Ingabe ingane yakho encane ibonakala ihlukile kunangaphambili? Ivame ukukhetha ukuba yodwa, inabangane abambalwa, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukuziphatha kwayo kunzima ukukuqonda... Lezi zinto zingase zikubangele ukukhathazeka okukhulu. Lokhu kungaba yingxenye evamile yobusha, noma kungase kube nenye imbangela eyisisekelo. Yilokho okushiwo yi-autism, noma i-Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Njengabazali, kuvamile ngathi ukuzizwa sesaba futhi sikhathazekile lapho ingane enalesi sifo ingena ebusheni. Ake sixoxe ngalokhu ngendlela elula futhi sithole izimpendulo zemibuzo onayo engqondweni.
Yiziphi izimpawu ze-autism enganeni encane?
Ubusha yisikhathi lapho imizwa nokuziphatha kwezingane kushintsha kakhulu. Ngakho-ke ngezinye izikhathi kungaba nzima ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokuziphatha okuvamile kwentsha nokuziphatha okubangelwa yi-autism. Ayikho into efana nokuhlolwa okusheshayo (ukuhlolwa kwe-autism kwentsha). Kodwa-ke, kunezici ezithile nezinselele eziphawulekayo ingane ene-autism ebhekana nazo njengoba ingena ebusheni.
| Inselele / Isici | Kalula nje... |
|---|---|
| Ubunzima obuhambisana nokuthomba | Intombazane ingadinga ukuchazelwa ngokucacile ukuthi ukuya esikhathini kuyini, kuzwakala kanjani, nokuthi yimiphi imikhiqizo yokuhlanzeka okufanele isetshenziswe phakathi naso. Abafana namantombazane badinga ukufundiswa ngokucacile ngezindawo ezifanele nezingafanele zokukhuluma ngocansi kanye nezinguquko zomzimba. |
| Isithuthwane/ Ukuquleka | Izingane ezine-autism zisengozini enkulu yokuba nesifo sokuwa kunabantu abaningi. Ngenxa yezinguquko zamahomoni zisencane, ezinye izingane zingase zibe nesifo sokuwa okokuqala phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Uma ingane isivele inesifo sokuwa, isimo singase sibe sibi kakhulu. |
| Izinkinga ngomsebenzi wesikole | Ngisho nengane enekhono lokufunda ingase ikuthole kunzima ukuqonda imiqondo enengqondo, ukucabanga ngokujulile, nokubhala izindatshana emabangeni aphezulu. Ingase ikuthole kunzima ukuzivumelanisa nalolu shintsho lwemfundo. |
| Ukulahlekelwa abangani/ukuxhashazwa | Ukuziphatha okuphindaphindiwe, izinto zokuzilibazisa ezingajwayelekile, kanye nokuziphatha komphakathi okungafanele ubudala kubenza babe sengozini enkulu yokuxhashazwa ontanga. Lokhu kungaholela ekulahlekelweni abangane babo futhi babe nesizungu. |
| Ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa | Izinguquko zobusha kanye nezingcindezi zomphakathi kwenza kube nzima ngezingane ezine-autism ukulawula imizwa yazo. Lokhu kungaholela ezimweni ezinjengokucindezeleka noma ukukhathazeka. Eqinisweni, cishe ama-39% ezingane ezine-autism atholakale enesifo sokukhathazeka. |
Ingabe kukhona umehluko phakathi kwamantombazane nabafana?
Yebo, leli yiphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu. Amantombazane ane-autism angase aziphathe ngendlela ehlukile kuneyabafana. Ucwaningo luthole ukuthi amantombazane azama ukufihla izici zawo ze-autism futhi aziphathe njengezingane ezivamile (njengokwenza). Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi 'ukufihla' noma 'ukufihla' .
Cabanga nje, bazama ukukhuluma, ukumamatheka, nokuziphatha njengabo bonke abanye emphakathini. Nakuba bengase babonakale benobungane kakhulu ngaphandle, bacindezelekile kakhulu futhi bakhathazekile ngaphakathi.
Uma indodakazi yakho ibonakala ine-autism, kodwa udokotela ethi "ithanda kakhulu ukuxhumana nabantu," kubalulekile ukuthola umbono wesibili. Ukuhlehlisa ukuxilongwa kwandisa ingozi yendodakazi yakho yokuba nezinkinga ezinkulu zempilo yengqondo.
Kungani izimpawu ze-autism zengane yami zibonakala zanda kule minyaka?
Kalula nje, kungenxa yokucindezeleka.. Sibona izimpawu ze-autism njengezinzima kakhulu esemncane ngenxa yezinguquko eziningi ezintsha okufanele babhekane nazo ngaleso sikhathi. Cabanga ngezinguquko emzimbeni wabo, umthwalo womsebenzi owandisiwe esikoleni, ingcindezi yontanga, ukucabanga ngekusasa... Uma konke lokhu kufika ngesikhathi esisodwa, kungaba nzima ngengane ene-autism ukubhekana nakho. Kungenxa yalolo kucindezeleka ukuthi izimpawu zayo zibonakala kakhulu.
Into ebalulekile ukuthi i-autism akuyona isifo esivelela ngokuzumayo esemncane. Izimpawu kumele ukuthi zazikhona enganeni kusukela ebuntwaneni. Ngezinye izikhathi, izimpawu zingase zingabi sobala kangako ebuntwaneni futhi zingase zivele nezinselele zokukhula.
Uma ingane yakho iqala ukubonisa lezi zimpawu (ukuba yodwa, ukwenza izinto ezifanayo) isencane , kungaba yinto ehlukile kune-autism. Ngakho-ke uma unokungabaza, khuluma nodokotela wakho.
Ungayinakekela kanjani ingane encane ene-autism?
Into yokuqala okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi i-autism akuyona uhlobo lobuntu. Ngisho noma ingane yakho inezimpawu ze-autism, isengumuntu onezinto azithandayo, angazithandayo, izidingo zakhe kanye nemizwa yakhe ehlukile.
Ake sikusize ube nobudlelwano nabantu, kodwa ungakuphoqi.
Izingane eziningi ezincane ezine-autism azithandi ukusebenza nabanye. Kodwa-ke, ungazikhuthaza ukuba zibe nobudlelwano nabantu ngemisebenzi eziyithandayo . Isibonelo, ingane ethanda ukudweba ingafakwa eqenjini lobuciko, noma ingane edlala insimbi ingafakwa ebhendini.
Ngisho noma ufuna ingane yakho ibe nabangane abaningi, ungayiphoqi. Ingase ijabule kakhulu ngomngane oyedwa omkhulu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukudala indawo lapho ubungane bungachuma khona.
Fundisa ngokusobala amakhono adingekayo empilweni
Izingane ezincane ezivamile zifunda okuningi ngokubuka ontanga bazo hhayi ngokufundiswa ngqo. Kodwa ingane yakho ene-autism idinga ukufundiswa la makhono okuphila ngokucacile, isinyathelo ngesinyathelo.
- Ukuhlanzeka kanye nempilo yomuntu siqu: Kungase kudingeke uzikhumbuze ukuthi ugeza nsuku zonke, usebenzise i-deodorant, futhi ushefe. Futhi, khuthaza ukulala kahle, ukudla okunempilo , kanye nokuzivocavoca.
- Ukuphathwa Kwemizwa: Qaphela imizwa efana nenjabulo, ukudabuka, nentukuthelo, qonda lapho omunye umuntu edabukile, bese uzijwayeza ukuziduduza lapho uzizwa uphansi.
- Amakhono okuphepha: Bafundise izinto ezifana nokuwela umgwaqo, indlela yokucela usizo uma uludinga, kanye nokungaphumi nabantu ongabazi.
- Amakhono okuxhumana nabantu :Fundisa izinto ezilula ezinesizotha njengokuthi ungaqala kanjani ingxoxo nothile, ubuze ukuthi "Unjani?", ukubingelela, ukubonga, kanye nokuvula umnyango wothile.
- Ukuphathwa kwemali: Zijwayeze izinto ezifana nendlela yoku-oda ukudla esitolo bese ukukhokhela, indlela yokwakha isabelomali esilula, kanye nendlela yokusebenzisa ikhadi ledebithi.
Ingane encane ene-autism inamandla nezinselele ezihlukile ekuqondeni umhlaba. Uma ingane yakho inenkinga ngamakhono okuxhumana nabantu, ukucubungula izinzwa, kanye nokubhekana nezinguquko emisebenzini yansuku zonke, ingazuza kakhulu ekuhlolweni kwe-autism.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Izimpawu ze-autism zibonakala zikhula kubantu abasha, hhayi ngenxa yokuqala okusha kwalesi sifo, kodwa ngenxa yokucindezeleka okukhona kuleyo minyaka.
- Amantombazane angazifihla izici zawo. Uma unemibuzo, ungangabazi ukufuna umbono wezokwelapha.
- Esikhundleni sokuphoqa ingane yakho ukuba ibe nabangani, dala indawo lapho ingaba nobudlelwano khona ngezinto ezizijabulelayo.
- Fundisa amakhono okuphila njengokuhlanzeka, ukulawula ngokomzwelo, ukuphepha, kanye nokuphatha imali ngokucacile nangokuqondile.
- Ingane yakho inkulu kune-autism. Hlonipha ubuwena bayo futhi uyinike ukwesekwa ekudingayo.
- Uma unemibuzo, noma ukukhathazeka, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma nodokotela wezingane noma udokotela wezifo zengqondo wezingane.
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