Sɔntɛnde yu kin fil se di bad we aw yu pikin de du tin tumɔs smɔl? Dɛn nɔ kin de stil, dɛn nɔ de lisin, dɛn kin fɛt ɔltɛm, dɛn kin rili traŋa... Dɛn tin ya na jɔs nɔmal tin dɛn we wi kin du we wi smɔl, ɔ sɔntin de we wi nid fɔ pe spɛshal atɛnshɔn to? If yu pikin gɛt prɔblɛm wit aw i de pe atɛnshɔn, dat na ADHD, chans de fɔ mek dɛn gɛt ɔda tin dɛn bak. Wi kin kɔl dɛn kɔmɔrɔbiditi ya. Wan pan de tin wae kin pasmak na ODD, wae tinap fɔ oppositional defiant disorder. Infakt, masta sabi bukman dɛn biliv se 4 pan tɛn pikin dɛn we gɛt ADHD kin gɛt ODD bak. So lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis smɔl mɔ.
Wetin na ADHD ɛn ODD?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, dɛn tin ya na tu difrɛn kayn tin dɛn we dɛn kin si pan pikin dɛn.
ADHD (Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) na wan sik wae de kam na yu bren wae kin de te yu big. Pikin we gɛt ADHD kin gɛt bɔku men prɔblɛm dɛn.
- Nɔ pe atɛnshɔn : Nɔ ebul fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan wan tin fɔ lɔng tɛm.
- Hyperactivity: Na di abit fɔ nɔr de rɛst ɛn de rɔn ɔltɛm.
- Impulsive behavior: Fɔ du tin di tɛm we yu de du tin, we yu nɔ tink bɔt di bad tin dɛn we go apin to yu.
ODD ( Oppositional Defiant Disorder ) na wan prɔblɛm we kin apin we pɔsin de biev we dɛn kin no mɔ we dɛn smɔl. Pikin we gɛt ODD kin tipikul:
- Nɔ wok togɛda (Uncooperative).
- Stubborn, defyant.
- Agresiv (Agr ESS ive) we de mek pɔsin gɛt prɔblɛm.
E izi fɔ kɔnfyus dɛn tu tin ya bikɔs sɔm pan dɛn sik ya kin fiba. Bɔt bɔku tɛm di tin dɛn we kin mek i apin kin difrɛn . Fɔ ɛgzampul, ADHD na wan sik we pɔsin kin gɛt frɔm in jɛnɛtiks . Dis min se if pɔsin na di famili gɛt am, yu pikin sɛf go gɛt am. Pikin dɛn we gɛt ADHD kin rili at fɔ kɔntrol dɛn bihayvya.
Bɔt bɔku tɛm ODD na prɔblɛm we pɔsin kin lan ɔ we i de divɛlɔp . If pikin kin vɛks ɔltɛm, agyu wit big pipul dɛn, pwɛl tin dɛn, ɔ du bad to ɔda pipul dɛn bay wilful, dat kin gɛt fɔ du wit di we aw i de biev we nɔ lɛk ɔda pipul dɛn.
Di sem tin ɛn di sayn dɛm fɔ dɛn tu tin ya
Insay dɛn tu tin ya, di kemikal dɛn kin chenj na di brenDis kin mek i nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol insɛf, i kin mek i biev kwik kwik wan, ɔ i kin mek i vɛks. Dɛn tu tin ya kin apin to bɔy pikin dɛn pas gyal pikin dɛn.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat fɔ mek dɔktɔ no bɔt ɛni wan pan dɛn sik ya, di pikin fɔ dɔn gɛt di sayn dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit am fɔ at le 6 mɔnt ɔltɛm .
Bɔrku tɛm, mama ɛn papa kin dismis dɛn bihayvya ya as "childhood mischief." Bɔt pikin dɛn we gɛt dɛn kayn tin ya nɔ kin wɛl frɔm dis "tɛm" izi wan lɛk ɔda pikin dɛn. Sɔmtɛm, de sik kin shɔt as dɛn de ol, mɔr lɛk if de sik nɔr so bad. Bɔt fɔ sɔm pikin dɛn, dɛn tin ya nɔ kin ɛva kɔmɔt.
Si di tebul dɔŋ ya fɔ no klia wan ɛn ɔndastand di sayn dɛm fɔ dɛn tu sik ya.
| Di sayn dɛn we de sho se pɔsin gɛt ADHD | ODD simptom dɛn |
|---|---|
| Nɔ ebul fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan wan tin | Ɔltɛm, i kin vɛks bad bad wan |
| I izi fɔ mek i nɔ pe atɛnshɔn to am | Fɔ agyu wit big pipul dɛn ɔltɛm |
| Fɔ mek mistek dɛn we yu nɔ tek tɛm mek | Fɔ nɔ gri fɔ du wetin big pipul dɛn se |
| Fɔgɛt tin dɛn | Fɔ aks kwɛstyɔn ɔltɛm ɛn nɔ fɔ gri wit di lɔ ɛn rigyuleshɔn dɛn |
| I nɔ izi fɔ ɔganayz di wok | Fɔ du tin fɔ mek ɔda pipul dɛn vɛks ɔ fɔ mek dɛn vɛks |
| Nɔ ebul fɔ sidɔm stil, we de muv rawnd ɔltɛm | Fɔ blem ɔda pipul dɛn fɔ di mistek dɛn we i mek |
| Fɔ ambɔg ɔda pipul dɛn we dɛn de tɔk, fɔ tɔk tumɔs | Fɔ vɛks izi wan bikɔs ɔf ɔda pipul dɛn |
| Fɔ du tin kwik kwik wan we yu nɔ tink bɔt di bad tin dɛn we go apin to yu | Fɔ vɛks, fɔ tɔk bad ɔ fɔ du bad, fɔ tray fɔ revaŋg |
Dɛn sayn ya kin mek i nɔr gɛt bɛtɛ ɔnɔ fɔ insɛf , i nɔ kin izi fɔ mek padi ɛn kip padi, ɛn i nɔ kin du wɛl na skul.
So wetin na di men difrɛns bitwin dɛn tu?
Di men difrɛns na dat , pan ADHD, i nɔ kin izi fɔ mek di pikin pe atɛnshɔn ɛn i kin du tin pasmak . Insay ODD, di pikin kin traŋa, i kin vɛks, ɛn i kin du am bay wilful .
Sɔm ɔda chenj dɛn de:
- Ej: Di sayn dɛm fɔ ADHD kin apin bifo pikin ol 12 ia . Sɔm pikin dɛn kin bigin as ali as dɛn ol 3 ia. Bɔt di ODD sayn dɛn kin apin ivin bifo tɛm, bɔku tɛm bifo i ol 8 ia , ɛn sɔm tɛm dɛn kin ivin apin kwik kwik wan we i smɔl.
- Rizin: Bɔku tɛm, ADHD kin kɔmɔt frɔm dɛn jɛnɛtiks . Dat min se, na sɔntin we de rɔn na di famili. Mɛmba se, ADHD nɔ kin kam bikɔs ɔf di bad we aw dɛn de mɛn pikin ɔ we dɛn de yuz TV/fon tumɔs. Bɔt masta sabi pipul dɛn biliv se ODD na divɛlɔpmɛnt prɔblɛm ɔ sɔntin we dɛn kin lan . Dat min se pikin kin falamakata di bad we aw i de biev, lɛk we ɔda pipul dɛn lɛk in mama ɛn papa ɔ ticha dɛn kin kɔrɛkt am ɔltɛm ɔ we i de kɔrɛkt am bad bad wan. Sɔntɛnde, dɛn kin du dat fɔ mek yu pe atɛnshɔn to am.
Aw dɛn kin no ɛn trit dɛn sik ya?
Nɔr patikyula tɛst nɔr de fɔ no ɛni wan pan dɛn sik ya. If yu pikin sho dɛn sik ya fɔ pas 6 mɔnt, mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu pikin in dɔktɔ .
Di dɔktɔ go tɛst fɔs fɔ si if na ɔda sik na in bɔdi, aksidɛnt, ɔ wan sayd ɛfɛkt we di mɛrɛsin gɛt. If dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ fɛn ɛnitin we de mek di pikin gɛt prɔblɛm wit in bɔdi, dɛn go sɛn di pikin to saykayatrist ɔ sayɛnsman we spɛshal pan pikin ɛn yɔŋ pipul dɛn maynd wɛlbɔdi.
Dɛn go wach di pikin in bihayvya tru spɛshal intavyu ɛn kwɛshɔn ɛn gi kɔrɛkt diagnosis.
Wetin na di tritmɛnt dɛn we yu kin gɛt?
If dɛn no se yu pikin gɛt dɛn tu sik ya, yu dɔktɔ kin tɛl yu fɔ yuz ɔda tritmɛnt dɛn.
- Mama ɛn papa trenin: Dɛn kin tich mama ɛn papa dɛn aw fɔ mek dɛn padi biznɛs wit dɛn pikin strɔng ɛn aw fɔ kɔntrol di we aw dɛn pikin de biev. Dis na di fɔs layn fɔ tritmɛnt. I de tich dɛn aw fɔ prez dɛn pikin in gud abit ɛn aw fɔ ignore bad bihayvya.
- Famili tritmɛnt: Bikɔs di pikin in sik kin afɛkt di wan ol famili, ɔlman na di famili kin sɔpɔt dɛnsɛf bay we dɛn tek pat pan advays togɛda.
- Skul sɔpɔt: Yu kin tɔk to di skul ɛn gɛt di sɔpɔt we yu pikin nid. Dis inklud klia lɔ dɛn ɛn blɛsin fɔ pɔsin we i biev fayn.
- Mɛrɛsin: Stɔdi dɔn sho se mɛrɛsin fɔ ADHD (lɛk `saykostimulant`) kin rili wok fɔ kɔntrol di simptom dɛm we dɛn tu kɔndishɔn ya de togɛda. Dɛn tin ya kin mek di pikin pe atɛnshɔn mɔ ɛn i kin mek i nɔ biev fayn ɛn i kin mek i nɔ biev fayn. Mɛrɛsin nɔto mɛrɛsin, bɔt i kin ɛp fɔ mek di pikin in layf izi ɛvride. If yu notis ɛni sayd ɛfɛkt, tɛl yu dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- If yu pikin de sho se i gɛt ADHD ɛn ODD, i rili impɔtant fɔ go to dɔktɔ kwik kwik wan . Nɔ delay fɔ aks fɔ ɛp.
- Pan ɔl we dɛn tin ya kin kɔntinyu te i big, di rayt tritmɛnt kin kɔntrol di sik dɛn ɛn ɛp di pikin fɔ liv fayn layf.
- As mama ɛn papa dɛn, una fɔ no bɔt dis as una ebul. I go ɛp fɔ mek yu pikin in layf bɛtɛ ɛn di padi biznɛs bitwin yu ɛn yu pikin.
- If yu fil se yu wangren de ɔ yu strɛs we yu de travul, jɔyn sɔpɔt grup dɛn fɔ mama ɛn papa dɛn we dɔn gɛt di sem kayn ɛkspiriɛns . I go gi yu bɔku trɛnk.











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