Imajin se yu kin rili want bak fɔ go bay tin wit yu pikin, fɔ go pati na yu fambul in os, ɔ at ɔl na pak. Bɔt... we yu pikin go de, yu de fred se i go vɛks wantɛm wantɛm, ala, ledɔm na grɔn ɛn kray, ɛn ɔda pipul dɛn go luk yu strenj wan, nɔto so? Dis ɛkspiriɛns nɔto fɔ yu nɔmɔ, bɔt i kɔmɔn fɔ bɔku pan wi as mama ɛn papa fɔ pikin dɛn we gɛt ɔtizm. Bikɔs ɔf dis, bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin ivin stɔp fɔ go wit dɛn pikin. Bɔt yu tink se i rili nid fɔ tan lɛk dat? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis smɔl.
Wetin na ɔtizm simpul wan?
Fɔs, lɛ wi ɔndastand dis. Ɔtizm nɔto sik. na nyurodivεlכpmεnt kכndishכn we de rilet to di bren divεlכpmεnt. Fɔ tɔk di kɔrɛkt tin, dɛn kɔl am Ɔtizm Spɛktrum Disɔda (ASD) . Di wɔd "spɛktrum" na bikɔs di kɔndishɔn kin difrɛn bad bad wan frɔm wan pɔsin to ɔda pɔsin. Di sayn dɛm we wan pikin kin gɛt kin difrɛn frɔm ɔda pikin.
Dɛn pikin ya kin gɛt bɔku men prɔblɛm dɛn:
- I nɔ kin izi fɔ mek pɔsin gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn : Sɔm nɔ kin lɛk fɔ tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn, fɔ ple, ɛn fɔ mek dɛn luk dɛn yay.
- I nɔ kin izi fɔ tɔk to dɛnsɛf: Sɔm pikin dɛn nɔ kin tɔk bɛtɛ ɔ nɔ kin tɔk atɔl. Ɔda pipul dɛn kin yuz wɔd dɛn bɔt dɛn nɔ kin ɔndastand wetin dɛn min gud gud wan.
- Ripit bihayvya: Fɔ du di sem tin bak ɛn bak. Fɔ ɛgzampul, fɔ wev yu an dɛn di sem we, fɔ ple wit di sem tɔys di sem we.
Bɔt pas ɔl, di big prɔblɛm fɔ bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn na di tin dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit di we aw dɛn pikin ya kin fil bad. Lɛ wi tek tɛm luk dat naw.
Wetin rili na dɛn tin ya we kin mek pɔsin fil fayn?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, wi bren de tek infɔmeshɔn (we wi de si, sawnd, smɛl) frɔm wi fayv sɛns dɛn (ay, yes, nos, tɔŋ, skin), de prosɛs am, ɛn ansa am. Wi kɔl dis prɔses Sɛns Prɔsesin . Dis prɔses kin difrɛn smɔl pan pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm. Dis kin mek dɛn no tin dɛn we nɔmal pɔsin nɔ go no atɔl ɔ dɛn nɔ kin si tin dɛn atɔl.
Dis kin apin tu men we dɛn.
| Di kayn we aw pɔsin kin gɛt sɛnsitiviti | Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan... | Ɛgzampul dɛn we wi kin si na Sri Lanka |
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| I kin mek pɔsin fil bad pasmak | Di sɛns dɛn kin fil tin pas aw i kin fil , so dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ sɔlv dɛn. |
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| I nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ sɛns | Dɛn kin fil smɔl pas aw dɛn kin fil , so dɛn kin luk fɔ dɛn kayn tin dɛn de. |
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Naw yu go dɔn ɔndastand wetin mek yu pikin kin wɔri wantɛm wantɛm na wan shopin mal? No bi bikos im bi bad pikin. We di layt, nɔys, krawd, ɛn smel ɔl nak in bren wan tɛm, i nɔ ebul fɔ bia wit am. Da tɛm de, i kin ala ɛn kray fɔ lɛ i nɔ gɛt di prɛshɔn we i de fil.
Di situeshɔn na di wɔl ɛn wetin wi kin du na Sri Lanka
Naw bɔku pipul dɛn dɔn no bɔt dis na kɔntri dɛn lɛk Amɛrika ɛn Yurop. Sɔm ples dɛn lɛk sinima, stediɔm, ɛn myuziɔm dɛn kin put spɛshal de ɔ tɛm dɛn as "Sensory-Friendly." Insay dɛn tɛm dɛn de, dɛn kin mek di layt dɛn nɔ de shayn bɛtɛ, dɛn kin mek di nɔys nɔ bɔku, ɛn dɛn kin mek di pipul dɛn nɔ bɔku. Dɛn kin tren di wan dɛn we de wok de bak fɔ no aw fɔ dil wit dɛn pikin ya.
Bɔt i at fɔ wi na Sri Lanka fɔ ɛkspɛkt dɛn kayn spɛshal tin dɛn de ɔlsay, nɔto so?Bɔt dat nɔ min se wi nɔ go ebul fɔ du ɛnitin. Lɛ wi tray fɔ mek ples we go fayn fɔ wi pikin. Na sɔm tin dɛn we yu kin du:
Fɔ plan na di fɔs tin we yu fɔ du.
Plan gud gud wan bifo yu go ɛnisay.
- Pik tɛm we pipul dɛn nɔ go bɔku: Ivin we yu de go na supamakit, pik tɛm we nɔ gɛt bɔku pipul dɛn, lɛk ali mɔnin insay di wik. Nɔ go na ivintɛm insay di wikɛnd.
- Briŋ tin dɛn we yu pikin nid: If yu pikin de fil fɔ mek nɔys, kam wit ɛdfɔn dɛn we de kansel nɔys . If dɛn kin fil fɔ de na do, kam wit sanglas ɛn hat. Mek dɛn ol wan tɔys we dɛn lɛk ɔ sɔntin we dɛn fil sef insay, lɛk blankit.
- Tɛl yu pikin bifo tɛm: Tɛl yu pikin bifo tɛm bɔt usay yu de go. If i pɔsibul, sho dɛn sɔm foto dɛn fɔ di ples na yu fon. Simply explein, "Wi de go ya en wi go kam bak soon wit dis tins."
Start smɔl.
Nɔ go big trip dɛn wan tɛm. Start wit smɔl trip dɛn, lɛk fɔ go na di stoa we de nia yu os. If dat wok, spɛn smɔl mɔ tɛm na do nɛks tɛm. Gi yu pikin tɛm fɔ ajɔst to di envayrɔmɛnt smɔl smɔl.
Nɔ fred fɔ aks fɔ ɛp.
If yu plan fɔ go na rɛstɔrant, yu kin kɔl bifo tɛm ɛn tɔk to di manija we de de ɛn ɛksplen wetin apin. Aks, "Wi pikin de mek nɔys smɔl, yu kin duya rɛzɛv tebul na say we kwayɛt?" Bɔku tɛm, dɛn go gladi fɔ ɛp.
If di pikin de gɛt prɔblɛm, lɛf am.
If pan ɔl dis, i nɔ izi fɔ yu pikin fɔ de de, natin nɔ bad fɔ lɛ yu kɔmɔt de. Nɔ wɔri bɔt wetin ɔda pipul dɛn de tink. Yu pikin in maynd wɛl na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ, dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn, ɔ dɔktɔ we de mɛn yu pikin bɔt aw yu pikin de biev. Dɛn go ebul fɔ tɛl yu ɛksaktɔli wetin na yu pikin in patikyula sɛns ɛn aw fɔ manej dɛn.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Ɔtizm nɔto yu fɔlt ɔ yu pikin in fɔlt. Na kondishon wae nid for andastan.
- Yu pikin nɔ de akt na do bikɔs i wikɛd, bɔt na bikɔs i nɔ ebul fɔ tinap fɔ di envayrɔmɛnt.
- If yu tek tɛm plan ɛn sɔm trik dɛn, yusɛf go ebul fɔ travul wit yu pikin fayn fayn wan.
- Nɔto yu wan de na dis waka. Go to dɔktɔ ɛn sɔpɔt fɔ mɛn yu if nid de.
- As mama ɔ papa, yu maynd wɛlbɔdi bak rili impɔtant. Tek kia ɔf yusɛf gud gud wan.
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