Sonke siye sakubona oku, xa sithetha into enye size sive enye. Khawuthelekelele ukuba ubuthetha nomhlobo wakho endaweni yegama lakhe, uve igama lomhlobo wakho wakudala. Okanye, xa ubuthetha notitshala wakho esikolweni, uve igama elithi "Mama." Usenokuba uhleke kancinci uneentloni, kodwa ukhe wacinga, "Kutheni oku kwenzeke kum?" Oku kuqhelekile kakhulu. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngale nto ingaqhelekanga, kodwa ixhaphakileyo.
Yintoni iFreudian Slip?
Ngamafutshane, iFreudian Slip kuxa sithetha into esingayicinganga, nokuba kuxa sithetha okanye sibhala. Oku sidla ngokukubiza ngokuba "kukutyibilika kolwimi ." Yinto eqhelekileyo kakhulu enokwenzeka kuye nabani na, nokuba uthetha luphi ulwimi.
Igama lezonyango lale nto yi -parapraxis . I-American Psychological Association iyichaza ngokuthi: "Ukubonakaliswa okungabonakaliyo kweemvakalelo ezicinezelweyo, ezingafunekiyo okanye iimvakalelo ezigqobhoza ukhuseleko lwengqondo eqondayo kwaye zivele ngokungazi ngamazwi, izenzo, okanye ukubhala." Kuvakala ngathi kuyinkimbinkimbi kancinci? Masiyihlalutye kancinci.
Le nto yafumana njani igama layo? Ngubani lo Freud?
Ithiywe ngoSigmund Freud , ugqirha wase-Austria odumileyo kwihlabathi liphela othathwa njengoyise we-psychoanalysis . UFreud wayekholelwa ukuba olu hlobo lweempazamo yayikukubonakaliswa kweengcinga neemvakalelo esizifihlayo nesizicinezelayo engqondweni yethu engazi nto.
UFreud waqala wafunda oku nomnye umfana. Xa lo mfana wayefunda umgca wemibongo yesiLatini, wayesoloko ewatsiba amagama athile. Esebenzisa uhlalutyo lwengqondo, uFreud wafumanisa ukuba lo mfana wayenamava aphazamisayo ngegazi. UFreud waqonda ukuba xa wayefunda umgca wemibongo, wayekhunjuzwa ngokungazi ngaloo nkumbulo ingathandekiyo, kwaye wayewatsiba loo mazwi.
Kamva, wayeza kuxoxa ngale nto ngokweenkcukacha kwincwadi yakhe ethi "The Psychopathology of Everyday Life." Ukususela ngoko, le nto yaziwa ngokuba yi "Freudian Slip."
Oko kuthetha ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ilizwi elingalunganga eliphuma emilonyeni yethu linokuba yimfihlo efihliweyo ezintliziyweni zethu.
Zingathi zinjani ezi zinto? Makhe sijonge eminye imizekelo.
Ezi mpazamo zahlukile.Kusenokuba nezizathu ezininzi . Ezinye zeentlobo eziphambili kunye nemizekelo zidweliswe kwitheyibhile engasezantsi.
| Isizathu/uhlobo lokubiza amagama ngendlela engafanelekanga | Ingcaciso elula kunye nemizekelo |
|---|---|
| Iimpazamo zengqondo | Uxakeke kakhulu, uphazamisekile, okanye uyalibala. Akukho ntsingiselo inzulu apha. Umzekelo: Endaweni yokuthi "Ndifuna ikofu", yithi "Ndifuna ijazi". |
| Uxinzelelo | Uzama ukulibala isiganeko esibuhlungu esikwenzakalisayo, kodwa kukho into ekwindawo okuyo evuselela loo nkumbulo kwakhona, uze ugqibelise ngokuthetha into engafanelekanga. Umzekelo: Ukubiza iqabane lakho langoku ngegama lesoka lakho langaphambili/intombi yakho. |
| Ukuphepha | Uziphepha ngabom umntu othile, isenzo, okanye indawo ethile. Kodwa kuba ikukhathaza ngokungazi, ugqibela uthetha ngayo ngexesha ongalilindelanga. Umzekelo: Endaweni yokuthi "Ndiza kuza" kumsebenzi ongafuniyo ukuya kuwo, uxelelwa ukuba "Andizi." |
Kutheni oku kusenzeka kuthi? Yintoni inkalo yengqondo?
Kukho iingcamango ezininzi malunga nezizathu zokutyibilika kweFreudian.
Ithiyori yokuqala neyaziwa kakhulu kukuba iingcinga ezicinezelweyo ziyaphuma . Khawuthelekelele ukuba enye inxalenye yengqondo yakho izama ukufihla okanye ukuphepha ingcinga. Kwangaxeshanye, enye inxalenye yengqondo yakho iza kujonga, "Ngaba ndiyifihlile kakuhle?" Emva koko kwenzeka ukuba ingcinga ebizama ukufihla ivuselelwe. Ngoko ke, okukhona sizama ukungacingi ngento ethile, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba iphume emilonyeni yethu.
Imbono yesibini kukuba indlela ingqondo yethu eyisebenzisa ngayo ulwimiInto enxulumeneyo. Ngaphambi kokuba sibeke iingcinga zethu ngamazwi size sithethe, iingqondo zethu zenza 'ukuzihlela' ukuze zibone ukuba kukho naziphi na iimpazamo kwezo ngcinga kwaye nokuba zifanelekile na ukuzithetha. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ngokomyinge, umntu wenza impazamo enye okanye ezimbini kwi-1,000 ngalinye lamagama awathethayo. Oko kuthetha ukuba, ukuba uthetha malunga namagama ali-150 ngomzuzu, unokwenza phakathi kwe-7 kunye ne-22 iimpazamo ngosuku. Ngoko ke, iimpazamo ezinje ngezi ziyinxalenye nje yonxibelelwano lwabantu.
Ukongeza, izinto ezifana nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukungalali ngokwaneleyo, ukudinwa kakhulu, kunye noxinzelelo nazo zinokubangela ezi mpazamo.
Ngoko ke, ngaba ezi mpazamo zikaFreudian ziyinyani? Ewe, ziyinyani. Kodwa ayizizo zonke iimpazamo zolwimi ekufuneka zibe nentsingiselo enzulu nefihlakeleyo. Isenokuba yimpazamo encinci.
Singenza ntoni ukunciphisa olu hlobo lweempazamo?
Ukuba ukhathazwa kukwenza olu hlobo lweempazamo rhoqo, nazi ezinye iindlela ezilula ezicetyiswa zizazi zengqondo zokugcina ingqondo yakho icocekile kwaye uzinciphise.
1. Kuphephe ukwenza izinto ezininzi ngexesha elinye.
Xa ingqondo yethu igcwele umsebenzi omninzi ngaxeshanye, ingqondo yethu iyasasazeka. Emva koko, olu hlobo lweempazamo lunokwenzeka. Ngoko ke, gxila kumsebenzi omnye ngexesha. Nika ingqondo yakho iphumle kancinci phakathi.
2. Kancinci kancinci jongana nezinto oziphephayo (Ukuzibona kancinci kancinci)
Ngaba uneengcinga ezikukhathazayo kwaye uzama ukuziphepha? Ukuzama ukuziphepha kuzenza zibe buhlungu ngakumbi. Endaweni yoko, zama ukuzamkela ezo ngcinga. Kusenokuba nzima ekuqaleni. Kodwa njengoko ujongana nazo ngolawulo, kancinci kancinci, impembelelo yazo iya kuncipha kwaye ingqondo yakho iya kukhululeka. Ukuba ufuna uncedo ngale nto, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha nogqirha wakho othembekileyo .
3. Fumana into ekuphazamisayo
Ukuba awukakulungeli ukujongana nento ekukhathazayo, zama ukuzibandakanya kumsebenzi onokuthatha ingqalelo yakho yonke. Isenokuba kukufunda incwadi, ukubukela imuvi, okanye ukuzilolonga. Oku kunokukunceda unciphise uxinzelelo okwethutyana.
4. Yihlehlise loo ngcinga
Ukuba awukwazi ukucinga nto ithile engqondweni yakho, bekela bucala ixesha elincinci yonke imihla lokucinga ngayo. Umzekelo, zixelele, "Ndiza kucinga ngale ngxaki ukususela ngentsimbi yesi-6 ukuya kweyesi-6:15 ngokuhlwa, emva koko andiyi kucinga ngayo emva koko." Oku kunokukunceda uyeke ukucinga ngayo imini yonke.
5. Ukucinga nzulu nokucamngca
Faka iindlela zokucamngca kunye nokuzilolonga rhoqo kwimisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla. Oku kuya kuzolisa ingqondo yakho, kuphucule ulawulo lwakho lwengqondo, kwaye kukuncede ugxile ekuphileni okwangoku. Oku kuya kunciphisa iziphazamiso ezibangelwa ziingcinga ezingeyomfuneko .
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukuyekelela kwengqondo kaFreudian yinto eqhelekileyo kuthi sonke. Musa ukukhathazeka kakhulu ngayo.
- Ngamanye amaxesha ezi zinto zinokuveza izinto ezinzulu engqondweni yethu. Kodwa, oko akwenzeki rhoqo. Uninzi lwexesha, yimpazamo encinci engqondweni.
- Usenokwenza iimpazamo ezinjalo xa udiniwe, uxinezelekile, okanye uphazamisekile.
- Izinto ezinje ngokuphumla ngokwaneleyo, ukulawula uxinzelelo, kunye nokucamngca zinokunceda ekunciphiseni oku.
- Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba ezi zinto zenzeka rhoqo ngenxa yamava abuhlungu angaphakathi engqondweni yakho, kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo lweengcali. Thetha nogqirha wakho ngale nto.
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