Tonsefe takumanapo ndi zimenezi, tikamanena chinthu china kenako n’kumva china. Tangoganizani kuti mukulankhula ndi mnzanu ndipo m’malo motchula dzina lake, mwamva dzina la mnzanu wakale. Kapena, pamene mukulankhula ndi aphunzitsi anu kusukulu, mwamva dzina lakuti "Amayi." Mwina munaseka pang’ono, koma munaganizanso kuti, "N’chifukwa chiyani izi zandichitikira ine?" Izi n’zofala kwambiri. Lero tikambirana za chochitika chachilendochi, koma chofala kwambiri.
Kodi Freudian Slip ndi chiyani?
Mwachidule, kulephera kulankhula ndi Freudian ndi pamene mwangozi tanena chinthu chomwe sitinachifune, kaya ndi pamene tikulankhula kapena kulemba. Ichi ndi chomwe nthawi zambiri timachitcha "kulephera kulankhula ." Ndi chinthu chofala kwambiri chomwe chingachitikire aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za chilankhulo chake.
Mawu azachipatala a izi ndi parapraxis . Bungwe la American Psychological Association limatanthauzira izi motere: "Kulankhula kosazindikira kwa zilakolako zosafunikira kapena malingaliro omwe amalowa m'mautetezi a malingaliro ozindikira ndi kutuluka mosazindikira kudzera m'mawu, zochita, kapena zolemba." Zikumveka zovuta pang'ono? Tiyeni tifotokoze pang'ono.
Kodi dzina limeneli linachokera kuti? Kodi Freud uyu ndi ndani?
Dzina lake linachokera kwa Sigmund Freud , dokotala wotchuka padziko lonse wa ku Austria yemwe amaonedwa kuti ndiye bambo wa psychoanalysis . Freud ankakhulupirira kuti zolakwika zamtunduwu zinali kufotokoza malingaliro ndi malingaliro omwe takhala tikubisala ndikuletsa m'maganizo mwathu osazindikira.
Freud anayamba kuphunzira izi ndi mnyamata wina. Pamene mnyamatayo ankawerenga ndakatulo ya Chilatini, nthawi zonse ankadumpha mawu ena. Pogwiritsa ntchito psychoanalysis, Freud anapeza kuti mnyamatayo anali ndi vuto losokoneza ndi magazi. Freud anazindikira kuti pamene ankawerenga ndakatulo, anakumbukira mosazindikira za kukumbukira kosasangalatsa kumeneko, ndipo anali kudumpha mawu amenewo.
Pambuyo pake, adakambirana izi mwatsatanetsatane m'buku lake lakuti "The Psychopathology of Everyday Life." Kuyambira pamenepo, chodabwitsachi chadziwika kuti "Freudian Slip."
Izi zikutanthauza kuti nthawi zina mawu olakwika omwe amatuluka mkamwa mwathu akhoza kukhala chinsinsi chobisika mkati mwa mitima yathu.
Kodi izi zingawoneke bwanji? Tiyeni tiwone zitsanzo zina.
Zolakwa izi ndi zosiyanasiyana.Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zingapo . Mitundu ina yayikulu ndi zitsanzo zalembedwa mu tebulo ili m'munsimu.
| Chifukwa/mtundu wa katchulidwe kolakwika | Kufotokozera kosavuta ndi zitsanzo |
|---|---|
| Zolakwika zamaganizo | Mwina muli otanganidwa kwambiri, osokonezeka, kapena oiwala. Palibe tanthauzo lakuya apa. Chitsanzo: M'malo monena kuti "Ndikufuna khofi", nenani kuti "Ndikufuna jekete". |
| Kupondereza | Mukuyesera kuiwala chochitika choopsa chomwe chikukupwetekani, koma china chake chomwe chili m'dera lanu chikuyambitsanso kukumbukira zimenezo, ndipo pamapeto pake mukunena zinthu zolakwika. Chitsanzo: Kutchula mnzanu wapano dzina la chibwenzi chanu chakale. |
| Kupewa | Mumapewa mwadala munthu winawake, zochita, kapena malo enaake. Koma chifukwa chakuti zikukuvutitsani mosadziwa, mumatha kulankhula za izo nthawi yomwe simukuyembekezera. Chitsanzo: M'malo monena kuti "Ndibwera" kuntchito yomwe simukufuna kupitako, akukuuzani kuti "Sindibwera." |
N’chifukwa chiyani izi zimatichitikira? Kodi mbali ya maganizo ndi chiyani?
Pali malingaliro angapo okhudza zomwe zimayambitsa kutsetsereka kwa Freudian.
Chiphunzitso choyamba komanso chodziwika bwino ndi chakuti maganizo otsekeredwa amatuluka . Tangoganizirani kuti gawo lina la ubongo wanu likuyesera kubisa kapena kupewa lingaliro. Nthawi yomweyo, gawo lina la ubongo wanu lidzayang'ana kuti, "Kodi ndinabisa bwino?" Kenako chomwe chimachitika ndi chakuti lingaliro lomwe linkayesa kubisala limayambiranso kugwira ntchito. Chifukwa chake, tikamayesetsa kwambiri kusaganizira za china chake, pamakhala mwayi waukulu woti lituluke mkamwa mwathu.
Lingaliro lachiwiri ndi lakuti momwe ubongo wathu umagwirira ntchito chilankhuloChinachake chogwirizana. Tisanaike maganizo athu m'mawu ndi kulankhula, ubongo wathu umachita 'kudzisintha' pang'ono kuti uone ngati pali zolakwika zilizonse m'maganizo amenewo komanso ngati zili zoyenera kunena. Koma ngakhale zili choncho, pafupifupi, munthu amalakwitsa kamodzi kapena kawiri pa mawu 1,000 aliwonse omwe amalankhula. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, ngati mulankhula mawu pafupifupi 150 pamphindi, mutha kulakwitsa pakati pa 7 ndi 22 patsiku. Chifukwa chake, zolakwika ngati izi ndi gawo lokha la kulankhulana kwa anthu.
Kuphatikiza apo, zinthu monga kusokonezeka maganizo, kusowa tulo, kutopa kwambiri, komanso kupsinjika maganizo zingayambitsenso zolakwikazi.
Kodi mawu olakwika a Freudian amenewa ndi enieni? Inde, ndi oona. Koma si mawu onse olakwika omwe ali m'kamwa ayenera kukhala ndi tanthauzo lobisika. Kungakhale kulakwitsa pang'ono chabe.
Kodi tingatani kuti tichepetse zolakwika zamtunduwu?
Ngati nthawi zonse mumavutika ndi zolakwa zamtunduwu, nazi njira zosavuta zomwe akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kuti musamaganize molakwika komanso kuti muchepetse.
1. Pewani kuchita zinthu zambirimbiri nthawi imodzi.
Ubongo wathu ukakhala wodzaza ndi ntchito zambiri nthawi imodzi, maganizo athu amabalalika. Kenako, zolakwika zotere zimachitika mosavuta. Chifukwa chake, yang'anani pa ntchito imodzi panthawi. Patsani ubongo wanu mpumulo pang'ono pakati pa ntchitoyo.
2. Pang'onopang'ono yang'anani ndi zinthu zomwe mumapewa (Kukumana nazo pang'onopang'ono)
Kodi muli ndi malingaliro omwe amakuvutitsani maganizo ndipo mumayesetsa kuwapewa? Kuyesa kuwapewa kumangowapangitsa kukhala ovuta kwambiri. M'malo mwake, yesani kuvomereza malingaliro amenewo. Poyamba zingakhale zovuta. Koma mukamawayang'anizana nawo ndi mphamvu, pang'onopang'ono, mphamvu zawo zidzachepa ndipo maganizo anu adzakhala omasuka. Ngati mukufuna thandizo pa izi, ndikofunikira kwambiri kulankhula ndi dokotala wanu wodalirika .
3. Pezani chosokoneza
Ngati simunakonzekere kukumana ndi vuto linalake lomwe likukusautsani, yesani kuchita zinthu zomwe zingakupangitseni kuganizira kwambiri. Zingakhale kuwerenga buku, kuonera kanema, kapena kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Izi zingakuthandizeni kuchepetsa nkhawa kwakanthawi.
4. Yembekezerani lingalirolo
Ngati simungathe kuchotsa maganizo anu, patulani nthawi yochepa tsiku lililonse kuti muganizire za vutoli. Mwachitsanzo, dziuzeni kuti, "Ndidzaganizira za vutoli kuyambira 6 mpaka 6:15 madzulo ano, kenako sindidzaganiziranso pambuyo pake." Izi zingakuthandizeni kusiya kuganizira za vutoli tsiku lonse.
5. Kusamala ndi kusinkhasinkha
Phatikizani kusinkhasinkha ndi kuchita zinthu moganizira bwino mu zochita zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku. Izi zidzakuthandizani kukhazika mtima pansi, kukulitsa ulamuliro wanu wa maganizo, komanso kukuthandizani kuyang'ana kwambiri pakukhala ndi moyo munthawi ino. Izi zichepetsa zosokoneza zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha maganizo osafunikira .
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Kulephera kwa Freudian ndi chinthu chofala kwambiri chomwe chimatichitikira tonse. Musadandaule kwambiri za izi.
- Nthawi zina izi zimatha kubweretsa zinthu zomwe zili mkati mwa maganizo athu. Koma, sizimachitika nthawi zonse. Nthawi zambiri, ndi cholakwika chaching'ono muubongo.
- Mumakhala ndi mwayi wochita zolakwa ngati zimenezi mukakhala otopa, opsinjika maganizo, kapena osokonezeka.
- Zinthu monga kupuma mokwanira, kuchepetsa nkhawa, ndi kusinkhasinkha zingathandize kuchepetsa izi.
- Ngati mukumva kuti zinthuzi zikuchitika kawirikawiri chifukwa cha ululu womwe umakuchitikirani mumtima mwanu, ndikofunikira kupeza thandizo la akatswiri. Lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu za izi.











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