Ngaba usandul’ ukutshintsha inapkeni yomntwana wakho? Ngaba uyazibuza, "Uza kufunda nini ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngokufanelekileyo?" Ungakhathazeki, eli lithuba eliqhelekileyo kubo bonke umama notata. Ukuqeqesha umntwana ngembiza linyathelo elikhulu ebomini babo. Abanye abazali basebenzisa iiPull-Ups ukwenza olu hambo lube lula. Makhe sijonge ngokusondeleyo oku.
Kalula nje, zithini ezi Pull-Ups?
Ii-pull-ups zifana nee-diapers, ngaphandle kokuba azinazo ii-straps kumacala omabini njengee-diapers. Endaweni yoko, zinamacala amabini ane-elastic eyolulekileyo. Ukuchaneka, ii-pull-ups zizinto ezitshintshayo phakathi kwee-diapers kunye ne-underwear eqhelekileyo.
Inzuzo yoku kukuba umntwana uyakwazi ukuyitsala phezulu nasezantsi njengempahla yakhe yangaphantsi. Ngoko ke unokuyikhulula lula xa kufuneka aye kwindlu yangasese. Kwakhona, ukuba uchama ngempazamo, iya kutsalwa njengenapkin, ukuze angenzi ngxolo ekhaya.
Liliphi ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqala ukusebenzisa iiPull-Ups?
Ukutsala ii-pull-ups yinxalenye yoqeqesho lokutya i-potty. Ngokwesiqhelo, abantwana baqala uqeqesho lokutya i-potty xa beneminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ubudala . Kodwa oku kuyahluka kumntwana ngamnye. Ngoko ke akukho mthetho uthi "kufuneka uqale kule minyaka."
Iingcali ezininzi zempilo yabantwana zithi kungcono ukutshintshela kwiimpahla zangaphantsi eziqhelekileyo ngoko nangoko , endaweni yokusebenzisa ii-pull-ups xa uqeqesha indlu yangasese emini. Kuba umntwana uya kuziva emanzi xa echama , aze afunde ngokukhawuleza athi, "Owu... le yindlela endiziva ngayo xa ndichama ." Ekubeni ii-pull-ups zifunxa njengee-diapers, umntwana wakho usenokungawuboni umahluko xa ezinxiba emini.
Nangona kunjalo, ukutsala ii-pull-up sisisombululo esihle ebusuku . Ubusazi na ukuba nangona eneminyaka emithandathu ubudala, malunga nama-25% abafana kunye ne-15% yamantombazana basamanzisa ibhedi ebusuku? Kuqhelekile. Ukubamba umchamo ebusuku, okanye ukukwazi ukuvuka uye kwindlu yangasese xa kufuneka, kuxhomekeke ekukhuleni komntwana kunye nemfuza yakhe.
Ngoko ke, ukunxiba i-pull-up ebusuku kunokunceda ukuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba angamanzisi ibhedi ukuba wenza impazamo. Ungagxila ekuqeqesheni indlu yangasese emini kuqala, kwaye xa loo mikhwa sele izinzile, qhubeka noqeqesho lwasebusuku.
Uyazi njani ukuba umntwana wakho ukulungele ukufundiswa ukuya kwindlu yangasese?
"Kulungile, ngaba lixesha lokuba umntwana wam aqale oku?" usenokuba uzibuza. Azifani zonke iintsana. Ezinye zilungela ngokukhawuleza, ngelixa ezinye zithatha ixesha elide. Nazi ezinye zeempawu zokuba umntwana wakho ulungele.
| Uphawu olulungeleyo | Intsingiselo nje |
|---|---|
| Ukukwazi ukulandela imiyalelo elula. | Ukuba uyakwazi ukuqonda nokwenza izinto ezincinci ezifana nokuthi "zisa ibhola" kunye nokuthi "nxiba izihlangu zakho." |
| Ukuqonda amagama anxulumene nendlu yangasese. | Ukuba uyawaqonda amagama anje " umchamo ", "indle", kunye "nendlu yangasese". |
| Ukuqonda ulwalamano phakathi komnqweno wokuchama /isitulo kunye nendlu yangasese. | Ukuba uziva unexhala ngaphambi kokuba uchame , okanye ukuba uthi " umchamo, chama ". |
| Ukugcina inapukeni yomile kangangeeyure ezimbini nangaphezulu. | Oku kubonisa ukuba isinyi sakhe sinokugcina umchamo okwethutyana. |
| Ukuba nomonde wokuhlala kwindlu yangasese. | Ukuba unokuhlala kwindawo enye okwethutyana ungakhathazeki. |
| Ukuzama ukuthoba inabukeni okanye ibhulukhwe yabo. | Olu luphawu lomnqweno wokukhululeka. |
| Ukukhetha ukuhlala kwindlu yangasese okanye ukunxiba impahla yangaphantsi. | Ukuba ubukele umntu esiya kwindlu yangasese, ukuba ubonisa umdla njengokuthi, "Nam ndifuna ukuya." |
Liliphi ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqala uqeqesho lokuzihlambulula?
Kukho amaxesha apho kungengombono ulungileyo ukuqala le nkqubo, kuba ngelo xesha, umntwana udlula kutshintsho lwengqondo nolwenyama.
- Ukuba uceba ukuhamba kungekudala.
- Ukuba kukho umntwana omtsha oza kusapho.
- Ukuba ususa umntwana ebhedini ukuya ebhedini.
- Ukuba ufuduka indlu.
- Ukuba umntwana uyagula.
Ngexesha elinje, ubomi bomntwana wakho butshintsha kakhulu, ngoko ke ukuzama into entsha kunokuba yingxaki kuye. Ngoko ke qala emva kokuba yonke into izinzile kancinci.
Ndingayeka njani ukwenza iiPull-Ups?
Wakuba ugqibile ngempumelelo uqeqesho lwakho lwasemini, ungagxila kuqeqesho lwakho lwasebusuku.
1. Jonga ukuba inapukeni imanzi kangakanani na xa uvuka ebusuku: Jonga ukuba imanzi kangakanani na xa uvuka kusasa. Ukuba ihlala yomile, loo nto luphawu oluhle.
2. Nciphisa ulwelo ngaphambi kokuba ulale: Nciphisa ubuninzi bolwelo olunika umntwana wakho, njengobisi namanzi, kwiiyure ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba alale.
3. Yiya kwindlu yangasese ngaphambi kokuba ulale: Yenza oku kube ngumkhwa onyanzelekileyo.
4. Ziqhelise ukuya kwindlu yangasese kwangoko nje ukuba uvuke kusasa: Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba aye kwindlu yangasese ngokususa into yokumtsala kuqala kusasa.
5. Mncome, ungamgxeki: Mncome kakhulu umntwana wakho ngosuku avuka ngalo elomile kusasa. Yithi into efana nale, "Wow... unyana/intombi yam ayizange ichame izolo ebusuku, kulungile oko!" Ungaze umgxeke okanye umgxeke ngosuku olubi. Oko kuya kumenza umntwana oyike ngakumbi.
Xa umntwana wakho eqala ukuvuka eyomile kusasa, zama ukutshintshela kwiimpahla zangaphantsi eziqhelekileyo endaweni yokunxiba iimpahla ezirhuqwayo. Kodwa khumbula, iimpazamo zinokwenzeka ngamanye amaxesha. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo: Ukuba umntwana wakho usamanzisa ibhedi ebusuku emva kweminyaka emithandathu ubudala , thetha nogqirha wabantwana ngaloo nto. Kusenokuba kukho esinye isizathu. Ugqirha wakho angakunika icebiso elifunekayo.
Kudla ngokuthatha malunga neenyanga ezintathu ukuya kwezintandathu ukuze umntwana aqeqeshwe ngokupheleleyo kwindlu yangasese, ngoko ke umonde ubaluleke kakhulu.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Iipull-up ziyindlela entle yokunceda ekutshintsheni phakathi kwamanapkeni kunye neempahla zangaphantsi. Zilungele ngakumbi ebusuku kunezemini.
- Akukho budala buthile bokuqalisa ukufundisa indlu yangasese. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuqonda ukuba umntwana ukulungele na ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo .
- Nika ingqalelo kwiimpawu zokuba umntwana wakho ukulungele (njengokuhlala omile iiyure ezi-2, ulandela imiyalelo).
- Ungaze umgxeke umntwana wakho ngokwenza impazamo. Endaweni yoko, mncome kwaye umkhuthaze xa ephumelela.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho usenokungabaza kakhulu ukusela amanzi xa eneminyaka emine okanye uyaqhubeka nokumanzisa ibhedi ebusuku emva kweminyaka emithandathu, qhagamshelana nogqirha wakho ukuze akunike icebiso .
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