He aha te tikanga o te kupu "(Te Whakawhetai)"?
Ki te kī ngāwari, ko te '(Whakawhetai)' te kare ā-roto o te whakawhetai e pā ana ki ngā mea pai o tō ao, arā, te whakaaro ki ngā painga. Ko ēnei ngā mea kāore e tino whakaarohia ana e tātou i ētahi wā i roto i ō tātou oranga o ia rā, engari he mea tino nui. Whakaarohia, he wāhi noho tōu, he kai me te inu tōu, he wai ma tōu, he hoa pai tōu, he whānau tōu. Mā te whakaaro ki ēnei mea katoa me te harikoa, me te whakaaro, 'Āe, he waimarie ahau' koinei te '(Whakawhetai)'. Ina pā mai tētahi mea pai ki a koe, ahakoa he mea iti, he mea nui rānei, ka whakaaroaro koe ki taua mea, ka harikoa. He rerekē ngā kupu e whakamahia ana e tātou hei whakaahua i tēnei kare ā-roto o te whakawhetai, kāore? Tērā pea ka whakamahia e koe ngā kupu pēnei i te "He tino whakawhetai ahau", "He tino waimarie ahau", "He manaakitanga pono tēnei ki ahau". Ko ēnei kupu katoa e whakaatu ana i te harikoa me te maioha i roto i tō ngākau mō ngā mea kua riro i a koe.He aha te hiranga o tēnei kupu "Whakawhetai" i roto i ō tātou oranga?
Ehara i te mea ko te whakawhetai anake ka pai ai tō wairua, engari he pai hoki mō tō oranga katoa te noho hei tikanga. Pērā i te kai i tētahi kai pai, ka taea e te whakaaro pai te hanga i tētahi rerekētanga nui. Kia kite tātou he aha ngā painga ka riro mai i a tātou mai i te `(Whakawhetai)`:- He tino āwhina tēnei mō tō ako me te whakatau tika! I mōhio koe, ina kī tonu tō hinengaro i te harikoa me te whakawhetai, ka piki ake tō kaha ki te ako i ngā mea hou me te whakatau pai. Nā te mea ka āwhina hoki ēnei kare ā-roto pai i roto i te hinengaro i te mahi a tō tātou roro . Ina wātea te hinengaro, ka taea e tātou te whakaaro mārama.
- Āwhina ki te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto kino, kino! Ka pōuri, ka taumaha, ka manukanuka tātou katoa i ētahi wā, tika? Engari ko te hunga e whakawhetai tonu ana, arā, ko te hunga e whakamahi ana i te " Whakawhetai " he harikoa ake i ētahi atu, he iti ake te ahotea , ā, he iti ake te tūponotanga ka pā ki a rātou ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te " Pouri ". Ko te mea ka tupu, hei utu mō te whakaaro me te pōuri mō ngā mea kāore i a koe, ka arotahi koe ki ngā mea utu nui kei a koe. Engari mō te whakaaro, "Āe, kāore i a au tēnā, kāore i a au tēnei," ka tīmata koe ki te harikoa, me te kī, "Engari kei a au ēnei mea." Kei te mārama koe?
- Ka akiaki i a koe ki te mahi i ngā mahi atawhai, aroha! Whakaarohia kua mahi tetahi i tētahi mea pai ki a koe. Ā, ka whakaaro koe, "Āe, e hiahia ana ahau ki te mahi i tētahi mea mā rātou hoki"? Kāore rānei, kei te hiahia koe ki te mahi i tētahi mea pai mā tētahi atu. Koinei te āhua. Ina mihi koe ki tētahi mō tōna atawhai, ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka mahi koe i tētahi mea pai hei utu. Waihoki, ka taea e tō whakawhetai te whai pānga pai ki ngā mahi a te tangata kē. Ina kī koe "ngā mihi" ki tētahi, ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka mahi taua tangata i tētahi mea pai hei utu. Whakaarohia, ki te tuku mai tētahi i tētahi nohoanga ki a koe i runga i te pahi, ā, ka menemene koe ka mea "ngā mihi," he aha te harikoa o taua tangata? Tērā pea ka āwhina ia i tētahi atu anō hoki.
- Ka whakapakari i ō whanaungatanga tangata! Ina mihi pono koe ki ngā tāngata i roto i tō ao, ina whakaute koe i a rātou, ka whakapakari i ngā hononga aroha i waenganui i a kōrua. Ka whakanui hoki i te whakawhirinaki, ā, ka piri atu kōrua. Whakaarohia, ina mahi tetahi o ō hoa i tetahi mea pai ki a koe, ki te mihi koe ki a ia, ka mea, "Ngā mihi nui ki a koe, e te tuakana/teina/teina, kāore e taea e au tēnei me te kore koe," he aha te ataahua o taua hononga? Ko ngā mea iti pēnei ka hanga hononga nui.
Ina meinga e koe te whakawhetai hei tikanga, ka nui ake tō mōhio ki ngā mea pai e puta mai ana ki tō ao, ā, ka tīmata koe ki te kite i aua mea.
Me pēhea e hanga ai tēnei "Whakawhetai" hei tikanga mō te ao?
I ētahi wā ka tae mai ēnei kare ā-roto o te whakawhetai ki a tātou i te wā kāore tātou i te tumanako. Engari ki te hiahia tātou, ka taea e tātou te waihanga i tēnei kare ā-roto, ko tā tātou anake he kimi i ngā mea e maioha ana koe. I ia rā, kia aro ki ngā mea o tō ao e hari ai koe. Kātahi ka noho hei tikanga mārire tēnei. Kia ata haere, tirohia ngā mea e karapoti ana i a koe. Hei tauira, ka taea e koe te whakaaro, "Āe, te ataahua o te tōnga o te rā i tēnei rā. He ao whakamiharo taku e noho nei." Mēnā rānei, ka taea e koe te whakaaro, "Anei a Nimali. He rawe tana āwhina i ahau inanahi." I ētahi wā ka pā mai ngā wā kāore koe i te harikoa, ā, ka pouri koe. I ēnei wā, kāore pea koe e hiahia ki te mahi i tēnei `(Whakawhetai)`. Engari, me mahi koe i tēnei ina pouri koe, ina ahotea rānei. Ka taea e ia te kawe mai i te whakamarie me te hou ki tō hinengaro. He rite ki te mārama iti e whiti ana ki roto i te rūma pōuri. Āe, me titiro tātou ki ētahi huarahi ka taea e tātou te tāpiri i tēnei tikanga o te whakawhetai ki ō tātou oranga:- Kaua e wareware ki te kī "mihi" i ngā wā katoa: Koinei te mea ngāwari ki te mahi. Kimihia he take hei mihi ki ētahi atu. Me kī "mihi nui" ahakoa mō te mea iti rawa. Ahakoa he whakatuwheratanga tatau māu e tetahi, he hanga kawhe māu, he āwhina rānei i a koe ki ō mahi whare, ataata mai, me te mihi mai. E kore tēnei e whakanui noa i tō ake whakawhetai, engari ka hari ake hoki te tangata kē. Whakaarohia, ina homai e te kaihoko toa tetahi mea ki a koe, ki te ataata mai koe, ka mea "mihi mai," ka pai ake te rā o taua tangata.
- Tīmatahia he pukapuka tuhi pai: He huarahi pai hoki tēnei ki te mahi i tēnei. Tuhia ki roto i tētahi pukapuka tuhi ngā mea e whakawhetai ana koe. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te tuhi taipitopito, engari he poto noa iho. Ka taea e koe te mahi i tēnei i ia pō i mua i te moe. Kimihia kia toru ngā mea pai i pā ki a koe i taua rā, ka tuhituhi. Kāore e hiahiatia kia nui. Ka taea te iti pēnei i te, "I kai ahau i tētahi kai reka i tēnei rā," "I kata ahau i tētahi hoa," "I whakarongo ahau ki tētahi waiata pai." I muri i te mahi i tēnei mō tētahi wā, ka kite koe i te maha o ngā mea pai kei roto i te hunga e karapoti ana i a koe, me tō ake oranga.
- Me hanga he 'Ipu Whakawhetai': He mea tino pai hoki tēnei hei mahi, inā koa he tamariki kei te kāinga, kia taea ai e rātou te whakauru mai. Tikina he pounamu, he pouaka rānei, ka whakanoho ki tētahi wāhi e kitea ai e koe. Tuhia he mea e whakawhetai ana koe i ia rā ki tētahi pepa iti ka whakanoho ki roto. Tangohia aua pepa i te marama, i te wiki, ka pānuihia, ka kite i te harikoa o tō wairua. He rite ki te puranga taonga o ō maharatanga harikoa.
- Tuhia he reta ki tētahi hoa: Ko te tuhi reta ki tētahi e maioha ana koe, ahakoa ko tō māmā, ko tō pāpā, ko tō teina, ko tō tuakana, ko tō hoa, ko tō kaiako rānei, he huarahi pai ki te whakamahi i te whakawhetai i roto i ō whanaungatanga. I roto i te reta, tuhia te nui o tō aroha ki taua tangata, tōna hiranga ki a koe, me tō whakawhetai mō āna mahi māu. Ka taea e koe te hoatu te reta ki te tangata, kāore rānei. Heoi, mā te tuhi i te reta ka āwhina koe ki te maioha ki ngā tāngata nui o tō ao.
- Kimihia he Hoa Whakawhetai: Ina tīmata koe i tētahi tikanga hou, he mea pai tonu kia whai hoa hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakaharatau i te whakawhetai. Kōrerotia ki tētahi mema o te whānau, ki tētahi hoa tata rānei, kia toru ngā mea e whakawhetai ana koe i ia rā, kātahi ka tono atu kia pērā anō hoki. Mā tēnei ka māmā ake te tikanga, ka nui ake hoki te ngahau i te mahi takitahi! Ka whai hua kōrua.
Hei whakamutunga, he karere hei kawe ki te kāinga māu.
Kua mārama pea koe inaianei kāore tēnei "(Whakawhetai)" te whakawhetai i te mea uaua pērā i tō whakaaro. He rite ki te whakakorikori i tō tātou hinengaro. Ka taea e koe te tīmata ki ngā mea iti. Ko te mea nui ko te tīmata. Tīmatahia tēnei tikanga mai i tēnei rā tonu, kia kite ai koe i te rerekētanga o tō oranga. Ka taea e koe te wheako i te harikoa me te māramatanga e pā ana ki tō ngākau.Nā, he aha ngā mea pai o tō ao i tēnei wā? Whakaarohia... Tērā pea ka kitea e koe tētahi mea hei whakawhetai māu!
Te whakawhetai, te aro nui, te hauora hinengaro, te harikoa, te whakaaro pai, ngā whanaungatanga, te makona ki te ao
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