He pai ki a koe te mataku? He aha te take e pai ai ētahi ki ngā pūrākau wairua me ngā waka rere? (Te Hinengaro Rapu-Whakahihiri)

E mōhio ana tātou katoa ki te āhua o te mataku nui. Ka tere te manawa , ka tere te werawera, ā, ka puta he pūrerehua i roto i tō puku. Ka puta pea tēnei wehi i te mātakitaki i tētahi kiriata whakamataku, te whakarongo ki tētahi kōrero whakamataku, te hikoi rānei i roto i tētahi whare wairua i te pō. Engari he mea miharo, he pai ki ētahi tāngata tēnei kare o te wehi. Ka whaia e rātou ngā mea whakamataku.

Ki te hunga noa pēnei i a tātou, he uaua ki te whakaaro me pēhea te pārekareka o ētahi atu ki ēnei wheako whakamataku, ahakoa ka kite rātou i tētahi wāhanga iti i roto i tētahi kiriata whakamataku, ā, ka rite ki te mea kua tata te pahū o ō rātou puku. Engari e ai ki ngā tohunga he mea noa ki ētahi tāngata te pana i ō rātou rohe kia kite ai i te tawhiti ka taea e rātou te kawe i tō rātou wehi, ā, kia tino makona i muri i te wikitoria i taua wehi.

He aha tātou i tino aroha ai ki tēnei 'taha pōuri'?

He aha te tino āhua o ēnei kōrero mō ngā wairua me ngā mea whakamataku? E ai ki a Frank Farley, PhD, he tohunga hinengaro i Te Whare Wānanga o Temple, "Kua tino hiahia te iwi ki tēnei 'taha pōuri' puta noa i te hītori. Kua ngana rātou ki te mārama ki tēnei." Mā roto i ngā kiriata, ka kite tātou i ngā mea whakamataku i mua tonu i ō tātou kanohi. He tino mīharo ētahi tāngata ki tēnei mea. Kei te hiahia rātou ki ngā mea tino rerekē, he mea rerekē, he mea ngaro hoki i tā rātou e kite nei i te ao o ia rā. Nā te mea kāore e taea e rātou te mārama ki aua mea.

Ko Glenn Sparks, PhD, tētahi atu tohunga hinengaro, kua rangahau i te āhua o te urupare a ngā tāne, ngā wāhine, me ngā tamariki ki te whakamataku i roto i ngā pāpāho mō ngā tau e rua tekau neke atu. E mea ana ia, "Kei ētahi tāngata te hiahia ki te wheako i tētahi mea rerekē i te hoha o ō rātou oranga o ia rā." Ahakoa he ngoikoretanga o te mātakitaki i tētahi kiriata whakamataku, he tino pai ki te iwi nā te mea he rerekē te wheako.

He maha ngā wā, ina mutu te kiriata whakamataku, ka puta mai te tangata i te whare pikitia me te ngākau māhaki. "Kei te harikoa noa pea ia kua mutu te kiriata," te tāpiri a Sparks.

Ko wai ēnei tāngata 'Momo T'?

Kua rangahau a Farley, he perehitini o mua o te American Psychological Association, i ngā tāngata he "Momo T" (he tangata e rapu ana i te whakahihiri). E pai ana ēnei tāngata ki te koretake me te kaha e pā ana ki ngā mahi ka tū ai ngā huruhuru o ō tātou tinana. Mai i ngā ekenga roera ki te peke bungee, he tino whakahihiri ēnei mea mā rātou. "E ai ki ngā kai ruku rangi ko taua whakahihiri, ko taua tere, me te iti o te wehi e akiaki ana i a rātou ki te pana i a rātou anō ki te rohe," tana kī.

E ai ki a Farley, e pai ana ētahi ki ngā kare ā-tinana e puta mai ana i te wehi. Ngā mea pēnei i te pupuhi adrenaline , te tere o te ngakau, me te werawera o ngā nikau. I roto i ngā rangahau mō te harikoa e pā ana ki ngā kaieke roera, i kitea e ia, "He wheako kare ā-tinana whakamiharo. Kāore he mea hei whakarite ki tēnā, tae atu ki te taatai ."

Ā, me pēhea ngā tamariki nohinohi?

Mō ngā tamariki, he huarahi haumaru ngā kōrero wairua ki te wheako me te tūhura i te wehi. Nā te mea e mōhio ana rātou he mea hanga noa iho ngā wairua me ngā taniwha i roto i ēnei kōrero. E whakaahua ana te tohunga hinengaro a Leon Rappoport, PhD, i tēnei hei momo whakamoe. Ka hoatu he whai wāhi ki ngā tamariki ki te whakaputa i ō rātou raruraru me te manukanuka o roto. "Ka whiwhi rātou i te whakamarie mai i te wheako," tana kī.

Ko ngā kiriata whakamataku me ngā tohu o te taiohi

Ki te pai koe ki te mātaki i ngā kiriata whakamataku, me te tere o tō ngākau, he maha ngā mea hei tumanako atu māu i ēnei rā. I te tau 1998, i whakahaerehia e Sparks tētahi rangahau hei kimi i ngā kiriata whakamataku rawa atu kua kitea e te tangata. Ko ngā kiriata i tapaina ko "Seven Deadly Films" ko 'Scream', 'Friday the 13th', 'The Shining', 'Halloween', 'A Nightmare on Elm Street', 'The Exorcist', me 'Poltergeist'.

Ina hoki, ko ētahi tāngata e pai ake ana ki te karo i ngā kiriata whakamataku. E ai ki a Sparks tata ki te hautoru o te taupori kei roto i tēnei kāwai. Kāore rātou e whiwhi uara mai i ngā kōrero e whakamate ana i a rātou.

Ko te hunga e tango ana i te kare o te wehi ki te taumata teitei rawa

Mō te hunga kāore i te makona ki tētahi kiriata whakamataku noa, ki tētahi pukapuka whakamataku rānei, he wāhi tēnei hei kawe i ō rātou wehi ki tētahi atu taumata. Arā, te whakahau i a rātou anō kia tahaetia!

Mō te utu nui mai i te $1,500 ki te $4,000, ka tahaetia koe e tētahi pakihi hou i Niu Ioka, ka herea koe, ka āraia tō waha, ka puritia hoki koe mō ngā hāora, mō ngā rā rānei. He mea hanga hei whakamataku i a koe i ngā mea katoa e taea ana. Ka taea hoki e koe te whakarite i te tahae kia rite ki ō wehi me ō hiahia ake.

He tino nui rawa tēnei. E ai ki a Farley, "He rite tēnei kamupene ki te mahi i tētahi 'uiui i mua i te uiuinga', te kimi i ō wehi, me te mahi i aua mea. Ki ahau nei he mea tino whakarihariha tēnei. He tutu, he tino whakamataku hoki, engari kei te mahi noa te tangata i tēnei mea."

Nō reira, ā te wā e mātaki ai koe i tētahi kiriata whakamataku me ō hoa, e eke rānei koe i tētahi waka tere, ki te pai koe ki te wehi e pā ana ki a koe, kua mōhio koe ehara i te mea rerekē. Ā, ki te mataku koe i taua mea, he mea noa anō hoki tēnā.