Sonke sike sabhekana nakho, lapho sisho into eyodwa bese sizwa enye. Zicabange ukhuluma nomngane wakho, esikhundleni segama lakhe, wezwa igama lomngane wakho wakudala. Noma, lapho ukhuluma nothisha wakho esikoleni, wezwa igama elithi "Mama." Kungenzeka ukuthi uhleke kancane unamahloni, kodwa uke wacabanga nokuthi, "Kungani lokhu kwenzeke kimi?" Lokhu kuvamile kakhulu. Namuhla sizokhuluma ngalesi senzakalo esingavamile, kodwa esivamile kakhulu.
Kuyini i-Freudian Slip?
Kalula nje, i-Freudian Slip yilapho sisho into esingayiqondile ngengozi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sikhuluma noma sibhala. Lokhu yilokho esivame ukukubiza ngokuthi "ukushelela kolimi ." Kuyinto evamile kakhulu engenzeka kunoma ubani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhuluma luphi ulimi.
Igama lezokwelapha lalokhu yi -parapraxis . I-American Psychological Association ichaza lokhu ngokuthi: "Ukubonakaliswa okungazi lutho kwemizwa ecindezelwe, engafuneki noma imizwa ephula ukuzivikela kwengqondo eqondayo futhi ivele ngokungazi ngamazwi, izenzo, noma ukubhala." Kuzwakala kuyinkimbinkimbi kancane? Ake sikuchaze kancane.
Lokhu kwathola kanjani igama lakho? Ungubani lo Freud?
Iqanjwe ngoSigmund Freud , udokotela wase-Austria odumile emhlabeni wonke obhekwa njengoyise wokuhlaziywa kwengqondo . UFreud wayekholelwa ukuthi lolu hlobo lwamaphutha lwaluwukubonakaliswa kwemicabango nemizwa ebesiyifihla futhi siyicindezela engqondweni yethu engazi lutho.
UFreud waqala wakufunda lokhu nensizwa ethile. Lapho le nsizwa iphinda umugqa wezinkondlo zesiLatini, yayihlala yeqa amagama athile. Esebenzisa ukuhlaziywa kwengqondo, uFreud wathola ukuthi le nsizwa yayinesipiliyoni esiphazamisayo ngegazi. UFreud waqaphela ukuthi lapho ephinda umugqa wezinkondlo, wayekhunjuzwa ngokungazi ngaleyo nkumbulo engathandeki, futhi wayeweqa lawo mazwi.
Kamuva, wayezoxoxa ngalokhu ngokuningiliziwe encwadini yakhe ethi "The Psychopathology of Everyday Life." Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, lesi simo saziwa ngokuthi "i-Freudian Slip."
Lokho kusho ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi igama elingalungile eliphuma emilonyeni yethu lingaba yimfihlo efihliwe ezinhliziyweni zethu.
Zingabukeka kanjani lezi zinto? Ake sibheke ezinye izibonelo.
La maphutha ayahlukahluka.Kungase kube nezizathu eziningana . Ezinye zezinhlobo eziyinhloko nezibonelo zibhalwe kuthebula elingezansi.
| Isizathu/uhlobo lokuphimisela kabi amagama | Incazelo elula nezibonelo |
|---|---|
| Amaphutha engqondo | Umatasa kakhulu, uphazamisekile, noma ukhohliwe. Akukho ncazelo ejulile lapha. Isibonelo: Esikhundleni sokuthi "Ngifuna ikhofi", yithi "Ngifuna ijazi". |
| Ukucindezelwa | Uzama ukukhohlwa isigameko esibuhlungu esikulimazayo, kodwa kukhona okuthile endaweni okuyo okuvusa leyo nkumbulo futhi, bese ugcina usho into engalungile. Isibonelo: Ukubiza umlingani wakho wamanje ngegama lesoka lakho langaphambili/intombi yakho. |
| Ukugwema | Ugwema ngamabomu umuntu othile, isenzo, noma indawo. Kodwa ngoba kuyakukhathaza ngokungazi, ugcina ukhuluma ngakho ngesikhathi ongasilindele. Isibonelo: Esikhundleni sokuthi "Ngizofika" emsebenzini ongafuni ukuya kuwo, utshelwa ukuthi "Angizi." |
Kungani lokhu kwenzeka kithi? Iyini isici sengqondo?
Kunemibono eminingana mayelana nezimbangela zokushelela kwe-Freudian.
Ithiyori yokuqala nethandwa kakhulu ukuthi imicabango ecindezelwe iyaphuma . Cabanga ukuthi ingxenye ethile yobuchopho bakho izama ukufihla noma ukugwema umcabango. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, enye ingxenye yobuchopho bakho izohlola ukuthi, "Ingabe ngiyifihle kahle?" Khona-ke okwenzekayo ukuthi umcabango obuzama ukufihla uphinde usebenze. Ngakho-ke, lapho sizama kakhulu ukungacabangi ngokuthile, kulapho amathuba okuthi kuphume khona emilonyeni yethu.
Umbono wesibili ukuthi indlela ubuchopho bethu obusebenzisa ngayo ulimiOkuthile okuhlobene. Ngaphambi kokuba sibeke imicabango yethu ngamazwi futhi sikhulume, ubuchopho bethu benza 'ukuzihlela' kancane ukuze babone ukuthi kukhona yini amaphutha kuleyo micabango nokuthi kufanelekile yini ukusho. Kodwa noma kunjalo, ngokwesilinganiso, umuntu wenza iphutha elilodwa noma amabili kuwo wonke amagama ayi-1,000 awakhulumayo. Lokho kusho ukuthi, uma ukhuluma amagama angaba ngu-150 ngomzuzu, ungase wenze amaphutha aphakathi kuka-7 no-22 ngosuku. Ngakho-ke, amaphutha anjengalawa ayingxenye nje yokuxhumana kwabantu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinto ezifana nokuphazamiseka, ukungalali kahle, ukukhathala ngokweqile, kanye nokucindezeleka nakho kungabangela la maphutha.
Ngakho-ke, ingabe lawa ma-Freudian slips angokoqobo? Yebo, angempela. Kodwa akuwona wonke ama-slips olimi okumele abe nencazelo ejulile nefihliwe. Kungaba yiphutha elincane nje.
Yini esingayenza ukuze sinciphise lolu hlobo lwamaphutha?
Uma ukhathazwa ukwenza amaphutha anjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, nansi eminye yezindlela ezilula izazi zengqondo ezincoma ngazo ukugcina ingqondo yakho icacile futhi uyinciphise.
1. Gwema ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Uma ubuchopho bethu bugcwele umsebenzi omningi ngesikhathi esisodwa, ingqondo yethu iyahlakazeka. Ngemuva kwalokho, lolu hlobo lwamaphutha lungenzeka kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, gxila emsebenzini owodwa ngesikhathi. Nikeza ubuchopho bakho ukuphumula kancane phakathi.
2. Kancane kancane bhekana nezinto ozigwemayo (Ukuchayeka kancane kancane)
Ingabe unemicabango ekukhathazayo futhi ozama ukuyigwema? Ukuzama ukuyigwema kumane kuyenza ikhathazeke kakhulu. Kunalokho, zama ukwamukela leyo micabango. Kungaba nzima ekuqaleni. Kodwa njengoba ubhekana nayo ngokulawula, kancane kancane, umthelela wayo uzoncipha futhi ingqondo yakho izokhululeka. Uma udinga usizo ngalokhu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho omethembayo .
3. Thola into ekuphazamisayo
Uma ungakakulungeli ukubhekana nokuthile okukukhathazayo, zama ukuzibandakanya emsebenzini ongakuthatha ukunaka kwakho konke. Kungaba ukufunda incwadi, ukubuka i-movie, noma ukuzivocavoca. Lokhu kungakusiza unciphise ukucindezeleka okwesikhashana.
4. Libazisa umcabango
Uma ungakwazi ukukhipha umcabango ekhanda lakho, beka eceleni isikhathi esincane nsuku zonke sokucabanga ngakho. Isibonelo, zitshele ukuthi, "Ngizocabanga ngale nkinga kusukela ngo-6 kuya ku-6:15 kusihlwa namhlanje, bese ngingacabangi ngayo ngemva kwalokho." Lokhu kungakusiza ukuthi uyeke ukucabanga ngayo usuku lonke.
5. Ukuqaphela nokuzindla
Faka imikhuba yokuzindla nokucabanga enkambisweni yakho yansuku zonke. Lokhu kuzothulisa ingqondo yakho, kuthuthukise ukulawula kwakho ingqondo, futhi kukusize ugxile ekuphileni esikhathini samanje. Lokhu kuzonciphisa iziphazamiso ezibangelwa imicabango engadingekile .
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukushelela kukaFreud kuyinto evamile kakhulu eyenzeka kithi sonke. Ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngakho.
- Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kungaveza izinto ezijulile ezingqondweni zethu. Kodwa, lokho akwenzeki njalo. Esikhathini esiningi, kuyiphutha elincane nje ebuchosheni.
- Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi wenze amaphutha anjalo uma ukhathele, ucindezelekile, noma uphazamisekile.
- Izinto ezinjengokuphumula ngokwanele, ukulawula ukucindezeleka, nokuzindla kungasiza ekunciphiseni lokhu.
- Uma uzizwa sengathi lezi zinto zenzeka njalo ngenxa yesipiliyoni esibuhlungu esijulile engqondweni yakho, kubalulekile ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe. Khuluma nodokotela wakho ngalokhu.
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