Njengomzali, mangaphi amaphupha onawo ngekamva lomntwana wakho? Kodwa xa ufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho unesifo se-autism spectrum disorder, okanye i-Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuziva uloyiko olukhulu kunye nexhala kunye naloo maphupha. Ukongeza kwizinto ezifana nonyango oluvela koogqirha kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango, kukho izinto ezininzi ezilula onokuzongeza kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ezinokuzisa isiqabu kuwe nakumntwana wakho. Yiloo nto sithetha ngayo namhlanje.
Soloko ubona 'izinto ezilungileyo' kwaye uzixabise.
Njengaye wonke umntu, abantwana abane-autism bayakuthanda ukuqinisa ingqondo. Ngamafutshane, kukubancoma xa benza into elungileyo. Xa ubancoma ngolo hlobo, baya kuziva bekhululekile, njengawe.
Khawucinge ngomntwana wakho ebeka izinto zakhe zokudlala ecaleni. Ukuba umbambazela intloko yakhe uthi, "Unyana/intombi yam ikrelekrele kakhulu, khangela indlela abazibeke kakuhle ngayo izinto zabo zokudlala," oko kuya kuba yindumiso enkulu. Kubalulekile nokubazisa ukuba uyayixabisa into oyixabisayo . Ungamnika nemivuzo emincinci ngokwenza into elungileyo, njengokumvumela ukuba adlale ixesha elide okanye ukumnika isitika asithandayo. Ngaphezu kwako konke, mthande umntwana wakho ngenxa yokuba ungubani. Eyona nto ixabisekileyo onokuyenza njengomzali kukuthanda umntwana wakho ngaphandle kwemiqathango, nokuba iimeko zakhe zinjani na.
Isiqhelo esiqhubekayo sibaluleke kakhulu!
Abantwana abane- autism bathanda indlela eqhelekileyo neqhelekileyo. Baziva bekhuselekile xa izinto zisenzeka ngaxeshanye nangendlela efanayo. Ngoko ke, qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana ulwalathiso kunye nokusebenzisana rhoqo. Oku kuya kubanceda baqhelisele oko bakufundayo kunyango.
Oku kwenza kube lula kubo ukufunda izakhono ezintsha kunye nokuziphatha, kwaye kubanceda basebenzise olo lwazi kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Thetha nootitshala bomntwana wakho kunye neengcali zonyango kwaye uzame ukulandela indlela efanayo . Emva koko ungenza izinto ezifanayo ekhaya abazifunda esikolweni nakwiziko lonyango. Umzekelo, ungenza ishedyuli yemihla ngemihla ngendlela yemifanekiso kwaye uyincamathisele eludongeni. Xa bevuka kusasa, banokuqonda ngokulula oko kufuneka bakwenze ngokulandelayo, njengokuxukuxa amazinyo abo, ukutya, kunye nokudlala.
Ungalibali ukuzinika ixesha lokudlala.
Usenokucinga ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala edinga ukufunda into ethile, okanye enze unyango. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kukwakho nemidlalo yokuzonwabisa nje.Beka ixesha ecaleni. Xa umntwana wakho evakalelwa kukuba oku akusiyo nje enye isifundo okanye unyango, uya kuzama ukunxibelelana nawe ngokukhululekileyo nangokulula.
Awuwedwa - ungoyiki ukucela uncedo!
Ukunyamekela umntwana, ingakumbi one-autism, akulula. Yiyo loo nto udinga uncedo. Nokuba kukwi-intanethi okanye ngobuqu, inkxaso evela kwezinye iintsapho, iingcali kunye nabahlobo inokuba ngumthombo omkhulu wamandla.
Khumbula, ukuze ube ngumzali oqinileyo, kubalulekile ukuchonga apho ufuna khona uncedo uze ufumane olo ncedo.
Yakha inkqubo yokuxhasa umntwana wakho ngokuqokelela abahlobo nosapho abayiqondayo imeko yomntwana wakho. Umntwana wakho unokufumana kunzima ukugcina ubuhlobo. Ngelo xesha, umntwana wakho uya kufuna uncedo lwakho ukugcina obo buhlobo.
Amaqela enkxaso yindawo entle yokudibana nabanye abazali abajongene nale mingeni kunye nokwabelana ngezimvo kunye neengcebiso. Kwakhona, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukufuna iingcebiso zosapho kunokuba luncedo kakhulu.
Cinga ngokhathalelo lokuphumla
Oku kusenokuba yinto entsha kubantu belizwe lethu. 'Ukhathalelo lokuphumla' luthetha nje ukuba ungaphumla uze ube nomntu omthembayo oza kukhathalela umntwana wakho okwethutyana. Ukuba umntwana wakho udinga ingqalelo ekhethekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo uyalidinga eli khefu. Eli xesha lincinci likunika ithuba lokwenza umsebenzi wakho, ukhululeke kancinci, kwaye ucinge ngempilo yakho yengqondo neyomzimba. Emva koko ungabuya ekhaya unamandla ahlaziyiweyo kwaye unyamekele umntwana wakho.
Konke oku, kungakanani ukubaluleka kokuzinyamekela?
Njengomnakekeli, kubalulekile ukugcina ingqondo nomzimba wakho uphilile. Kulapho ke kuphela apho uya kuba namandla okujongana nemingeni eza nayo yonke imihla. Oko kuthetha ukuba nawe kufuneka uzicingele.
| Oko unokukwenza | Inzuzo yayo |
|---|---|
| Lawula uxinzelelo.Yahlulahlula iingxaki zakho ezinkulu zibe ziinxalenye ezincinci uze wenze isicwangciso sokuzisombulula. Izinto ezifana nokucamngca zinokunceda. | Imvakalelo yobunzima entlokweni iyancipha, ingqondo ivakala ilula, kwaye uyeka ukukhathazeka ngezinto ezingeyomfuneko. |
| Ukuzilolonga. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uye ejimini. Hambahamba endlwini, utyale igadi, udanse ekhitshini ubukele ingoma. Ezi zilula, kodwa ziluncedo kakhulu. | Umzimba nengqondo ziyahlaziyeka. Amandla akho ayakhula. |
| Lala kamnandi ebusuku. Emva kosuku oludinisayo, akukho nto ifana nokulala kamnandi ebusuku ukuze uvuselele umzimba nengqondo yakho. | Inkumbulo kunye nengqalelo ziyaphucuka. Ungaqala usuku uhlaziyekile. |
| Cinga nangokutya kwakho. Njengokuba wondla umntwana wakho ukutya okunesondlo, yitya nawe ukutya okunesondlo okunempilo. Yitya ngexesha elifanelekileyo. | Ikunika amandla owadingayo imini yonke kwaye ikwanceda ekukhuseleni kwizifo. |
Yenza ulungelelwano ebomini.
Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekugcineni ubomi busemgangathweni ophezulu ngelixa ujongene nemingeni yobomi. Xa wonwabile kwaye ulungelelene, lonke usapho luyayiva loo nto.
- Hlangana nabahlobo: Ewe, ungumama okanye utata womntwana oneemfuno ezikhethekileyo. Kodwa ngaphambi koko, ungumntu. Uneempawu zakho. Fumana ixesha lokuthetha nabahlobo bakho nize nihleke.
- Vuselela izinto ozithandayo zakudala: Cinga ngento obukade uyonwabela ukuyenza. Isenokuba kukufunda incwadi, ukuzoba, okanye ukulima igadi. Zinike ixesha kwakhona ezo zinto.
- Imizuzu emihlanu ngosuku: Imizuzu emihlanu oyibeke bucala ekuqaleni kosuku inokutshintsha usuku lwakho lonke. Ngeli xesha, ungabhala phantsi into esengqondweni yakho kwincwadi yakho, uhlambe ngamanzi ashushu , okanye uqokelele iingcinga zakho.
Ukuba uneengxaki okanye amathandabuzo malunga nemeko okanye indlela umntwana wakho aziphethe ngayo, ungaze ungathandabuzi ukuthetha nogqirha wakho . Baza kukunika ulwalathiso olufanelekileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukunyamekela umntwana one-autism luhambo olunzima. Kuza kubakho iintsuku ezimnandi neentsuku ezinzima endleleni. Yiba nomonde.
- Mthande umntwana wakho ngaphandle kwemiqathango, nokuba imeko yakhe injani na. Xabisa nokuba yintoni na into encinci entle eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho.
- Inkqubo eqhubekayo inika umntwana ukhuseleko olukhulu. Sebenzisana nootitshala kunye neengcali zonyango ukuze ulandele inkqubo eqhubekayo.
- Awuwedwa. Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo kusapho, kubahlobo, nakumaqela enkxaso.
- Phakathi kwako konke oku, zikhathalele. Ukuzigcina uphilile ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo sesona sipho sihle onokusinika umntwana wakho.
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