Ingabe ingane yakho encane isenomunwe emlonyeni wayo yize isikhulile kancane? Mhlawumbe iyawubona lo mkhuba lapho ibukele i-TV, lapho ikhathele, noma lapho ilele. Abazali abaningi bakhathazekile kancane ngalokhu. 'O, ingabe lo mkhuba kuphela ingane yami enawo? Ingabe lokhu kuzoba yinkinga enkulu?' Ungase ucabange. Ungakhathazeki. Empeleni lokhu kuyinto ebonakala ezinganeni eziningi. Ake sixoxe ngalokhu ngokucacile namuhla.
Kungani izingane ezincane zincela izithupha zazo? Ingabe lokhu kuyinto evamile?
Eqinisweni, ukuncela isithupha kuyisiko elivamile nelizuzisayo ezinganeni ezincane kakhulu. Odokotela bathi akulona umqondo omuhle ukuphoqa ingane engaphansi kweminyaka emihlanu ukuba iyeke lo mkhuba.
Kalula nje, kuyindlela yokuthi izingane ziziduduze . Uma zikhathele, zikhathele, noma zidabukile noma zesaba, zizifaka ngokuzenzakalelayo iminwe yazo emlonyeni wazo. Njengoba nje senza okuthile ukuze sizithulise lapho sidabukile. Cishe uke waphawula ukuthi ezinye izingane zijika izinwele zazo, zithinte indlebe, noma zihlikihle i-blankie yazo encane ngenkathi zimunca iminwe yazo. Lezi yizinto zonke ezizenza zizizwe ziphephile futhi zikhululekile.
Into ebalulekile ukuthi ukuncela isithupha sengane akusho ukuthi inenkinga yengqondo, futhi akusho ukuthi izoqhubeka nokuba nalo mkhuba lapho ikhula. Iningi lezingane liwuyeka ngokuzenzakalelayo lo mkhuba lapho liqala isikole (i-kindergarten).
Ngakho-ke, kufanele sikhathazeke nini ngalokhu?
Njengoba izingane zikhula futhi zidlula iminyaka yokungena esikoleni samabanga aphansi, inani lezingane ezincela izithupha zazo liyancipha kancane kancane. Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi cishe ingane eyodwa kwezinhlanu iyaqhubeka nokwenza kanjalo ngemva kweminyaka emi-5. Yilapho-ke kudingeka siqaphele khona. Kunezizathu eziningana zalokhu:
- Izinkinga zomphakathi: Lesi yisikhathi lapho ezinye izingane ziqala ukuzigcona nokuzikhipha inyumbazane. Lapho abangane bethi, "Usancela isithupha sakhe," kungaba yinto ecasula kakhulu enganeni. Ngakho-ke, ezinye izingane zingase zifunde ukugwema ukudlala nazo futhi zizigweme.
- Ukulimala kwamazinyo: Lokhu kuyinkinga abazali abaningi abanayo. Amazinyo ahlala njalo ezingane aqala ukuvela cishe eneminyaka emi-5. Uma ziqhubeka nokuncela izithupha zazo phakathi nalesi sikhathi, kunethuba elikhulu lokuthi amazinyo azokhishwa aphumele phambili ( overbite ) .
- Ubunzima bokukhuluma: Abanye abantwana banenkinga yokuphimisela izinhlamvu ezithile ngenxa yokungafani kwamazinyo abo, ikakhulukazi imisindo efana nolimi efana no-"s".
- Izinkinga zomzimba:Ukumunca iminwe njalo kungabangela isikhumba somunwe ukuba some futhi siqhekeke. Ngezinye izikhathi kuvela ama-callus , izinzipho zingase zingakhuli kahle, futhi kungenzeka kube nokutheleleka kwezinzipho.
Ngingasiza kanjani ukuyeka lo mkhuba? - Ngothando nokubekezela
Uma ingane yakho isancela isithupha eneminyaka engu-5-6, kufanele sicabange ngezindlela zokuyisiza ukuthi iyeke. Kodwa khumbula, akuwona umqondo omuhle ukuyiphoqa ukuthi iyeke konke ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ukuthethisa, ukusola, noma ukuzama ukuphoqa ingane yakho ukuba ikhiphe umunwe wayo emlonyeni wayo kudala umbango wamandla phakathi kwakho nengane. Uma lokho kwenzeka, ingane ingase ilingeke ukuba yenze into efanayo ngokunganaki.
Eqinisweni, ngemva kweminyaka eyi-6, izingane eziningi zifuna ukuyeka lo mkhuba, kodwa zidinga usizo oluncane. Udinga ukubandakanya ingane kulokhu.
| Uhlelo lwesinyathelo ngesinyathelo lokugqashula lo mkhuba | |
|---|---|
| Izinyathelo | Okufanele ngikwenze |
| Isinyathelo 1: Misa indaba | Ungakhulumi ngokuncela isithupha cishe inyanga yonke. Mhlawumbe lo mkhuba uzophela ngokungadonseli ukunaka kuwo. |
| Isinyathelo 2: Ishadi Lenqubekela phambili | Thola ibhodi lephosta bese wenza 'ishadi lentuthuko' elihle nengane yakho. Mvumele abeke isitikha nsuku zonke lapho engayikhethi khona. Mthembise isipho esincane sesonto lonke, kanye nesipho esikhulu senyanga yonke. |
| Isinyathelo 3: Izikhumbuzo ezincane | Ikakhulukazi ebusuku, faka into ebabayo ezinzipho. Kukhona uketshezi lwalokhu emakhemisi. Noma ungasebenzisa iphunga onalo ekhaya. Vumela ingane ikhethe iphunga bese ifaka kancane esicongweni somunwe wayo. |
| Isinyathelo 4: Amanye amaqhinga | Gqoka amagilavu /amagilavu uma ulele ebusuku. Noma ungafaka ibhandishi elincane emunweni wakho. |
Ingane yakho idinga uthando lwakho kakhulu phakathi nalesi sikhathi!
Uma uzama ukuyeka lo mkhuba , mncome kakhulu umntwana wakho. Ngisho noma engaphumeleli kangako, yithi, "Kuhle lokho ndodana/ndodakazi." Mgone, myise endaweni ayithandayo, nidlale ndawonye. Qaphela izikhathi lapho ezwa sengathi ufuna ukumunca isithupha sakhe, njengalapho ebuka i-TV noma lapho egibela emotweni. Ngaleso sikhathi, dlulisela ukunaka kwengane yakho kwenye into. Mnike ithoyizi, umxoxele indaba, noma umvumele enze okuthile ukuze agcine izandla zakhe zimatasa.
Kuthiwani uma lezi zindlela zingaphumeleli?
Uma ungakawuyeki lo mkhuba ngemva kokwenza konke lokhu, ungakhathazeki. Eminye imikhuba ithatha isikhathi ukuyiyeka futhi ingadinga usizo olwengeziwe.
Esimweni esinjalo, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho ngalokhu. Angahlola ingane yakho futhi akunike iseluleko esingcono kakhulu. Bangakuthumela nodokotela wamazinyo.
Odokotela bamazinyo bangase batuse ukusetshenziswa kwento encane yomlomo , ebizwa ngokuthi 'i-palatal bar' noma 'i-crib'. Lokhu kusetshenziselwa ukuvimbela ngokomzimba ukumunca isithupha uma kufakwa emlonyeni.
Uma ungakwazi ukuyeka lo mkhuba naphezu kwemizamo yakho emihle kakhulu, kungaba uphawu lwenkinga ejulile engqondweni yengane yakho. Isibonelo, kungaba ukucindezeleka okuvela ezinkingeni zomndeni noma zesikole. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kungaba ngumqondo omuhle ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo , ngeseluleko sikadokotela .
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Kujwayelekile ukuthi ingane engaphansi kweminyaka emi-5 incele isithupha sayo. Kuyindlela eyisebenzisayo ukuziduduza.
- Uma lo mkhuba uqhubeka ngemva kweminyaka emihlanu, ungabangela izinkinga ngamazinyo kanye nobudlelwano nabantu.
- Gwema ukujezisa noma ukuthethisa ingane yakho ukuze uyisize ihlukane nomkhuba. Kunalokho, yisize ngothando, ngesineke, kanye nesikhuthazo.
- Sebenzisa izindlela ezinhle ezifana 'nezinothi zentuthuko' kanye nezipho ezincane, futhi ubandakanye ingane kule nqubo.
- Uma imizamo yakho ingaphumeleli, ungesabi futhi uthintane nodokotela wakho ukuze akunike iseluleko.
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