Sonke siyazi ukuthi kunjani ukwesaba ngempela. Inhliziyo yakho iyashaya ngamandla, ukuphefumula kwakho kuyashesha, uyajuluka, futhi uthola izimvemvane esiswini sakho. Lokhu kwesaba kungavela ekubukeni i-movie eyesabekayo, ekulaleleni indaba eyesabekayo, noma ekuhambeni endlini enezipoki ebusuku. Kodwa ngokumangazayo, abanye abantu bayawuthanda lo muzwa wokwesaba. Baxosha izinto ezesabekayo.
Kubantu abavamile njengathi, kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi abanye bajabulela kanjani okuhlangenwe nakho okwesabekayo okunjalo, noma ngabe babona isigcawu esincane ku-movie ethusayo futhi bezwa sengathi izisu zabo sezizoqhuma. Kodwa ochwepheshe bathi kuyinto evamile ngabanye abantu ukusunduza imingcele yabo ukuze babone ukuthi bangakuthatha kude kangakanani ukwesaba kwabo, futhi bazizwe banelisekile kakhulu ngemva kokunqoba lokho kwesaba.
Kungani siyithanda kangaka le ‘side esimnyama’?
Yini ngempela ekhanga lezi zindaba zezipoki nezinto ezesabekayo? Ngokusho kukaFrank Farley, PhD, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo eTemple University, "Abantu bebelokhu befuna ukwazi ngalolu 'hlangothi olumnyama' emlandweni wonke. Baye bazama ukuluqonda." Ngamafilimu, sithola ukubona izinto ezesabekayo phambi kwamehlo ethu. Abanye abantu bayathakaselwa kakhulu yilo. Banesithakazelo ezintweni ezihluke ngokuphelele, ezingavamile, neziyimfihlakalo kunalokho abakubona ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ngoba abakwazi ukuqonda lezo zinto.
Esinye isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, uGlenn Sparks, PhD, sifunde indlela amadoda, abesifazane, nezingane abasabela ngayo ezimweni ezesabekayo kwabezindaba iminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amabili. Uthi, “Abanye abantu banesidingo sokuzwa okuthile okuhlukile ekuzijabuliseni kwezimpilo zabo zansuku zonke.” Nakuba kunezinkinga ezithile zokubukela i-movie eyesabekayo, abantu bakuthola kwanelisa kakhulu ngoba okuhlangenwe nakho kuhlukile.
Ngokumangalisayo, ezinye izifundo zikhombisile ukuthi abafana bajabulela ama-movie asabekayo kakhulu kunamantombazane. "Akukhona ngoba empeleni bathanda ukwesaba," kusho uSparks. "Kodwa bathola ukwaneliseka okukhulu ngokukwazi ukusho ukuthi banqobe into esongelayo, bayilawule. Bathanda umuzwa wokuthi 'ngisindile kulokho.'"
Ngokuvamile, lapho ifilimu ethusayo isiphelile, umuntu uphuma eshashalazini ekhululekile. "Mhlawumbe uyajabula ukuthi ifilimu isiphelile," kusho uSparks.
Bangobani laba bantu 'abangohlobo lwe-T'?
UFarley, owayengumongameli we-American Psychological Association, uhlole abantu ngalokho akubiza ngokuthi ubuntu "bohlobo T" (ukufuna injabulo). Laba bantu bathanda ukungaqiniseki kanye nokuqina okuhlobene nemisebenzi engenza izinwele emizimbeni yethu zime. Kusukela ekugibeleni ama-roller coaster kuya ekugxumeni kwe-bungee, lezi zinto ziyintokozo yangempela kubo. "Ababhukudi basesibhakabhakeni bathi yilokho kujabulisa, lokho kushesha, kanye nokwesaba okuncane okubashukumisela ukuba bazikhandle kuze kube sekupheleni," usho kanje.
Ngokusho kukaFarley, abanye abantu bayakujabulela ukuzwa ngokomzimba okuza nokwesaba. Izinto ezifana nokumpompa i-adrenaline , ukushaya kwenhliziyo, kanye nezandla ezijulukayo. Ezifundweni zenjabulo etholwa abagibeli be-roller coaster, uthole ukuthi, "Kuyinto emangalisayo yokuzwa. Akukho okunye okungaqhathaniswa nalokho, ngisho nocansi ."
| Izizathu eziyinhloko zokuthanda ukwesaba | Incazelo elula |
|---|---|
| Ilukuluku | Isifiso sokwazi ngezinto ezihlukile, eziyimfihlakalo, futhi 'ezimnyama' ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke. |
| Ukunqoba izinselele | Ukwaneliseka kokubhekana nesipiliyoni esesabekayo nokuzizwa sengathi 'usinqobile'. |
| Ukuzwa ngokomzimba | Ukujabulela izimpendulo zomzimba ezihambisana nokwesaba, njengokushesha kwe-adrenaline kanye nokushaya kwenhliziyo okukhuphukile. |
| Ukuthola impumuzo | Ukukhululeka okukhulu kanye nokukhanya okuzwakalayo ngemva kokuphela kwesipiliyoni esibi. |
Kuthiwani ngabantwana abancane?
Ezinganeni, izindaba zezipoki zingaba yindlela ephephile yokuzwa nokuhlola ukwesaba. Ngoba bayazi ukuthi izipoki nezilo kulezi zindaba konke kuyizinto ezicatshangelwayo. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uLeon Rappoport, PhD, sichaza lokhu njengohlobo lwe-hypnosis. Kunikeza izingane ithuba lokuveza ukukhathazeka kwazo kwangaphakathi. "Zithola impumuzo kulokho okuhlangenwe nakho," usho kanje.
Ama-movie asabekayo kakhulu kanye nezenzakalo ezibalulekile zobusha
Uma ujabulela ukubuka ama-movie asabekayo futhi inhliziyo yakho ishaya ngamandla, ube nokuningi ongakulindela muva nje. Ngo-1998, uSparks wenza inhlolovo ukuthola ukuthi yimaphi ama-movie asabekayo abantu abake bawabona. Amafilimu aqanjwe ngokuthi "ama-Seven Deadly Films" kwakungu-'Scream', 'Friday the 13th', 'The Shining', 'Halloween', 'A Nightmare on Elm Street', 'The Exorcist', kanye no-'Poltergeist'.
Eqinisweni, abanye abantu bakhetha ukugwema ngokuphelele amafilimu asabekayo. USparks uthi cishe ingxenye yesithathu yabantu iwela kulesi sigaba. Abatholi lutho olubalulekile ezindabeni ezibenza besabe baze bafe.
Kubafana abancane ikakhulukazi, ukubuka la mafilimu kungaba yingqophamlando ohambweni lwabo lokuba abantu abadala . Bakubona njengokuchayeka ezintweni ezazingavunyelwe ebuntwaneni babo. Iningi lala mafilimu libonisa ukwephulwa kwezindinganiso zokuziphatha zendabuko. "Kukhona ukukhanga kohlobo 'olungavunyelwe' lwazo. Kufana nokuthi intsha eningi izama ukuthola ukuthi kunjani ukuphuza ubhiya obuningi, ukubhema ugwayi , noma ukushayela ngesivinini esikhulu."
Labo abathatha umuzwa wokwesaba ngokweqile
Kulabo abanganelisekile ngefilimu evamile ethusayo noma inoveli ethusayo, manje sekunethuba lokuthatha ukwesaba kwabo bakuyise ezingeni elilandelayo. Okusho ukuthi, baziyala ukuba bathunjwe!
Ngemali enkulu kusukela ku-$1,500 kuya ku-$4,000, ibhizinisi elisha eNew York lizokuthumba, likubophe, likuvale imilomo, futhi likubambe amahora noma izinsuku. Lenzelwe ukukwethusa ngangokunokwenzeka. Ungenza futhi ngokwezifiso ukuthumba ukuze kuhambisane nokwesaba kwakho kanye nezinto ozithandayo.
Lokhu kudlulele ngempela. Njengoba uFarley esho, "Le nkampani ifana nokwenza 'ingxoxo yangaphambi kwengxoxo', ukuthola ukuthi yini oyisabayo, bese uthatha isinyathelo ngayo. Ngibona lokhu njengokunethezeka okumnandi kakhulu. Kunobudlova futhi kuyesabeka kakhulu, kodwa abantu bakwenza ngokuzithandela."
Ngakho-ke, ngesikhathi esizayo lapho ubuka i-movie eyesabekayo nabangani bakho noma ugibela i-roller coaster, uma uthanda ukwesaba okuzwayo, manje usuyazi ukuthi akumangazi. Futhi, uma ukwesaba, nakho lokho kuyinto evamile.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Kuvamile ukuthi abanye abantu bathande ukwesaba. Ngemuva kwalokhu kunezizathu zengqondo ezifana nelukuluku, injabulo yokunqoba izinselele, kanye nesifiso semizwa engokwenyama.
- Abantu abanobuntu obufana no-'Type T' (Thrill-seeker) bajabulela kakhulu ukushesha kwe-adrenaline kanye nemizwa enamandla evela kokuhlangenwe nakho okwesabekayo.
- Ukuzwa ukwesaba endaweni elawulwayo, njengefilimu eyesabekayo, kungaba yinto eyanelisayo ngenxa yomuzwa wokunqoba lokho kwesaba kanye nempumuzo eza ngemva kwalokho.
- Uma ungazithandi izinto ezesabekayo, lokho kuyinto evamile. Ingxenye enkulu yabantu iyakugwema lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho.
- Ukwesabisa ngokweqile kungaba yingozi. Kubalulekile ukwazi imingcele yakho nokuzibandakanya kulezi zinhlobo zemisebenzi ngokuphephile. Uma kukhona okukubangela ukucindezeleka okungalawuleki, kuwukuhlakanipha ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho .
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