Ngaba usapho lwakho lulindele umntwana omtsha? Okanye sele ungutata omtsha ? Akufuneki ukuba kuthiwe, ukuxakeka kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uxinzelelo oluza nolo vuyo lunokuba nzima kakhulu. Sonke siyazi ukuba umama ufumana 'ikhefu lokubeleka' xa enomntwana. Yinto efunekayo. Kodwa ngaba ukhe weva ngekhefu elifanayo likatata, oko kukuthi, 'ikhefu lobuzali'? Namhlanje sithetha ngeli khefu abantu abaninzi abathetha ngalo kakhulu, kodwa elibaluleke ngokulinganayo kumama, kutata, nakumntwana.
Ngamafutshane, yintoni ikhefu lobuzali?
Kulula kakhulu. Ikhefu Lobuzali lixesha lokuphumla emsebenzini utata omtsha alichitha nomfazi wakhe nosana olusandul’ ukuzalwa. Njengokuba umama efumana ikhefu lokubeleka ukuze anyamekele umntwana wakhe aze aphile emva kokubeleka.
Eli khefu linokuhlawulwa okanye lingahlawulwa. Inani leentsuku oza kuzifumana liza kuxhomekeka kumbutho owusebenzelayo, imithetho yelizwe, njl. Nangona kunjalo, injongo ephambili yoku kukunika ithuba lokuba nosapho lwakho njengotata ngeli xesha lixabisekileyo nelixakekileyo ebomini bakho.
Kutheni le holide ixabiseke kangaka kutata?
Abanye banokucinga, "Umama unyamekela umntwana , kutheni utata enexesha lokuphumla?" Kodwa oko akuyonyani. Iingenelo zale khefu zinkulu kakhulu kunokuba unokucinga. Makhe sibone ukuba zeziphi ezo zibonelelo.
| Inzuzo ephambili | Kwenzeka ntoni kuyo? |
|---|---|
| Kuya kunceda umama ukuba aphile ngokukhawuleza. | Ukuzala akuyonto ilula. Kuthatha ixesha ukuba umama aphile, emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Okwangoku, ukuhlala ecaleni kotata nokuncedisa kwimisebenzi yasekhaya nokunyamekela umntwana ngumthombo omkhulu wamandla kumama. Loo nkxaso imnceda ukuba aphile ngokukhawuleza. |
| Ulwalamano phakathi kotata nomntwana luyaqina. | Iiveki zokuqala neenyanga zobomi bomntwana zezona xesha lixabisekileyo lokunxulumana nabazali bakhe. Ukuba utata uphoswa leli xesha, kunokuba nzima ukwakha olo lwalamano kamva. Utata obandakanyeka kwezi zinto kwasekuqaleni, njengokuhlamba, ukondla, nokuthuthuzela umntwana, wenza ulwalamano phakathi komntwana notata olungasayi kuze luqhawuke. |
| Ikwalungile kakhulu kwimpilo yomntwana. | Ukunyamekela umntwana osandul’ ukuzalwa luxanduva olukhulu. Xa abazali bobabini besebenzisana ukunyamekela umntwana, ingqalelo kunye nenkathalo umntwana ayifumanayo iphindaphindwe kabini. Oku kuchaphazela ngqo impilo nokhuseleko lomntwana. Uphando lufumanise nokuba amazwe anikezela ngekhefu lobuzali anamazinga aphantsi okufa kweentsana. |
| Kulula ukuba umama abuyele emsebenzini. | Xa utata engasafumani nkxaso, umama udla ngokunyanzeleka ukuba ayeke umsebenzi wakhe ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa xa utata esabelana ngemisebenzi yasekhaya kwangethuba, umama unokubuyela emsebenzini ngokuzithemba emva kwekhefu lokubeleka. Oku kulungele yonke imali yosapho. |
Ithini imeko yezomthetho malunga noku eSri Lanka?
Kulungile, ngoku masibone ukuba yeyiphi imithetho yoku kwilizwe lethu. Kuba ngokungafaniyo neMelika, ilizwe lethu linenkqubo eyahlukileyo yoku.
Ngokubanzi, kukho umahluko omncinci malunga nale holide kumacandelo karhulumente nawabucala eSri Lanka.
Icandelo laBucala
Ukuba usebenza kwinkampani yabucala, kukho iindaba ezimnandi kuwe. Ngokwesilungiso somthetho esaziswa ngo-2018, nawuphi na utata osebenza kwicandelo labucala eSri Lanka angafaka isicelo seentsuku ezi-5 zekhefu elihlawulelwayo ngokusemthethweni xa umfazi wakhe ebeletha umntwana.
Okubaluleke kakhulu: Eli khefu kufuneka lithathwe zingadlulanga iinyanga ezi-3 emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Kwakhona, oku akunciphisi elinye ikhefu lakho (iKhefu loNyaka okanye iKhefu eliQhelekileyo). Eli likhefu elongezelelweyo olifumanayo.
Icandelo likaRhulumente
Ukuba ungumqeshwa karhulumente, kudla ngokubakho inkqubo enika iintsuku ezi-3 zokusebenza zekhefu lokuzalwa komntwana. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokwahluka kancinci ngokweziko kunye nangokweesetyhula nganye nganye. Ke ngoko, kungcono ubuze kwisebe lolawulo leziko lakho ukuze ufumane ukuba oku kuthetha ukuthini kanye kanye.
Kuthekani ukuba ezi ntsuku zeholide azanelanga kum?
Iintsuku ezi-5 zisenokunganeli. Usenokuvakalelwa kukuba elo alanelanga ukuba uqhele ubomi bakho obutsha kwaye uxhase umfazi wakho. Ukuba kunjalo, kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza:
1. Thetha kwangaphambili: Thetha nomphathi wakho okanye umphathi we-HR ngale nto ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afike . Cacisa imeko yakho kwaye uxoxe ngokuba ungathatha iintsuku ezimbalwa zekhefu.
2. Sebenzisa elinye ikhefu: Zama ukuthatha ikhefu elide kancinci ngokongeza ikhefu lakho lonyaka okanye ikhefu elingacwangciswanga kweli xesha.
3. Ikhefu elingahlawulelwayo: Ukuba kuyimfuneko ngokwenene, thetha nenkampani uze ubone ukuba ungafumana iintsuku ezimbalwa zekhefu elingahlawulelwayo.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukucwangcisa yonke into kwangaphambili uze uyixoxe ngokukhululekileyo nenkampani. Emva koko nobabini ningafikelela kwisisombululo esilula kuni.
Indima yakho njengotata iqala kusuku lokuqala umntwana wakho ezalwa. Njengokuba ufumana imali, ukuchitha ixesha nosapho lwakho ngeli xesha lixabisekileyo kukwayinxalenye yolo xanduva. Ngoko ke lisebenzise kakuhle eli xesha lokuphumla kwaye unike umfazi wakho nomntwana wakho uthando, inkathalo, kunye nenkxaso epheleleyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ikhefu lobuzali likhefu elikhethekileyo elikuvumela, njengotata omtsha, ukuba ube nomntwana wakho kunye nomfazi wakho.
- Le holide ibaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo-ntle kamama, ubudlelwane phakathi kotata nomntwana, impilo yomntwana, kunye nosapho lonke.
- ESri Lanka, utata okwicandelo labucala unelungelo elisemthethweni leentsuku ezi-5 zekhefu elihlawulelwayo xa umntwana ezelwe.
- Thetha nesebe le-HR lenkampani yakho ukuze ufunde ngemigaqo-nkqubo ethile kunye nethuba lokuthatha ikhefu elongezelelweyo elisebenza kumbutho wakho.
- Ungaphoswa leli xesha lixabisekileyo ebomini bakho. Njengotata, inkxaso yakho ibalulekile kusapho ngeli xesha.
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