Uma ungumama okhulelwe, cishe ujwayelene nalezi zinto. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kusesitaladini, ebhasini, noma endlini yesihlobo, umuntu ongamazi ngisho nokumazi uthinta isisu sakho ngokuzumayo abuze, 'Ingabe ingane iphilile?' Noma ehhovisi, wonke umuntu ubuza imibuzo efana nokuthi, 'Kumelwe ukuba uya endlini yokugezela ngaso sonke isikhathi manje, akunjalo?' Uma uzwa lezi zinto, uzizwa ungakhululekile, unamahloni, futhi uthukuthele, akunjalo? Lezi ziyacasula ngempela futhi zithinta ubumfihlo bakho. Kodwa omama abaningi abakhulelwe babhekana nalokhu.
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Ingabe ukhathazwa yimibuzo engadingekile?
Abesifazane abaningi abakhulelwe bacabanga ukuthi uma othile ebuza umbuzo, kufanele awuphendule, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthintana kanjani nomuntu siqu. Kodwa akunjalo. Awunaso isibopho sokwabelana ngayo yonke imininingwane ngokukhulelwa kwakho nawo wonke umuntu. Unelungelo lokusho okuningi ngokuthanda kwakho, uma uthanda.
Ngakho-ke wenzenjani uma othile ekubuza umbuzo ongakhululekile?
- Guqula ingxoxo: Uma othile ebuza into efana nokuthi, "Ingabe umntwana ubelethwa ngokuhlinzwa ?", ungayiguqula ingxoxo ngokumomotheka bese uthi, "Sobabili sijabule kakhulu ngokuba nomntwana. Manje yini entsha ngawe?" Lokhu kuzokusiza ukugwema umbuzo bese uqondisa ingxoxo emuva kumuntu obuzile umbuzo.
- Phendula ngombuzo: Leli futhi icebo elihle kakhulu. Cabanga ngomuntu ekubuza ukuthi, "Ingabe waba nomntwana ngokwemvelo?" Ungamane ubuze, " Lowo ngumbuzo ongavamile, kungani ufuna ukwazi? " Lokhu kuzomenza aqaphele ukungafaneleki kombuzo wakhe. Cishe ngeke baphinde bakubuze imibuzo enjalo yomuntu siqu.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuthi awuphoqelekile ukusho noma yini ongafuni ukuyisho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzizwa ungakhululekile kangakanani. Ngisho noma kuyilungu lomndeni, akudingeki unikeze imininingwane uma ungafuni.
Izindaba ezesabekayo zegumbi labasebenzi ongeke uyeke ukuzilalela
Kwabanye abantu, imibuzo engadingekile iyona ecasulayo kakhulu. Kodwa kwabanye, iseluleko esingadingekile, ikakhulukazi izindaba ezesabekayo mayelana nokubeletha , yisona esicasulayo kakhulu. Lapho nje uthola ukuthi ukhulelwe, wonke umuntu uqala ukukutshela indaba yokubeletha eyesabekayo kakhulu abake bayizwa noma bayibona, akunjalo?
Ngesikhathi esinjengalesi, udinga ukuqoqa isibindi bese uqeda ingxoxo ngenhlonipho.
Ungathi: ""Ngiyazi ukuthi wazi okuningi, futhi uma nginombuzo, ngizokubuza nakanjani. Kodwa ukukhulelwa ngakunye, ukubeletha ngakunye kuhlukile. Ngakho-ke ngingathanda ukuzibonela mathupha ukuthi ngizobhekana kanjani nakho."
Noma, ungasho okuthile ngokuqondile: " Ngiyabonga kakhulu, kodwa angifuni ukuzwa lezi zindaba ezesabekayo njengamanje. " Nakuba lokhu kungase kubonakale kunzima kancane, kubalulekile ukwenza izinqumo ezinzima njengalezi uma ucabanga ngempilo yakho yengqondo .
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Ngokungafani nenkulumo nemibuzo engadingekile, ukuthinta umzimba, ikakhulukazi isisu, kuyacasula kakhulu futhi kuwukwephula ubumfihlo okukhulu. Ngisho noma ucabanga ukuthi kulungile ngomngane noma ilungu lomndeni ukukwenza, kunzima ukukubekezelela uma umuntu ongamazi emgwaqweni ekwenza.
Wenzani ngalokhu?
- Gcina ibanga elingokomzimba: Ngezinye izikhathi isisu sakho singase sibe seduze nabanye kunokuba ucabanga. Ngisho noma ikhanda lakho likude, isisu sakho sikunikeza isikhala esiningi. Ngakho-ke, zama ukugcina ibanga elincane ngamabomu uma unabanye.
- Shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo nesimo sakho: Isimo sakho sengqondo, ukuziphatha kwakho, ukubuka kwakho... konke lokhu kungathumela umyalezo othi ' hlonipha ubumfihlo bami '. Uma uqiniseka futhi unamandla ngomzimba wakho, abanye bayawuzwa lowo myalezo. Khona-ke isifiso sokuthinta umzimba wakho ngaphandle kwesizathu asivamile kakhulu.
- Khuluma ngokuqondile: Uma, naphezu kwakho konke lokhu, othile ezama ukuthinta isisu sakho, ungasho ngokuthula kodwa ngokuqinile ukuthi, " Ngicela ungakwenzi lokho, kuyangicasula. " Ungesabi ukusho lokhu.
| Isikhathi esinzima | Izimpendulo ongazinikeza |
|---|---|
| Ukubuza imibuzo yomuntu siqu engadingekile | "Kungani ufuna ukwazi ngalokho?" "Silindele ngenjabulo umntwana. Uyini imininingwane yakho?" |
| Ukuxoxa izindaba ezesabekayo zokubeletha | "Ngiyabonga kakhulu, kodwa angifuni ukuzwa inkulumo enjalo." "Yonke into eyenzekayo ihlukile, ngithanda ukubhekana nesipiliyoni sami." |
| Ukuthinta isisu ngaphandle kokubuza | "Ngiyaxolisa, ngicela ungakwenzi lokho. Akungiphathi kahle." |
Ubhekana kanjani nalezi zinto ehhovisi?
Kunzima ukubhekana nalezi zinto nabantu ohlangana nabo ehhovisi nsuku zonke kunokubhekana nabantu ongabazi. Ngoba awukwazi ukubalimaza, kodwa futhi kufanele uvikele ubumfihlo babo.
Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza lapha ukugcina ubungcweti bakho . Uma uziphethe kahle emsebenzini wakho nasezingxoxweni zakho, abanye bazokubona njengozakwabo onekhono, hhayi njengozakwabo okhulelwe . Khona-ke amahlaya nezingxoxo ezingadingekile zizoncipha kakhulu.
Futhi, ungesabi ukusho imingcele yakho, noma ngabe kungumuntu ohlangana naye nsuku zonke. Ukusho into eqondile kodwa enenhlonipho, njengokuthi " Ngicela ungasho/ungenzi lokho, akungiphathi kahle, " kuyindlela enhle yokugcina ubuhlobo nokugcina ukuthula kwengqondo yakho.
Ngakho konke lokhu, akudingeki ulahle amalungelo akhethekile owathola ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa (isibonelo, ithuba lokuphumula kancane, ithuba lokusebenza ekhaya). Unelungelo lokulinganisela kokubili!
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Umzimba wakho ungowakho. Unelungelo eliphelele lokunquma imingcele yawo.
- Awuphoqelekile ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yomuntu siqu ebuzwayo. Gwema ingxoxo noma uveze ukungavumelani kwakho ngokuqondile.
- Ungesabi ukwenqaba ngenhlonipho kodwa ngokuqinile izindaba ezesabekayo noma iseluleko esingadingeki.
- Vikela isikhala sakho siqu ngokusebenzisa ukuma kwakho kanye nokuqhelelana ngokomzimba.
- Ukuthi “ngicela ungakwenzi lokho” kulungile futhi kubalulekile enhlalakahleni yakho yengqondo.
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