Ukuba ngumama noma ubaba kuyiphupho elikhulu kunazo zonke ekuphileni kwabantu abaningi. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukene, kungaba nzima kancane ukufeza lelo phupho. Yilapho abantu abaningi bephendukela khona ekwelashweni kwe-IVF ( In Vitro Fertilization ) . Lokhu kuyisibusiso ngempela kwezokwelapha. Kodwa lolu hambo alulula njengoba ucabanga. Ikakhulukazi kulabo abacabanga ukuthi, "O, yeka ukuthi kungaba kuhle kangakanani ukube besinamawele ngesikhathi esisodwa," kukhona uhlangothi olungabonakali kulolu hambo. Namuhla, sikhuluma ngakho, ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwangempela kowesifazane ogama lakhe linguSpring, ohlala eMelika.
Indaba Yentwasahlobo: Ithemba Neqiniso
USpring ungowesifazane oneminyaka engu-32 ubudala. Yena nomyeni wakhe bebelokhu bezama ukukhulelwa iminyaka emine nengxenye, futhi ekugcineni baphendukele ekwelashweni nge-IVF. Umzamo wabo wokuqala we-IVF awuphumelelanga. Kodwa okwesibili, odokotela bafaka ama-embryo amathathu esibelethweni sakhe.
Ekuqaleni, udokotela wathi balindele amawele. Kodwa ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, bathola izindaba ezimangazayo - babelindele umntwana wesithathu! Kodwa injabulo ayizange ihlale isikhathi eside. Ukukhulelwa kwesithathu kwaphuphuma isisu. Ekugcineni, iNtwasahlobo manje isithwele amawele.
Njengoba esho, yonke inqubo ifana nohambo oluhamba ngesivinini esikhulu. Inhlanganisela eqhubekayo yezinto ezinhle nezimbi, injabulo , usizi, ukwesaba, nethemba.
"Besingalindele ngempela amawele. Kodwa njengoba imindeni yethu yomibili inamawele, besinombono omncane wokuthi sizoba nenhlanhla yokuba nawo. Kodwa uma kukhulunywa nge-IVF, ithemba lethu kuphela kwakuwukuba ngandlela thile sibe nomntwana onempilo . Sajabula kakhulu lapho sithola ukuthi sizothola amawele."
"Nami ngifuna amawele" - ingabe lo mcabango uyiqiniso ngempela?
Uma abantu abaningi becabanga nge-IVF, bacabanga ukuthi, "Kungaba kuhle uma singaba nezingane ezimbili ngezindleko nomzamo ofanayo." Lowo umcabango ovamile kakhulu. Kodwa uSpring ulandisa indaba ebaluleke kakhulu ngalokhu.
"Uma umuntu efika kulolu hlobo lokwelashwa enomqondo wokufuna amawele, lokho kuwumqondo ongalungile. Lena inqubo eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, engathi sína. Ikuthinta wena, umyeni wakho, umndeni wakho, wonke umuntu ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba. Lolu hambo kudingeka luqale endaweni yokuthi, 'Ngifuna umndeni, ngizokwamukela ngenjabulo noma yimuphi umntwana uNkulunkulu anginika yena.'"
Njengoba esho, ingane iyisibusiso. I-IVF ingaba yisinqumo esinzima ukusenza, kodwa futhi ingaba yisinqumo esihle kakhulu emndenini wakho. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukubeka phambili umgomo wengane enempilo kanye nomama onempilo kunomqondo wamawele.
Kungani lokhu kubaluleke kangaka?
Kalula nje, ukuthwala izingane ezimbili noma ngaphezulu esikhundleni sokukhulelwa okukodwa (ukukhulelwa okuningi) kubeka izingozi ezithile kumama kanye nezingane. Lokhu akuyona into okufanele uyesabe, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela.
| Isici Sengozi | Incazelo |
|---|---|
| Ukubeletha Kwangaphambi Kwesikhathi | Amawele angaphezu kuka-60% azalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, okubeka izingane engozini enkulu yezinkinga zempilo. |
| Isisindo Esiphansi Sokuzalwa | Amawele amaningi azalwa enesisindo esiphansi, okungadinga ukwelashwa eyunithi ekhethekile yokunakekelwa okujulile kwezingane ezisanda kuzalwa (i-NICU). |
| Izinkinga ezingaba khona kumama | Kukhona ingozi eyengeziwe yezimo ezifana nesifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa kanye ne-pre-eclampsia ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kukhona futhi ingozi eyengeziwe yokudinga ukuhlinzwa ngokuhlinzwa (C-section). |
| Ukuphumula Kombhede | NjengeNtwasahlobo, omama abaningi abathwele amawele kufanele baphumule embhedeni ngesikhathi esithile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwabo. |
Ngakho-ke senzani?
Le ndaba ayisho ukuthi ungayenzi i-IVF, noma ukuthi amawele awalungile. Isho ukuthi yiba ngokoqobo, ube nolwazi oluphelele, futhi ulungele lolu hambo ngokwengqondo.Kusho ukubhekana nakho .
1. Khuluma ngokukhululekile nodokotela wakho: Ngaphambi kokuqala ukwelashwa nge-IVF, xoxa ngamathemba akho, ukwesaba kwakho, nakho konke nodokotela wakho. Udokotela unquma inani lama-embryo okufanele adluliselwe esibelethweni, ecabangela iminyaka yakho, isimo sempilo, nezinye izici eziningi. Khuluma ngakho ngokucophelela futhi ukuqonde.
2. Ukulungiselela ngokwengqondo: I-IVF iwuhambo olunzima ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ukujova ngama-hormone, ukuskena njalo, nokulinda imiphumela konke kungaba yinto ecindezelayo. Ngakho-ke gcina ingqondo yakho izolile futhi ufune iseluleko uma kudingeka.
3. Thola ukwesekwa : Ukusekelwa ngumlingani wakho kubalulekile kulolu hambo. Futhi, gcina umndeni wakho nabangani bakho obathembayo benolwazi. Ukusekelwa kwabo kuzoba umthombo omkhulu wamandla kuwe.
4. Cacisa umgomo wakho: Umgomo wakho wokuqala nokuphela kwawo kufanele kube ukuba nomntwana onempilo . Ukuba namawele kuyisibusiso esiphindwe kabili. Kodwa ungakwenzi lokho kube umgomo wakho kuphela.
I-IVF ubuchwepheshe obuhle kakhulu obusize izigidi zemibhangqwana ehlushwa ukungazali. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wena, njengoba uqala lolo hambo, uyazi ubuhle bayo kanye nezinselele zayo, nokuthi udlula kuyo ngamandla.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukwelashwa nge-IVF kuyithuba elibalulekile lokwenza iphupho lakho lokuba nomntwana lifezeke, kodwa luhambo olunzima ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
- Akuhlakaniphile ukuya ekwelashweni nge-IVF ngenhloso nje "yokuba namawele." Umgomo wakho oyinhloko kufanele ube ukuba nomntwana onempilo kanye nomama onempilo .
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela izingozi ezingase zivele kumama nezingane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa okuningi.
- Khuluma nodokotela wakho ngokuseduze nangokukhululekile kulo lonke lolu hlelo. Xoxa naye ngokungabaza kwakho nokwesaba kwakho.
- Ukusekelwa ngumlingani wakho nomndeni wakho kuzoba amandla amakhulu kuwe kulo lonke lolu hambo.
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