Inthen hnua fate rilru ti na lovin engtin nge kan enkawl ang? (Inthen hnua Nu leh Pa nihna) .

Inthenna hi nu tan, pa tan leh naupang tê tê tan pawha hrehawm tak a ni. Inneihna tihtawp tura thutlukna i siam hnuah nu leh pa i nih anga i hlauh ber pakhat chu, ‘Kan harsatna avang hian naupang chu eng nge thleng ang?’ tih hi a ni. 'Naupang hmalam hun a hlauhawm dawn em ni?' Hetiang thil ngaihtuah hi thil pangngai tak a ni. Mahse, thu lawmawm a awm. Inthenna hian naupang nun a tichhe kher a ngai lo. Nu leh pa angin inthenna a thlen hnua in hmachhawn danah a innghat vek a ni.

Inthenna hian naupang hmalam hun a nghawng tak tak em?

Hemi chungchangah hian ngaihdan hrang hrang a awm. Zirchianna ṭhenkhat chuan nu leh pa inṭhen tawh fate chuan dam chhung zawngin nghawng ṭha lo an nei thei tih an sawi. Chumi awmzia chu an lo puitlin chuan thil sual tihna an nei tam zawk a, ruihhlo an hmang nasa zawk a, an inlaichinnaah harsatna an nei tam zawk tihna a ni .

Amaherawhchu, zirchiangtu dang tam tak chuan nupa inthen hi naupang dam chhung hremna a ni lo, an ti. Chuti a nih chuan eng thilin nge he danglamna hi chhan? Mak tak maiin, inthenna ngei hi a chhan a ni lo. Naupangin a hlawhtlin leh hlawhtlin loh chu an inthen hnua nu leh pate awm danah a innghat a ni.

Okay, chuvangin nu leh pa angin in fate rilru natna tihdam nan leh he hun harsa tak hi hlawhtling taka an paltlang theih nan eng nge i tih theih tih hi han thlir ila.

I fa chu a rilru a hahdam theih nan i tih theih thilte

Dam hmasa phawt ang che.

Hei hi a pawimawh ber a ni. Nangmah i tihdam loh chuan i fa chu a dam theih nan i pui thei lovang. I hrehawmna, thinrimna leh lungawi lohnate chu i ṭhian, chhungte, a nih loh leh counselor rintlak tak nen sawi rawh. I fain i lungngaihna chu a ṭha zawnga i hmachhawn lai a hmuh chuan, anni pawhin an zui ve ang. Hemi chungchang hi a tul chuan doctor nen pawh i sawipui thei bawk.

Naupang hmaa insual kha bansan rawh.

Inhnialna chu inthenna hmangin a tawp tur a ni. I kawppui hlui nen in inhnial a rinawm tih i hriat chuan naupangte hriat theih lohna hmunah ti rawh. Naupang pakhat atanga mi dang sawn chhuah hunah harsatna a awm fo chuan hei atan hian hmun tlanglawn, neutral tak hmang rawh. Entirnan, naupang chu sikul atanga lak emaw, daycare emaw atanga lak chhuah ang chi thil i ti thei.

‘Sumdawnna’ inzawmna din rawh

"I kawppui hlui hi i duh a ngai lo a, mahse naupang nena inzawm thila anmahni nena thawhhona tur kawng i zawn a ngai a ni," tiin expert chuan a sawi. He inzawmna hi hmangaihna leh huatna inzawmna anga en ai chuan sumdawnna inzawmna anga en tum ang che . Hetah hian i ‘sumdawnna’ chu i fa chu rilru lama chak leh hlim thei tura enkawl hi a ni .

Naupangte nena kan inzawmnaah tihsual tlanglawn leh hmanraw dik tak

Nu leh pate hriat loha tihsual engemaw zat a awm. Chûngte chuan naupang rilruah chhiatna nasa tak a thlen thei a ni. Chu tihsualte chu eng nge ni a, engtin nge kan siamthat theih ang tih i lo en ang u.

Naupang chu zawt la, hrilh suh.

I fa hnênah, “He inṭhennaah hian mawhphurtu i nih kher a ngai lo,” tia hrilh ai chuan, i fa hnênah, “He thilah hian mawhphurtu i nih a ngaiin i hria em?” Tichuan, a thusawi chu ngun takin ngaithla rawh. Tlawh ni ang chi thil i rel dawn pawhin a ngaihdan zawt la. Dilna apiang chu i pawm vek a ngai lo, mahse a tlem berah chuan an tel ve niin an hria.

Naupang kum nena inmil takin thu sawi rawh.

Naupang kum 3 mi chuan inthenna chungchangah thil awlsam tak tak hriat a duh mai thei. "Tunge khawiah nge kal?" leh "Engtikah nge mom/dad an hmuh leh ang?" Mahse kum 9 mi chuan "Engvangin nge hetiang hi a thlen?" Eng information nge an mamawh tih sawipui a pawimawh a, an kum a zirin.

Thil pawimawh dang tlemte

• Hun rei tak chhunga thubuai siam loh tur: Dan anga kalpui a rei poh leh a inkara buaina a awm tam zawk a, naupang chungah nghawng a nei nasa zawk bawk. A theih chuan inrem taka chinfel tum hi a tha ber.
• I fate nungchang chu en reng ang che: A chang chuan naupangte chuan "engkim a tha vek," an ti a, mahse an nungchang hian a danglamna a lantir thung. Sikul, inkhelh leh in lama an nungchang inthlak danglamna chu en reng ang che. Tin, naupang "naupang tha" lutuk ang maia che thin lakah pawh fimkhur rawh. A tha tak tak a nih chuan a nu leh pate chu an inkawp leh ang tih a ngaihtuah mai thei. Hetiang dinhmun hi naupang zirtirtu emaw enkawltu emaw hriattir a tha. Tichuan, an fate nungchang inthlak danglamna an hmuh chuan naupang chu "naupang sual" tia vuah lovin thil awmdan chu an hrethiam ang.
• Mi dang ni lovin nangmah ngaihtuah rawh: I ex tihsualte ngaihtuah reng chu thil awlsam tak a ni a, mahse chu chuan i fate nena in inlaichinna aṭangin a tibuaitu che a ni. Mahni thiltih chauh i thunun thei tih hre reng ang che.
• Naupang leh nu leh pa dang inzawmna chu titawp suh: Vawi tam tak chu inthen hnuah nu leh pa enkawltu ni lo chu naupang nun a\angin a inhnukdawk zauh zauh a, a nih loh leh nu leh pa dangin a paih chhuak \hin. Hei hi naupang tan a tha ngai lo. Taksa tihduhdahna , rilru natna nasa tak , emaw ruihhlo ngawlvei ang chi harsatna lian tak a awm loh chuan naupang chuan nu leh pa pahnih a mamawh a ni. Chutiang hunah pawh chuan, supervised visitation phalsak chu i ngaihtuah thei a ni .