Wɔd nɔ go ebul fɔ sho di gladi at we yu kin fil we yu yɛri se yu de bɔn bɔy pikin. Wi de kɔle yu! Bɔt wit da gladi at de, bɔku tin dɛn de we una fɔ disayd as nyu mama ɛn papa. Wan pan di fɔs tin dɛn we yu go disayd fɔ du na fɔ mek dɛn sakɔmsayz yu bɔy pikin ɔ nɔ fɔ sakɔmsayz, ɔ as wi de kɔl am, "kɔt am" ɔ " sakɔmsayz ." Bɔku pipul dɛn kin tink se dis na tin we dɛn nid fɔ du fɔ mɛn pipul dɛn. Bɔt fɔ tru, bɔku tɛm na yu famili kin disayd fɔ yusɛf pas fɔ mek yu gɛt mɛrɛsin. So aw yu kin disayd fɔ du dis? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt am ditayli .
Wetin mek dis na tin we di famili disayd fɔ du pas fɔ disayd fɔ du mɛrɛsin?
Bɔku rizin dɛn de we mek dis nɔto jɔs fɔ mɛn pipul dɛn. We yu ɛn yu patna de tɔk bɔt dis, una fɔ tink bak bɔt dɛn tin ya.
- Rilijɔn ɛn Kɔlchɔ Biliv: Insay wi kɔntri, dɛn kin du dis as rilijɔn ritual, mɔ na Muslim famili dɛn. Dɛn kin si dis bak na ɔda kɔlchɔ dɛn. So, i rili impɔtant fɔ no us biliv ɛn ritual yu famili gɛt.
- Mama ɛn papa dɛn yon opinion: Una ɔl tu kin gɛt difrɛn we fɔ tink bɔt dis. So i impɔtant fɔ tɔk to unasɛf ɛn tɛl unasɛf ɔnɛs wan aw una de fil . Nɔbɔdi nɔ fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin we i nɔ want.
- Papa in kɔndishɔn: Sɔm mama ɛn papa dɛn kin tink se, "If dɛn du am to papa, dɛn fɔ du am to in pikin bak. Ɔ dɛn go luk difrɛn?" Na rili pɔsin in yon prɛferɛns bɔt aw pɔsin luk, nɔto wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm. Tɔk bɔt aw dis impɔtant to una ɔl tu ɛn disayd.
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, dis nɔto "rayt" ɔ "rɔng" disizhɔn. Na yu yon disayd we go wok fayn fɔ yu famili ɛn we una ɔl gri pan.
Wetin na di rial bɛnifit dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de si wɛlbɔdi biznɛs?
Bɔku pipul dɛn kin tink se i kin izi fɔ mek di bɔdi klin afta dɛn dɔn sakɔmsayz. Bɔt nɔto dat na di tru. Fɔ kip di bɔdi klin fɔ man pikin we nɔ sakɔmsayz na tin bak we rili simpul ɛn izi. So, nɔ disayd fɔ du dis jɔs bikɔs ɔf klin layf .
Bɔt, dɔktɔ dɛn dɔn sho se sɔm rili smɔl bɛnifit dɛn de fɔ wɛlbɔdi biznɛs. Bɔt di chans fɔ gɛt di sik dɛn we dɛn bɛnifit ya kin briŋ bak kin rili smɔl frɔm di biginin.
| Impɔtant wɛlbɔdi bɛnifit dɛn | Wetin yu rili nid fɔ no |
|---|---|
| Smɔl dikɛd di risk fɔ urinary tract infection (UTI) pan yɔŋ bɔy pikin dɛm. | Bɔy pikin dɛn nɔ kin rili gɛt urinary tract infection fɔ bigin, so i at fɔ si big bɛnifit we dɛn ridyus dis risk smɔl. |
| Smɔl we di risk fɔ gɛt sɔm sik dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt frɔm mami ɛn dadi biznɛs (STD) kin go dɔŋ pan big man dɛn. | Fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we sef kin ridyus dis prɔblɛm bad bad wan. Nɔto sakɔmsayz nɔmɔ go sɔlv di prɔblɛm. |
| Fɔ ridyus di risk fɔ gɛt kansa na di penis. | Penile kansa na wan pan di kayn kansa we nɔ bɔku ɛn we nɔ kin bɔku na di wɔl, so dis ridɔkshɔn pan di risk nɔ go gɛt bɔku impak. |
Dat min se, i nɔ mek sɛns fɔ mek dis disizhɔn jɔs tink bɔt dɛn wɛlbɔdi bɛnifit ya, bikɔs di risk fɔ gɛt dɛn sik ya rili smɔl fɔ bigin.
If yu dɔn disayd fɔ sakɔmsayz, yu fɔ rili no dɛn tin ya.
Okay, mek wi se una ɔl tɔk ɛn disayd fɔ du dis fɔ di pikin. So, di nɛks tin dɛn we wi fɔ tink bɔt na dɛn wan ya:
Ustɛm ɛn udat de du dis?
I bɛtɛ fɔ mek dɛn du dis ɔpreshɔn kwik kwik wan. כltu dεn kin du am insay di fכs wik כ tu wik afta dεn bכn di pikin. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ pik dɔktɔ we gɛt gud ɛkspiriɛns fɔ dis.
Insay Sri Lanka, na wan Pɛdiatric Surgeon ɔ wan General Surgeon kin du dis ɔpreshɔn . Sɔntɛnde, Obstetricians dɛnsɛf kin du dis. If na fɔ rilijɔn rizin dɛn de du am, sɔm pipul dɛn de we dɛn tren fɔ du am. Bɔt di we we nɔ bad fɔ mɛn pipul dɛn na fɔ mek dɔktɔ we sabi du am na ɔspitul ɔ klinik du am.
Yu tink se di pikin go gɛt bɔku pen?
I ɔndastand fɔ wɔri bɔt aw yu pikin go fil pen we yu yɛri dis. Bɔt nɔ wɔri. Bɔrku fayn fayn we dɛn de fɔ kɔntrol pen dis tɛm ya.Bifo dɛn du di ɔpreshɔn, dɛn go gi yu wan lokal anestetik krim ɔ wan smɔl injɛkshɔn fɔ mek di say we yu de, nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ trɛnk. Dis kin ridyus di pen we yu pikin de fil bad bad wan. Bifo di ɔpreshɔn, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt dis ɛn no wetin dɛn kin du fɔ ridyus di pen.
Aw fɔ kia fɔ di pikin afta dɛn dɔn du di ɔpreshɔn?
Dis na tin bak we rili impɔtant. Afta yu dɔn du di ɔpreshɔn, yu nid fɔ kia fɔ di wund fayn fayn wan te i wɛl.
1. Kip am klin: Kip di say klin lɛk aw yu dɔktɔ tɛl yu. Bɔku tɛm, dɛn go tɛl yu fɔ was am jisnɔ wit wam wata.
2. Yuz Vaseline (Petroleum Jelly): Fɔ mek di wund nɔ rɔb pan di pikin in daypa ɔ klos ɛn mek i fil pen, dɔktɔ dɛn advays fɔ put smɔl Vaseline pan di wund ɛvri tɛm we dɛn chenj di daypa.
3. Wach fɔ sayn dɛm fɔ infekshɔn: I nɔmal fɔ mek di wund rɛd smɔl ɛn swel insay di fɔs dez. Bɔt if yu pikin rɛd bad bad wan, yu swel pasmak, yu gɛt wata we tan lɛk yɔlɔ pus, ɔ if di blɔd nɔ stɔp, ɔ if yu pikin gɛt fiva, yu fɔ kɔl yu dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm.
Bifo yu du di ɔpreshɔn, aks yu dɔktɔ bɔt dɛn tin ya:
- Aw ɛn ustɛm dɛn kin du di ɔpreshɔn?
- Us risk dɛn de, ɛn aw dɛn kɔmɔn?
- Aw a fɔ kia fɔ di pikin afta dɛn dɔn du di ɔpreshɔn?
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- I nɔ nid fɔ sakɔmsayz pan mɛrɛsin. Bɔku tɛm, na tin we di famili kin disayd fɔ du fɔ insɛf, fɔ rilijɔn, ɔ fɔ di kɔlchɔ.
- Dis ɔpreshɔn nɔ nid fɔ bi fɔ rizin dɛn we mek dɛn klin. I izi fɔ mek di bɔdi klin ivin if dɛn nɔ sakɔmsayz.
- Pan ɔl we bɔku bɛnifit dɛn de fɔ wɛlbɔdi biznɛs, di risk fɔ gɛt di sik dɛn we dɛn kin avɔyd kin rili smɔl fɔ bigin, so di bɛnifit dɛn nɔ kin rili impɔtant.
- If yu disayd fɔ du dis ɔpreshɔn, i impɔtant fɔ mek dɔktɔ we gɛt ɛkspiriɛns du am sef wan , ɛn yuz di rayt we fɔ mek yu nɔ fil pen.
- Afta dɛn dɔn du di ɔpreshɔn, i rili impɔtant fɔ kia fɔ di wund akɔdin to di dɔktɔ in instrɔkshɔn ɛn fɔ de wach fɔ sayn dɛn we de sho se yu gɛt di sik.
- Na di ɛnd, mɛmba se, ɛnitin we yu disayd fɔ du, nɔ "rayt" ɔ "rɔng" nɔ de. Yu smɔl pikin go gɛt wɛlbɔdi ɛn gladi ɛni we!
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