Kumelwe ukuba uke wabona omama nobaba bethwele ingane yabo encane esifubeni nasemhlane, beyibopha njengendwangu. Akuyona yini into enhle kakhulu ukuyibona? Empeleni lokhu yilokho esikubiza ngokuthi 'Ukugqoka Ingane'. Lokhu akuyona nje indlela yokubamba ingane. Kunezinzuzo eziningi kuwe nakumntanakho. Futhi kuyindlela elula kakhulu yokukhulula izandla zakho ukuze wenze imisebenzi yasekhaya noma uye esitolo ukuyothenga ukudla. Kodwa-ke, kanye nezinzuzo zalokhu, kukhona nesici sokuphepha okudingeka sisiqaphele. Ake sixoxe ngakho konke lokhu namuhla.
Kungani 'Ukugqoka Umntwana' kukuhle kuwe nakumntwana wakho?
Le ndlela inikeza izinzuzo eziningi kokubili enganeni kanye nawe njengoba unakekela ingane.
1. Ingane ijabule.
Lesi yisona sizathu esiyinhloko esenza abazali abaningi baphendukele kule ndlela. Izifundo zithole ukuthi izingane ezibanjwa ngale ndlela azikhali kakhulu. Kuthiwa uma izingane zibanjwa ngale ndlela okungenani amahora amathathu ngosuku, ukukhala kwazo kuncipha kakhulu. Ikakhulukazi lapho zinezinsuku ezingu-6 ubudala, lapho izingane zikhala kakhulu, ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi izingane ezibanjwa ngale ndlela zikhala ngaphansi ngo-43% emini kanye no -51% ngaphansi kusihlwa.
2. Kwenza kube lula ukuncelisa
Uma ungumama oncelisayo , ukubamba ingane yakho eduze kwesifuba sakho kungenza ukuncelisa kube lula kakhulu. Lokhu kwenza inqubo yokuncelisa ibe ngokwemvelo futhi ibe lula. Kolunye ucwaningo, omama 'ababegqoka ingane' babenamathuba aphindwe kabili okuqhubeka nokuncelisa izingane zabo kuze kube yilapho sezinezinyanga ezi-5 ubudala, uma kuqhathaniswa nonina ababengakwenzi lokho.
Lokhu kuzokusiza futhi ukuthi uzijwayeze lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "Ukondla okuphendulayo." Kalula nje, "Ukondla okuphendulayo" yilapho upha ingane yakho ukudla ngokushesha nje lapho ikhombisa izimpawu zendlala (njengokunyakaza komlomo noma ukuncela). Kutholakale nokuthi omama 'abagqoka izingane' banamathuba amaningi okusebenzisa le ndlela.
3. Kuhle kakhulu empilweni yengane
Ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi ukuthintana kwesikhumba nengane yakho kuzuzisa kakhulu ekukhuleni kwayo. Siphinde sikubize ngokuthi 'ukunakekelwa kwe-Kangaroo' . Izinzuzo zengane yakho zifaka:
- Bhala kahle.
- Isilinganiso senhliziyo siyaqina.
- Ukukhala kunciphisa.
- Ukwanda kwesisindo.
- Ukuncelisa isikhathi eside.
- Izindlela zokuphefumula ziyathuthuka.
- Izinga lomoya-mpilo egazini (i-Oxygen saturation) lisezingeni elihle. Lokhu kunquma ukuthi izitho zomntwana zithola umoya-mpilo owanele yini.
Ngempela?Awudingi ngempela 'i-Baby Carrier' ukuze wenze i-Kangaroo Care . Kodwa-ke, ukusebenzisa i-carrier kwenza kube lula ngawe ukuthwala ingane yakho, wenze imisebenzi yasekhaya, futhi wenze umsebenzi wakho. Ngakho-ke 'Ukugqoka Ingane' kuyindlela elula kakhulu yokuthola izinzuzo ze-'Kangaroo Care'.
Ingabe udinga ukukhathazeka ngokuphepha lapho 'Ugqoka Umntwana'?
Yebo, impela. Ingozi enkulu lapha ukuminyana , ikakhulukazi ezinganeni ezingaphansi kwezinyanga ezine ubudala. Kule minyaka, imisipha yentamo yezingane ibuthakathaka, ngakho-ke azikwazi ukulawula ikhanda lazo kahle. Ngakho-ke uma umlomo nekhala lomntwana livalekile, ingane ingase ingakwazi ukuphefumula. Futhi, ukubamba ingane endaweni ethi 'C' kungabangela ubunzima bokuphefumula.
Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Uma ukwazi lokhu futhi ukwenza kahle, ungajabulela izinzuzo 'zokugqoka ingane' ngaphandle kokwesaba.
Ngenxa yalokhu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula imithetho ebizwa ngokuthi "AMATHIKHI" evezwa ochwepheshe.
| Incwadi | Incazelo kanye nalokho okufanele ukukhumbule |
|---|---|
| T — Iqinile | Isithwali osisebenzisayo kufanele siqine ngokwanele ukugcina ingane yakho inamathele emzimbeni wakho. Ungavumeli ukuthi ilengame. |
| Mina — Ngibonakala ngaso sonke isikhathi | Kufanele ukwazi ukubona ubuso bomntwana uma ugoba ikhanda lakho. Akunakwenzeka nhlobo ukuthi ubuso bumbozwe ngendwangu. |
| C — Kuseduze ngokwanele ukuqabulana | Ikhanda lomntwana kufanele lisondele kakhulu esilevini sakho ngangokunokwenzeka, likude ngokwanele ukuthi ungamanga umntwana kancane ebunzini uma ugoba ikhanda lakho. |
| K — Gcina isilevu singaphandle kwesifuba | Ungavumeli isilevu sengane yakho sithinte isifuba sayo. Lokhu kungenza kube nzima ngayo ukuphefumula. Kufanele ukwazi ukufaka okungenani umunwe wakho owodwa phakathi kwesilevu nesifuba sayo. |
| S — Isekelwa emuva | Umhlane womntwana kufanele uqonde. Ungambambi ngesimo sika-'C' noma ugobe. Umhlane kufanele usekelwe kahle. |
Yiziphi izinhlobo zezithwali ezingasetshenziswa ukuthwala umntwana? (Izinhlobo zezithwali)
Kunezinhlobo eziningi ezahlukene zezithwali zezingane kanye nezihlikihli emakethe. Kuye ngokuthi wenzani kanye nobudala bengane yakho, izinhlobo ezahlukene zingase zifaneleke kakhulu. Abanye abazali bashintsha izithwali zezingane nsuku zonke, kanti abanye basebenzisa ezifanayo kusukela kosana olusanda kuzalwa kuya koludala. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha luphi uhlobo, kubalulekile ukufunda imiyalelo eza nalo ngokucophelela futhi uqonde ukuthi ungalisebenzisa kanjani ngokuphephile .
| Uhlobo Lwenkampani Yenethiwekhi | Incazelo encane ngakho |
|---|---|
| Ama-wraps ezingane | Lezi zifana nemicu emide yendwangu. Ungazisonga emzimbeni wakho bese ubamba ingane yakho esifubeni noma emhlane. Ziza ngezindwangu ezinwebekayo nezilukiwe. Ezinwebekayo zilungele izingane ezisanda kuzalwa. Ezilukiwe ziqine ngokwanele ukuthi zingasetshenziswa ngisho nasezinsaneni ezindala. |
| Amaphakethe nezilingi zendandatho | Lezi zigqokwa phezu kwehlombe elilodwa njengeshawuli. Indwangu igoqwa ukuze yakhe isikhwama esincane sokubamba ingane. Izilingi zendandatho zinendandatho kuzo ongazilungisa ukuze zivumelane nezidingo zakho. Izikhwama azikwazi ukulungiswa ngaleyo ndlela. |
| Isithwali esinesakhiwo esithambile | Lezi zifana nesikhwama sangemuva, kodwa zingagqokwa kusukela ngaphambili. Zinebhande lesinqe kanye nezintambo zamahlombe ezifakwe indwangu. Zingalungiswa ukuze zivumelane namabhande. |
| I-Meh dais | Lezi uhlobo lokuthwala olwenziwe ngesitayela sase-Asia. Izintambo ezixhunywe endwangu eyisikwele ziboshelwa okhalweni nasemahlombe. Lezi zingasetshenziswa ukubamba umntwana ngaphambili, ngemuva, noma okhalweni. |
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- 'Ukugqoka Ingane' kuyindlela enhle yokuqinisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwakho nengane yakho, ukuzola ingane yakho, nokwenza umsebenzi wakho ube lula.
- Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuphepha . Landela njalo imithetho ethi "TICKS". Hlola njalo ukuthi ikhala nomlomo wengane akumboziwe nokuthi indlela yokuphefumula icacile.
- Ufuna ukwazi ukubona ubuso bomntwana wakho ngaso sonke isikhathi. Khetha isithwali esisekela kahle umhlane womntwana wakho futhi esivumela ukuthi ahlale eqonde.
- Khetha i-carrier efanele iminyaka nesisindo sengane yakho. Funda indlela efanele yokuyisebenzisa.
- Uma unemibuzo noma ukukhathazeka, ikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho yazalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma inezinye izinkinga zempilo, khuluma nodokotela wakho ngaphambi kokuqala 'Ukugqoka Umntwana'.
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