Mō te Tau Hou, mō te rā whānau, mō te hiahia noa rānei, e hia ngā wā ka whakaaro tātou ki te hanga i ngā huringa nui ki ō tātou ao? Ka whakatakotohia e tātou he whāinga nui pēnei i te "Ka tino whakaitihia e au te taumaha i tēnei wā!", "Ka whakakorikori tinana ahau i ia ata mai i nāianei!", "Ka horoi ahau i taua kāpata tawhito i te kāinga, kātahi ka titiro whakamuri." Engari he aha te mea ka tupu? I muri i ngā rā e rua, e toru rānei, i te wiki pea, ka memeha haere taua hihiri katoa, ā, ka hoki noa tātou ki ā tātou tikanga tawhito, tika? Kua pā tēnei ki a koe? Inaa, he wheako noa tēnei mō te tini o tātou. Nō reira, he aha ai tēnei ka tupu? He aha tātou ka aro atu ai ki tētahi whāinga nui, kātahi ka hinga ki muri i waenganui? Me kōrero tātou mō tēnei.
He aha te take e hinga ai te tangata ina ngana ana rātou ki te peke nui?
He tino māmā te take mō tēnei. Kua hangaia ō tātou roro kia karo i ngā mea uaua, uaua, mamae rānei. He tikanga taiao tēnei e āwhina ana i a tātou kia ora. Whakaarohia, he aha te mea ka tupu mēnā ka whakatau ohorere koe ki te whakaheke i te 20 kirokaramu, ka mutu te kai i ngā mea katoa i inuhia e koe, ka tīmata te whakakorikori tinana mō ngā haora e rua i te rā, me te werawera? He tino uaua ngā rā tuatahi e rua, e toru rānei mō tō tinana me tō hinengaro. He mamae. He hoha. Ka mahara tō roro ki tēnei wheako he mea 'kino'. Kātahi ka kore e hiahia ki te mahi anō. Ko te mutunga? Ka mutu tō whainga.
Kāore e whai hua tonu te kīanga "Kāore he mamae, kāore he hua". Inaa, ki te taea e koe te tīmata me te ngāwari me te harikoa, he nui ake te tūponotanga ka mau tonu koe i taua whanonga.
Nō reira, ko te otinga mō tēnei, kaua e peke nui i te wā kotahi. Engari, me takahanga iti . Pērā i te pēpi e tīmata ana ki te hikoi, āta haere, kotahi te takahanga i ia wā, e neke whakamua ana.
Me pēhea e oti ai ngā mahi mā roto i ēnei 'takahanga iti'?
Āe, kia kite tātou me pēhea te mahi a tēnei tikanga. Ka taea e koe te whakamahi i tēnei mō ō whāinga katoa.
1. Tīmata mā te ngākau māhaki, me te harikoa
Ko te taahiraa tuatahi me mahi e koe he mea ngāwari, he mea iti, he mea ngahau hoki. Kaua e waiho hei kawenga māu.
- Tauira: Ki te hiahia koe ki te tīmata ki te whakakorikori tinana, kaua e ngana ki te oma i te 5 kiromita i te rā tuatahi. Engari, tīmata mā te kī, "Ka hikoi au i te marae mō te 10 meneti i tēnei rā, e whakarongo ana ki aku waiata tino pai." He māmā noa iho tēnā, tika?
2. Tapahia te ara ki te angitu.
Whakarērea ngā whāinga nui, kāore i te mārama. Engari, whakatakotohia he whāinga iti, tino motuhake e whakaaro ana koe ka taea e koe te "tino whakatutuki".
- Tauira:He whāinga nui, he whāinga koretake te "10 kirokaramu ka ngaro taku taumaha". Engari, whakaarohia: "Ka inu ahau i tētahi kapu tī kāore i te huka i roto i ngā kapu e toru ka inumia e au i te rā." He mea tēnei ka taea e koe te mahi. Ki te mahi koe i tēnei mō ētahi rā karapīpiti, ka pai tō wairua ki a koe anō. Kātahi ka taea e koe te neke atu ki te taahiraa iti e whai ake nei. Tērā pea ko te whakaiti i te nui o te raihi ka kainga e koe i te pō.
3. Kia tūpato ki a koe anō.
He kaha, he ngoikore hoki ō tātou katoa. Me pono tātou ki a tātou anō. Engari kaua e whawhai ki ō ngoikoretanga, whakamahia ō kaha ki te whakatakoto whāinga .
- Tauira: Ki te mea he tangata mangere koe, ka pai rānei te haere tahi me tētahi rōpū hoa mō te oma 5 i te ata? Kāore pea. Engari, whakaritea kia mahia i te ahiahi i te wā e watea ana mōu, ā, i te wā hoki e kaha ana koe ki te mahi.
4. Kimihia ngā 'wā poto'
Whakaarohia ngā mea iti ka taea e koe te mahi i te roanga o te rā hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakatutuki i tētahi whāinga nui ake. Ahakoa he torutoru hēkona noa iho, he pai tonu. Ka kiia ēnei he 'wā poto'.
- Ngā tauira:
- Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakakorikori tinana, whakamahia ngā arawhata hei utu mō te ararewa i te tari, i te toa hokohoko rānei.
- Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakapai ake i tō whanaungatanga ki tō hoa, waiho tō waea ki te taha ina kōrero ia, titiro atu ki ōna kanohi, ka whakarongo.
- Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakanui ake i te inu wai, me waiho he pounamu wai ki runga i tō tēpu.
5. Kia rite tonu.
E kiia ana e toru wiki pea (21 ngā rā) te roa o te wā kia mōhio ai te tinana me te hinengaro ki tētahi tikanga hou. Nō reira, me manawanui koe. Kaua e tumanako ka puta he hua nui i te pō kotahi. Tuhia ō wikitoria iti ki roto i tētahi rātaka, ki tētahi tuhipoka rānei i tō waea. He whakatenatena nui tēnei māu.
6. Hoatu he koha ki a koe anō, kia harikoa ai koe.
Koinei te mea tino nui. He tino pai tātou ki te whakapae i a tātou anō ina kore e tutuki i a tātou tētahi whāinga. Engari ka wareware tātou ki te whakanui ahakoa te wikitoria iti rawa. He mea tino nui tēnei whakanui hei hoatu tohu ki tō roro kia mahi anō i taua tikanga pai.
- Ngā tauira:
- Mena kua maha ngā rā e hikoi ana koe i te ahiahi, tikiakehia ētahi waiata hou e pai ana ki a koe.
- Ki te mea kua whakaitihia e koe te kawhe mō te wiki, hoatu he kapu hou hei inu i te tī otaota kakara.
Tirohia tēnei ripanga hei whakamārama atu i te rerekētanga i waenga i ēnei tikanga e rua.
| Āhuatanga | Te peke nui (te tikanga e tino kore e angitu) | Ngā takahanga iti (te huarahi tino pea ki te angitu) |
|---|---|---|
| Whāinga | Nui, koretake (hei tauira, "Kei te ora haere ahau") | Iti, motuhake (hei tauira, "Ka hikoi ahau mō te 10 meneti i tēnei rā") |
| Te kare ā-roto | Te ahotea, te pēhanga, te wehi kei hinga | Te māramatanga, te harikoa, me te whakapono ka taea e koe. |
| Tīmatanga | Ka tīmata me te hihiri nui engari ka hohoro te hoha | He māmā noa iho te tīmata, nō reira ka hihiri koe kia haere tonu. |
| Hua | He maha ngā wā ka tuku i waenganui, ka pouri ki a ia anō | Te noho hei tikanga, te whakanui ake i te whakapono ki a ia anō, te whakatutuki i tētahi whāinga nui |
Nō reira, ā te wā e whakaaro ana koe ki te huri i tō ao, kaua e ngana ki te huri i te ao katoa i te wā kotahi. Tīmata mārire. Kia atawhai ki a koe anō. Whakanuia ahakoa te wikitoria iti rawa. Ki te mahi koe i tēnā, i roto i te wā, ka tāpirihia aua takahanga iti ka puta he huringa nui ki tō ao kāore i moemoeāhia e koe.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ki te hiahia koe ki te hanga i tētahi huringa nui i roto i tō ao, kaua e ngana ki te peke kotahi i te wā kotahi. Engari, tīmata ki ngā takahanga iti rawa, ka taea te whakahaere.
- Me whai whāinga motuhake, ā, me whai tikanga hoki. Kaua e "whakaiti taumaha", engari whakatakotohia he whāinga iti ake pēnei i te "whakaiti i te inu huka kotahi i te rā".
- He roa te wā e hiahiatia ana hei hanga i tētahi tikanga hou. Kia manawanui, ā, kia tutuki tonu tāu whāinga iti i ia rā.
- Kaua e wareware ki te whakanui i ō wikitoria iti. Mā tēnei koe e whakatenatena, e homai hoki te kaha ki a koe kia anga whakamua.
- Ko te mea nui ehara i te mea kia tino tika, engari kia ahu whakamua. Mā te ahunga whakamua e ahu mai ana i ngā takahanga iti ka taea te hanga huringa nui i roto i te wā.
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