Ngaba wamangaliswa xa umhlobo wakho ekuxelela ukuba uzive umntwana wakhe eshukuma kwiinyanga ezintathu ekhulelwe? Ngaba wacinga ukuba, "Owu, umntwana uhamba kwangethuba kangaka?"? Oomama abaninzi banalo mbuzo. Abanye bade bacinge ukuba sele kudlule ixesha lokuba bazive umntwana wabo eshukuma. Ngoko ke, namhlanje siza kuthetha ngokweenkcukacha ngala mava amnandi okuva iintshukumo zokuqala zomntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa, nto leyo ngokwezonyango esiyibiza ngokuba yi- 'quickening ' .
Umahluko phakathi "kwesiqhelo" kunye "nomndilili"
Ngaphambi kokuba siqale eli bali, masiqonde into elula kakhulu. Lo ngumahluko phakathi kwamagama athi "Eqhelekileyo" kunye "Nomyinge." Cinga ngale ndlela, uninzi lwabantu kwilizwe lethu batya irayisi ngesidlo sakusasa. Ukutya irayisi yeyona nto ixhaphakileyo (Eqhelekileyo) . Kodwa abanye abantu batya isonka, abanye batya iinoodles. "Akuqhelekanga" ukuba bangayityi irayisi? Oko kuqhelekile .
Kuyafana ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Amava omama bonke awafani. Ayahluka ukusuka komnye umntu ukuya komnye. Ukuba into eyenzeka kubantu abaninzi akuthethi ukuba ayilunganga okanye ayiqhelekanga ayikwenzeki kuwe. Isenokuba ngaphakathi komlinganiselo oqhelekileyo.
Yintoni 'ukukhawuleza'? Uqala nini ukuziva umntwana wakho eshukuma?
Ngamafutshane, ixesha lokuqala uziva umntwana wakho eshukuma ngaphakathi esibelekweni sakho kuthiwa 'yi-quickening'. Akuyonto ibangela uvalo okanye ukukhaba okukhulu. Yimvakalelo engaqondakaliyo ekuqaleni. Abanye oomama bayichaza ngolu hlobo:
- Kuvakala ngathi kukho ibhabhathane elincinci elibhabhayo ngaphakathi esiswini sakho.
- Kuvakala ngathi kukho iqamza elincinci elinyukayo esiswini sam.
- Njengokushukuma okuncinci.
Ngenxa yokuba olu luvo lungabonakali kangako, kunokuba nzima kancinci ukufumanisa ekuqaleni ukuba yigesi nje okanye yinto enye, okanye ukuba umntwana uyasokola ngokwenene.
Ngoku makhe sibone ukuba ezi ntshukumo zihlala zivakala nini.
| Imeko | Ixesha Eliqhelekileyo Lokuva Intshukumo |
|---|---|
| Umama wokuqala | Malunga neeveki ezingama-20 |
| Kukukhulelwa kwesibini okanye okulandelayo | Malunga neeveki ezili-16 |
| Umama onomzimba omncinci | (Ingavakala ngaphambi kwexesha eliqhelekileyo) |
Kutheni uvakalelwa kwangoko xa usana lwakho lwesibini?
Usenokuzibuza ukuba kutheni uziva ezi ntshukumo kwangethuba nomntwana wakho wesibini. Isizathu kukuba emva kokubona okokuqala, umzimba nengqondo yakho ziqhele ngakumbi ukuqaphela ezi mvakalelo zincinci. Ngoko unokwahlula ngokukhawuleza phakathi komoya kunye nentshukumo yomntwana .
Kutheni abanye abantu bevakalelwa ngolu hlobo kwangethuba?
Ngoku masingene kumbuzo wethu wokuqala. Ngaba uziva umntwana wakho eshukuma kwiinyanga ezi-3, ezimalunga neeveki ezili-12? Impendulo ithi, "Akuqhelekanga oku, kodwa kunokwenzeka."
Khawucinge ukuba umntwana wakho mkhulu kangakanani kwiiveki ezili-12. Unobude obuziisentimitha ezi-4 kuphela kwaye ubunzima bakhe buziigram ezingama-30 (ngaphezulu kancinci kwi-ounce enye). Ngoko ke kunzima kancinci ukuva iintshukumo zomntu omncinci kangaka. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha, ukuba ezi zinto ziyadibana, umama unokukwazi ukuziva umntwana eshukuma kwiiveki ezili-12-14:
1. Utshintsho lomhla: Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhulelwa kwakho kusenokuba emva kweveki okanye ezimbini kunokuba ucinga. Kunokubakho umahluko omncinci phakathi komhla obalwe ukususela kwixesha lakho lokugqibela lokuya exesheni (i-LMP) kunye nomhla wokuhlolwa kwakho. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwazi ngokuqinisekileyo kukuthetha nogqirha wakho .
2. Ukuba nomzimba obhityileyo: Ukuba unomzimba obhityileyo, ungaziva iintshukumo zesibeleko sakho ngokukhawuleza kuba kukho ungqimba oluncinci lwamafutha esiswini sakho.
3. Ukuba kukukhulelwa kwakho okwesibini okanye okulandelayo: Njengoko besikhe sathetha ngako ngaphambili, uba nomdla ngakumbi ekufumaneni ezi ntshukumo zincinci kuba ukhe waba namava ngaphambili.
4. Usana lukhuthele kakhulu: Abanye abantwana bakhuthele kancinci kunabanye. Ngoko ke ukuba unomntwana odlalayo, ungaziva iintshukumo zakhe kwangethuba.
5. Ukuba ngumama onobubele kakhulu: Abanye oomama banovelwano kakhulu kutshintsho olusemizimbeni yabo. Banokuzibona ezi ntshukumo kwangethuba kunabanye.
Ngoko ke, ukuba umhlobo wakho ubhityile, ukuba lusana lwakhe lwesibini, mhlawumbi kukho umahluko omncinci kwiintsuku, kwaye ukuba umntwana osesiswini uyadideka kancinci, akumangalisi ukuba usaziva iintshukumo zomntwana malunga neeveki ezili-12. Ngoko ke ukuba umntu uthi uziva umntwana ehamba, asinalo ilungelo lokuthi, "Hayi, oko akunakwenzeka." Kuba amava ahlukile kumntu ngamnye.
Ngaba kufuneka ndikhathazeke ukuba andiziva ntshukumo?
Ukuba awukaziva umntwana wakho eshukuma kwiiveki ezingama-20, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nexhala kancinci. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba i-placenta yakho inamathele eludongeni lwangaphambili lwesibeleko sakho (i-placenta yangaphambili). Kwimeko enjalo, iintshukumo zomntwana wakho zinokufunxwa yi-placenta, ngoko unokuziva kamva kancinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awukaziva ntshukumo kwiiveki ezingama-24 , kubalulekile ukwazisa ugqirha wakho okanye umbelethisi. Banokujonga ukuqinisekisa ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ixesha elithathwayo ukuze uve iintshukumo zokuqala zomntwana wakho, okanye 'ukukhawulezisa', liyahluka kumntu nomntu. Musa ukuzithelekisa nabanye.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi ntshukumo ziqala ukuvakala kwiiveki ezingama-20 zokukhulelwa kumntwana wokuqala, kwaye kwiiveki ezili-16 kumntwana wesibini okanye olandelayo.
- Ukuba ubhityile, kwaye oku kukukhulelwa kwakho kwesibini okanye okulandelayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uzive oku kwangoko.
- Akuqhelekanga ukuziva umntwana wakho eshukuma kwiiveki ezili-12, kwaye kunokwenzeka.
- Ukuba unemibuzo okanye iinkxalabo malunga nokukhulelwa kwakho, iintshukumo zomntwana wakho, okanye nantoni na enye, qiniseka ukuba uthetha nogqirha wakho . Musa ukoyika ukuqikelela okanye ukuthembela kuphela kulwazi olufumaneka kwi-intanethi.
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