Xa ugqirha wakho ekuxelela ukuba unomhlaza webele, kusenokubonakala ngathi ubomi bakho bonke butshintshe ngequbuliso. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Kodwa ayikuchaphazeli wena kuphela. Ikwachaphazela nosapho lwakho nabahlobo bakho abasondeleyo abakuthandayo nabakungqongileyo. Basenokuziva besoyika, benomsindo, belusizi, kwaye bengenakunceda, njengawe. Yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe nakubantu obathandayo ukuba niqondane, ninxibelelane, kwaye nixhasane ngeli xesha lohambo olunzima.
Masifunde ngale nto kunye.
Xa wawuqala ukufunda ngale meko, mhlawumbi wawufuna ulwazi oluninzi ngayo. Wakhangela kwi-intanethi, kwiincwadi, nakoogqirha ukuze ufumane indlela yokujamelana nayo. Njengawe, usapho lwakho nabahlobo bakho nabo bafuna ulwazi. Bafuna ulwazi malunga nendlela yokukunceda ngcono kunye nento onokuyilindela kwixesha elizayo.
Ngoko ke, eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukubabandakanya kolu hambo.
- Thetha nabo ngemeko yakho yempilo, oko kukuthi, ukuxilongwa kwakho ngumhlaza webele .
- Baxelele ukuba loluphi unyango olunikezelwayo kunye nokuba balindele ntoni. Ukuvuleleka ngale ndlela kuya kubanceda boyise naluphi na uloyiko olungeyomfuneko abanokuba nalo.
- Nanini na xa kunokwenzeka, xa usiya kugqirha, thatha umntu okufutshane nawe . Loo mntu unokubuza ugqirha imibuzo aze abhale phantsi izinto ezibalulekileyo encwadini. Emva koko, ukuba kukho into oyilibeleyo, loo mntu unokukukhumbuza. Kwakhona, unokuchazela abanye ngale ngcaciso.
Oku kufana nomdlalo weqela . Xa wonke umntu ehlangana kwaye eqonda, kuba lula kakhulu ukujongana nalo mceli mngeni.
Zimisele ukuzivumelanisa notshintsho.
Ngelixa usenza unyango, ukuphatha imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ekhaya kunokuba ngumceli mngeni omkhulu. Umyeni wakho, umfazi wakho, umama wakho, utata wakho, okanye umhlobo wakho osenyongweni unokukunceda wabelane nawe ngomthwalo ngeli xesha.
Ukuba umntu ufuna ukukunceda, cinga ngezinto ezicacileyo nezicacileyo anokukwenzela zona. Endaweni yokuthi nje, "Ndifuna uncedo," ungacela izinto ezifana nezi:
- "Ungamlanda umntwana esikolweni emva kwemini?"
- "Ungandiphekela ukutya ekhaya ngomhla endiya kuthatha amayeza am ?"
- "Ndifuna ukuthetha okwethutyana, unalo ixesha elincinci?"
Kwakhona, khumbula, ayinguye wonke umntu onokwenza yonke into. Wonke umntu uneziphiwo zakhe ezizodwa. Cinga ngayo, abanye babahlobo bakho bayakwazi ukumamela intlungu yakho. Abanye bayakwazi ukukuhlekisa ngamahlaya. Abanye bayakwazi ukupheka, ukunyamekela abantwana, nokwenza imisebenzi yangaphandle. Ngoko ke, zama ukukhetha umntu ofanelekileyo kumsebenzi ofanelekileyo.
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umntu ukwenza into enzima kuye, yinike omnye umntu kwixesha elizayo. Ungenza noluhlu lwezinto ofuna uncedo ngazo uze umcele ukuba akhethe into angathanda ukuyenza. Okwangoku, ungalibali ukubulela abo bakuncedayo kwaye ubakhumbuze ukuba bakhathalele ubomi babo nempilo yabo .
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina unxibelelwano oluhle.
Njengoko ufumana unyango, iimfuno zakho zinokutshintsha imihla ngemihla kunye neveki neveki. Kwezinye iiveki unokufuna uncedo oluninzi. Kwezinye iiveki unokuba uphilile kangangokuba ungenza izinto wedwa. Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo nosapho lwakho malunga nolu tshintsho.
Ezinye izinto zinokuba nzima kancinci kwaye zingakhululeki ukuthetha ngazo, kodwa kungcono ukuthetha ngazo ngokukhawuleza, ngaphambi kokuba zibe yingxaki enkulu.
Le theyibhile ingezantsi idwelisa ezinye zezihloko ekufuneka wena nosapho lwakho nizixoxe.
| Isihloko esiza kuxoxwa ngaso | Inkcazo kunye nokubaluleka |
|---|---|
| Ukwabelana ngemithwalo yemfanelo | Kuya kufuneka uqhelane neendlela ezintsha zokwenza izinto ezifana nomsebenzi wasekhaya, ukunyamekela abantwana, kunye nokuhlawula amatyala. Cacisa ukuba ngubani owenza ntoni. Ngale ndlela, iingxaki ezingeyomfuneko aziyi kuvela. |
| Ithemba | Wonke umntu unemida yoko anokukwenza. Xoxani ngoko ninokukwenza noko ningenakukwenza ngokusekwe kwimeko yenu yomzimba, imeko yengqondo yabanye, kunye nexesha enilichithayo. |
| Imali ibalulekile | Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokukhululekileyo ngezinto ezifana neendleko zonyango kunye nokulahlekelwa yingeniso. Nangona le yingongoma enzima, kulula ukufumana izisombululo xa nijongene nayo kunye. |
| Izigqibo malunga nonyango | Wena neqabane lakho nisenokuba nezimvo ezahlukeneyo malunga nonyango eniza kuluthatha ngokulandelayo. Kubalulekile ukumamelana. Nangona isigqibo sokugqibela sisesakho, ukwabelana ngezimvo kuyanika amandla. |
| Iimvakalelo | Ngeli xesha, wena nosapho lwakho ninokuba neemvakalelo zosizi, uloyiko, umsindo, kunye noxinzelelo. Ukuthetha ngezinto ezinje "Ninjani?" "Ndinengxaki namhlanje" kunokukunceda uzive ukhululekile kwaye kukuncede niqondane ngcono. |
Kusenokuba nzima ukuthetha ngezi zinto ekuqaleni, kodwa kuya kuba lula ngokuhamba kwexesha. Khumbula ukuba wonke umntu ukwiqela elinye. Ngamanye amaxesha amagama angalunganga anokuthethwa, izinto ezingalunganga zinokwenzeka. Kodwa yibani nomonde omnye komnye.
Funa uncedo ngaphandle ukuba kuyimfuneko.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba akufuneki uhambe wedwa kolu hambo. Xa uziva ngathi umthwalo unzima kakhulu kuwe okanye kumntu osapho lwakho, kulungile ukufuna uncedo lwangaphandle.
- Ingcebiso: Ungadibana nomcebisi njengentsapho. Buza ugqirha wakho ukuba kukho iingcali zempilo yengqondo okanye abacebisi esibhedlele apho ufumana khona unyango. Banokukunceda wenze izigqibo kunye.
- Amaqela eNkxaso: Kukho abanye abantu emhlabeni abadlula kwinto efanayo nawe. Buza abasebenzi basesibhedlele malunga namaqela enkxaso abantu abafana nawe abanokujoyina. Eminye imibutho yomhlaza ikwaqhuba amaqela enkxaso kwi-intanethi. Ukujoyina la maqela kunokukunceda uzive ngathi awuwedwa.
Izinto ezinje ziya kukunika wena kunye nabantu obathandayo amandla amakhulu okulawula eli xesha linzima.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Umhlaza webele ngumngeni oqhelekileyo kuwe, kusapho lwakho nakubahlobo bakho. Musani ukubandezeleka ninodwa, jonganani nawo.
- Thetha ngokukhululekileyo ngemeko yakho, unyango lwakho, kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Hamba nomntu omthembileyo uye naye kugqirha.
- Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo. Cela uncedo ngezinto ezithile ezinje ngokunyamekela abantwana, ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, okanye ukuya evenkileni.
- Hlonipha iimvakalelo zomntu wonke. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kunokuba nzima kuwe nakubantu obathandayo ukujongana nako. Yibani nomonde omnye komnye.
- Ukuba uziva uxinezelekile okanye uxinezelekile, ungathandabuzi ukufuna iingcebiso zobungcali okanye iqela lenkxaso.
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