Isikhokelo Sokunyamekela Iintsana Ezisandul' Ukuzalwa Kwabazali Abaqalayo Ukuzalwa: Masithethe!

Xa wamkela usana olutsha ebomini bakho, umntwana oyintombazana okanye umntwana oyinkwenkwe, ubomi bakho bonke buyatshintsha, akunjalo? Kunye novuyo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nemibuzo emininzi efana nokuthi "Ndenze ntoni ngoku?" kunye nokuthi "Ngaba le yinto efanelekileyo ukuyenza?" ihamba engqondweni yakho. Njengabazali abatsha, ungaziva ungenakunceda, uvalelekile, kwaye ude woyike ngamanye amaxesha. Kodwa ungakhathazeki! Ngezi ngcebiso, uya kukwazi ukunyamekela umntwana wakho omncinci ngokukhawuleza nangokuzithemba.

Wenza ntoni xa ufuna uncedo emva kokuba umntwana ebuyele ekhaya?

Njengokunyamekela usana olusandul’ ukuzalwa , ukuzinyamekela kubaluleke ngokufanayo . Kule mihla kuxakeke kakhulu, ngamanye amaxesha ungaziva ngathi, "Owu Thixo wam, ndiqale phi?" Ngoko ke kulungile ukufumana uncedo kwabanye ngeli xesha.

Izalamane nabahlobo bakho baya kukulungela ukukunceda ngale ndlela. Nokuba awuvumelani nabo kwezinye izinto, amava abo anokuba luncedo kuwe. Khawuthelekelele, umama okanye umamazala wakho uthi, "Le yindlela esasisenza ngayo izinto ngelo xesha." Mhlawumbi ezo zinto azisebenzi nanamhlanje, kodwa kukho ukubaluleka kokumamela loo mava.

Kodwa kukho into enye ekufuneka uyikhumbule. Ukuze ukhusele impilo yomntwana wakho, wonke umntu ochukumisa okanye okhulisa umntwana wakho kufuneka ahlale enolwazi ngemigonyo yakhe kwaye ahlale esempilweni . Ukuba kukho umntu ogulayo, kungcono ukumgcina kude nomntwana wakho. Kwakhona, ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima okanye kungakhululeki ukuba neendwendwe, musa ukuziva unetyala ngokunciphisa inani leendwendwe. Intuthuzelo yakho kunye neyomntwana wakho zezona zinto zibalulekileyo.

Ndingamphatha njani umntwana wam ngendlela efanelekileyo?

Ukuba awuzange uchithe ixesha elininzi neentsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa ngaphambili, zinokubonakala zibuthathaka kakhulu kwaye kufuneka ziphathwe ngononophelo. Enyanisweni, zinjalo. Nazi izinto ezisisiseko ekufuneka uzikhumbule:

• Hlamba izandla zakho kakuhle (okanye sebenzisa i-sanitizer yezandla) ngaphambi kokuba umchukumise umntwana wakho. Amasosha omzimba eentsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa akakakhuli ngokupheleleyo, nto leyo eyenza ukuba zibe sesichengeni sokufumana izifo nezifo. Qinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu ochukumisa umntwana wakho unezandla ezicocekileyo.
• Xhasa intloko nentamo yomntwana wakho kakuhle. Xa uphakamisa umntwana wakho, umbambe, umbambe eme nkqo, okanye umbambe esuka emhlabeni, kufuneka uhlale umxhasa kakuhle. Cinga ngayo njengesityalo esincinci, siyayinyamekela ide iingcambu zomelele, akunjalo? Yiyo loo nto kunjalo.
• Ungaze umshukumise umntwana, nokuba kukudlala okanye ngenxa yomsindo. Ukushukumiseka ngolu hlobo kunokonakalisa ingqondo yomntwana.Ukopha ngaphakathi kuyenzeka, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nokufa kuyenzeka. Oku kuyingozi kakhulu. Ukuba ufuna ukuvusa umntwana wakho, ungazami ukumshukumisa. Endaweni yoko, mchukumise ezantsi okanye umphefumlele kancinci esidleleni sakhe.
• Soloko ubopha umntwana wakho kwinqwelo yokumthwala, kwistroli, okanye kwisihlalo semoto. Ziphephe naziphi na izinto ezinokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho ashukume kakhulu okanye arhabaxeke.
• Kuphephe ukudlala gwenxa neentsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa. Umzekelo, ungaze wenze izinto ezifana nokudanisa emathangeni akho okanye uzihlanze phezulu uzibambe.

Ndingaba njani nolwalamano nomntwana wam?

Olu lwalamano lwenzeka kwiiyure zokuqala neentsuku zokuqala zokuzalwa komntwana. Abazali bakha ulwalamano olunzulu nomntwana wabo. Ukusondelana ngokomzimba kunceda ekusekeni olu lwalamano lweemvakalelo, kwaye kunceda nomntwana ukuba akhule ngezinye iindlela. Ngamanye amazwi, olu lwalamano "luya" luqala xa uqala ukumthanda umntwana wakho . Ukuba nomzali okanye umntu omdala ebomini bakho okuthanda ngaphandle kwemiqathango kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana wakho.

Ungaqala ukubopha ngokubamba umntwana wakho uze umchukumise kancinci ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Enye indlela entle kukunxibelelana nolusu , okwaziwa ngokuba yi-"Kangaroo Care". Oku kuquka ukubamba umntwana wakho osandul' ukuzalwa kufutshane nesifuba sakho. Oku kunceda ukuzola umntwana nokulawula isantya sentliziyo yakhe. Le yinto entle kakhulu ukuba umama notata bayenze.

Nantsi indlela yokunxibelelana nomntwana wakho ngolusu:

• Ngaphambi koko, gwema ukunxiba iziqholo kunye neeloshini ezinevumba elimnandi, kwaye hlala kude nomsi wecuba.
• Hlala kwisitulo esikhululekileyo kwindawo emnyama nethuleyo. Nxiba ihempe enokuvuleka ngaphambili.
• Faka umntwana wakho kwi-napkin kuphela uze umbambe esifubeni sakho esingenanto.
• Thula, thetha kancinci, hlebeza, cula iingoma, okanye ufunde incwadi ngokuvakalayo. Umntwana wakho usenokulala ngeli xesha.

Khumbula: olu lwalamano lusisiseko sobudlelwane bothando phakathi kwakho nomntwana wakho.

Ndingamthuthuzela njani umntwana wam?

Ukunceda umntwana wakho aphumle kunokunceda azive onwabile kwaye ekhululekile. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda uthomalalise umntwana wakho.

Ukunika umntwana umasaji

Ukuphulula umntwanaUkuphulula iintsana kunokuba luncedo kwiintsana, ingakumbi ezo zizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha okanye ezineengxaki zempilo. Ezinye iindlela zokuphulula zinokunceda ukuphucula ulwalamano kwaye zincede ekukhuleni nasekuphuhliseni komntwana. Kukho iincwadi ezininzi kunye neevidiyo malunga nokuphulula iintsana - cela ugqirha wakho akunike iingcebiso. Kodwa lumka , iintsana azinamandla njengabantu abadala, ngoko phulula umntwana wakho ngobunono .

Izandi ezahlukeneyo

Iintsana ngokubanzi ziyawathanda amazwi, nokuba kukuthetha, ukucula, ukucula, okanye ukugonwa. Umntwana wakho mhlawumbi uya kukonwabela nokumamela umculo othambileyo. Amathoyizi eentsana, i-rattles, kunye nee-mobiles zomculo ziindlela ezilungileyo zokuvuselela iimvakalelo zomntwana wakho zokuva. Ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci uyalila okanye uyaxokozela, zama ukucula ingoma, ukucula umbongo, okanye ukufunda incwadi ngokuvakalayo. Kukwangumbono olungileyo ukumshukumisa umntwana wakho esitulweni ngeli xesha.

Abanye abantwana banokuba novelwano olungaqhelekanga xa bechukunyiswa, bekhanyiswa, okanye beva isandi. Banokothuka baze bakhale lula, balale kancinci kunokuba bekulindelwe, okanye bajike ubuso babo xa umntu ethetha okanye ecula. Ukuba umntwana wakho unjalo, gcina ingxolo nokukhanya kusezantsi okanye phakathi.

Ukugquma umntwana

Enye indlela ethuthuzelayo kukumbopha umntwana wakho. Oku kusebenza kakuhle kwezinye iintsana kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala. Kugcina iingalo zomntwana zikufutshane nomzimba kwaye kuvumela imilenze ukuba ishukume kancinci. Oku kugcina umntwana efudumele kwaye uninzi lweentsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa zibonakala zikhuselekile kwaye zikhululekile. Ukumbopha kunokunceda ekunciphiseni i-reaction yokuthuka.

Nantsi indlela yokumgquma umntwana wakho:

1. Thatha ingubo yomntwana uze ugobe ikona enye phezulu kancinci.

2. Beka umntwana ejonge phezulu (ejonge phezulu) elaphini, intloko yakhe ibekwe phezu kwekona egobileyo.

3. Thabatha ikona yasekhohlo uyibeke phezu komzimba womntwana, uze uyifake phantsi kwengalo yasekunene nangasemva kwayo, uyiqinise.

4. Thabatha ikona engezantsi uyibeke phezu kwemilenze yomntwana uze utsale intloko uye ecaleni. Ukuba ilaphu lisondele kakhulu ebusweni bomntwana, lisonge phantsi. Musa ukulisonga ngokuqinileyo emaqatheni. Amaqaqa namadolo kufuneka agobe kancinci aze ajike aphume. Ukulisonga kakhulu umntwana kunokunyusa umngcipheko we-hip dysplasia.

5. Thabatha ikona yasekunene uze uyisongele usana, uze uyitsale uyibuyisele kwicala lasekhohlo uze uyiqinise. Intamo nentloko kuphela ezimele zibonakale.

6. Jonga ukuba umntwana ubotshwe kakuhle na. Jonga ukuba ungakwazi na ukufaka esinye sezandla zakho phakathi kwe-swaddle nesifuba somntwana. Ukuba kukho indawo, umntwana angaphefumla kakuhle. Kodwa musa ukuvumela i-swaddle ikhululeke kakhulu.

7. Yeka ukusonga xa umntwana wakho ebonisa iimpawu zokusonga. Oku kudla ngokukwenzeka malunga neenyanga ezimbini. Kule minyaka, abanye abantwana banokusonga ngelixa besonga, nto leyo enokubancedaKukho umngcipheko we-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).

Ndingamfaka njani umntwana wam inabukeni?

Nokuba usebenzisa ii-diapers zelaphu okanye ii-diapers ezilahlwayo, umntwana wakho uya kumanzisa, achame , aze akhuphe indle malunga nezihlandlo ezili-10 ngemini, okanye malunga nezihlandlo ezingama-70 ngeveki. Gcina ezi zinto engqondweni xa utshintsha ii-diapers zomntwana wakho:

• Gcina yonke into oyifunayo ikufutshane (amanapkeni, amanzi, uboya bekotoni, ilaphu okanye `(Iiwipes)`)
• Xa ucoca umntwana wakho, sula kancinci ukusuka ngaphambili ukuya ngasemva ngamanzi, iibhola zekotoni, kunye nelaphu okanye iiwipes. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana oyintombazana ukuthintela iintsholongwane ukuba zingangeni.
• Ukuba unerhashalala ye-diaper, faka i-cream efanelekileyo ye-diaper.
• Hlamba izandla zakho kakuhle emva kokutshintsha inabukeni.

Ndifanele ndimhlambe nini umntwana wam?

Kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala, umntwana uhlanjwa ngesiponji. Emva koko, emva kokuba isikhondo sentamo somile kwaye (ukuba yinkwenkwe) inxeba lokwaluswa lipholile, umntwana angahlanjwa kwisinki okanye kwibhafu encinci yeplastiki yomntwana.

Xa umntwana wakho ekulungele ukuhlamba ebhafini, iibhafu zokuqala ezimbalwa mazibe mfutshane kwaye zibe mfutshane. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhala okanye uyakhala, buyela kwi "Sponge Bath" kangangeveki okanye ezimbini, uze uzame kwakhona ibhafu ebhafini. Ukuhlamba kabini ukuya kathathu ngeveki kulungile kunyaka wokuqala. Ukuhlamba ngaphezu koko kunokomisa ulusu lomntwana wakho.

Ungayinyamekela njani intambo yomlomo kunye nendawo yokwalukela?

Ukhathalelo lweNtambo yeNkumba:

Gcina indawo ejikeleze isikhondo icocekile ngamanzi alula kwaye uyomise kancinci. Oku kudla ngokuthatha iintsuku ezili-10 ukuya kwezili-14, ngamanye amaxesha ukuya kwiiveki ezi-3. Musa ukumanzisa indawo emanzini de isikhondo siwile kwaye siphole. Ngaphambi kokuba isikhondo siwile, siya kutshintsha umbala ukusuka kumthubi ukuya kumdaka okanye kumnyama - oku kuqhelekile . Ukuba indawo iba bomvu, inevumba elibi, okanye ikhupha ubovu, bona ugqirha wakho ngokukhawuleza.

Ukunyamekela indawo yokwalukela:

Emva kokwaluka, oogqirha badla ngokufaka ijeli yepetroleum encinci kwincam yelungu lobudoda lomntwana baze bayigqume ngeqhekeza legauze ukuthintela inxeba ukuba linganamatheli kwi-napkin. Xa utshintsha idayapere rhoqo, sula kancinci incam yelungu lobudoda ngamanzi afudumeleyo (hayi ii-baby wipes), uze ufake ijeli yepetroleum kunye neqhekeza elitsha legauze. Nakuphi na ukubomvu okanye ukudumba kwilungu lobudoda kufuneka kuphele kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ukuya kwiveki. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kuya kuba mandundu, okanye ukuba kuvela amadyungudyungu azele bubomvu, fowunela ugqirha womntwana wakho ngoko nangoko.Ezi zisenokuba ziimpawu zosulelo.

Ndifanele ndimtyise kangaphi umntwana wam?

Nokuba uncancisa okanye utyisa umntwana wakho osandul’ ukuzalwa ibhotile, usenokuzibuza ukuba umele umnike kangaphi umntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuyacetyiswa ukuba unike umntwana wakho ukutya xa ekufuna – oko kukuthi, nanini na xa ebonakala elambile. Umntwana wakho uza kukwazisa ukuba ulambile ngokukhala, ngokufaka iminwe yakhe emlonyeni wakhe, okanye ngokwenza ingxolo yokumunca. Usana olusandul’ ukuzalwa kufuneka lunikwe ukutya rhoqo emva kweeyure ezi-2-3 .

Unokucinga ukuba umntwana oncancisayo ufumana ukutya okwaneleyo ukuba unezi mpawu zilandelayo:

• Ubonakala wanelisekile.
• Malunga neenapukeni ezimanzi ezi-6 ngosuku kunye nokuhamba ngamathumbu izihlandlo ezininzi.
• Lala kamnandi.
• Ukuba ubunzima buyanda njengoko kulindelekile.

Enye indlela elungileyo yokwazi ukuba umntwana oncancisayo ufumana ubisi olwaneleyo kukubona ukuba amabele akho aziva ezele ngaphambi kokuba ancancise kwaye ukuba aziva engenanto emva kokuncancisa. Ukuba uncancisa ubisi lwefomyula, ungajonga ngokulula ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana ubisi olwaneleyo na. Ukuba unemibuzo malunga nokukhula komntwana wakho okanye ishedyuli yokondla, thetha nogqirha wakho.

Iintsana zihlala ziginya umoya xa zisitya, nto leyo enokuzenza zixakeke. Ukuthintela oku, soloko ubhoxa umntwana wakho ngokumbamba egxalabeni lakho uze umbethe kancinci emqolo .

Yintoni ekufuneka ndiyazi malunga nokulala komntwana wam?

Ungamangaliswa kukufumanisa ukuba iintsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa zilala iiyure ezili-16 ngosuku okanye ngaphezulu. Zihlala zilala iiyure ezi-2-4 ngexesha. Uninzi lweentsana lulala ubusuku bonke (phakathi kweeyure ezi-6-8) malunga neenyanga ezi-3. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho akalali kangako, ayisosizathu sokuxhalaba . Njengabantu abadala, iintsana ziphuhlisa iindlela zazo zokulala kunye nemijikelo yazo.

Ukuze unciphise umngcipheko we-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), hlala ulalisa umntwana ngomqolo. Eminye imikhwa yokulala ekhuselekileyo ibandakanya:

• Musa ukusebenzisa iingubo, imiqamelo, oomatrasi, iingubo zoboya bezilwanyana, iibhampa, izilwanyana ezifakwe izinto, imiqamelo, njl.njl. kwindawo yokubeka umntwana okanye ibhesinet apho alala khona umntwana. Ezi zinto zinokubangela ukufuthaniseka komntwana.
• Abazali bafanele balale kwigumbi elinye (kodwa kungabi ebhedini enye ) nomntwana wabo kwiinyanga ezintandathu zokuqala ukuya kunyaka.

Ukuze uthintele ukuba icala elinye lentloko yomntwana wakho lingaguquki, tshintsha icala elikulo intloko yomntwana wakho rhoqo ebusuku (qala uye ngasekunene, uze uye ngasekhohlo, uze uye ngasekunene kwakhona).

Kungekudala uza kuqhela konke oku kwaye unakekele umntwana njengengcali!

Okokugqibela, khumbula oku (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Ukuba ngumzali omtsha kumnandi kwaye kuyinselele. Yonke into intsha, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nezinto ezincinci zinokuba nzima. Kodwa khumbula, awuwedwa .

• Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo.Fumana uncedo kusapho, kubahlobo, okanye kugqirha wakho okanye kumbelekisi.
• Mamela intliziyo yakho. Njengomzali, kukho izinto oziva ngokwemvelo.
• Umntwana ngamnye wahlukile. Umntwana wakho usenokungenzi into efanayo nomntwana womhlobo wakho. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo.
• Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, zikhathalele. Ungamnyamekela kakuhle umntwana wakho kuphela ukuba wonwabile kwaye usempilweni.

Ukuba unemibuzo okanye iinkxalabo, qiniseka ukuba uthetha nogqirha wakho . Banokukunika izixhobo nolwazi olunokukunceda. Ndikunqwenelela okuhle kolu hambo lutsha!

Usana olusandul ' ukuzalwa, Ukukhulisa umntwana, Ukunyamekela umntwana, Abazali bokuqala, Ukunyamekela umntwana, I-SIDS, Ukulala komntwana, Ukuncancisa