Ngaba wakha waphuma kwingxaki okomzuzwana aze umntwana wakho anyamalale ngequbuliso? Nangona oku kunokwenzeka nakuwuphi na umzali, kuqheleke kakhulu kumntwana okwi -autism spectrum . Ngokwezonyango, esi sifo sibizwa ngokuba yi-'Autism Elopement'. Ngamafutshane, kuxa umntwana ebaleka ngequbuliso kumntu omjongileyo, nokuba ujongiwe. Eyona ngozi inkulu koku kukuba abanye baba bantwana banomdla omkhulu emanzini. Yiyo loo nto behendelwa ukuya echibini elikufutshane, emlanjeni, emlanjeni, okanye edamini lokudada. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, unobangela oyintloko wokufa kwabantwana abanjalo abalahlekayo kukurhaxwa.
Kutheni le meko iyingozi kangaka? (Ukuphulukana ne-Autism)
Aba bantwana banokunyamalala nangaliphi na ixesha lonyaka. Kodwa umngcipheko uyanda ngakumbi ehlotyeni, xa ilanga linamandla kakhulu. Oku kungenxa yokuba sichitha ixesha elininzi ngaphandle kwaye sihambahamba. Khawuthelekelele, xa lonke usapho lusitya i-BBQ, ludlala ngaphandle, okanye lukhenketha ehotele kufutshane nolwandle, umntwana unokunyamalala ngequbuliso.
Abantu abaninzi, mhlawumbi nabo bakwiintsapho ezinomntwana one-autism, abazi ngale ngozi. IZiko leSizwe laBantwana abalahlekileyo nabaxhatshazwayo eMelika lenze uphando ngale nto. Bathi ama- 84% okufa ngengozi phakathi kwabantwana abane-autism kubangelwa kukuntywiliselwa emanzini .
Uphononongo luka-2012 olupapashwe kwijenali iPediatrics lufumanise ukuba uninzi lwabazali babantwana abane-autism ( phantse ama-50%) bathi abantwana babo bazama ukunyamalala emva kweminyaka emi-4. Kwakhona, ama-24% abantwana abanyamaleleyo babesengozini yokutshona . Abanye abangama -65% babesengozini yokuba sengozini yemoto . Aba bantwana basenokuba nomdla emanzini kunye neemoto, oololiwe, iinjini zomlilo kunye neempawu zendlela.
Kutheni aba bantwana befuna iindawo ezizolileyo, ingakumbi amanzi?
Kunzima ukutsho ngqo ukuba kutheni oku kusenzeka, kodwa iingcali zithi kukho ezinye iimpawu.
"Into enye esiyibonayo kukuba aba bantwana bazama ukuphuma kwiindawo ezibaxinzelelekileyo, oko kukuthi, iindawo ezinengxolo, ezixineneyo, okanye ezixineneyo. Baya kwindawo ezolileyo. Amanzi adla ngokuba yindawo ezolileyo neyoxolo. Yiyo loo nto betsaleleka kuloo nto."
Akupheleli nje emanzini, banokulingeka ukuba baye naphi na apho kuthule khona, njengehlathi okanye ngaphakathi kwisithuthi esilahliweyo.
Amava abuhlungu
Umama ogama linguBeth Dilg, owayehlala eMaryland,USavannah, intombazana eneminyaka esi-7 ubudala ene-autism , wafa. Ngolunye usuku olubandayo, uBeth waya kwigumbi lokuhlambela imizuzu embalwa ngelixa unyana wakhe oneminyaka eli-11 ubudala wayeceliwe ukuba ajonge abantwana ababini abancinci. Kodwa uSavannah waphuma endlwini nomntakwabo oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala.
Akuphuma uBeth, abantwana ababini babengekho. Wakhangela uSavannah kuyo yonke igadi, owayengakwazi ukuthetha, kodwa akabuyanga. Wabaleka waya edamini elikufutshane waza wabona abantwana ababini emanzini. Nangona unyana wakhe oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala wasindiswa sisigcina-ntloko sakhe sebhayisekile, uSavannah wayengekho zingqondweni xa wamkhupha emanzini.
Oku kunokwenzeka nakweyiphi na intsapho. Nokuba abazali bathabatha amanyathelo okukhusela angakanani na, umntwana unokunyamalala ngephanyazo.
"Aba bantwana abane-autism bakrelekrele kakhulu. Basenokungakwazi ukuthetha, kodwa banengqondo eyahlukileyo. Ngoko ke kufuneka uhlale uphambili kubo ." - Beth Dilg
Wenza ntoni xa umntwana elahlekile?
Ukufumana umntwana olahlekileyo ngolu hlobo kunzima. Abathethi, ngoko ke abayi kusabela ukuba kukho umntu obiza igama lakhe. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana wakho ulahlekile, musa ukumkhangela wedwa.
Fowunela amapolisa inombolo yongxamiseko 119 ngoko nangoko.
Khumbula, umzuzwana ngamnye ubalulekile xa umntwana elahlekile. Amapolisa kunye nabantu bokuqala abasabelayo baqeqeshwe ngokukodwa ukukhangela abantwana abalahlekileyo. Baqala bajonge imithombo yamanzi ekufutshane, amachibi kunye nemilambo.
Izinto esinokuzenza ukuthintela iingozi
Zininzi izinto onokuzenza ukukhusela umntwana wakho kolu hlobo lwengozi. Ukulandela la macebiso kunokwenza umahluko omkhulu.
| Icebo lokhuseleko | Into omawuyenze ilula. |
|---|---|
| Ukhuseleko lwasekhaya | Faka ii-alamu ezenza isandi xa iingcango neefestile zivuliwe. Zitshixe phezulu ukuze zingafikeleleki ebantwaneni. Beka uphawu olubonakalayo, njengophawu oluthi 'Yima', emnyango. |
| Ikhadi lesazisi somntu | Nxiba ikhadi lesazisi elinegama lomntwana wakho, imeko yakhe ye-autism, kunye nenombolo yefowuni yomzali. Ukuba awukwazi ukulinxiba, ungalincamathisela kwintambo yesihlangu. Kodwa khumbula ukuba umntwana wakho usenokungazali izihlangu. |
| Ukuchonga Izinto Ezibangela Ingxaki | Fumanisa isizathu sokuba umntwana wakho azame ukubaleka ekhaya. Ingaba kungenxa yengxolo? Ingaba kungenxa yoxinzelelo? Ukuba ufumanisa isizathu esinjalo, ungamzolisa umntwana wakho okanye umnike ii-headphone xa esiva ingxolo ephazamisayo. |
| Izakhono zokhuseleko (ukubhukuda) | Uqeqesho lokudada lubalulekile. Ingxolo kunye nochulumanco lweklasi yokudada eqhelekileyo lusenokunganyamezeleki emntwaneni. Ngoko ke, fumana izifundo zokudada zabucala kumntu oqondayo abantwana abane-autism. Kwisifundo sokugqibela, ziqhelise ukudada unxibe kakuhle kwaye unxibe izihlangu. Kuba abantwana abaninzi batsibela emanzini benganxibanga mpahla. |
| Ukubeka iliso kwiqela | Xa kukho abantu abadala abaninzi, njengakwisiganeko sosapho, wonke umntu ucinga ukuba kukho umntu oza kumnyamekela umntwana. Kodwa eneneni, kwenzeka okwahlukileyo. Ngoko ke, nika umntu omnye ngexesha uxanduva lokunyamekela umntwana. Emva kwexesha elithile, dlulisela uxanduva komnye umntu. Ngale ndlela, umntu uya kuhlala emnyamekela umntwana. |
Lungiselela imeko engxamisekileyo kwangaphambili.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ulahleka ngequbuliso, lungiselela ezi zinto kwangaphambili ukuze zikuncede umfumane ngokukhawuleza.
- Gcina iifoto zihlaziyiwe: Gcina iifoto ezimbalwa zomntwana wakho kwifowuni yakho ezibonisa ubuso bakhe bonke nentloko yakhe. Ukuba umntwana wakho ulahlekile, ungathumela ezi foto emapoliseni ngoko nangoko.
- Yenza iphepha lolwazi malunga nongxamiseko: Oku kufuneka kuquke igama lomntwana, ubudala, imeko yakhe, nokuba uyakwazi na ukuthetha, izinto ezinokubatsala (ezifana namanzi, izithuthi), kunye neenkcukacha malunga namachibi, amachibi, okanye imilambo ekufutshane nendlu. Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba unike amapolisa olu lwazi ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuba unemibuzo engaphezulu malunga noku, thetha nogqirha wakho wosapho. Angakunika isikhokelo esithe vetshe.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukuyeka ukuba ne-autism kuyingozi enkulu neyokwenyani.
- Ngenxa yokuba aba bantwana banomdla kakhulu emanzini, umngcipheko wokurhaxwa uphezulu kakhulu.
- Ukuthintela yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuthintela iingozi. Khusela ikhaya lakho, vumela umntwana wakho anxibe ikhadi lesazisi, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uziqhelise ukudada.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho ulahlekile, fowunela amapolisa ngoko nangoko ku-119 ngaphandle kokulibazisa. Musa ukumkhangela wedwa.
- Ngexesha lemicimbi yosapho kunye nohambo lwangaphandle, yabela umntu omnye uxanduva lokunyamekela umntwana.
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