Ingaba ixesha leeholide linzima kumntwana wakho one-autism? Makhe sithethe ngale nto.

Sonke siyawathanda amaxesha eeholide afana noNyaka oMtsha neKrisimesi, akunjalo? Lixesha elimnandi xa amakhaya ehonjiswe kakuhle, izalamane nabahlobo behlanganisana, kwaye wonke umntu wonwabile . Kodwa kumama okanye utata onomntwana one-autism, eli xesha linokuba nzima kancinci. Aba bantwana banokuba nzima ukujongana nezandi ezingalindelekanga, izibane ezikhanyayo, kunye neendawo ezixineneyo. Ngoko ke namhlanje, masithethe ngendlela yokugcina umntwana wethu ezolile kwaye ekhuselekile ngeli xesha leeholide.

Kutheni le nto iiholide zinzima kwaba bantwana?

Ngamafutshane, ubuchopho babantwana abane-autism busebenzisa ulwazi ngendlela eyahlukileyo kuneyethu. Basenokuba novakalelo olukhethekileyo lweemvakalelo . Oko kukuthi, izinto esizibonayo ngokuqhelekileyo - isandi, ukukhanya, ivumba, ukuchukumisa - zinokuba namandla kakhulu, zinganyamezeleki kubo. Khawuthelekelele, ngexesha leeholide, xa umculo udlala ezivenkileni, izibane ezikhanyayo, isandi sabantu abathethayo, zonke ezi zinto zingena engqondweni yabo ngaxeshanye, bazive bexinezelekile kakhulu, benobunzima. Oku sikubiza ngokuba kukuxinana kweemvakalelo . Ngamaxesha anjalo, umntwana unokucaphuka, akhale, akhale, okanye athule ngokupheleleyo.

Sifanele senze ntoni? Amacebiso athile aluncedo

Kulungile, ngoko ke sijongana njani nalo mceli mngeni? Musa ukukhathazeka, ngokuceba izinto ezincinci, singenza eli xesha libe lula kumntwana nakuthi.

1. Qonda kakuhle imida yomntwana

Ayingabo bonke abantwana abafanayo. Ingakanani ingxolo enokuyinyamezela umntwana wakho? Angahlala ixesha elingakanani kwindawo enabantu abaninzi? Kufuneka uziqonde kakuhle ezi zinto. Umzekelo, ukuthatha umntwana wakho aye kwivenkile enkulu kwisixeko esifana neColombo okanye iKandy emini ngexesha leenyanga zasehlotyeni kusenokungabalungeli. Endaweni yoko, cwangcisa ukuya kwangethuba kusasa phakathi evekini, xa abantu bembalwa.

2. Lungisa indawo ezolileyo kwiindawo ezinengxolo

Ukuba uza kuya kwitheko endlwini yesalamane, thetha nosapho kwangaphambili uze ubone ukuba ungamgcinela na igumbi elizolileyo okanye ikona yeyadi ukuze umntwana wakho ahlale ethule. Wakuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uxinezelekile, mnike ithuba lokuya apho ayokudlala ngethoyi ayithandayo, afunde incwadi, okanye abe lapho. Oku kuya kunciphisa kakhulu uxinzelelo engqondweni yakhe.

3. Xa uhombisa ikhaya lakho, kwenze kancinci kancinci.

Endaweni yokuba ngequbuliso ubeke izibane nemihombiso kuyo yonke indlu uze uzenze zibukeke ngathi "lilizwe elimangalisayo lasebusika," yenza ezi zinto kancinci kancinci. Zisa umthi weKrisimesi ngenye imini uze uwuhombise ngosuku olulandelayo. Bandakanya umntwana wakho kwezi zinto. Mnike ithuba lokuchukumisa imihombiso aze ayiqhele. Oku kuya kumnceda ukuba angaziva engoyiki izinto ezintsha.

4. Thatha amanyathelo okhuseleko ukuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba angalahleki.

Abantwana abane-autism ngamanye amaxesha banokubaleka baze bazulazule kwiindawo abangazaziyo. Oku kunokuba yingozi kakhulu.

• Yazisa abamelwane: Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazisa abamelwane bakho abasondeleyo ngemeko yomntwana wakho kunye nolu hlobo lokuziphatha.
• Nxiba isazisi: Beka isacholo sesazisi esandleni somntwana wakho. Bhala ngokucacileyo igama lomntwana kunye nenombolo yakho yefowuni kuso.
• Hlala uphaphile: Hlala ujonge umntwana wakho kwiindawo ezixineneyo.

5. Gcina inkqubo yemihla ngemihla yomntwana wakho ihambelana kangangoko.

Isiqhelo sinjengesithintelo kwaba bantwana. Sibanika ukuzithemba. Musa ukutshintsha kakhulu indlela abaqhele ukwenza ngayo izinto kuba nje liholide.

• Ukutya nokulala: Zama ukugcina izinto zihambelana kangangoko, njengokutyisa umntwana wakho ngexesha elifanayo yonke imihla nokumlalisa ngexesha elifanayo ubusuku ngabunye.
• Musa ukwenza utshintsho ngequbuliso: Musa nje ukuthi, "Siya epatini, zilungiselele." Endaweni yoko, sebenzisa ishedyuli ebonakalayo . Oko kukuthi, mbonise imifanekiso yezinto ekufuneka azenze ngaloo mini (umz., umfanekiso wokutya, umfanekiso wendlu yesalamane) eludongeni. Ngaleyo ndlela, unokufumana umbono wokuba loo mini iza kuba njani.

6. Zisa izinto eziza kuzisa intuthuzelo kumntwana.

Ukuba uya ndaweni ithile, faka izinto ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo nezithandwayo ebhegini yomntwana wakho. Isenokuba yinto yokudlala ayithandayo, incwadi, ifowuni eneengoma athanda ukuzimamela, okanye izimuncumuncu athanda ukuzitya. Ukuba nezi zinto esandleni sakhe xa exinezelekile kunokuba yintuthuzelo enkulu.

7. Lumka xa ukhetha kwaye unika izipho.

Xa ukhetha isipho somntwana wakho, cinga ukuba asizukuba mnandi kuye kuphela, kodwa siza kumnceda aphuhlise izakhono zakhe. Umzekelo, izinto zokudlala ezikhuthaza ukutshintshiselana kwamathuba kunye nophuhliso lolwimi zibaluleke kakhulu.

Misela imithetho yokuvula izipho. Xelela umntwana wakho kwangaphambili ukuba izipho ziya kuvulwa kuphela xa wonke umntu ekunye. Umntwana wakho usenokungakwazi ukumelana nemincili yomntu wonke ovula izipho ngaxeshanye. Ngoko ke, sebenzisa into efana nebhola encinci enokudluliselwa komnye umntu, uze uvumele umntu oyiphetheyo avule isipho sakhe.

Okokugqibela, kulungile ukuba yonke into ayihambi njengoko bekucwangcisiwe. Ungakhathazeki ngayo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuyixabisa yonke imizuzu oyichitha nomntwana wakho ngeli xesha leeholide. Ukuba unengxaki yokulawula indlela umntwana wakho aziphethe ngayo okanye ufuna ingcebiso engaphezulu, thetha nogqirha wakho wabantwana okanye ugqirha wengqondo .