpawu, ungesabi, kodwa ungalibali, bona udokotela wakho noma uye esibhedlela ngokushesha.
- Ukuqonda ukuthi ukuphuphuma kwesisu ngokuvamile akuyona iphutha likamama kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yengqondo.
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