Kodi ndi ganizo loyamba liti lomwe limabwera m'maganizo mwanu mukazindikira kuti mnzanu, wachibale wanu, kapena munthu amene mumamudziwa ali ndi matenda a bipolar? Nthawi zambiri, timaganiza kuti munthuyu sangathe kugwira ntchito, sangathe kusunga ubale wabwino, nthawi zonse amayambitsa mavuto, ndipo ndi ovuta kukhala nawo. Awa ndi malingaliro olakwika omwe amangidwa m'gulu la anthu. Koma zoona zake n'zosiyana kwambiri. Lero, tikambirana za malingaliro olakwika awa ndi zoona zake.
Kodi matenda a Bipolar ndi chiyani kwenikweni?
Tisanalankhule za izi, tiyeni timvetse tanthauzo la bipolar. Ndi matenda amisala. Monga matenda a shuga kapena kuthamanga kwa magazi, amafunika kuchiritsidwa. Ndi pamene maganizo a munthu amasintha kwambiri pakati pa zinthu ziwiri.
- Chimodzi mwa zinthu zoopsa kwambiri ndi mania kapena hypomania: Panthawi imeneyi, munthuyo amamva kusangalala kwambiri ndipo amakhala ndi mphamvu zambiri. Sangagone, kulankhula kwambiri, kugwira ntchito mosalekeza, komanso kuchita zinthu zoopsa (monga kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri nthawi imodzi).
- Chinanso choopsa kwambiri ndi kuvutika maganizo : Panthawi imeneyi, munthuyo amakhala wachisoni kwambiri, alibe chidwi ndi chilichonse, alibe mphamvu. Nthawi zonse amakhala wotopa, alibe chilakolako cha chakudya, sangagone, ndipo amakhumudwa ndi moyo.
Chofunika kwambiri ndichakuti izi sizili zofooka kapena zolakwika za khalidwe. Izi ndi matenda omwe amayamba chifukwa cha kusintha kwa mankhwala muubongo (neurotransmitters). Ndi chithandizo choyenera chamankhwala ndi uphungu, vutoli limatha kuthetsedwa bwino ndikukhala ndi moyo wopambana.
Maganizo olakwika omwe ali m'gulu la anthu
Monga munthu amene ali ndi matenda a bipolar, nthawi zonse ndimakumana ndi manyazi ndi malingaliro olakwika pagulu. Nthawi zina, izi zimayambira pazinthu zazikulu monga kuchotsedwa ntchito mpaka zinthu zazing'ono monga kufunsa kuti, "Mwina umangokhala panyumba wopanda ntchito, sichoncho?" Tiyeni tiwone zomwe malingaliro olakwika awa ali.
| Mtundu wa zithunzi | Zenizeni |
|---|---|
| Sindingathe kupeza ntchito yokhazikika | Anthu ambiri akalandira chithandizo choyenera, amakhala opambana kwambiri pantchito zawo. Akhoza kukhala madokotala aluso, mainjiniya, ojambula, komanso amalonda. |
| Moyo wabwino wa m'banja ndi ubale wabwino sizingalipidwe. | Pothana ndi vuto la bipolar, amatha kumanga ubale wachikondi komanso wokhazikika. Monga momwe zilili ndi ubale wina uliwonse, kumvetsetsana ndi kuthandizira ndizofunikira kwambiri. |
| Nthawi zonse osakhazikika, owopsa, komanso achiwawa | Izi ndi zabodza kotheratu. Amafanana ndi wina aliyense akamaonetsa zizindikiro. Ngakhale kuti angasonyeze makhalidwe oopsa panthawi ya mania yomwe imachitika akamalandira chithandizo, ambiri mwa iwo sachita zachiwawa. |
| Wodalira makolo kapena mnzanu | Anthu ambiri amakhala moyo wodziyimira pawokha pazachuma komanso wopambana. Matendawa amachititsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuyeza luso ndi kufunika kwa munthu. |
Kodi malingaliro olakwika amenewa amawononga bwanji malingaliro?
Tangoganizani, ndikumanga nyumba ndi ntchito yanga yolimba, kuyendetsa galimoto yabwino, komanso kukhala mosangalala ndi mkazi wanga. Ndimagwira ntchito yolangiza anthu za thanzi la maganizo . Koma anthu akazindikira kuti ndili ndi matenda a bipolar, amaona kupambana kwanga mosiyana.
Amaganiza kuti, "O... ayenera kuti anachita zonsezi ndi ndalama za mkazi wake" kapena "makolo ake ayenera kuti anali olemera." Amaona ntchito imene ndimagwira ndi kuganiza kuti, "O... imeneyo iyenera kuti ndi ntchito yothandiza anthu omwe ali ndi mavuto amisala."
Mkazi wanga amagwira ntchito yabwino. Koma zoona zake n'zakuti, ine ndimapeza ndalama zambiri kuposa iye. Tonsefe timapambana mofanana. Tapanga zinthuzi kudzera mu ntchito yathu yonse yovuta. Koma matenda anga akachotsa ntchito yanga yovuta, zomwe ndapereka , ndikunditcha munthu wodalira mkazi wanga, zimakhala zovuta kuzipirira. Izi sizongopanda chilungamo, komanso sizowona konse.
Pa zolakwa zotereZotsatira zake, kudzidalira kwa munthu komanso kudzidalira kwake kumachepa pang'onopang'ono. Kaya ali ndi luso lotani kapena kupambana bwanji, amathabe kudzimva kuti akhumudwa chifukwa cha momwe anthu amamuonera.
Kodi tiyenera kukhala ochirikiza bwanji?
Njira yabwino kwambiri yothandizira munthu amene ali ndi matenda a bipolar m'moyo wanu ndi kumuyang'ana ndi maganizo otseguka, osadzaza mutu wanu ndi malingaliro olakwika awa.
- Yesetsani kumvetsetsa: Werengani nkhani zokhudza matenda a bipolar ndipo phunzirani za matendawa. Kambiranani nawo momwe amamvera. Koma musaweruze.
- Musaganize zinthu motere: Musanene zinthu monga, "Simungachite izi," "Muli bwino lero, koma mawa zinthu zidzakhala zosiyana." Musakayikire luso lawo.
- Limbikitsani chithandizo: Akumbutseni kuti amwe mankhwala omwe alembedwa monga momwe adalembedwera komanso kuti akaone dokotala wawo nthawi yake. Ndi chithandizo chabwino kwambiri.
- Achitireni zinthu mwachizolowezi: Ichi ndiye chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Musawachitire zinthu mosiyana. Matenda a bipolar ndi gawo limodzi la moyo wawo. Si umunthu wawo wonse. Ali ndi maloto, ziyembekezo, ndi luso monga wina aliyense.
Tonsefe tingakhale ndi matenda osiyanasiyana. Kodi anthu onse omwe ali ndi matenda a shuga ndi ofanana? Ayi. Mofananamo, si anthu onse omwe ali ndi matenda a bipolar omwe ali ofanana. Tonsefe ndife osiyana. Chifukwa chake, chonde musayese kuyika munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda a bipolar m'bokosi limodzi. Muzimulemekeza komanso kumumvetsetsa mofanana ndi momwe mungachitire ndi wina aliyense.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Matenda a bipolar si vuto kapena kufooka kwa munthu. Ndi matenda omwe amafunika chithandizo choyenera.
- Ndi chithandizo choyenera komanso chithandizo choyenera, anthu omwe ali ndi matenda a bipolar akhoza kukhala ndi moyo wabwino kwambiri, wosangalala, komanso wokhutiritsa.
- Musaweruze munthu chifukwa cha matenda ake. Pewani kukhulupirira zinthu zosayenera ndipo lemekezani munthu aliyense.
- Kumvetsetsa kwanu ndi chithandizo chanu kungathandize kwambiri munthu amene akuvutika ndi matenda a bipolar.
- Ngati inu kapena munthu amene mumamudziwa akuvutika ndi vutoli, chonde pitani kwa dokotala woyenerera (dokotala) kuti akuthandizeni.











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